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What's bothering you anons?

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wth this is cringey

guys don't drunk text your ex, you look pathetic

> be me
> get gf
> tells me she loves me
> tell her I don't think she does
> tries to convince me of her undying love
> break up after some years
> takes her about 2 month to love someone else

people are different looks like it's the guys fault really. Saying something like " You don't really Love me" Is one of the most fucking annoying things in the world.

> it's the guys fault for pointing out this charade.
She never loved me, she liked the comfort of having a fall back guy, that she could dump her problems on.
Which is why she so easily started to love someone else.
As soon as I didn't fit her expectations, she stopped loving me. Call me weird, but I was under the impression, that love was baseless, not subject to income and social status.

Girls are basics man, the same thing happened to me. I really loved this girl but she was with me bc I was nice to her but she never really loved me and this drive me crazy so I just break up with her before I get more attached to her, it sucks but it was for better in the long run

Pic related, I feel like shit but I'm afraid if I say anything people gonna ignore me or forget about me, because I'm the one who's be there for everyone but no one there for me and sincerely this makes me wanna die

sry didn't realise this was the self loathing thread.

Please go back to school. Maybe there's still time for you.

You are a lucky son of a bitch if you haven't experienced girls being pieces of shit, it fuckin hurts when a girl makes you feel special and then she turns around advertising herself like she did to you, making you realize none of this shit wad just for you

I'm sorry that i'm capable to see people for what they are and what their motives are. Doesn't mean I think of myself as unlovable, just that this girl had the basic bitch definition of love, meaning a man who pays for and listens to my shit.
Now that I know the type, I start to notice there are far better options.

What do you mean my man, the girl is my uni classmate so going back to school is kinda ironic advice for me. She and I we are in good terms anyway, she haven't find someone yet bc she was a little crazy

Lol this is why I only bang whores

>"she never loved me"

It's a difficult subject, isn't it? Love.
For a lot of people, it's hell. For some people, it's how they get their fix of attention. For some people it seems to be a very reliable and dynamic way to work as a team. 'Through thick and thin', right?

Is it unchanging? Nah, of course not. Then how do you know you will love someone 'forever'? How can one even promise that?

Is it just an empty promise? Is /any/ love unconditional?

It's a complicated issue. I have to recommended Erik Fromm's, "The Art of Loving". It suggests, and advocates, for a specific view on love as a concept. I'd only recommend you take the religious section as a grain of salt.

This, so much this. When you see what they really are about it is more easy.
The thing is when people you think they aren't line that and you feel you finally know them suddenly fuck it all up like many before her

>Feels thread
Fucking teenage millennial whining that never stop, these days. Fuck all of you and your "feels."

Shoo shoo, we are trying to vent here son. Get back to your traps thread

She doesn't love Sup Forums. I started dating someone else but I can't get her out of my head.

The hardest part is when you loved the most right user?
I still love her till this day and I don't think I going to stop soon, I just wish I can find someone who can replace her, sadly I don't think I ever let this happen because I sabotage myself with every girl I like

>be me
>be 5 minutes ago
>write long ass greentext story about crush on office lesbian
>dry fingers and calluses
>accidentally tap "View Announcement" button
>post dumped
>fuck it
>nobody cares anyway

Sounds good my man, I would gladly read your history if you want to post it again, you are not alone my man

Yes it hurts like hell. I sabotage myself too ruining every relationship I start to build in a poorly attempt to replace her. But I have to move on they say...

not most of the times user .
sometimes after a breakup when the guy gave a lot of his being only to be dumped , destroys the guy . your brain wont let you fall in the same situation , you grow cold and distant as the time passes by , and your whole being just negates any friendly movement , and heartwarming points that smone is trying to make on you . believe me , i know , i've been there , i broke up 2 times and by the last time i realized that its okay . i'm doomed to walk this earth as an Unloved creature . at this point , i don't even love myself as i used to , in fact , i hate being me . i wish i'd go back before i met my first love and just beat the shit out of me so i would never open up a hole in my heart for her to stay a bit and when she leaves to create a massive void . fuck i'm drinking myself to sleep tonight , cya anons

I always thought that I was finally over her but every time I start talking to a girl my mind began to pop out all the difference between the new girl and the other and how I love even the most little and insignificant details about her and it just get sour again in the end so I don't really try it anymore, if it happens it will I let it come without effort

youtube.com/watch?v=qggxTtnKTMo
This song will give you some feels

Okay. Thanks user.

>be me
>2015
>new job
>meet this qt 10/10 (for me, i got different taste than a lot of guys)
>hit it off
>very close in age
>she's into a lot of the same stuff as me
>quickly become friends
>2016
>we've gotten pretty close
>we're both married to women
>haha oh well she's cool and a great friend
>but can't deny a chemistry, a spark, an attraction
>im better at picking up on this now that im in my 30s
>research body language, mannerisms, attraction signals
>she wants me
>meanwhile, dry spells at home are increasing
>wife doesn't see a problem with no sex for a couple weeks at a time
>long talk with wife about my needs
>agree to open marriage
>rules are simple
>1. stay clean
>2. no babies (really part of rule 1.)
>3. we are both back with each other every night
>also, either of us can vote to end this at any time

Continued...

Cont my man this is great so far

cmonnnnn im waiting here like

>up my game talking to lez
>not too much, not too fast
>attraction is definitely there
>wife gets antsy, decides to end poly status
>tells me she doesn't want me seeing anyone else
>great sex with wife that night, ngl
>tell her im not seeing anyone else
>admit i think one woman might be interested
>"well make sure she's not, pls"
>fight ego
>agree
>so, how to let down a woman who you're not 100% sure is into you...?

>be me
>1990s
>meet future wife
>decide she's too sweet so try to drive her away
>try to make her think im not interested
>doesn't work
>date for years
>get married (obv)

>need a new strategy
>decide to make sure lez isn't into me
>simply channel pathetic beta i was in hs
>leave cringey, edgy love note on her desk
>something about taking risks
>she knows it's me, but asks anyway
>deny at first
>later admit to it
>lez is put off by the desperate cringey vibe
>just as planned
>god damn it
>it worked all too well
>agree to still be friends, but now there's no way she'd ever find me attractive
>we still have long convo about it
>tells me she's a kinsey 5
>mostly homo with a little hetero
>tfw i may have had a slight chance but nuked it for my marriage...

But we ain't done yet.
Continued!

>be me
>be 2017
>sex with wife is p good for awhile
>mostly over lez
>she my work bff
>thick as thieves
>still talk, share more personal info, thoughts, beliefs, etc.
>actually meet each other's wives
>things are pretty smooth

>friend m calls me up one day
>me, him, and some friends go on long roadtrip
>k, one of the friends is qt 8/10 chick
>younger party girl
>tats, weed, "one of the guys"
>get along with her pretty well
>we all hang out and drink
>they want to smoke a bowl
>i don't smoke, but offer to be lookout
>little bit of dynamic between m and k
>but she's kinda latched on to me
>feelsgoodman.png
>too bad marriage isn't open anymore
>sure k is into me

Sorry, I'm swyping this out on my phone.

Good, keepem coming user

>at one point, our ages come up.
>m and i address pretty close in age, late 30s
>k thought I was early 30s
>ill take it. :3
>thought she was late 20s
>actually early 20s
>on way home, k talks about her wife
>lol what is it with me and married lesbians?!
>come home
>back to work
>lez asks how trip went
>give her quick rundown
>mention i thought k was into me, but it was probably just the alcohol
>she agrees, thinks maybe it's a drunken "ily man!" kinda thing
>p sure it's not
>joke about my pattern of being into married lesbians
>laughter comes easily to me and lez

>remember old job from really 2000s
>cool 8.5/9 lesbian there i got along with
>she once told me if i were single she'd give guys another try

>damn it, im trusting my instincts!!
>there's no way lez is into me, but i think k is
>chat her up on fb
>becomes pretty clear she's interested
>millennial chicks like older guys, btw

>talk to wife about needs again
>we're back to where we were last year
>she relents
>same rules
>tell k im in open marriage
>she is too
>her rules are similar
>diff is she and her wife can only see guys, not other women

Continued!

>k lives over an hour away
>she stays w friend for a few days nearby
>things heat up p quickly
>visit for lunch, make out, end up fucking
>repeat for several days
>calls me while im at work
>a lot
>ego is stoked
>tbh it's been years since a girl was this on about me
>almost forgot about lez
>still friends, still talk
>we used to go for walks together
>probably haven't been in a week

>big event next weekend
>wife and i attend
>m and k attend also
>say hi, everyone's cool
>wife never wants details, so no idea it's k ive been seeing
>all four of us drink
>wife is lightweight, goes to bed early
>hang out with m and k in their room
>drink some more
>was hoping to get some alone time with k
>she and m seem to be into each other
>ngl was a little but jealous, but there's no room for that shit in polyamory
>decide ill let them have their fun
>say i need to leave
>"where you going?"
>she comes over to me all sultry and shit
>"i was hoping you'd stay"
>m is on their bed, looking ready
>ohshit.wtf
>they want an mmf
>i am so not ready for this
>awkwardly nope out of there
>head back to my room
>wife is still out like a light

Continuing. Fuck, I didn't realize it would be this long.

we obviously dont need you here.

Still reading user, go on pls

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>next day, wife and i attending event
>hear nothing from m or k
>lez chats me up on fb messenger
>chatting with her about event off and on throughout the day
>early afternoon, k messages me, asks if im ok
>chatting back and forth with lez and k
>k asks if wife is still okay with me seeing her
>tell her yeah she's still ok with it, just wasn't expecting m to be there
>accidentally send it to lez instead
>small panic
>immediately tell lez that was meant for someone else
>whoops, ok, w/e
>proceed to explain to k that im not trying to do stuff with any guys
>she says its cool, she was hoping for a dp, but she and m had fun anyway
>really starting to reassess my "relationship" with k
>don't see them again for the rest of the weekend

Cont

>be me
>get qt gf and date for some time
>have sex a lot and talk about marrying and having kids blah blah
>few weeks ago tells me she doesn't want to have sex because it is notthe right thing to do and ants to be closer to God by doing so
>now acts like she doesnt love me
>confront her about it and gets defensive/avoids questions
no clue what i should do tbh. She's currently at her parents house for thanksgiving while i went to mine. Have been giving her some space for a few days now and things have kinda gotten better but still doesn't feel right. Also first greentext so hope i did it right

What this mean user

>learned way more about my old friend m than i needed to
>haven't really talked to him about that night, but we still like each other's posts on fb
>guess it'll just be one of those unspoken things

>back to work next monday
>lez asks about event
>tell her it was cool, fun, things got "interesting"
>"oh yeah, what was that msg you sent me?"
>"oh lord forget i sent that!"
>"oh? no now you gotta tell me."
>say it's nsfw
>lez says, "how shit a walk later?"
>that afternoon, recount past week
>cathartic, as i can't really talk to anyone else about this
>after two years working with her, know what i can talk with her about
>tell her about open marriage, about k, about event
>don't think twice about it, just glad to talk
>she gives me some little shit for fucking someone so much younger
>good natured ribbin'

Cont

You did it right but in your relationship regards, I have bad news.
In best case scenario she doesn't love you anymore and want you to break up with her so she doesn't feel bad.
And the worse case scenario is that she is fuckin somebody in your back and she is trying to keep you to emotional and monetary support anyway just one advice
>Get out

*how ABOUT a walk later.
Fucking phone.

>ywn wake up at 2am groggy and annoyed because she flailed in her sleep and slapped the shit out of you and stole all the covers
>ywn hear her complain in the morning about how your snoring sounds like a chainsaw digging into a running engine
>ywn take way too long to fall asleep cus all of her hair is in your face
sleeping together is nice, but it certainly has it's drawbacks too

>k calls me last week
>says we live too far away to keep things going
>im like ok
>think this surprises her
>thinking she expected more resistance
>already eyeing some new strange
>this is not who i thought i'd be lol
>start taking to lez about adventures w k
>didn't even occur to me the effect this might have...

I used to love when I couldn't feel my arm anymore bc she was sleeping in it, I could stay that way forever so she can stay sleeping.
Oh man I miss those days, more important.
>I miss her

Yes. Please never tell your loved one that they don't love you or you feel like they don't love you. When my girl used to say that to me when she got really depressed sometimes, it made me feel legitimately suicidal. Generally though recently we've been working our problems out and communicating better and she hasn't said that in several months now. It feels a lot better
It does kinda look from this minimal information like it's your fault for alienating her and pushing her away until she finally got sick of it and left. Perhaps she felt like there was no other choice but to leave because you refused to accept her love?

Maybe no one has been there for you because they didn't know to be?

Sorry, switched from phone to pc. I have a keyboard now. Will continue...

Exactly, I'm afraid if I let them in I will lose all value as a person who people trust and can relay on, I'm afraid that being good to other's is my only function and if I fail in this a would be nothing to anyone, this probably isn't the truth and I now I'm paranoid but, this is how I feel and I guess I'm used to suffer in silence

Anyway, I'm noticing this about the last week or two in retrospect, as I kind of missed it at the time.....

>i've told lez about my adventures with k

Also, forgot to mention:
>long lunches a couple weeks ago got noticed by boss
>boss was kinda a dick about it and other "issues" they had with me
>stupid petty shit
>i've already got a resume in at another company
>they've been chomping at the bit to have me
>current job needs me more than i need them!
>lez has already said she'd be leaving this job soon
>i tell her about my situation and she laughs that i had to one-up her

>lez starts asking me to go for walks more frequently
>we chat about everything, including the thing with k, life in general, whatever
>she and i have eaten lunch together 2 or 3 times over the last two years
>last week she hit me up out of the blue to go have lunch with her
>we go to a place and talk about stuff
>the banter gets a little racier
>we msg each other a fuckton more on fb messenger now
>last week she wants to go outside to tell me something
>"i need to tell you about my nsfw dream"
>my alarms are all like !!!!!!!!!?????????
>we go outside away from the building where noone will hear us
>"ok....?"
>"so..... i had this dream.... well it wasn't exactly a dream.... but it was......"
>i offer, "erotic?"
>"yeah... and it was about you. oh god why am i telling you this?!"
>"it's ok" i say
>"i know it's ok, but oh god do you think i'm weird?"
>joke about how we're both weird and that's why we like each other.

Bum, bum, bumparoo
Pee pee pickle ree.

>over this past week:
>we walk more
>we talk more
>she makes it clear that she and her wife "could never" have the "arrangement" my wife and i have
>she drinks wine most evenings
>more fun chats with her on fb when that's the case
>go to a restaurant a few nights ago, get some beers in me
>she's buzzdd on wine, im buzzed on beer
>she says she's 5/10
>i say, nah you're at least a 9, maybe even a 9.5
>"i was talking about how drunk i am don't be shallow lol"
>i say, there's a reason they call alcohol truth serum
>im just outright flirty with her now
>this past weekend, she says she wants to tell me more details about the "dream"
>i tell her im looking forward to storytime
>but i make a point to not push it, not make her feel uncomfortable
>yesterday we have lunch together outside
>nice day
>she wants to tell me more about her "dream"
>but doesn't want me to think she's leading me on
>goes to great lengths to try to explain this to me before she tells me anything else
>tell her she's in the "i know you're not trying to fuck me safety tree"
>basically admits it wasn't just a dream
>she was half awake, horny, masturbated, thought of me
>my ego is soaring above the clouds, but im playing it as cool as i can
>basically tell her that i was lowballing it when i told her she was a 9.5
>told her that she's a 10 in my book
>not even lying
>she says she loves to hear stuff like that
>doesn't take compliments very well
>but hearing that makes her heart flutter

Continued

>ree

Is there a specific reason you chose that particular phoneme?

Yeah if anything it's probably that by being exclusively a nice helpful person it makes you kind of one-dimensional and hard to relate to. Good friendships and relationships have give and take; prople need to help and rely on each other

>tfw that's pretty accurate

>walk again
>long walk
>talk more
>says if she were single, she'd love to have me be her "experiment" to see if she still has any straight feelings
>let her know that im not going to push her, but that im available
>she has basically admitted that she is sexually attracted to me

And I'm over here like I KNEW IT! I FUCKING KNEW IT!!!!!!!

>we even talk about the fact that we have suddenly gotten a lot closer over the past two weeks
>she doesn't seem to know why
>but i do
>it has everything to do with k
>for about a week, me and lez didn't talk or hang out nearly as much
>most of my time was consumed by k
>she missed me
>and in my absence, she reacted as any woman would
>i don't want to destroy her marriage
>she loves her wife, i know
>but if she comes to me and says she wants me
>i can't say no to her
>she is literally my fantasy woman come to life

I don't know what else to say. Sorry for the inconclusive ending, but that's where I am.

We hug a lot now. We didn't used to.

>ywn pump that rump

So....... that's about it. I don't see how I can come to any other conclusion than she wants to fuck me. That doesn't mean she will. Like I said, she loves her wife. And she wants to stay friends, but we're way closer than friends now.
But I'm patient. Being older helps with that.
And I also know there are other 8s and 9s out there if I can't have the 10.

You sound pretty content with your situation, if a little confused about what you should do or how to feel

Honestly, yeah.........
And this is a feels thread, not necessarily a bad feels thread.

But here's the kicker.

There are things I could have kept from lez. But I didn't. I wanted her to know certain things. I wanted her to know about k.

Because I was betting they would have a certain effect on her.

And they did.

I have never been this manipulative before.

The real feels here are this: What the fuck is happening to me? Am I becoming a narcissist?

>Love, not subject to income and social status
Oh poor user. As much as it pains me to tell you, every human being on the planet has an ulterior motive. Once they believe they've used you up for their purpose, they will leave. Unfortunately now it is not enough to give someone your time. There is always something else as well that they want.

It’s starting to feel a lot like reddiiiit

>tfw gf gave me her sugar cookie chapstick before she left last weekend when she came to visit, and it tastes just like her kisses did all weekend
long distance sucks dick

Huh... I wouldn't know.

Maybe no one loves you because you can't speak proper fucking english...

It's Thanksgiving you shits be with your families and be happy stop feeling bad

OK thanks user

Sorry I was writing all just so quickly I don't mean to trigger the spelling police, I'm not native so I ask you, how many languages do you speak?
Personally I speak 3 so fuck you

I got a boner from this song