Is cheating ever justifiable?

Is cheating ever justifiable?

>be 29yo married fag
>expressed to my wife (and when she was my gf) that I am into kinky shit
>shes not into it
>I holdout hope she will change her mind
>she hasnt
>I cant even fuck her in the ass
>I found a website where you can meet hot college aged girls and pay to fuck them
>registered one day out of boredom/hornyess
>chatted up a few 8/10's who are down to get fucked in the ass for some cash
>no strings attached, no emotion involved

I feel like its wrong, but its not like I see these girls as anything else than an extension of jerking off. I really want to do it, but I feel like I will be crushed with guilt afterwards.

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You sound like fucking ad.

"Registered for one day....chatted with 8/10s. Nsa"

All you're missing is "sign up to start fucking hot locals at [insert site here]"

You married her knowing what was up. Girls don't just suddenly like anal after a few years of marriage. Justify it to yourself all you want, but you'll be the one taking it in the ass during the devorce process.

Let me reiterate then, it cost like $80 just to sign the fuck up, so its not cheap.

thats the thing my wife is pretty great

>8/10 looks
>7/10 brain
>10/10 everything else

Shes really a great woman, just doesnt do it for my dick. But at what point are the needs of my dick important enough to throw away all of the positives?

do it
do not regret
your wife probably still cheating on you, if wasn't, she must do it later, go first
she will just love you more or dump you if she's smart

Who cares about your problem, post the link to this internet website you talked about! Sounds sick as fuck, so be a bro!!!

^^^^ is a response I'm waiting for, you spamming indian piece of shit

What's the website?

at the point you are browsing some lame ass dating sites you faggot.
ditch the woman and get someone kinky. monogamy is so boring

>she will just love you more or dump you if she's smart

Love him more? What kind of backwards fucking logic is that? And IF she's smart? You mean fucking normal and rational behavior? Holy hell

Nigga you dumb ass. If the chick you're hooking up with is not in agreement with what you want from your relationship why did you not end it? Literally billions of women. You telling me you won't find one as good as her that's into what you like 100%? Fucking retarded ass double nigger. I hope you get caught.

Dude is risking your relationship really worth your dick being in someone else's shitter? You're literally trying to justify ruining a good relationship, (based on what you have said so far), on anal. Get a grip man... You're lucky to have a woman to even have sex with; in comparison to most of these fucks who haven't touched a tit since their mummy breast feeded them.

Don't cheat. It'll ruin your life and hers. Either discuss this with her (leave out that you've already started the process of cheating) and tell her how you feel. Say you need to start exploring new things in the bedroom and if you make sex good for her she'll be up for it. Make her cum more often it'll make your life easier.

NIGGER BLACK YOU FUCKING RETARD ASS NIG NOG CHEAT CHEAT GET DAT ASS NIGGER?? SHEEEIT

You obviously havent looked very hard at the current pool of women in the western world. In my opinion most women are undatable for various reasons, and the fact that I was able to find one who seemingly has every good quality imaginable is pretty impressive, I just dont know if its worth risking it all for a tingling feeling in my dick.

what you need to do is think how important sex is to you.
if it's so important, that you are willing to end the whole relationship, then you do that.
if you don't want to lose her, you keep that worm of yours in your pants.
cheating is not cool and you will get caught. it's either dump or boring sex. decide

Love him more if she's an owner in relationships, possesive as fuck, this just make her more "in love" with Op because that's how this works, love is just an emotion, girls are emotions, no logic. owning in relationships is cancer, it's the source of all problems, see Op just want to have fun, but he's so weak to live the way he wants, normal is boring nowadays, evolve, life is movement and unstability, if there is no changes, ure probably still dead

This

That's right. Why cheat when you could have just found a woman that wants what you want? Literally no excuse to cheat when there's females out there that are okay with letting you do things to other women.

yeah call me when you find even one single girl that will date a cheating boyfriend and who is not completely batshit crazy

Western.


You're right. I live on the east coast. But here's where you're wrong. You could have definitely found a woman that would be okay with what you want and looks decent. You're probably the one not looking hard nough.

stop baiting me like this user.
>east cost
give me a fucking break

there is plenty of girls who doesn't want to get engaged in relationship, just enjoy life without problems and with great sex. If ure honest there is no prob with that, for the boy or the girl, when you lie about ur way to see love it's bad, but without lies its ok

Ive brought up trying new things, to her this means her initiating sex in a "new way" often times something simple like her randomly sucking my dick or something. I once mentioned to her choking during sex (not my thing at all but a lot of my single friends said girls like it so I thought id try it) so we discussed it and she goes "uhhhh yea sure i guess we can try it" later while we were fucking as soon as a ever so slightly tightened my grip around her throat she started screaming she couldent breath and told me to chill out.

She makes vanilla ice cream seem exciting.

yeah i agree cheating always ruins every relationship it happens in

How am i baiting?

Also fuck West coast. It's full of fags and sjws.

like i said user. either you dump the girl, or you learn to like vanilla sex.
cheating is not an option here, since that will lead to the eventual disaster of a divorce.

You do know what the western world is right?

Trips!!!

fuck off dude are you really not aware what western means?
jesus christ man give me a break.
i'm not even from the u.s.a dude, i don't give a shit about no west coast bullshit

She obviously doesn't understand the gravity of the situation (you being a huge douchenozzle) so if you care about anal or whatever so much to lose out on what seems like a 8 or 9/10 woman then you need to let her know how extreme this situation is. If she finds out you cheated, she'll leave you and you'll lose all your money to her. If you convince her to kink it up a bit you get best of both worlds.

hes already married so either way hes gotta divorce, may as go out with dick in ass.

You picked the wrong one op. I've said my peace itt. Find yourself a girl that will do what you want. Be honest from the start and you'll never have to cheat. See ya.

Not. Worth. It.

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You are blackmail bait stupid.

Get waifu to marriage counselor.

Also anal is way way overrated

unconditional love is the key, means, love without possesion, i know for most of people, if a random guy fuck your chick it's the saddest thing it can happen, but with emotional maturity (take time) this idea seems not so terrible, that means free relationship , boy and girl do want they want, and still love them. Love exist to be shared, it's something that cannot be owned, like a bird, just let it flew. You can love multiple partners

You're meant to air all that shit BEFORE getting married

Duh you cum dumpsters. I'm still gonna talk shite anyway

yeah but divorces can be pretty decently bad or a fucking dumpsterfire. cheating leads to the latter

most of the time jealousy bites back hard. it's really tough to find anyone willing to partake in a free relationship and not get butthurt about it at some point

This. Listen. Learn.

god damn retard.
good luck trying to talk shit after that mess.
fucking lmao

maturity, reached a certain age, it becomes evidence

i see everyone trying to posses others like their stuff (smartphone & shits), but people are not stuff

On one hand, cheating would hurt her: not cool.

On the other, she should be more willing to satisfy your sexual needs. Hell, I like to get anally fisted by my wife and she's not into it. But she does it because she loves me and wants to make me happy.

On the third hand, you knew what she was like, so this should not come as any surprise.

You should actually talk to her about it. If your sexual needs are not met by her, she should give you permission to satify them elsewhere.

>Is cheating ever justifiable?
it is as long as you can guarantee that
1. there are NO feelings involved
2. it doesnt affect your relationship at all. you still fuck your partner as much and as passionately as before
3. you make sure they NEVER find out

OP wants to pay to fuck someone, that mean ZERO emotional connection.

So its not that bad

If he was having an affair and emotion was involved itd be 1000x's worse.

Nope. Never. Just communicate.

If you and your partner aren’t communicating and compromising than you need to work in that or find a partner who will.

>>shes not into it
She's not into it with you.

>chatted up a few 8/10's who are down to get fucked in the ass for some cash

enjoy your gay encounters.

link for the vid with sound?

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no. you dated her and married her knowing she wasnt into that shit. you were banking on her changing your mind. also you cant only date her and marry her with values of sex. youre not guaranteed to be 100% compatible with somebody.

I NEED ITTTT

gross. i think i'm gay now.

Thats what sucks so much we are so similar everywhere else

>same interest
>same music taste
>same political leaning
>same ideas of fun
>same level of autism

We are such a solid match outside of the bed. Although she is 100% happy with out current sex life somehow, shes told me she just doesnt see why anyone would want to change from the usual sex routine.

Well why the fuck you married her then?

The whole idea is to marry the right girl and not the wrong one you dumb fuck!

wtf is wrong with you

it doesn't matter what yo usee it as an extension of, its the literal definition of cheating. that doesn't mean 'oh you can't whole heartedly cheat'. people are more concerned with sexual cheating than emotional cheating (which i dont understand).

as a gneeral rule if you wont tell your girlfriend about it, then you probably shouldnt do it. the only time i see it as 'justifiable' is when you have kids and divorcing would mean not only losing money but the time you get to spend with them.

sex is easily 50% of a relationship. i still would not cheat if i were you. i would just explain to her that really really really need to have some kinky ass sex and if she still says no you can always walk away. cheating will get you hooked on the better sex and you will get caught

Can't you get her to try whatever you're into? Just get her to try being tied up or whatever the fuck it is you want and see if she's into it. Make sure to really give her a good go of it so she's really enjoying it too. I never understood why people don't wanna at least try to explore things sexually with their spouse, there's so much out there to do. Unless you wanna like watch her get fucked by a dog or something just spergy she should at least try it

i don't want to fucking drown in pussyjuice.
moderate amount is enough. also fucking a girl that slippery is boring.

reverse image search faggot, it will take you 1 minute

there are some really dry people that hate fun.
also her wife is being really selfish. she gets off with boring sex but she should consider op's needs once in a while

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Western world

at the end of the day OP. Think, once your dick stops working (which it will, happens to all of us.) Will she still love you? if yeah then stay with her, What kinky shit we talking here though

Like BDSM, tie a bitch up spit in her mouth type of shit, beat her, make her fuck your dog?

like what we talking here

thats the thing she doesnt want to try it. I am like you I am willing to pretty much try anything inside, or outside the bedroom.

>tfw the kinkiest of all my desires is to watch her get fucked by a dog

I told her I was into women fucking dogs and she just laughed and said noway in hell she would do that. I 100% understand her not even thinking about doing that because I know its insane, however she wont even let me try to fuck her in the ass or hell even take nudes of her.

if you're gonna fuck her ass and she's never done it you need to get an anal trainer kit to work her into it. Tell her you wanna try it and if she doesn't like it then she doesn't like it. If you just go from 0 to ass fucking out of nowhere she'll have a bad time and never wanna do it again.

You really can play her into liking this OP, get a kit and then get her to bend over doggy style and when you're putting the small plugs in really work her pussy with your fingers/mouth and make sure she's being over stimulated so she's associates anal with positive feelings. If she trusts you she should be ok with doing this. always tell her she's a good girl the bigger sizes of plugs you go until you finally get her able to handle a full cock. Make it an adventure for her and not just some shit tier "imma fuck ur ass and now im dun thx bby" and you'll turn her into a kinky slut.

sorry what?

If your wife won't pleasure you you are completely justified in getting sex elsewhere. I'm in a similar situation myself. I'm fucking trapped in hell at this point in time. Did myself alternating between thinking of suicide and murder suicide. The cunt I'm taped with knew a full 2 years ahead of us having a second child that she didn't want to be with me sexually. She still fucked me right up until she found out she was pregnant, then overnight the sex stopped.

you need to stop bitching about in on Sup Forums and explain how serious this is.
be a man for once and tell her it's some variety (within reason you fucking sicko), or you are going to go fuck hookers. If she still says no and you are really that keen on your weird fetishes find a new woman. there are plenty out there

>$80 just to sign the fuck up, so its not cheap.

If you're an adult 80$ is honestly not much.

We did all of this years ago, she could handle fingers and everything and was cool with it, once it came to working my dick in her ass it hurt and she said she couldent handle it (I do have a slightly larger dick) and ever since she said she couldent handle dick in ass shes backed off of wanting fingers in ass.

Thats the thing my wife wants to fuck 4 or 5 nights a week but I just turn it down most times because its soul-crushingly boring.

>I also hardly ever look at porn, maybe twice a month.

> then overnight the sex stopped.
The year is 2017 and newly wed dudes are STILL surprised when this happens.

>thats the thing she doesnt want to try it.
Sounds like you were expecting her to change overtime. She shows no willingness to make you happy sexually and as hinted above, it's only going to get worse. You should've known this before marrying her.

yes, whenever you feel like fucking other people

it's not.

BTDT.

As far as anal goes, yeah the dirtiness/dominance of it is cool but honestly the actual physical sensation is not as good as a tight pussy. It's super tight opening that's like 2" long and then into a big cavern. Unless you have a really small dick,you'll really just like the initial penetration.

I'm divorced, wife was not into anal. After divorce, had a gf who was down for anal all the time, we were together 3 years but broken up now. Got it out of my system (anal). Now I can take it or leave it, just want a cool GF who is pretty hot and fun to spend time with.

Basically don't fuck up your relationship over a butthole. However, if you think you just aren't into being married, well, go crazy then.

just man the fuck up and fuck her how you want to fuck her, just not in the ass because that would hurt her. Also, stop with the bestiality shit you freak.

Thats the thing, I know that a lot of my anal fixation is mental, and that in reality it has a lot of negatives that go with it. If I could just do it enough to realize it isnt that great I feel like the urge would leave me.

I'm not newly wed you fuckwit. I said my SECOND CHILD you fucking stupid cunt.

>$80 just to sign the fuck up

That's a scam, pic related is what you're talking to.

If a girl doesn't do everything in the world for you, she doesn't love you.
You don't be an idiot and marry or stay with someone like that unless you can't get anyone else.

If you have the stomach for it, cheat on her. But youre on here discussing it instead of just doing it which leads me to assume you don't have the stomach for it.
I cheated on my first serious girlfriend. She figured it out, said I was acting weird, accused me, and I owned up to it. She dumped me. Never been caught again, and I've cheated in almost every relationship.

Everyone wants to give guidelines on how to cheat: use a second phone, don't let her know where you live, blah blah blah. The most important guideline is to know yourself. Can you look your wife in the face, day after day, and tell her she's your one and only? Can you fuck a 19 yo in the ass and have her suck your dick a few hours later?

Not sure I could do that to a wife, and I've cheated on half a dozen girls easy.

fuck you OP. just cheat on that cow of a wife then.
you are obviously not even considering any advice given here.
why did you even make this thread? so that someone would give you a greenlight to cheat.
fucking idiot i hope she finds out and dumps your stupid ass

I dont think its a scam, Ive had two of the girls send timestamped snaps

>tfw trying to explain what the fuck a timestamp is to a normie qt who has never even thought about Sup Forums

Did you train her with a kit like this? Sounds like you fucked up and made anal a negative experience and now she's scared of it. Girls like your wife are like deer, you gotta really be careful with the positive association otherwise you scare them off. If it was fingers then straight to dick she probably tore some of her anal wall and hates it. It should be a slow progression over the course of a few days maybe a week or 2 if you got a monster dick

You should have a serious conversation with your wife about this. You have to make her realize what this means to you. It's that simple. I'm 27 and my wife and I got married last year. We have a standing rule regarding sex. Neither of us can ever say 'NO' to the other. Not at any time or for any reason...at least within reason. We're not into public voyeurism. Exceptions can be made if one of us isn't feeling well and has symptoms to prove it. And of course we're both very reasonable...about what is reasonable. We know what "reasonable" lines not to cross. Privacy, discretion, and cleanliness are the three big words that we live our sexual lives together by. But we never say 'No' to each other for anything sexually.

That's important because a relationship is about so much more than sex, but sex is a fantastically important part of the relationship. If some aspects of a relationship are lacking, sex can fill in the gaps. At least for a short time.

Have some gooey pussy for comfort.

>Ive had two of the girls send timestamped snaps
care to share?

Which makes you even dumber to think that sex drive was there to stay after she has a pussy BTFO a second time.

Bro don't listen to that fuckstick anal is the tits. And the ass. And the pussy. And the 10/10 face.

is that an.... ass vagina?

dude don't bother. the only thing OP is looking for is some weird fucking validation from strangers that it's ok to cheat. he is not interested in good advice

sauce on the pic?

yea pretty much, it wasnt a kit but I started out with fingers and small plugs and gradually worked up to my dick, we never used a plug that had the same diameter as my dick and she said that I was just too girthy for her ass.

My wife is pretty much like that, If I ever just want to fuck her she is 100% down for it at anytime, now if I want to change up the routine a bit? She wont like that

I didnt screenshot them because I didnt want them to think I was going to broadcast it on some bizarre Chinese cartoon website.

>I recently deleted the account because I could tell I was inching closer and closer to fucking one of those girls.

Wa

How would u like me next.. post if u have pics of me

What site

No site I'm real

Read my post properly you dumb fuck. She stopped the sex after finding out she was pregnant NOT after having the kid. Fucking nigger level intelligence on display from you dickhead

Pewdiepie voice "don't dew it"

I'm divorced tho...

pls fuk the dog

Sounds like she was just trying to harvest your precious seed