I know this girl, she's pretty young, she just became 18, i'm 25. I have the bad habit of putting to much effort and love into relationships, i fall in love and dedicate myself very easily. >be me (25) >find superhot girl (18!!) >i work and live about about 300 miles away >met her when i was visiting family >she spent some time over in my city >i have the habit of dedicating myself to my girl >put effort, money, love, time, thoughts into it >i know she's far away and probably making out with some dudes in some bars >i know the sex is hot and it probably can't be anything long-term
how do i stop myself from falling into love with her? just atm, she's in some bar, she sees my messages, but she's not writing, i'm trying to shake it off, i know it can't be anything serious how the fuck do i stop myself from feeling too much?
help me Sup Forums, i'll dump my Sophie Kitten folder in the meantime
Lower your standards, or better yet, don't have standards at all. Unless you have something they want you can't expect girls like that to be committed to you so falling in love with them is like falling in love with a celebrity. Why don't you try something more attainable? Casually browse tinder for someone to fuck and see where it goes from there.
Andrew Bennett
I'm the same way man, I think it helps when you tell them straight out how you are and what your intentions are. They'll probably shoot you down and say they're not looking for anything serious, when they do, you'll feel bad for a few days but it's better than thinking about what ifs.
Logan Nguyen
nah she tells me she wants something long term but i know it's shit i just want to not-fall-in-love there has to be a mantra of some sort or an exercise to train that
you mean lower your standards like "don't look for a long term relationship"? i'm hoping to achieve that but i don't seem to be that kind of personality maybe i should try cuckolding (nah)
Kayden Murphy
i'll just keep going a little
Adam Jones
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Christopher Jackson
Sounds like you aren't jaded enough yet. Let this relationship destroy you so you can get you a set of armor.
Carter Hall
Keep going nigga
Sebastian Garcia
>i'm 25. acts like a 13yo girl
man up faggot
Nicholas Gutierrez
This
Jose Phillips
tell me how you fucking piece of shit
Gabriel Wilson
explain this to me please i haven't been lurking for a while
Owen Rodriguez
Op is a fucking beta faggot
Colton Gray
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Ayden Butler
Basically one shitty relationship will cure you of this if you are a quick learner.
Andrew Cook
i don't fucking care about you calling me a beta, actually, i think that too, but my gf looks fucking alpha and that's what counts, because i fucked her. however, this is about "how to be a chad" and i don't fucking know how to not be a beta. so tell me, what do i have to do to let her fuck around, and invite her over for my own pleasure, without thinking about her dicking around with others
Kevin Reyes
nope, i had some, that doesn't help, i need actual advice, i can't change unconsciously, i need to know what to do and do exactly that
Connor Wood
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Levi Brown
Distract yourself op. You got many Friends?spend Time With Them. Girls don't like this clingy Behaviour anyway. Have nice hollidays and don't let it bother you
Ayden Rogers
This is the key dude. Go outside, go somewhere with your friends and u will forget her
