hey, Anonymous! welcome to the After-Hours Bar. Grab a stool and take your coat off, won’t you? Let’s see what we’ve got on tap tonight:
>Advice
>Conversation
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thank you for stopping by, have a wonderful night, and please remember that you are loved.
Jill a cute
Hi there!
>you are loved
You liar.
Ever have any weird dreams? Want some of mine?
I wanna brake up with my BF, but I can't bring myself to do it. He loves me to much. I just want to fuck girls now. And we have problems.
I'm so lonely I'm honestly considering spending my holiday money and paychecks to buy a hotel room and an escort for a night just so I can have someone to be intimate with.
No thanks
Sounds like a good idea do you have enough money?
evening, user.
hey, having a good night so far?
I love you.
I don't really have dreams, but sure.
mm... I get that. prioritizing the feelings of someone else over your own. I've done it before, myself. but in the long term, would you really want to be with someone you don't want to be with, just for their happiness? it's noble as hell, but at the end of the day, a relationship really only works when both parties are happy with where they are.
I mean... you could.
there is truth in this statement
It's far more cruel to both of you to suffer a relationship you may grow to resent. If you haven't you need to talk with him about your worries for the relationship. If you let it go to the point you become resentful of the relationship or cheat on him it will be more painful for both of you.
family or friends to spend time with at all? (Just want to make sure you're loneliness hasn't kept you from asking out of fear of rejection).
Be honest she will understand
my birthdays soon and my issue is that i need an addicting game to play on that day for 24 hours any ideas?
Are there no family or friends around?
So far so good, Jill! How bout you?
Hi!
Binding of isaac
buy a prostitute then you wont be lonely
I've actually done that. If I may ask where ya from, ever slept with anyone?
>I love you.
How many lies are you going to tell me tonight?
Well if I save up my next 4 checks and factor in any Christmas/Birthday money I get, I could easily afford a $300 hotel room and a $500-$1000 escort.
I have plenty of family and friends, but I miss having someone to be intimate with. I miss affection. I miss feeling a woman's body against mine as we lie in bed. I miss that warmth.
Literally what I just said i was going to do.
I live outside Chicago (Aurora), and yes I have slept with a handful of women.
I'm constantly rationalizing living but also that makes me want to die more.
relatable either kill yourself, or suck it up and do something with your life. Any unexplored dreams? Like becoming a singer or some shit just go after them because our lives dont matter so even if you fuck up who cares.
I dunno how it is in the states but in the uk $500 gets you rather a lot in some places, be aware you may spend £70 worth and waste the rest though.
I already have been cheating for 2 months now. 3rd time. He has no idea.
I honestly don't play enough games to answer this. maybe marathon the Deus Ex games?
achy, slept a lot. but I'm doing alright so far. sorting my Calibre and Plex libraries to kill time, mostly.
so far it's at zero!
ayyy, Aurora's a nice town. I knew a qt from there a while back.
you can always take solace in the fact that all of us are going to die in the end, so you may as well find a way to occupy the time until it happens. gives you an opportunity to try and make the world a little less shitty for others.
i used to live in elgin, auroras nice
then you aren't happy in the relationship, and you're already doing something that will hurt him when he finds out. why are you trying to not hurt him by staying with him?
I tend to overestimate my budget when I plan things. Helps to save a bit of money and always be pleasantly surprised when I have some left over.
Aurora is pretty nice. I was born here, moved away when I was little, and ended up moving back here.
>so far it's at zero!
Three by my count.
I won't chide you for choice. It's yours to make. Just know that's a lot of money. You could do a lot with that much money you may find some value in. Not withstanding you could take a few girls out on dates with that much and look for something more long term.
this If one knows what a terrible place the world can be they can find value in making it less so for others. That being the case. What is it you value that you are missing in your life?
Then it's time to call it quits. There is no way to not hurt him at this point. Give him the opportunity to have someone else that can be happy with him, and give yourself this opportunity as well.
It's good to have some spare but I meant waste in the sense after you cum in under an hour you still have the whole night and well if you font get on with her that well... though at that price obviously many girls are accomadating.
Oh that won't be a problem. Thanks to my hyper-active sex drive I could easily cum 4 times in the few hours I pay for her company.
GIVE ME SIX POUNDS OF TUNA
agree to disagree, then.
there are three things on tap tonight, user. look at the menu again, please.
im temporarily living in des moines so im kinda missing Illinois mostly because iowa doesnt really have anything remarkable other then this burger place called zombie burger downtown
Hahah Im glad, but urm it's more to do with how you feel about it than how much stamina you have.
GIVE ME SIX POUNDS OF ADVICE
My gf got a breast reduction against my wishes. It sucks...
I got a buddy who lives in Iowa. He's head of security at the casino in Clinton. Been there a few times. But yeah, Iowa seems kinda desolate.
Come home, back to that same old place, sweet home Chicago.
how big were her tits before?
a healthy emotional/romantic connection
its quite lame but i guess its not the worst place on earth
They were G's
it feels good to be running from the devil
Dump her then.
She clearly doesn't value your wishes.
Chek'd
How bout a nice cup of coffee instead. I just made a pot.
I mean, she's the one who has to live with them. might suck for you, but it could help her out in everyday life.
Jesus, why did you want her to keep those?
What's the new size post reduction?
maybe too big but there is never too big you should disown that fucking thot
Check'd
They're just D's now
...
thicccccc malts
You bet!
I need advice, a girl that I have liked for the past three years and has be come one of my best friends, the problem is that she has always wanted to make everyone happy. I asked her out last year and after she said no I was pretty deppresed, she heard about it and felt awful. Recently another guy asked her out who she doesn’t like, but, fearing what happened to me would happen to him she said yes. After I discovered she hasn’t talked to me at all other then when she doesn’t have a choice not to but I don’t know what to do to get her to talk to me anymore.
just send her a message and say hey. it sounds like a shitty situation, but you got your answer on how she views you romantically, and holding onto that is just going to continue to hurt you. let it go and try to focus on just being her friend now.
You can't make someone talk to you. If she cares about you, she'll say something eventually and hopefully you can turn that into a conversation. All you can really do is keep the lines of communication open.
I finished the final round of interviews for an insurance account manager position at a huge firm in my hometown. It would be my first big boy job out of college. I've been looking since may and money is starting to get tight.
They said they would let me know if I got the position today, but I never heard anything.
Did they decide to just not tell me I didn't get it? or is it more likely they are behind schedule and haven't decided yet. My interview went super well so I can't imagine they would ghost me but it's got me stressed
You might want to move on. Next girl you meet, don't wait so long before you ask her out. And definitely don't let her become "one of your best friends "!
both of them are completely possible, but it's always better to err on the side of caution for a few more days. just wait and see if they contact you.
Keep looking. Your full time job now is to find a job. Keep looking until someone hires you, regardless of how well the interview went.
Keep up the good work. You're important.
Can I get a drink or something?
Cute pupper!
no, I'm not.
hell if I know. check your fridge?
itt retarded niggers
Does it ever get better?
I checked
All I found was disappointment
You are to me though.
Sure. How bout a strawberry shake?
the only person that can choose to make it better is yourself.
I'd suggest sticking your head under the sink and drinking some water, then.
or use a glass. that may be easier.
thanks, user.
Yes.
Can I get advice?
of course you can.
Thank you. I feel I'm a really shitty friend to a bunch of people because I'm a bit messed up but I don't know how to be better. Do you know what I should do?
thanks
everytime i go out with my friend she gets really drunk and endup crashing in my house , i have cum in her mouth , ass and tits , many times already
do they think you're a shitty friend, or is this just what you think? I'd argue I'm a pretty bad friend too, but I can grab a couple people who would tell me otherwise. just because you think that you are doesn't mean it's true.
I mean... is she okay with you doing that? that's kinda creepy otherwise.
That's literally sexual assault.
It's been a long time...
Hello, there, everyone.
she says she doent mind but the next morning doesnt remember anything , that is why i haven fuck her yet
I don't know how to ask them, but I'm pretty sure they would agree.
Hello!
hello thread
Hey fags, how do i cure anxeity and stop being a beta cuck?
xanax
I don't know what to do. There's somebody that I'm close with. Like really close. Like mutually we consider each other to be family close. And they've done so much for me over the relatively short amount of time that we've known each other that I've slowly found myself growing attached to them and I want to take it one step beyond. But I know because of their aspirations, distance, and not wanting to subject them to the same agonizing pain they went through with the last person they were with again, I know that it can never be the case. I just want to say how I feel, but I'm terrified of the action permanently altering our relationship. And even if I did, the knowledge that the one person who I've cared about more than anyone I can remember being forever out of my reach will just eat me away inside. Try and make sense of that mess, because I barely can.
i already take Sertraline, or as u americucks call it "zoloft" shit aint workin :/
Hi anons, I've been feeling empty and unsatisfied with life since i almost got brutally killed by a random drug addict recently, any tips besides kys?Also have a nice day!
you misunderstand
the advice was to use benzodiazepines, not get a perscription
I'd feel pretty sketched out about engaging in a sexual activity with someone who wouldn't remember any of it. that seems like a bad idea.
but wouldn't you potentially just be telling yourself that? it's entirely possible that you have low self-value and you're telling yourself this to justify it.
honestly, I just faked it for a long time until it seemed normal to me.
just be happy to call them your friend. it sucks, knowing you won't get to be with them, but... it's best to just let it go. trust me.
be happy that you're still alive, mostly. I took a lot of therapy to stop feeling empty for my issues, maybe it's something to consider.
start standing up for yourself and try to achieve your goals.
Hi there, how ya doin'?
Uhm, well, I have just realized that all my life I have been a really stupid person because I ignored everyone and just tried to focus in myself, but now... It's really hard for me to find a real life friend, even talk to someone...
I've been told I'm a bit tough on myself at times. What do you purpose as a solution?
I'm suing him but its taking too long and also it made me lose 3 months of my life and it is causing me to get overwhelmed, but i guess being alive is good since i still have a shot at archiving my goals in life.Still I want to kill that coward but law says i cant
it just takes practice user, all good things take time
>honestly, I just faked it for a long time until it seemed normal to me.
eh fair enough,
how u fags doin anyways? any fellow britbongs?
>trust me.
Have you gone through the same?
she does get in my bed instead of the sofa\bed , and tease me with her ass until i ask her in i can cum on her.....but since she doesnt remember i do feel bad about it , but i also are drunkish when it happen
I've been trying to get it off with this girl who is my downstairs neighbour for a few weeks now, and it seemed only natural, because she's also a complete failure in human relationships and lonely and she's hot af.
Now I'm hearing very intense fucking coming from the floor. And my dick is hard. Not my proudest moment.
Very relaxing thread the world is getting scary
specially lootboxes they're everywhere
amen