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I got my dick sucked for the first time today. The girl did a great job (I think) but after like 10 mins i still wasn't even feeling anything. Even when I tried to beat it for a bit I still got nowhere. Has this happened to anybody else. Is this my fault or is it something she did.
BTW I'm not here to brag that I got my dicked sucked or that I last long, I just need some advice

It's not your fault, it's her's. Anyone who really wants a nut in their mouth should be able to get it in under 10 minutes.

Regular masturbation made your dick desensitized. You have to live with it.

Yea it's happens to me before as well it takes ages to cum from a blowjob

I think it's kinda normal, I have never really been able to nut from a bj unless I can fuck her throat, I think that may have something to do with my size down there as if a girl has a gag reflex she's not getting far past the head.

This isn't her first time doing it, she was surprised as well

plenty of people have a hard time cumming from blowjobs. it doesnt always feel that good unless youre really into it.

Are you circumcised?

>is this my fault
Yes it is. It all started when you or your parents decide to mutilate your penis. Have fun not feeling a thing from a woman's mouth down there for the rest of your life. Faggot

Yes

That explains it

Some girls are experts at this but MOST are not even if it isn't their first time..

May as well have been right?
She's bad at it man, almost everyone who gets their cock sucked the first time doesn't nut. Wait until you start fuckin girls in their 20's things get better.

you're afraid to ejaculate in front of a girl. give it another go and you will be more comfortable

>Stop watching porn
>Stop burping your worm

You're desentisized as you don't find it as erotic as normal, and you've prpbably continually strengthened your grip as you jerk off. No womens mouth is going to be generating enough pressure to match a fist.

Just do something else imstead of watching porn. You'll be fine.

Congrats on getting your dick sucked though

Lol, I feel sorry for you people who blame yourselves for everything that goes wrong sexually.

You faggots realize you can fucking DESTROY a girl by telling her she's bad in bed?
The next time one tries to give you shit, watch her fucking crumble. Her ego will be gone, she will be in tears, and she will regret ever having told you anything other than "you're the best fuck in my life"

bunch of fuckin pussies, all of you.

I dated a girl who's blowjobs felt pretty good but never could make me cum (but easily when fucking). Then I got a BJ from an ex who I had been jerking off to for months and she made me cum so hard in a few minutes. Either the girl has to me the queen of dick sucking or you need to be extremely sexually attracted to her. That my take

Thanks man, but I dont even jerk off/ watch porn that much

That's what I was thinking, I'll have more chances with her

How many times per week?

Concentrate on Cumming that's what I do

Right now, once a week. But before I talked to her it was like 3 times a week if even

Troll toll

I've had head from at least 50 women.
Only 1 has ever made me cum.
Most women are shit at sucking dick but we still like it because our cocks are in a woman's mouth.

Fucking this.
I've been trying to tell OP from the start but the faggot keeps looking past my advice to feed his insecurities about it being his fault.

First time I received the succ, same thing happened. Wasn't gf's fault; it felt great. I just wasn't used to the feeling. Came the second time though

you probably masturbate too much

the first few times I had sex I couldn't even cum, and eventually I figured out that I was beating my meat too hard and too often, which kills your sensitivity. I think it's called "death grip" if you wanna look it up

thats the start of dick cancer

this happened to me too.
it's like your body (and brain) has to be trained that you can cum this way. for the first time you need a girl that is really willing to help you with this.
once you get the flow of it, even a bad cocksucking will suffice. And that's the reason, I am just guessing, why there are so many girls that really think they were brilliant at sucking dick when they are really not.

get sucked by a trap

also, cumming the first time you get a blowjob can be difficult because you're not used to sexual intimacy and get nervous

I just didn't think this was the case because she's done it before. She was just so disappointed she couldn't get me there.

not gay but i would have made that dick nut quicker than her no homo

good sex is about giving in and allowing things to just happen. The worst thing/combination is if both of you are sexually inexperienced and insecure.
which seems to be the case here.
She should not put pressure on you this way and you should just relax.

I'm 29, I've had my dick sucked by a couple dozen girls, and i have yet to cum from a traditional blow job. There have been a few who have let me fuck their faces, and i can cum that way. But no matter how good they are, I never cum just from them doing the work. So no, you arent alone bro

that could be my story.

Oh yeah you're hard shit

Hey everyone, look at this total fucking hunk of alpha male with a two foot dong and 10-lb galvanized steel balls. You're a treasure to the female gender, and the envy of the male.

Fucking twat

Look user either way it's better for your psyche to blame her.
I can tell you I never came from a bj when I was a teen, and it wasn't because I was nervous. It was because they were all terrible at giving head.

Trust me man, the first time you get someone who knows what they're doing it will change your entire outlook

I could only cum from the blowjob if I'm eating her out at the same time. Love pussy in my face.

Sounds like someone's been made fun of in bed recently.
Too bad you're too big of a pussy to do anything about it, you weak ass little bitch.

>Love pussy in my face.
me too.

Wise words.

That.. or you're the one on the receiving end of the hate

couldn't get him off hunny?

I can second this. Only one girls ever made me cum doing the work and even she only managed it one time and she basically had to face fuck herself.

let a real man suck you off. They know how to pleasure a cock better.

>ITT: faggots reassuring each other that it’s not their fault they aren’t attracted to women and can’t cum from her giving them head.

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BJs are boring. That's the way of the world. Nature did not intend for you to fuck a mouth

He's seen through my hardened facade.

I know, I'll insult his sexuality and try to make him insecure

Look mate, I feel genuinely sorry for anyone you've been with. They either left you because you're a right cunt or you degraded them to the point they wouldn't leave. You're a Hell of a big man aren't you?

she probably was shit then. On to the next

blowjobs are glorified, especially here. the truth however is, they aren't that great. it's a mind/dominance thing really but every handjob or anal beats em easily.

I am a heterosexual male

You jack off too much

I have the same problem

Acting tough is all I need to do to make you sperg? Kek

Please give me a few more paragraphs of whining before you leave.

Congratulations on being super gay.

Thanks for the advice man.

Not all people are the same. my very new fag-friend.
And it is true: most women give bad blowjobs until their reach some age around 30+.
And most men don't know how to enjoy it until they've recieved their first good blowjob.

There's probably a lot of things at play

First off, your dick isn't evolved to get off in a girl's mouth. It's evolved to get off in her vagina. The first time you stick it in the vag it'll feel like your semen is being vacuumed out of you. Getting off in a mouth is counter to reproduction and therefore not something evolution optimized for.

Second, if it was the first time you were probably self-conscious and thinking too much. This is an easy way to not get off. It's why something like 90% of guys don't get off the first time they have sex. They're too self-conscious. Modern society has made this a LOT worse. Instead of just exploring sexuality and enjoying it, you're constantly being judged and feel inadequate.

Third, most girls provide WAY too much, and too varied, sensation to actually get off. Getting off requires finding the "one spot" that feels right and constantly stimulating it until release. When you masturbate you may play with the shaft a bit at first, but eventually you get a rhythm down. Nutting her her mouth is the same. She needs to find that sensitive spot and just keep hammering the one spot over and over. Press her tongue into the good zone and bounce up and down without moving. Too many girls feel like if they don't change it up every 10 seconds, they're doing a bad job. So they'll suck for a bit, then lick for a bit, then move around for a bit, then change their tongue position, then adjust their lip pressure,... changing it this often means no orgasm for you.

Fourth, there may have been external factors making it harder. I know I can't get off when my girl is giving a blowjob unless she puts her hair in a ponytail. Otherwise it keeps scraping my legs and tickling me. Maybe there was music playing that distracted you. Maybe you were worried your neighbors would hear you. Orgasming requires concentration. Hard to do when you're distracted.

Or stop jacking off as much.

I was you once, it's all good

>10-lb galvanized steel balls.
fucking awesome.

Apparently your best defense is not to argue at all, that's probably best when you have shite opinions.

Seconded

Oh I'm sorry did you think I was taking you seriously? Because I'm not.

You gotta go hard, Sup Forumsro. Some girls don't have good technique.

I was like you, I couldn't cum from a bj to save my soul. Like maybe 3-4 times in my life. Then I started dating my current girl. You have to be active in it, too. Thrust back. All of the ball licking, head licking, shaft licking, ball sucking, etc is nice. But that is not helping you to nut. It sets the stage, but you need to quick and hard stimulation.

THe girl has to be cool with it and able to take, or you'll have a gagger on your hands. Get into a good rhythm and thrust back, just like you were fucking cowgirl. Because essentially that is what you are doing. Fucking her mouth.

Also, fantasize. If you're into loli (and you are because you are here), fantasize about it. Remember the stuff from your secret porn folder. It helps, believe me. I can cum everytime my girl goes down on me now.

Wanking too hard can cause insensitivity in the cock, making it harder to reach orgasm/ejaculation. A long no-fap season could return the sensitivity.
Circumcision also has similar effect, with no foreskin to protect the gland, it's in constant contact with your undies and legs, reducing sensitivity.

Get sucked off by a man. If that works we found the problem.

Same happened to me during my first time. For me, it was nerves.

For you, probably the lack of a finger in your ass. Everyone is different.

What a clever one you are

...

To be fair it actually is pretty clever.
Somehow I've kept you replying to me and even made you sperg a little.

You're getting bored because you can't offend me though, it looks like fun time is over );

sucks to be you faggot. sounds like you got a complex.. can't just lay back and let her get you off.. you want to be in control.

OP:

my first serious GF in high school started sucking me off .. she didn't have a lot of experience. the first few times felt nice but i didn't cum.. she wasn't really going for it though / trying to get me to cum. probably the 3rd time or after that, she figured it out, and got me off all the time after that. only a few times after that did she fail to, and that was only because i just wasn't into it at that particular time. this started when i was 15-16 and she was two years younger than me.. young bitches can definitely give good head, but it takes a little practice / learning for them if they aren't that experienced. my ex was definitely disappointed / heart broken when she didn't get me off.. she would get this sad puppy face and ask me "what did i do wrong" over and over lol.. was worth it to not cum just to fuck with her head lol coz she lied and cheated, but after i broke up with her, still wanted to fuck and suck me, so i would mess with her.. anyhow i have rambled enough.. give her a few more chances, relax and go for it.. if you're not that attracted to her / into her.. imagine the person you want the most while she's sucking you. i used to think about my ex's best friend all the time when she sucked me, her friend was 10/10

Stop porning, it has probably turned you into a voyeur.

Stop fapping for a few weeks at least, don't touch your dick unless you are pissing.
Practise with the girl, if she is your girlfriend, and keep practising.

Concentrate on the sensations, the warmth of her mouth or pussy, the smells, the sounds. Feel with your dick like you would with your finger.
If you have been gripping your dick too tightly while fapping for years, you might have desensitised the nerves. It may take quite some months for you to regain sensitivity.
Don't worry about it, and don't think about it.
Especially don't think or worry about it during, just concentrate on the feelings and sensations, in a passive way, like receiving a massage.
The more relaxed you are, the better.

Some of it will be nerves since it is your first time.
Relax and it will be more enjoyable.
Takes me half an hour sometimes, sometimes ten minutes.
Don't worry about it.

But there you are, nervously replying to his shit.

both of you suck, but not the good way, the thread-topic-related way

This may well be the best of the three sensible, meaningful advices for OP, if read here.

>nervously replying
>mentally asserting
>?? what's the difference I'm kind of stupid.

What exactly are you asserting other than "hurr durr made ya mad"

WHY are you replying? You are just as much of a pain in everybody ass here as him.

?, the girl you mean a grown woman , you must use safer words , or africans might start trouble ,.

Well I mean, obviously the hurr durr made ya mad part
but also the hurrdurr you can't make me mad part.

Well if I'm gonna go somewhere to be a pain in the ass, this would seem to be the appropriate place

Op here. Holy shit, this is a lot of information. I appreciate it

where you stressed or anxious?
The first few months with my GF I couldnt cum from sex and lasted for a full hour before giving up.

Those days are long gone.

Ah, a double victory. I'm sure you're proud

I am as a matter of fact. It brought the keks

You're taking this wayyy too seriously user.. just like he was.

Op here, thanks for the advice. I was a little worried, so I couldn't really focus on that stuff. I will try it the next time

I mean, I was a little worried. Mostly because it was in my house with my whole family downstairs

Aye but it is fun to angrily beat one another off

If the girl is not into it it turns me off. Some girls don't like to give head and I swear I can sense it. They have to suck like they mean it

There is something we can both agree on.

Cheers mate

Not even same fag, but a fellow emotional terrorist. This man has the right idea.

This, I couldn't come from anything but my own hand despite 2-3 girls trying a lot of times, then I stopped jerking it and after 2 weeks a girl made me cum for the first time without any help from me

if you arent getting anything from stimulation, you are thinking too hard about it, lie back and relax

either it's her or you. i had one girl suck me off she knew what she was doing. i think she sleeps around a lot, two daughters. i told her put some spit then i started humping her mouth. it felt good but she got away from me. the girls mom bitched me out telling me it's a hospital not a bar, have you and your friends go to the bar to pick up girls. one friend would just cockblock me and the other is gay.

Good luck, giving each other a massage beforehand helps you relax too.
Also after eating a small meal, make sure the room is warm, put on music and so on.

It means you're gay

Same here.

Luckily my new cutie asian gf likes to be skull fucked. So I can usually cum in 10-15 with her. Just grab her head and fuck her mouth as hard and fast as I want until I blow a load down her throat.

Because you might not get any serious responses, I'll be real with you. The first time I got a handy, or a beej, or had sex, I could not bust a nut at all. It was almost as if it took some time for my dick to understand what was being done to it

Had the same problem.. My problem was that after 19 years of not getting touched and at least six years of watching porn every other day I was so used to see something hot when I was horny...
But when she gave me a bj I was laying there with low lights without seeing anything, I wasn't used to that...
These days I always cum, I still need a while, but my gf luckily loves it