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kinda have some issues with this chick..

>be me
>be 22 y/o
>chilling at a bbq party cuz one of my friends is celebrating his bday
>sausagefest general
>been there for a few hours
>everyone starting to get kinda drunk cuz of the drinking games
>one mate suggests to go to a bar nearby
>it's like 12.30 am
>shit is dying at the party so i'm okay with this
>one other mate also wants to go
>going to the bar
>getting inside, it's like 1:00 am
>i'm ordering the first round
>while i do, i see my cousin going wild who is a few years older then i am
>decide to greet him since it's been a few months since i last spoke to him
>he sees me
>he is obvisously drunk af and says "HEY user, YOU ARE JUST THE PERSON I NEEDED"
>wtfisthis.jpg
>he drags me to some other place in the bar
>while we walk he whispers to me "i'm here with my gf and her bff and u gotta fix her"
>lets call the bff Ashley
>we get to his gf and Ashley and he pushes me into her
>awkwardly greeting each other and talking a bit
>she looks hot af and has huge boobs, it's like a 9/10
>after like 15 minutes i left to the bathroom to take a piss
>few moments later my cousin joins me and has this big smile on his face
>asks me what i think of Ashley
>told him she's really hot and i liked her
>he told me she's into me as well (kinda thought he was just saying that)
>allright let's continue this
>we get back to gf and Ashley
>i heard Ashley saying to the gf "he's so cute" just before i got back
>oh shit it's lit
>we just talked and danced a little for a while untill the 2 girls had to go to take a piss
>my cousin looks at me with this big ass smile again
>then he told me some more stuff about Ashley
>she has a bf
>he cheats on her and is on drugs very often
>my cousin and his gf told me she deserved so much better and wanted her to cheat on him with me
>i didn't really fking care so whythefucknot
>she comes back from the bathroom
>we danced and eventually made out
>suddenly it's like 3:30 am

>they decided to head home
>my cousin and Ashley decided to stay the night at his gf
>i walked along with them cuz they were getting food
>suddenly remembered i had to work at 8 in the morning and i was really shitfaced at that point
>told my cousin i was going home and he called me a faggot
>fk you i'm out
>on my way home i got a phonecall
>unknown number
>had a feeling it would be Ashley
>i pick up
>'hello....user? Your cousin gave me your number...'
>she asks me why i left
>told her i was tired and had to work in the morning
>she sounded kinda sad but i just really wanted to go to sleep at this point so i hang up.

>waking up at like 7:30 am
>ohgodmyhead.jpg
>checking my phone
>Ashley sended me a text at 6:30 am about how i really hurt her that night
>wtf?
>just made something up why i left so suddenly
>told her i got sick and was too manly to tell them and just left
>she understands and decides to drop it
>the next week we just kept talking a lot by text about so much random stuff (not about her bf tho)

FFW 1 week

>so we talked a lot and i really began to like this girl since we have some same interests and stuff
>got the feeling she is really into me as well
>decide to watch a movie together at my place
>it's some kind of chick movie but wtf do i care?
>she would be here around 12 noon
>stressing about what i should wear and show in the house, i just didn't want to fk this up
>she texted me she arrived
>opened the door
>what a goddess
>greeted her and kissed her
>showed her around the house and stuff
>we go up to my room
>already prepped the movie and shit
>we started talking on my bed
>told her i had to leave for another party at 4
>we kept on talking about some random stuff
>suddenly its 1.5h later
>i suggested to put on the movie
>she agrees
>we lying on my bed next to each other watching this crap movie
>after some time she started holding my hand
>obviously some signal
>we started cuddling, not much more
>movie ends
>talked some more and then it was already 4ish
>told her i had to leave in a bit, friend was picking me up
>she understands and we walked to the front door
>we said goodbye and i kissed her for a minute or so
>my friend drived by and saw us
>she left
>my friend picked me up and asked me who that was with that big smile
>told him she might be my gf soon as we drove to the party

FFW 1 week

>we still texted about random stuff
>told her i really liked her but wanted her to get rid of her bf first
>she went to talk to him in the weekend
>then she completely ignored everything i said on text for 2 straight days
>asked my cousin and his gf what's up
>they didn't know either, she was ignoring them as well
>got kinda angry since the last thing she said was that she would go talk to her bf
>thinking he was abusing her or some shit
>then suddendly monday morning she texted me "goodmorning

>i kinda ignored them cuz i wanted to really be with her after and only if she would break up with Scrooty McBoogerballs
>then shit went completely silent

FFW 1 month

>didn't hear from her for about a month
>still thought about her sometimes
>it's friday evening but didn't really plan anything
>it's 8:30 pm and i was taking a dump
>my cousin messages me and asked me if i wanted to go drinking at his gf's house
>"we are just gonna drink and then might go to a bar after" he said
>"Ashley is here as well"
>my heart started to raise and i was immediately interested
>he told me they were talking about inviting me at theirs
>When Ashley heard my name she immediately replied: "is user coming??"
>he told me she was really excited to see me and he told her to text me
>she was too scared to do so, saying i hated her for sure
>anyway i told him i would be there in an hour.

FFW 1 hour

>arrived at her house and saw Ashleys car already parked
>oh shit she is really here
>stared getting nervous since i didn't talk to her for over a month
>i went inside her house and there was Ashley, standing in the middle of the room looking at me
>my cousin and his gf were smoking outside apparently
>she greeted me and hugged me
>she started asking how i've been and shit
>then she told me she really missed me on which i didn't reply
>she also told me she didn't want to hurt me since her life is a mess right now...
>sure

>my cousin and his gf came back and greeted me as well
>we started drinking some beer while chilling on the cough watching some shitty tv show
>they were already drinking for like 2 hours
>i could tell Ashley already was kinda tipsy
>then she asked me if i was seeing someone on which i replied no
>some time later my cousins gf started some dumb shit
>asked everyone how longs it's been since they had sex
>my cousin and his gf both replied instantly "only a few hours" and high fived
>Ashley answered 3 weeks
>i said 2 weeks since i banged some dumb tinder bimbo in the meantime
>then out of nowhere she revealed she never comes while having sex
>her bff instantly said "sounds like i hear a challenge for user"
>i didn't reply since i still was kinda mad at her for telling me nothing about Scrooty McBoogerballs
>Ashley left to take a piss
>when she came back i could hear her wispering to her bff "did he accept the challenge? "
>then she sitted next to me and started to be really clingy
>she wanted my to message her back and shoulders and threw herself on my lap
>whythefucknot
>this kinda stuff went on for a few hours untill it was like 12:30 am
>we decided to go to a bar nearby
>we were going there by foot
>i walked next to my cousin, talking about some random stuff
>Ashley walked together with her bff a little bit behind us
>i'm not sure why but i could tell they were having a serious conversation, i couldn't hear a thing tho
>we arrive at bar
>ordered some drinks and just chilled there
>from that moment it was like she was a completely different person
>she tried to avoid me, tried not to make eyecontact with me and all that stuff
>i asked her some shit just to keep things cool between us
>she just replied on me friendly but that's it
>i kinda gave up after that and time went on
>at like 3 am we decided to go home
>i told them i was just going home since i had to work in the morning
>i said goodbye to them, took my bike and just went straight home

>the next few days we texted just a little bit but nothing interesting

FFW 1 month again..

>so it's been like almost one month again since i last heard from her... again
>over all this time i kept in thought with my cousin as well
>sometime he would tell me some stuff about Ashley since she visited her bff a lot and he would be there as well
>he told me he advised her to go into therapy or some shit to work on her self-esteem or some shit
>anyway, it's been 1 month since we last got together
>i had a feeling they would gather today as well, so i started messaging my cousin
>just casually messaged him what he was up to tonight
>told him i was kinda bored
>he told me he didn't really had plans but they might gather at his gf's house to go drinking again
>iwasfkingright
>few hours went by and at like 7pm he messaged me they would go drinking at his gf's house again
>told me to come as well
>he said Ashley and another friend of them would be there as well
>he told me they started at 8:30pm
>i told him i'd be there around that time
>decided to get some bacardi so i wouldn't be sober af like last time while they were all tipsy/drunk
>got there at like 9pm
>go inside
>my cousin, his gf and some random dude were there
>we just chilled for like an hour and had a good time
>bacardi bottle half empty by that time so i was getting a little tipsy already
>cousin told me some other people would come as well
>like 4 other people (2 guys 2 girls) at like 10:15
>still no Ashley
>then finally at 11pm Ashley arrived
>i almost finished the bottle by that time so i was kinda waisted
>i don't really remember shit after that point
>apparently i went home at like 1:30am (or actually they send me home) since i had to work in the morning
>that afternoon after work i asked my cousin wtf happened
>told me i was shitfaced as fuck and they told me to go home multiple times
>fml
>i don't think i really had any conversation with Ashley going that night
>FeelsBadMan

FFW 2 weeks

>so not much happened again and i didn't really care anymore
>it's saturday evening and i was going to hit some clubs with my mate
>it's 10pm and we were just drinking and chilling at his place
>my cousin messages me and asks me if i'm going clubbing tonight
>told him i was going to do so with a mate
>he told me to come to some kinda techo club
>told him i didn't had any entry tickets for it
>he told me he had some extra free tickets so it's no problem
>asked with whom he was going
>dropped Ashleys name
>ofcourse i was interested
>i just wanted to to try one more time
>convinced my mate to go there
>told my cousin we'd be there at 12

FFW to 12

>we got there and met my cousin
>go inside and get rid of my jacket
>went to bar to get some drinks
>then we went to my cousins group
>Ashley was there as well
>i started a conversation with my cousin and his gf
>some time later they went to get some drinks leaving me and Ashley with some other randoms and my mate
>i looked at her and she looked at me with a smile on her face
>i forced a conversation with her about some random stuff (don't even remember about what)
>but then like 1-2 minutes later i was done talking and my cousin came back with his gf
>she still was the same, avoiding me in general
>i kinda gave up again and then after some time she already left the club
>she only was there for like 1 hour or something
>rest of the night ain't really interesting
>next day my cousin messaged me about last night
>told me it was such an epic party
>told him i was thinking the same, but i think Ashley thought different about that since she left so early
>he told me she had to leave at 1-2am before Scrooty McBoogerballs got home
>dafuq?
>i didn't really care anymore so i just dropped it

FFW 1 week (present time)

So ye, there u go
not sure what to do about this chick
I really liked her but now i don't really know what to do. Any advice on this?

I'm not reading all this garbage.

The girl is crazy, fuck her and move the fuck on.

She wont leave the boyfriend unless he does something catastrophic. She loves him toxically, and is more attracted to him even though she likes you and thinks she should do netter tjan him. She will end up having 2 of his kids then dumping him for the child support and find a better guy. Dont get caught up and miss other chamces with available girls pursuing a cheater that you connected with.

Fuck you OP, this sucked. I wasted my time reading all that shit thinking it'd be some grand finale greentext, go fuck a goat.

tl;dr

Yes, i was thinking the same thing (kinda)
Last shot i wanted to do tho was talking to her bff perhaps? Kinda build up a good friendship with her as well

She has problems with her self worth.
Those won't go away in the next few years.
The fact that you don't just fuck her is actually making things worse for her.

You can't help her.
You don't need to.

It is your life.

Give her only as much space in your life as you want to.
If you want to fuck her, now is the chance.

Se will only leave her boyfriend if you do because then she can be sure that you really want her.


The problem is that she will do that again and again.
You will only be a step on a loooong ladder.


I would just have some consensual fun.
Having sex with different people raises one's self-esteem quite a bit, especially if you have issues.

Mate just leave her be. If she throws herself on your lap again get some fuck, but otherwise I'd say drop her ass entirely. It's just going to hurt more if you continue, for both of you, and she's a cunt anyways from the way she is with her pos bf

Faggot

thanx for boring me with that story
and here my advice:
Press A

Hang it up, user.... she's put you in the side-piece zone. You'll get all the benefits of a relationship, but only when she's sneaking around behind Boogerball's back.

Fuck her, if she's good - fuck her again, and go on with your life.

Or... find an ugly bitch to parade around for an evening when you know she'll be drinking with your cousin. She'll either compete, or quit.

tongue her clit into oblivion and then fuck her or leave her the fuck alone

Hmm this might actually be a good idea, could try this yes

Honest answer? If something real was going to come of this it already would have happened. Chalk this one up as the one that got away and move on or you'll just continue this circle of misery untill you finally realize how much time you've spent and move on... Sooner the better bro

Hmm ye. might be the best yes.
It's just hard to let go since she looked so perfect in the beginning..
Thx anyway

Ur a faggit

She doesn't want to cheat but she wants the relationship to be over. If you want to fuck her just take charge one night and she'll come along willingly.

That being said she's fucking crazy and she'll fuck you over as easy as her bf. You can really smash and pass away because 1. You arent that kinda guy and are doing the right thing 2. Shes friends with your bro.

Just ffffaaaaaaadddddddeeeeee away. If she asks why tell her you told her to nut up and get back to you when she does.

is her real name taylor?

Just stop being a faggot.

pic related, its user

This. Just chill her out longer until she has bf problems.

No, it's not

I'm entertained xD

My mates found this entertaining as well.

jesus christ I actually read all that..time wasting prick..

you literally could've just said

>cousins buddy has girlfriend
>interested but has a shitty bf
>to damn stupid to contemplate if I'm being used or whatever
>acts weird, hot and cold at times but whatever
>what do