Bored BDSM instructor willing to answer any Sup Forumsastards questions regarding sex and bdsm

Bored BDSM instructor willing to answer any Sup Forumsastards questions regarding sex and bdsm.

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is that a pretty good-paying job?

not really but it comes with a whole lot of benefits. ;)

what do you teach and where do you teach?

I teach all sorts of kinks ranging from the basics like scene negotiations, party etiquette, structuring a scene, and common body language lessons to the more advance stuff like knife, electricity, wax, fire, and heavy impact play.

is there a cert for this?
How does one get into this sort of thing?

the fucks a scene negotiation?

>ITT: a guy who watched a kink.com porn and pretends to be an "instructor"

Hey user. Gf wants me to put my boots through her teeth. How the fuck do you arrange a scene for that?

Which way to the Merovingian party from the matrix?

There are but most instructors are people who are given recognition in their initial community. I learned everything I have from other masters and my skill were recognized after 3 years of devotion towards teaching a community.

Scene negotiations are essentially the planning phase before you do anything kinky. So you would talk to your play partner(s) and ask some questions like
>what kind of kink do you want to play with?
>what are you limits in regards to pain, sex, verbal, etc?
>any medical conditions?
>etc

It's so no one gets hurt and consent is clearly given.

Is 'BDSM instructor' your vocation, or your avocation?

Nothing ugly just a reverse gang Bang with European women

depends what city you're in? you have better luck finding a party like that in a major city. Every major city usually has one Alt night club for people to go to.

Instructor? And you are the one chained up?

oh. that makes sense.

I meant something classy. And clean. And European. With women. Absolutely no black people no cucks

more vocation then avocation. It's not my main job but it's definitely something I take just as seriously. very few people can make a entire living off of bdsm.

stories man let us know the funniest stories you have m8

random photo i googled. I don't have permission from my models to randomly post them to Sup Forums. lol

if you're looking for a party like that then you're best bet is going to burning man or any of the major EDM festivals in Europe.

My gf and I are beginning to get into bondage kind of early in our relationship because she likes to be tickled so we thought it'd be fun to tie her down and she seems to enjoy it. Now I'm wondering if there are any other soft bondage ideas I could throw in to make our experiences a bit more fun?
Something soft that I can introduce over the next few days, or maybe Christmas.

I have one that's Sup Forums worthy.

I was at a dungeon in Dallas one night just as a patron. The night went by pretty uneventful until a man comes in with black makeup box and a basic hazzard suit. I didn't really give him any thought because I've seen weirder play equipment before.

The guy walks straight into a empty private room and shuts the door behind him. An hour passes and the DM (dungeon monitor) knocks on the door to ask the man to leave the room. The DM opens the door after hearing no response and I heard a grown man scream in terror. The whole building rushed to check out whats going on.

Apparently the guy had a very particular fetish for having a suit filled with live crickets inside.The look on this guy face was full of bliss and the fact that we caught him must of pushed him over the edge because he came right there in front of every one.

One of the other DM can by escorted the guy off the premise. The night was ended short because not only was the atmosphere dead but crickets were all over the place. The DM who screamed was still in shock and this guy is a vet of 10+ years in the community apparently.

what do you consider "soft"?

oh god, I think I just threw up a little bit in my mouth.

How often do you do scene negotiations?

Me and my gf just sort of say one of us is in charge for a day or two and wing it without talking about exactly what we're going to do before hand.

How do you stop scene negotiation ruining the fun and making it too predictable and boring?

Well, we're both just beginning at this. And being a guy on Sup Forums I've seen more than my share of porn but that shit is way to much to put on a girl and there's no way in Hell I'd do anything like that to her. So like, no pain unless it was light spanking. She said she didn't want blindfolds just yet because she was still trying to find comfort in it. So I don't really know.

I would say do it for a while until you both have a good grasp on what the other persons needs/wants/limits are. if you ever want to change something or explore then do scene negotiation. rinse repeat. The whole purpose is to make sure everyone is on the same page and consent is clearly given.

after a couple of times you can have negotiations like you would have phone sex.
>Dom-"I want to pin you against the wall and fuck you raw with my hand around you neck."
>Sub-"I would love it if you choke me while kissing me deeply"

that kind of thing is good at setting things up.

These creepy faggots shove frogs up their ass.

Cuck shit from faggots. It stopped being Fuck ing with handcuffs a long time ago

It's one thing to see a photo or a video or someone doing that but to see it in person is a another level of surreal.

mind-break is my biggest fetish but i fear it only really exists in hentai. have you seen anything like it?

>surreal
Mate you spelled disgusting wrong

sensation play would be a thing to consider, temperature play is another option, wax could be one but it would depend on her tolerance for pain.

Oh it definitely exists. It what is considered an edge play and isn't something newbies should go into without first knowing all the risks and draw backs from that kind of play. how a person gets there can range from person to person but most often then not it's based around humiliation and degradation.

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I kind of get the gist of temperature play. With ice cubes and things of the like, but could you give me a run down of sensation play? Sounds interesting.

I like getting bitten particularly on the tip of my cock it feels great and it helps to keep me from cumming quickly, whenever i look into anything like this it usually has fem-dom attached, its funny to me because I am much more a bull in sexual situations

As for bdsm i dont care for safe words in fact im much more criminal minded and could care less for the shit safely

essentially you are playing with your partners sense of touch. stuff like trailing a finger down a body, brushing them with a dog's brush, messages, anything touch related can be considered sensation play.

I know quite a few subs and switches that do the exact same thing. fem-doms are definetly more likely to do it without talking about it but if you're with a sub who likes to make their dom happy then you should tell her that you like it. She will probably do it just because she likes seeing you enjoy yourself.

Oh, then she loves that kinda stuff. I trail my fingers down her back and stuff like that. She's very sensitive to touch. So maybe I'll play with that a little more.
For that reason I'd like to stay away from pain oriented play and more on relaxation and pleasure.

I would recommend a wartenberg pinwheel. It's an awesome sensation tool and one of my favorites.

favorite tool?

My all time favorite would either my flogger or my violet wand.

That's cool, I'll have to look for either a super cheap one or something I can use in its place. Do you think you'd know the average price of one of those wheels?

$10-25 it varies based on the number on wheels and the design.

Thanks a lot. Hopefully you'll be on here often, user. This is a cool thread and I've had some ideas.

A few questions, what are munches really like? I read about them on FetLife, but I see only like 4 people say they are going. It would be awkward even though I'm in a popular City. Seattle btw.
Next, for electric play would you recommend a Nova wand for a starter in electric play? I like 9 volts on my tongue, so I think I will like it.
Last question, how does everyone treat younger members. I'm 22 but could pass as a senior in highschool

nyc play party producer here - curious where you are based?

BDSM instructor AKA guy that's watched a lot of porn and started a thread on Sup Forums

How much do you hate EL James?

sometimes breaks the skin. potential safety issue if you aren't careful.

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I move around quite a bit because of my job. I been based out of Seattle, Dallas, Austin, and Phoenix. I'm not going to say where I am currently due to privacy.

why watch when you can make?

I appreciate the fact that she made bdsm less taboo but I fucken hate her for poisoning the mind of a generation on what bdsm is about.

How much is it for fisting ?

he seems like he's into the leather lifestyle and is into high protocol kind of play environment

me fisting you or you fisting me?
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you fisting me

free if I can use you for a demo on fisting 101.

Op, any suggestions for a beginner male to dress for a play party?

depends on the play space. some places have high protocol while most others are extreme casual events. You can never go wrong with a dress shirt and slacks or jeans and a tshirt.

about 90% of all the spaces I been too are wear street legal to the door and whatever you want once inside.

Thanks

Can you engage in bdsm with a partner without one of you being a sub? Just engage with the hardware?

What would you say is a reasonable age to start practicing

my safeword is chocolate whippedcream

What's the most you've ever spent on a toy and what was it? Was it worth it?

what is the proper way to choke? love the idea of it but dont wanna hurt my babygirl

If you dont wanna hurt her dont fucking do it faggot.

>I want to choke her but I don't want to hurt her

Pick one

I want a girl to abuse and humiliate me but bdsm seems like it's based too much on having permission to do something, I just want her to do it without asking if she's gone too far.

Don't choke her hard dipshit.

Women like being choked, stop being a faggot.

Am I going to die alone as a 30 year old bi male kitten? I have no outward feminine qualities.