Be 22

>Be 22
>Never had a girlfriend
>Never had sex
>Never been kissed
>Never had any girl show the slightest of interest
Should I just give up and resign myself to a life of loneliness, drugs and porn?
Anyone in a similar situation?

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If you work on yourself, people will flock to you. Especially women. It'll feel really fake when it happens user but there will be some sense of satisfaction. Hit the gym and get a good job. You'll see how a little discipline is so attractive to everyone else.

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Slavic-altai are beautiful

I go for a jog every night, and have done so for a handfull of years, so my body is alright. I do take care of myself, have proper hygiene etc. I also have a pretty decent job I've had since I was 17. I'm not even retarded in social situations or around women.
Even so I've never had a girl like me, or come on to me. I've asked out two girls in my life and both reacted by breaking all contact with me and seeing me as a creep.
I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong here.

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Wrong pic, my bad.

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You have just described my life.

I guess the thread is dead.

It sucks doesn't it. I just want to love someone. Care for someone else more than myself, no matter how cheesy it sounds.
I want to live for someone else than just my worthless ass. I want a better half.

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come on OP lets see a pic

DERS GOTTA BE SUMBODY 4 ME OUT DEEEEER!!!

A little.
But what hurts more, most friends just found someone recently. It is not jealousy, it's rather the feeling that I am doing something wrong

No bully pls.
Im baked at the moment so I look like a zombie.

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Not that bad.

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Thanks bruv.

How about relationships with other people? Do you find it difficult to talk to others?

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You have it made, OP. You have a roof over your head. You have food and water. You have the one thing you'll ever need: your own mind.

Why do you want a girl? Don't measure your social value by how much pussy you've acquired. Chances are, no one cares. But don't let that demoralize you, you should only care about what the world thinks of you when you're trying to get a job or find friends, but even so, you already have everything you need.

Food, water, shelter. You've got those? Cool, now be happy you have it. You could be on the streets begging for change. Fuck everyone else. The only company you need is your own.

ive never been rejected and been asked out 11 times and still a virgin, the amount of effort and time you have to put in just to get laid isnt even worth it considering they just put out to better looking guys that dont have to put in the effort at all

Not really. I just nod my head and tell them whatever they wanna hear. I guess I don't care much about daily chatter or being social, so I gotta take the blame for kinda isolating myself.

Yea that's what I tell myself on a regular basis when feeling lonely.

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cut your hair, stop wearing depressing colors (black, dark blue, etc...), listen to happy music, work out, and tinder

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Is that you in the pictures Op?

Loose the hat n gloves...ur not bad looking dude... plenty of girls...single sites...speed dating....

>Should I just give up and resign myself to a life of loneliness, drugs and porn?
>Anyone in a similar situation?

Wait, what? This isn't normal?!

Yeah I am kinda the same man. I am just used to the thought that I will die bitter and alone.

the whole "emo" look has to go, i mean seriously, fingerless gloves? start dressing a bit more your age, instead of some middle schooler who barely discovered my chemical romance or whatever that shit is. people always judge a book by its cover so you have to change your appearance enough so that you look approaching and presentable. once you have all that shit down, you should be good to go

Why not try your luck in E-Sports?
Start playing Dota 2, CS:GO, League of PayToWin Legends, Starcraft or anything?
You might still be a kissless virgin, but at least you will have money and be happy?

I'm 34 and in the exact same situation. Never had a relationship, virgin, get ignored by women. It doesn't get easier, by the way.

Not even what I was going for lmao, but yea I see your point. Never gave a shit what I wore, just buy the cheapest and comfiest clothes that doesn't make me look like a complete bum.

become a trap
you'll get laid in no time

league is p2w now?

you're honestly a pretty good looking guy user. splurge on yourself a little and I imagine you'll like yourself a lot more than you do now, and ladies would become a lot more attracted to you. sorry if i was a bit harsh before, im honestly trying to help :)

it has always been
a small advantage, but an existing one

Doesn't it means you are submissive?
Are you able to start conversation, not just be in one?

Personally, i just started to change my life. Since last December i have lost 15kg of weight.
And change cloths to some more good looking - that now i look average.
Ofc it didn't change anything itself, however one thing i have noticed girls are not instantly looking at me.

I am still at university, there was not an option to avoid talking to others, but i always were submissive, newer tried to changed anything in conversation, never tried to keep it longer than it was necessary (to everybody, not just girls).

A few months ago, as i forced myself to talk to others (mostly girls because of obvious reasons) a little longer. Changing topics to more personals not related with studies - some of them stared to noticed me.
A month ago first of them instead of saying bye hugged me. Next week some others did same thing.

I am not trying to say, that i am better than you, but there were only two things that changed, my appearance and a little more self confidence. I guess the second one was more important.

Tl;dl: Talk to others, for the beginning not try to get girlfriend, try to get more natural with others, more convenient.

what advantage?

This is complete bullshit. I did this and didn't notice a difference. I now drive around in a luxury car but still get nothing from women.

is this a fucking bait?
what if you dress like a fucking man?

I had a girlfriend in my early 20s. It kinda sucked tbh. Because a relationship isn't just having someone to be with so you don't feel lonely. There are sacrifices to be made to have a healthy relationship.

You might want to just chill out and play video games, but what if they want to go out? What if they want to watch a shitty movie? What if they want to go on a trip to someplace you don't give a fuck about? You have to balance your selfishness against your loneliness.

I eventually decided loneliness wasn't so bad if I didn't have to put up with the upkeep and maintenance of a relationship.

>i have noticed girls are not instantly looking at me.

i have noticed girls are not instantly STOP looking at me.*

Well to have a maxed out League of Legends account, it costs shitton of money. While in Dota 2, you can play any hero you want (just they added a bullshit restriction for new players to play the 20 easiest heroes for the first 25 games to discourage smurfing), and runes and masteries do not exist in Dota.

Same situation. And to make it worse I have no friends. I don't know how I would cope if it wasn't for the internet. Just alone and depressed. Life is all about luck. And we were fucked since the beginning

>both reacted by breaking all contact with me and seeing me as a creep.
Same happened to me. I wasn't even coming on to her. I felt bad and saw a post about making someone else feel happy so I tried to do that. She thought I was trying to come on to her and haven't talked to her in 3 years now.

At 22? No
Come back in 18 years and ask again

Personally ill take drugs porn and video games over a woman anyday.

How about this, next time you meet a girl that seems nice, ask her out.
As stupid as it is, you're not gonna get anything if you're not actively trying to get it.

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Continuing:
Getting shot down is not a reason to give up. If they're gonna be assholes about it and not even give it a shot, then fuck em.

yeah, no, you're full of shit
every champion in league can be unlocked by playing for free

Lose the beanie, and gloves. Maybe change up your style but you're not a bad looking guy tbh

Don't listen to this guy. I have tried that and I get the "I have a boyfriend" or "I'm married" lines. I once got "oh, I have a boyfriend, and I'm engaged".

I once got an ok. Went out a few times. Instead starting seeing a married man on the side and let me know we were just friends.

Who is this girl? I've seen her before she's cute. Is she white and asian?

time is not free

no, I don't feel I deserve anything from anyone. I'm not anyone's type. I know that. I'll just wait until someone decides to settle. Or I'll just keep up with the hookers. Its not so bad.

as you enjoy playing it is free

i literally quit League of Legends because i saw how much time i needed to unlock some heroes

Lol, you tried it and got honest answers, and even an ok, but don't do it because all hot girls are already in relationships? stupid fuck.

>tries twice
>gives up forever

Fix your shit, user.

Try not looking like a Beяnie supporter.

Get a real haircut and wardrobe. Fucks sake.

They weren't honest. One girl later hooked up with another coworker. So much for her husband.

Just pay one 8000 to fuck you. At the price you know they're clean.

She is too cute to exist.

Maybe you should stop posting random girls pictures and start thinking about a solution to your problem

The main problem with girls nowadays, is that the young ones (18-25 yrs old) think they arent 'ready' for a relationship and that they need to have 'fun in life first xD', unless they meet a rich Chad Thundercock.

Once they hit 30 they realize their mistake and hopelessly search for rich, handsome men, but lost the peak age of their beauty.

not being able to start conversations isn'T called submissive

>Why do you want a girl?

not him, but it would be nice to have someone care about you, someone to talk to

Lower your standards and you will succeed. Even ugly freaks like you can find other creatures to love

Same, but 23 instead. I have resigned too. But instead of drugs, I have videogames and wrestling.