Hey Sup Forums, I almost lost my virginity 2 weeks ago, I'm 23. But I couldn't get hard. She said it was fine...

Hey Sup Forums, I almost lost my virginity 2 weeks ago, I'm 23. But I couldn't get hard. She said it was fine, and it appears I'm pretty good with the fingers. We had a great time, that's for sure.
Anyway, up until now I can't get hard at all. Before I used to have raging boners all the time, now my pee pee is sleeping.
Any of you guys ever had this problem?

she was fat wasn't she

No. Her body is at least 8/10. Nice tits, smooth skin, was fuckin great. Her head tho is around 5/10.

bleh then you are just dehydrated
>but I drink water!!!
yeah and it falls back out of you unless you mix it with nutrients and salt

You're probably gay. I'm sorry to break the news to ya.

Do you watch porn?

Bi maybe, gay no. Womens turn me on the most.

Yes. I used to beat it at least every day, then a few month ago I stopped doing it so much. Now I do it 3 times a week top.

Stop doing it altogether. It's scientifically proven it hinders shit in your brain that is necessary to have a decent sex life/libido.

Stop fapping too. When you feel the urge do something else. Same reason as above.

Yea, I shouldn't beat it to porn. I'm into pretty fucked up stuff too, I guess that's not helping. Thx for the advice!

Fetishes make it worse because you're practically normalizing it for yourself. Nofap, noporn, and exercise will jump start your libido guaranteed.

How much time would it take for my libido to go back to normal?

Depends. What would you describe your physique and general wellbeing as? Habits (ex : brushing teeth normally, shower normally, etc) diet. It all depends on you.

I'm in pretty good shape, I do sports on a regular basis and eat healthy. Physically I'm for sure a normal fag. For the mental state it's "alright", sometimes a bit depressed, shit job, shit family, like most of us.
Also I smoke and sometimes drink way too much. I'm planning to stop smoking this week.

I had the same shitty problem bcs of a lot of porn and fap. Then realized the problem, stop doing that and then, no more problems at sex.

Cigarettes or mary? One is better for the fuccin than the other. Stop w alcohol cause that shit destroys you.
I'd say your libido would be fine soon. Maybe look into a psychiatrist if things don't work out, it could be something subconscious.

Both. Cigs everyday (2 to 3), weed from time to time (once every 2 month).
I also don't exclude the psycological issues. I'm a very stressed out person. I worked on this for years and it's not nearly as bad as it used to be, but it's far from perfect.

you're gay user, just accept it and find a twink to enjoy.

Stress also fucks with libido. Maybe it's just stress from trying to be perfect?

>Bi maybe
wow you're totally gay. good job OP, you're a fag

Nah. Male body disgust me, but I'm curious.

Might be linked to that. feelsbad. At least if I can restore libido it might not be a problem. I feel like being horny is more powerful than stress.

how can a male body disgust you and be curious at the same time?? Your answer should be "nope, i don't want to either penetrate a man's asshole or get penetrated by a man". When you say I'm curious, that totally means that you want one of the two. My money is the latter, because you're a fag. Mystery solved. Fag.

how can you be so interested in a man's sexuality and not be gay at the same time?? Your answer should be "hey, maybe you are gay maybe not, who cares, you do you". When you want to know so much you might actually be gay. My money is the latter, because you might actually be a fag. Mystery solved. Fag.

Seriously, don't talk about me like that, you don't know me you psycho. I have no idea if I'm bi, gay, hetero, and who cares. Girls turn me on, that's all that matters. Now take your gay assumptions fetish and shove it right up your ass.

you bit hard fag lol

you wish lol, fuck off, nobody cares about your pathetic attempt at humor

It's just stage fright, my dude.

You've been dreaming of that moment for years and years and when it finally happens, you get so nervous it scares the dick away. Step away for a sec, take a piss or get some cold water on your face, just something to calm you down. Then, go back in, make out some until you're golden, then go for it.

You've just got to get the jitters out, essentially.

hey bro could you please tell me how big is your dick

Average, around 15cm (sorry americans)

Will try. The girl is pretty chill, we will probably see each other soon for some more.

No. You should go see a doctor for your erectile dysfunction.

>tfw OP is gay and hasn't come to terms with it yet
Also, how do you manage to lose your virginity without getting a boner? Was her pussy that loose or did he fuck you in the ass?

Do you know how to read lol?

> I almost lost my virginity 2 weeks ago

OP is in the closet fag and made a thread to make anons online think hes straight.

Take a dick OP, be honest with yourself.

Didnt have that issue with my first girlfriend, but with my current one I've had a few instances of ED early on because of either stage fright, being self conscious about roommates in the living room next to us, or just being self conscious about early ejac during a few weeks of mary j withdrawal. As a virgin, I would assume its just stage fright psyching you out so either relax or have a couple drinks. Also cigs do cause ED sometimes, but I say its not the bigger issue here