My friend is a 26 yo single kiss virgin at least mildly autist Sup Forumstard & I want to get him to actually try and find a girl... He doesn't want random sex because you faggots have scarred him with pics of STD ridden pussy, but I am just hoping to have him nut up and say hi to some bitch... Any ideas on how/where I could get him to go and try? Remember, he's a lot like you, so things like 'party' would be denied immediately.
Tldr: where would you go to meet a bitch,Sup Forumsro?
Craigslist
Interesting idea. But not looking for a trap.
Probably the best bet you're going to get. If he won't get it on his own, no amount of you "helping" him will work. Get him an "escort" and hope that is enough to pull him out of this rut.
Sadly it seems like you are correct, but I'm still hoping I can help. Push his ass out of the nest...
Im not even trying to get him laid, just want him to find a girl he is willing to say hi to.
Not much you can do sadly.
Does he at least have a job? That might be a good first step. It'd at least force him to gain some social skills.
He works alone in a machine shop. His boss isn't even around usually :/
I thought getting a job was gonna help him too but hasn't.
He definitely wants a girl, but refuses to try... He has gotten boners from 3 second hugs... He has told my gf that he wants a girl
I would be happy if i had a friend like you. You could not help me, but it will be pleasing.
That's probably his "Ideal job." You're not going to get him to leave for something more social.
The only other thing I can suggest is you do some legwork and just start bringing other socially awkward girls into the group and introducing the autists and see if something clicks.
That does sound like a good option. If only I actually had some friends that were girls it might work.
What would help?
God damnit.
Go down to the local card game shack. There's usually single tail there.
"My friend"
You are saying that females actually go to card places, like MTG?
Yes. Believe it or not there are plenty of girls that like things that boys like. You literally just need to go to events that sponsor those things and not be disgusting.
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I'm like your friend,except 27. Also,I did go to parties in the past, but female contact I can't handle.
Bro simple... a bar. Go with him and bring your girlfriend. Then get him to
Have some drinks and loosen up. And scan around and see
If there’s anyone he can strike up a convo with. Also public places that you wouldn’t even expect to meet women like in line at the bank. But he’s never gonna be able to if he has absolutely no confidence
He has no problem like talking to my gf when she's around... Like apparently when I passed out one night he told her all about how he wants a girl
Here's what you have your "Friend" do.
First, Go to >>/FA/ post his picture, explain his situation, and ask for wardrobe advice.
Second, go to >>/FIT/ and get on a basic diet.
Third, DO NOT EXPECT RESULTS WITHIN THE FIRST HALF YEAR! Seriously, you're not going to improve at all if you aim so high the arrow lands on you.
Fourth, start going to actual places and doing actual things.
Finally, don't expect to be dating within the first year of self improvement. You probably don't have the skills to not crash and burn, just make steady gains.
Not getting my point. I talk to girls on a regular basis, but not having any experience with even as much as dating at the age where it certainly is expected, I spagetti if I even get the idea she might be interested.
Why though? Like what is it that is off putting to you about them?
If a girl would show some interest about me. She would be patient and nice and don't mind about my inexperience.
He refused to go to a bar. I think it is partially bc he doesn't want to spend money at a bar when it's cheaper to buy a bottle.
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go to the movies. Bars suck in general if you don't have social skills.
Have him get mental health. Zoloft or Xanax might make the difference.
Won't pay for a movie when he can pirate stream!
I could see that. Like I said I've seen him get boners from e second hugs
Alright this guy doesn’t get it then. You can’t measure life experience in dollars and cents. He needs to leave his house of course it’s cheaper to drink at home. But that defeats the purpose of a bar. He reminds me of this one friend I’ve known since i was 6. He refuses to leave his house but cries that he wants to. Your friend is never gonna listen to anyone.
Really my friend not me, I've been in a steady relationship for 9 years.
He isn't fat, just doesn't have social skills
Idk i see your response but i still don’t get it. Do you not want to do the wrong thing and embarrass yourself? Are you afraid of rejection?
Thats what I've been trying to tell him. But he grew up super poor so that might be related.... But he's got plenty to spend on weed so he could pay for a date... If he cared enough....
Any ideas on how to impress this into him?
Trust me there’s nothing you can say. I’ve actually accomplished dragging my friend out with me once or twice and he just sat there like a slug. It was like cancer no one would even look at us. He would just say can we go can we go. People like your friend and my friend like the idea of being James Cagney and going out in the world and meeting beautiful women and wooing them but they dont want to actually get off their ass and do anything about it no matter what you say
Then do poor outing things. Go off-roading. Go hiking. Go to a library if he's into that shit. Point is, get him outside.
Poor outdoor things, I used to get him to hike and kayak back in highschool, but like we never once saw a female while doing it lol. We live in a very suburban area, not much in the way of woods
You live in a shitty state then. The mainstream rivers here have hundreds of people including basic bitches that flash at the drop of a hat.
Actually come to think of it does your girl friend have any single friends?
I get it and I am actually a lot like him in that, but I was lucky to find someone who stuck since HS.... he just never tried....
Has nothing been able to get your friend to want to try?
Shitty part of the state, but yea...
Also he has 0 interest in a basic bitch or hookup, he wants to find someone real... But needs to get out n look...
Am I afraid of rejection? Yes. But what if she says yes? Then I wouldn't know what to do next. I have no clue how I would have to organise this. Even if that would be a succes, then she'll find a boyfriend with the relationship skills of a 12 year old, which will be even more embarrassing.
My confidence that I will achieve this in this lifetime have dropped severly over the years.
Have you ever actually tried asking? Or have you never been able to get that far?
She hasn't had many friends since hs and he didn't like any of them then or now.
He has had one crush I know of. They kissed one day and she ended up getting rushed to the hospital to have her stomach pumped n never rly spoke to either of us again...
He'd go for a basic bitch. I can almost guarantee it.
That said, depending on where you are maybe take a day trip to somewhere not shitty. I've gone on 300 mile trips to hit the beach before, might be worth a shot. Worst case scenario he'll have decent mental porn for the next few weeks.
Twice. Neither a succes obviously. Still, I'm more worried about what happens after a potential yes.
Hmm a beach might work next summer... Maybe I could convince him to come snowboarding this winter...
be honest with her and say "I'm out of practice, but I'd love to give this a chance." You don't need to tell her everything, but just saying that will excuse your dumbassedness.
Do it! That will work. Plenty of ladies on the slopes and as long as he doesn't sperg out he might get a number on his own.
Only thing is it would go back to $$ and also he doesn't know how to ski or board...
Not really he’s just not sociable. Don’t get me wrong we’re best buds but we are NOTHING alike.
I admire you wanting to help because I’m the same way but in all honesty some people just don’t want to be helped. I feel like with women and socializing it’s an art form. You either have it or you don’t and you can’t really teach it
I suppose you're right, but I plain panic. My believe that a paniced suitor is rather off-putting only reinforces that.
What gave you the confidence those times?
Don't give him an out then. Pay for the trip yourself, force him to go, and make sure he doesn't do some stupid difficult run because he gets cocky.
if you say that first, it might help it.
That or when you ask be on something depressant.
Lol idt I gotta worry about him getting cocky. If anything he'd be a chicken and take the bitch seat back down.
A ton of beer. Being nervous hell still made them walk away. Being druk probably didn't help.
Again, don't let him.
No matter how aloof the fucker might act, you got some strong peer pressure on your side bro. Especially if it's the bunny slopes.
Yeahhhhhh there's a difference between courage and blackout.
I will definitely try to get him to come with me next time.
+1
Gotta moderate yourself.
Do you have any kind of life companion? I feel like my friends last pet may have made him extra reclusive since he always had the pet and never needed a girl as much
What always helps me with
Girls is number one looking really nice. It makes you like 30 times more confident. Another thing that’s good to do when your nervous is just remind yourself what is the worst that can happen? But you need to be 100 percent behind what move you’re about to make
Because girls can sense it when
You’re nervous or Putting on a show
No companions here, I do think I need a girl. I guess I just don't have the balls to ask one when i'm not wasted.
Regardless of what he says bring him with you. If he's miserable, just force him not to be.
Do you ever think you would be better off just fucking some bitch and getting that out of the way so you aren't so nervous?
Sometimes I feel like getting him laid once would make it easier for him to talk, but like he really doesn't want random strange (I think bc he's scared of STDs)
Get a cute dog. Go to a park. Seriously do it. Women will come to you so long as you're not acting all sketchy.
>hoping to have him NUT up
>kek
>lot like you
>party would be denied immediately
What kind of faggots do you take us for?
Speaking for myself parties are the best places to get pussy.
I've only fucked around 30 girls and about 3 of them were people I met outside of a party
It's hard to drag someone across state lines without their permission. But I agree, he needs to be dragged!
Oo not a bad idea, he has dogs already, but one is a scarred up reacue bull dog n the other is a mouthy chuwawa :/ not sure either would be cute enough, but the bull dog might be depressing enough to get a what happened?!
No. Terrible idea. Tried going for a protitute, but couldn't get it up. Just made me more worried.
A large percentage of the b population is autist. Autists in general have problems in crowded places like parties and don't want to be there (someone posted above how his friend acts like a lump of cancer at them)
So maybe not you exactly, but it's probably 50/50 ;)
Yea I could see it gong that way. Especially with a prostitute or escort since they have a lot of sex and may be gross
My parents have a nice dog whom I have a good relationship with. I should probably get into that. Still doubt I'd be able to ask a girl out in that scenario.
The rescue is a good call. He just has to be extra lovey with it at the park.
Even though bitches love chihuahuas, most chihuahuas don't like bitches that aren't their bitch. That's a bad choice to bring to a park for pussy.
Another one which works fucking oddly enough is babies. Seeing a man taking care of a mini human makes women wet. Something something biology and evolution something.
His cousin is having one, maybe I can get him to watch it at a park lol.
If you start doing it regularly you would probably see the same girls a few times and they may even come back to you to say hi to the dog again... Once you are more comfy with them u could ask
Yep. He gets it. That is probably a great idea for you anonbro.
Also he has to actually be taking care of and "Babying" the baby. It has to be genuine otherwise its fucking obvious what he's trying to pull.
Did she make you pay anyway?
>My friend
Makes sense, if it looks like he don't want to be there it would do the opposite.
See
Makes sense. I try it out. Thanks guys.
Yeh
That sucksssssss
Think of it this way,
a prostitute can make her money legally by selling her "time." If you're not paying for "time" what are you paying for? That's how people get arrested.
good point, still sucks balls even tho no balls were sucked
Welcome to life,
It sucks, it's pointless, but damnit sex feels good enough to make it worth it.
This. Also, Im from Amsterdam where they have to pay rent for their whoring-rooms,which I was occupying for my 30 minute attempt. She earned it.