Hey Sup Forums, Depressed fag here...

Hey Sup Forums, Depressed fag here. My girlfriend of 8 years just kicked me out three days after our anniversary and 7 days away from my birthday.

How do I continue to live and move past this?

Pic sorta related. Slam piggy that looks like her.

Post her oc or don't ask for help. Simple as that.

You have just been set free, from a Pig user.

You have Stokholm Syndrome or something?

Same boat as you man. Feels bad.

user is right. LTRs will suck your life away. Go work out, do all the things your ex hated, and have some fucking fun with other bitches. You have your real life back.

I may have. The relationship was toxic for the past 2 or so years. Nothing was working but she was my first. And I always kinda figured she'd be there.

LTRs?

I've been with the same woman for almost 30 years. She's an emotional wreck. I fantasize about divorce and living alone. If i could go back in time, I'd put up with the occasional bout of lonliness, and avoid LTRs strenuously.

I really want to do these things and I'm sure it will get easier, it's just been so long. I've had her every day of every second for 8 years. Cliche as it may be, but she was also my best friend. It just feels like no one could take her spot.

She obvs wasn't your best friend. She doesn't care about you. Of course you'll meet other cool people. Just don't shack up with them.

YAY... I made Sense!!!

Shut it.

I'm in the same boat. My GF of 4 years just left me on Thanksgiving day.

Eat some turkey

Dub speaks the Truth.

Be thankful. You have your real existence back. The best revenge is a life well-lived. So harden up and do it.

If there was one, there will be others. You invested time, yeah, but you took lessons from this. Reflect, realize what you gave too much of, and what you needed to give more of.

You'll be fine. If you really think you need to off yourself over this, you're pathetic. Square those shoulders, learn to love and respect yourself again, and find someone who can offer you the same.

I'm not completely sad. It's gonna be weird not waking up next to her and not being able to go to her, but she chose it, not me.

Funny part is.
>I work 7 days a week
>Paid off all CCs and my car loan
>Debt Free
>She bought new car
>New house

She probably has someone else lined up already but I smashed it enough that it doesn't bother me.

You got kicked out by a fatty?! Shit, dude. You must be pretty fucking useless. Good luck. You'll need it.

>Obvious permavirgin is obvious.

Fattys can do some amazing things. Surprising even.

I've never thought of offing myself. It's just a rough point in my life. But that is inspiring.

I've just been out of the dating game for so long I think I've forgotten how to even hold a conversation with someone I may be interested in.

That's the spirit. Make some lemonade with the lemons. Lemonade is awesome.

It's hard as fuck the first couple days. I caught my gf of four years with a dude. It gets better though. Don't sit and think about it. Think of something you've always wanted to do with her and go do it for yourself.

You want some lemonade?

That's what I'm saying. You've been a partner for years. You need time for you... time to rediscover what you like for yourself. What sort of music inspires what feelings. What sort of experiences you want for yourself. Even a small thing, like going to a restaurant that you would never go to with your ex is a step in the right direction.

You don't need anyone. Rather, want to share your life experiences with someone.

Flirting comes naturally my guy. You'll get a feel for the situation.

If you can't run a 5k, you can't fuck properly. Simple as that. If she gets winded before I cum, she isn't worth my time.

Conversation with basic bitches is easy. Ask questions about them. All they want to talk about is themselves.

I think you need to read this OP.

This is true. Ladies like a man with direction and one that pays attention.

Thanks dude. I'm sorry about your woman. They can be some real heartless bitches.

I better start working on my 5k then, maybe that's why she left me.

Oh shit, guys...we have someone with "standards" here. Watch yourselves.

Go find a new place to live. Rediscover some old hobbies. Hang out with some friends you may be neglecting. Go live life again. Being single brings freedom in many ways. Before you know it, you may find someone else who is much better then her without even trying.

I'm the fag above who wants out of marriage. I'd love for the wife to leave. She can have everything. I just want my life back. So yes, lots of lemonade, and some nachos with pulled pork...

Wrong one... hold on

It's this one

5 hops on top of me and she was out of breath. Then it was my turn to take over. She never wanted to do it because She always said She wasn't happy with her body. She didnt look SUPER over weight. But she was that weird skinny fat.

The person in that picture physically makes me ill.
You dodged a bullet OP.

Sorry mate. I'm drinking and getting lippy. Good luck getting back on your feet. It'll happen before you know it.

maybe she kicked you out cause you refer to her as a slam piggy

So...leave. Life is simply too short to be with someone who isn't going to make you happy. I'm willing to bet that you are not providing for her in ways that she needs, either. Yeah, you might still care, and yeah, it might hurt her, but... truthfully, this could be better in the long run, depending on how you look at it.

No worries here. I'm doing much the same. Cheers!

I understand this is your first day on the internet so let me explain for you, retard. LTR = LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP. Now go fuck yourself.

Shit, that's the worst. The insecurity. It's not even the shape or the weight. It's just whether she can actually USE her body. Same as us. You see all these /fit/fags with huge pecs and zero cardio. It's just the same for ladies who can't keep up. That skinny-fat with the tiny waist thay somehow has a saggy paunch -- I fucking hate that. I'd rather someone curvy but firm than skinny and soft.

Fuuuuuck dude. What a story. Big hopes my story can be relatively close.

Just take the first step and you'll go far.

This is actually her body. Maybe I'm delusional and she's actually fat. Hopefully someone can shed some light.

I'd smash, but I'm into bigger girls, so...

Working on it. I talk tough on the internets, but it's complicated. It's not bad all the time. Currently working on becoming my individual self again after so many years. One day at a time.

As long as you do something that is just for you... a "selfish" act that just makes you smile, then it's progress.

'Bigger girls' so she is big then, eh?

she did you a favor op
get a newer better model

You hit the nail on the head. I have to practice being "selfish" because my nature is to look after others. Of course wifey takes me for granted. So yes. Gotta look after myself for a change.

Helpful thread.

She's on the smaller side...Chubby, but not what I would call "fat" ... I'm pretty fucking midwestern, though. Everyone has their own opinion. Justifying her appearance won't do much for you, other than a superficial victory.

Have you told her how you felt? Just laid your cards on the table, and been perfectly honest, without raising your voice? Remember, it's not always obvious when someone else is hurting... that's why mental breakdowns and suicides can be so surprising. We sometimes, as humans, forget that our inner monologues are not shared.

This is what I needed.

have another you glorious bastard

The ass be phat

Our "talks" usually end up with her rationalizing all her sub-par (lazy, selfish) behavior on the fact that she has a chronic illness (in remission) and mental health issues related. It always becomes "poor me!" Anything I want/need I have to do myself. So that's what I'm going to keep doing.

>How do I continue to live and move past this?

Go out, get laid.
Repeat as necessary.

Oh my God, that is the greatest thing I have ever seen.

I'm currently moving to a new city where I don't know anyone aside from one friend. Where do you begin?

Yep. This. Men are wonderfully simple creatures. Unpleasant emotions tend to dissipate the closer you get to new pussy.

Then I would say you have done as much as you can. One day at a time, bud.

At the gym. 40-something women are horny and love to be paid attention.

Bars, clubs, join some kind of a group, college campuses.

If you're a dirtbag like me try Sex Addiction support groups and abortion clinics.

I believe this is a fact. I've hooked up with a mom by giving them barely any attention.

Wisdom.

Holy fuck I've never thought of that. That's such a good, scummy idea!

This.

When I found out about my gfs lying and cheating, I kicked her to the curb. Then, I went out and had some fun. I wasn't looking for a relationship, and neither were they.

That hurt you feel when you find out someone you love has stuck a knife into your heart because they wanted fifteen minutes of someone else's cock over you goes away real quick when you're balls deep in someone else a few days later.

Any more of the original pic?

Stick around and find out like the rest of us

tldr.....
BUT I DID FAP!!!

This is it.

That's too long for her not to be a wife. If I was a chick I'd leave the dude just stringing me along too.

Thread's dead, baby. Shit's already solved. No one wants to marry you.

>chubby
>no tits

at least get you a fat girl with some meat on her chest

There's more to it than what it sounds. I was just looking for advice. To explain why she wasn't wifed; Tldr- we had issues and were 15 when we met.

I didn't plan for it to turn like that. She was skinny when we met, she just grew some unfilled, pear titties.

like others have said, she did you the favor

My last gf was a fatty. Dumped her ass. She acted like a nigger, and couldn't lose her weight. Never even had real feelings for her.

I'm in a similar boat. just divorced recently after 14 years of marriage because my whore wife cheated on me and then left me. I now live alone but I have made new friends and I have messed around with a few new girls. Just have to focus on making yourself happy now.

Oh one more thing, since you have more free time now, try to get a new hobby. Myself, I still play video games and watch tv/movies, but I have also added the gym to my normal routine. I have been going to the gym for about a month now.

I'm sorry to hear about your cheating ex wife. That shit is cold and fuck, you've pretty much doubled the amount of time I put into my relationship. Makes my issue seem bitchy. If you can get over it and be happy, then I shouldn't complain.

in no way is your issue any less painful or relevant than mine bro. it all hurts the same. also, I wouldn't call myself happy yet. I am still in the healing phase and trying to get to a happy. It's a long process but I feel like if I can keep myself occupied it's not so bad. whatever you do, try not to be in a place where you're gonna let your mind dwell on what happened. try to keep busy and social. good luck to us both man. hopefully things work out. :)

Best of luck, buddy!