Hey Sup Forums kinda need some help. And here's kind of a greentext

Hey Sup Forums kinda need some help. And here's kind of a greentext
>be me
>be gymbro
>go from fatty to /fit/ in half a year
>mid progress meet a chic and hook up at an academic party
>we get each others number, shes a 5/10 at best but i was a virgin loser by then
>we talk through the summer and hook up
>i get fitter and more social
>friends think i never talked to the chic again
>fast forward about 5 months and we start "officially" dating
Cont?

Bump

>we start to get a lot more emotional
>i go through a hard time and she helps me push forward
>in the meantime i go to more parties with same college friends, meet more girls cuz now im actually kinda attractive
>am about a 7.5/10, 8/10 at my best (kinda look like a not as buff johny sins)
>get some attention from girls, some really hot, like 8's and 9's
>dont give a fuck cuz i was kinda, in the heat of the moment, in love with previous chic
>now things died down, i realize she is kind of a lazy slob, contrary to my active personality
Now is when it gets juicy. Cont?

Bump

>go out after a soccer practice with friends
>they just been smoking some joints and left some for me, but they are already moderately high
>they bring along a chic that as been in our group for a party or two, barely talked to her while sober
>she was the least high, but still a bit
>2 of the 3 other guys kinda get gay when they r high and the remaining guy, the chic and me just laugh and make fun of them
>3rd guy joins the orgy
>left alone talking about where to go, we agree on a shisha smoking place
>the 5 of us go there and my friends keep trying that me and her engage in conversation or some shit
>we do, we get to talk about more personal shit, tastes etc.
>the others just almost fall asleep cuz weed wuz shit
>during our talk i realize this chic is awesome, kinda want to hook up but have gf
I think i have feelings for previous girl, but this one is so awesome, wwyd Sup Forums?

> fuck her
It's your chance to become an alpha

moar

Ah man I've been here. That steak you're looking ate may look delicious compared to the lasagna you have now, but don't forget...that stake might be filled with shit.

Just test the waters for now. Be smart you know what to do.

Im going to another party with those guys on tuesday and she will probably come along.
But i kinda dont want to cuck my gf. We never been in a fight or anything and both supported each other, always. Worst part is, the very first thing she heard me say (drunk but still honest) was "betraying your partner is fucking worst then murder" to one of those guys who was planning on doing the same.
So im divided as fuck..

Thanks bro, kinda what i needed to hear... lets just hope i dont get too drunk and high on that party...

It's best to just talk to your gf about the things you don't like about her. Try to get her to go the gym. If she doesn't wanna do it give her little hints that you're looking at other women who are fitter. If she doesn't do anything after offering her to better her life and showing her that you want more then there's nothing that you can do. Some people get complacent with their lives.

Ok got a similar
>rewind a month or so
>first time going to a party with her friends
>they do a warm up party (dinner) with beer pong and all that cool shit
>that party is 90% females, medicine student... so gr8 pussy
>only 3 guys, me, one of the girl's bf and another dude
>i play beer pong and help make the drinks with dude while gf kinda hosts the party
>we get each other a bit drunk before beer pong (about 4/10), just tipsy
>we team up for beer pong
>other team is two hotties, like an 8 and a solid 10
>10, lets call her J, she has gr8 ass and even better tits, big and round
>during the game she keeps bending over the table to throw and always turns ass to me when picking it of the floor
Cont?

She does, but its only does bullshit classes that chics and milfs go... she was kind of a land whale before we met. Now shes not that bad, just pudgys but with zero ass and tits. Its just in the physical attractiveness that she lacks... but getting atention from others is so fucking tempting

cont you cunt :D

why don't you offer her to train with you? That way you can do exercises that give her a fatter ass.

Hows the sex life?
If everything is good in the bed you shouldn't even look at other girls. Just because a girl has huge ass and titties doesn't mean the sex is going to be amazing and it also doesn't mean she'll be down all the time.

post pics

Man I went through a similar situation, except the last girl just got mega fat and the new one would to the gym with me. I’d say just do what I did break up with the girl and go for the new one

>she keeps doing these things, and when she talks to me she always giggles and shit
>gf is nowhere to be found, game ends and me and bro go watch a soccer game that was on
>she eventually sits in the middle of us and fakes interest in the match
>they (all the girls) were going to get enrolled in a seminar or something related to the medicine course (all in same course) and she had her cell charging and asked to use mine
Sure...
>she enrolls and i get distracted, she starts going thru music and shit
>tells me she liked the same kind of music in a flirty way
>dontcare.gif
>she gets to the images ans sees those related to this website and board...
>mfw
>she starts asking shit related to the pictures like traps stuff and wojacks and shit
>it hits me... i try to make up stories and excuses for the pics...
>she tells me to not worry, she also uses this hell hole...
>we have a laugh about it, she keeps being flirty and shit thru the night
>we leave to the party, its about a 20 min drunk walk (we were all pretty drunk by then)
>midway she "forgets her cell"
>they live in a shady zone so someone has to go with her
>i say nothing, she asks me to come with her
>i refuse but gf says that i am the only one capable of intimidating anyone
"WTF, DONT U SEE WHATS HAPPENING?!"
>she says she trusts me
Gonna cont

i dig where this is going

Yeah gf is obviously in on it don't trust her.

She uses Sup Forums too. That's a double negative.

No pics, sry.
I offered, she refuses to go to machines or anything only wants to do cardio and group classes. Plus we go to different gyms.
The sex is ok. She loves it, but it is not crazy, she just kinda lays there and i do all the work... we only do missionary and cowgirl cuz "she doesnt like anything else", ocasional handjob as foreplay... never got the succ tho...
It could be a lot better i think

>shejus tkinda lays there and i do all the work
>"she doesnt like anything else"
>ocasional handjob as foreplay
>never got the succ tho

Yeah, no dump her. Just have her as a friend because she's helped you out and shit. Sex gets alot better than that and I wouldn't say dump her if she wanted to at least try shit. Like come on hoe you're 5/10 you got to have one other redeeming quality other than your kindness.

I'm waiting for ya

>we talk on the way back to gf's house
>i barely say anything cuz embarassed and thought this was a test by gf
>she talks about /fit/ and Sup Forums related shit, kinda loosens me to talk more
>we get there, she goes to the room where the cell phone is
>stresses out cuz not finding it, calls me to help look for it
Seentoomanyporn.jpeg
>know where this is going
>get there, she is on all 4's and sticking her ass out
Whataview.docx
>i kinda get stunned by it
>"like what u see?"
>enter full stress mode, and try to "look for the phone" than was on top of the bed
>give it to her, she grabs my arm and pulls herself close to me, throws me onto the bed
>shits getting hot, she climbs on top, im trying to get out but she just keeps pulling me in
>my instincts give up when she takes her shirt off
Ihaveseenthefaceofgod.pptx
>i regain my senses and am able to stop her
>she insist, she says that it would be our "dirty little secret"
>i refuse
>we collect our stuff
>walk back is awkward and shit
>party is kinda awkward, she keeps gropping me and flirting
>end of night, gettting home with gf, ask if it was somekind of a test
>it wasnt
>get in bed to sleep, but wanna get sum with gf
>mfw she's on her period...

How am i supposed to dump her and keep her as a friend?! This aint those movies n shiet

Lmao on her period? Wtf....you just said another woman tried to have sex with you.

You also don't want that skank bitch that is trying to have sex with you.

Just let ol girl go. She's gotten complacent with you. She doesn't even worry about you having sex with another woman lul.

No succ? Id be fuckin gone man. Ive gltten succ from every girl ive ever been with ...its a given

do not "cuck" your gf.. you will regret it, i have heard of this through the grapevine mah frand. if you are feeling this, then that means this serious relationship you are in, needs to maybe be talked over..

Shiiiiit... am i missing out on that gr8 of a thing... it is one of my fetishes

talk it over? theres nothing to talk over? his gf, while being a supportive person, is a heap of garbage. She is fat and ugly and doesn't even give the succ. Yeah she's a nice person but you don't ever wanna be with a person just because they are "nice" because you'll cheat with someone you are sexually attracted to sooner or later.

Get another gril my man. Urs isnt any good. Im like a 5-10 too, i find no succ a crazy thing to deal with

Sure emotional support shit is great and all and breaking up with someone is hard; but in your own words shes a 5/10 at best, a lazy slob, and the sex sounds fucking awful. This is your prime, don't waste it.

I didnt say that the other chic wanted to fuck. Just asked this: "when u sent me with J back to the apartment... was it some kind of a test?"
She responds: "what kind of test?!"
Me: "fidelity or some shit"
Her: "What?! Of course not! Did something happen?!"
Me: "no, no. Just asking cuz anyone could have gone with her"
Her: "yeah but u know this area better then us and it havent even got to my mind that u would do anything. I trust u"

Theres 2 different people sharing thier own stories my dude

if you have feelings for another woman, then the feelings you have for this other person, are not as strong as you thought, act now; do you really want to do this?! this is about his relationship, just break up with her if it aint right


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The hardest part is that she endure me when i was down... like really down... i was about to "run from home", was gonna give up on my family and college, go to the army. My dad was thinking about leaving home, and i had to talk a full day with my parents to solve the situation. She supported me when i was that bad and emotionally unstable. I have said things to her that a kinda dont regret but maybe said that in the heat of the moment. Havent said "i love you" or any of that shit, so... it aint all bad

Look idk if you understand because you were a virgin fag, but any girl would have said no have one of the other guys or she would have even offered to go with you guys.

>She doesn't respect your gains.
>She doesn't give any succ.
>She doesn't work out.
>No ass and no tits.
>Ugly.
>Bad Sex.
>she's nice.

wait srsly? The girl named J appears in both stories I thought.

OP here, no its only me sharing 2 stories

fucking liar

That's understandable, but you are not happy with her. You can't force yourself to stay with someone just because they helped you out of a tough spot. That's why I said either dump her or friendzone her.

if you haven't spit the love word yet then i think you are good 2 go if you feel that you could breathe easier after doing so

Its a bit confusing but there a 3 girls
The gf
J, that is just a thot i met once at that party
And then there is the awesome chic that i am kinda interested right now

I am not unhappy.
I just think i could be doing better.
And seeying interest from others is really hard to resist.


Im just afraid that i might be interpreting the interests wrong and might end up in a worse spot

...just make a t-chart of the pros of staying with gf and the pros of being free

Kek ok

Gf:
>support for bad moments
>guaranteed pussy
>smart and feels good when we are actually doing something other then just watching movies
>likes to party the same way as me
>kinda have feelings

Free fag:
>can join the hunt game again
>can go for any pussy i want
>no fear of being too drunk or high
>not having to spend so much time and money on one person

Now what?

now do the same for cons

Gf:
>all this
>we rarely do anything except occasionally going downtown for drinks
>chained to the same person
>wants to hangout a lot of time... which messes with my gym sessions (i am being a bit of a bitch on this one)

Free fag:
>no pussy guarantees
>no one to make me feel good when needed

and by worse spot what do you imagine or see?

i like that

>tfw no gf
>tfw back to jacking off like i was a virgin again

now weigh it out and look at what's more important for you right now and in the future.

Nigga, r u dr phil or some voodoo shit like that... thnx

dating sites N apps

nah I just feel like you're me but with gains for some reason.

Good luck, me.

Didnt even thought of that... but i don't think they r too popular in my coutry

Thanks, and if u r going thru the same, good luck to you...
Probably make an update thread tomorrow around midnight or 1 am GMT.
Gonna sleep now

Nah I took a vow of celibacy and swore off women.

Hopefully everything works out well. Goodnight.

oh you poor soul

>Im just afraid that i might be interpreting the interests wrong and might end up in a worse spot
once you get /fit/, the pool of choice widens because you have more to offer than just charm/being funny/..., girls start to throws themselves on you... you yourself started to experience it

one one hand you have a "nice" gf, that doesn't really fulfills you on the sex (only 2 positions, not even succ - i mean, i'm not keen on doing everything to a girl but if she has a kink for something i just average i'll still do it - sex is giving and taking - in real relationship at least anyway)
on the other hand, you would be free to ride whatever throws herself at you or you manage to catch without feeling bad for some gf

plus you wrote she helped you through hard times? that's something any decent friend would do; i've had my share of shits or morally supported others without expecting any gain from it, and most cases those friendships went astray (moved 300km away, lost touch, etc) but such is life... you don't stay with your gf simply out of sympathy because she is a morally good person if other sides of relationship are just not what they should be