How do you introduce GF to new sexual experiences?

How do you introduce GF to new sexual experiences?
And what kind?

I'm horny and need something.
Thoughts suggestions stories?

Her detail below:
> when asked GF says she has no fantasies fetishes or desires
> only does missionary with occasional rare bj
> most topics or ideas brought up she says are "weird"
> she's self conscious and worries about dressing slutty because career oriented
> does like nipple play
> hates cum
> super horny when hammered
> more open to braless and revealing clothes when on vacation bc no fear of caught by friend family or coworker
> has fucked in ocean and in pool on vacation
> does walk around house Naked with blinds open

Thoughts ? Suggestions? Stories?

She sounds boring

Creampie?

Weird porn is a sure bet.

yah boi dump'er lol

Confidence and domination in the sack. Take the lead and she will follow.

Sexually yes.

Drives me crazy because she's hot and I'm nuts for her hard nips and moist tight pussy.

I know there's hope she has a super horny side when black out drunk but that only happens like once a year and my dick needs more.

she sounds boring af.

introduce her to costume play first. make her dress up like a kitty. get her super drunk and introducer her to a buttplug tail and kitty play.

school girl costumes, maid costume + subserviant behavior.

Get her to fuck someone else, then tell you about it. It could be on vacation if she's worried about being found out, but I got mine to fuck a co-worker.

Not on birth control
But so much history and potential What if she finds something repulsive?
Like what's a good introductory fantasy or explorative thing to try?

Like watch weird porn together?
How would I casually introduce that? And what type?

I know right but I know she can and needs to bust out.

So I got her in a maid costume once when she got super drunk..post those pics all the time... but like I said thats like once a year

So try it sober or buzzed and make it a regular thing?

What do I look like, a mind reader? Just break the ice w/ something shocking and talk to her about her fantasies. God damned kids on my Sup Forums, fuck.

Would you consider that introductory? Seems extreme and if I even brought it up which I'm pretty sure I don't want to do I think she'd say 'what the fuck is wrong with you you want me to cheat?'


I did tell her I like when she dresses sexy and people notice. But that's because it's nice to have confirmation/ affirmation you're with a hot and desirable mate. I said this on vacation and she wore sundresses no bra rest of the trip and beamed erect nips all through the cold hotel ac .. turned heads and free drinks which I liked

Post a censored pic. Then I will give you advice, my gf seems similar

Nice play.

She asked if I was watching porn on amazon and I can use that to say no but I want to see what they have?

I honestly think Sup Forums and porn are ruining my sexual expectations and needs from a relationship

>I did tell her I like when she dresses sexy and people notice. But that's because it's nice to have confirmation/ affirmation you're with a hot and desirable mate
What I suggested is just a logical extension, my friend.

Extreme would be if I suggested she fuck a dog

That's you being stupid, mixing up two separate things.

Are we dating the same person?

For as modest and boring as she is sexually I wouldn't be supervised she has a dark hidden secret ... I feel like she has potential to be a closet freak but not sure if I want to open Pandora's box... I mean I d fuck it but you know what I mean

Yea but I'm pretty sure she's into monogamy so if I suggest she fuck another dude I'm pretty sure that would not go well

Wait so she doesn't do cowgirl or doggy? Wtf man, sounds boring af. Get her to watch porn with you. Then put on a gangbang video and make her admit to you that she masturbated to the fantasy of that.

Be dominating and you can make her do whatever you want.

Just ask her to watch porn with you. Pretty common request. Start off with vanilla shit that might have a storyline and then move into gonzo. Start clicking on related videos that are slightly less vanilla. Let her pick. You want this to be her discovery and you're just along for the ride.

It all depends how you broach the subject. Just blurt it out like that and you'd be right. But think about your long-term strategy and you get your own, private porn star.

Your choice, man. If you think sex in a pool is pushing boundaries, then Sup Forums is not really for you.

Nope ...on rare request maybe
I want her to acknowledge her inner slut , like I did catch her masturbating while I was sleeping so I know it's there..
Buuut do I want her to have gang bang fantasies? I don't want her getting fucked by a crowd of dudes

Thanks this I think I may be able to legit segway to to she what creeps out and see what she likes

Start with butt stuff OP. Butt stuff ALWAYS leads to crazier shit. And besides... butt stuff.

I'm thinking more like sex in public, bondage, or have someone watch or record us having sex , or some costumes themes or whatever

I don't think I want her fucking someone else

Now I think she's hot and is hot to watch fuck and don't get me wrong I'm curious how she'd handle another cock and if she pleases other much as she does me but she's mine I don't want to share

So why would I want her to fuck around? I'm not sure I get it

So I tried dominating and she's like ... 'no.' So I'm like so you're a dominatrix then? .... no

Lmao man. You have no idea what has gone into her head while masturbating. You are not her minds gatekeeper. Stop it with this bullshit. She definitely has had multiple gangbang and threesome fantasies that she masturbated to. It's like the most common fantasy for girls like it or not. Girls just pretend to be less slutty than they are because of le patriarchy. I didn't tell you to have her actually have a gangbang or threesome. You know fantasy and reality are two different things right? It's pretty hard for you Americans to separate I understand. Hence the mass shootings

She said she's not into it and I'm not sure I am too. She offered to tryptophan hit my prostate once to and I said no I'm good. But I did consider buying her a plug and see if that fails

She has also masturbated into the idea of fucking your hot friend too.

Hence mass shootings? fucking bigget moron. What the shit does that have to do with anything?

You could start by eating her ass when you go down on her.

>I'm not sure I get it
When you're doing it, you're in there. When you watch you get to see her pleasure and she'd inevitably put a show on for you. You can only do this stuff if you trust each other and are committed, so she knows she's not being unfaithful as you want it too, it's just a sexual experience with a stunt dick. She comes home with you after.

You lack confidence and question yourself. The most attractive thing to a woman is a guy who doesn’t give a fuck, and a guy confident enough to do what he wants regardless of what she wants. Take charge and lead her my dude.

I get the difference but I you accept it or endorse the fantasy it may be received that it's acceptable in real life

I will ask her though in any case let's say she says yes she fantasized about orgies... how does that help our sex life?

I can agree with this works better on vacation because she does let her social work image guard down

Dunno man it's nice to hear her let out her sluttiness. Also you could have her suck your dick while you fuck her with the vibrator and lick her. You can also double penetrate her. That makes women cum so hard especially the first time you do it. Fuck her doggy style and stuff her puss and ass with your dick and vibrator.

Wouldn't I get the same for recording us fuck?

Then I wouldn't have to share her. I feel like the less know how good she feels it make her more of a desirable treasure

This I'm curious about...
So she's all about how things are unsanitary but as soon as I'm in her she wa suck anything near her mouth including my dirty ass fingers...

So when we're fucking have her suck a lollipop or dildo or stick one in while she sucks my dick?

So I did try a vibrating ring on my dick and also just sticking a vibrator in on its own which she said both experiences were weird as in stop and just fuck me

>Wouldn't I get the same for recording us fuck?
No, because it's you. True, it may be something you'd enjoy to do, but actually watching her have sex, start off hesitantly, not want to hold or touch the guy. Then, as she gets more confident and turned on, start to respond to him, touch, be touched, gasp as he enters her, knowing it isn't you, get more into the sex, stroke, touch, push back to meet him and his thrusts, then orgasm.

You can't get that with someone who's your partner - you can never recreate the first time with you.

But clearly this isn't for you.

So is this different than cucking? This isn't a normal activity for most couples

Does she understand that this is something that is important to you?

When she was black out horny she has fucked me while driving, road head and caught by trucker, and has oked to be fucked while sleeping if she initiates sexual encounter and passes out.. amazing horny drunk but I need this more

>So is this different than cucking?
Cucking has changed in meaning. Nowadays, it implies being submissive to the girl and the other guy, being "beta", having a small dick, not being able to satisfy her. It even goes as far as BBC.

That is a fetish to some, but it's not what I'm talking about. You would be in control, you would have agreed rules between you two and the stunt dick does only what he's allowed to do. This is more commonly called "hotwifing". If you both play, then it's swinging. if you join in then it's a threesome.

Ok so spit roasting ties into hotwifing . So I think the only way I could fly with it is if I fuck a girl at the same time but I know she would not allow

Definately she knows I fap daily ... she just says she unhappy with how she looks and doesn't feel sexy

I mean i can fantasize about it for sure seeing it all and can also in a different way since see so bossy prude prim and proper to see he valued a just a sexual object would be interesting but I know that should not and cannot happen in real life

>I honestly think Sup Forums and porn are ruining my sexual expectations and needs from a relationship

Yet you keep coming back. Smart guy you are

Also just curious do you pick guy or does she ? Friend acquaintance stranger or a crush of hers?

I mean if she understands it's important to you then there should be some kind of motivation on her part to want to make you happy. Should just be like any other thing in the relationship where you discuss and compromise.

Not smart , masturbation addict

Yea need to talk and explore it more sexually . Compromise now is 2 minute drill missionary once every so often

I think that depends on the couple, their dynamic and their role in this kink.

For where the man is very dominant in the situation or the woman like being submissive, they both may enjoy it if he chooses and she fucks whoever he selects. There's less chance of an emotional attachment and it also gives her "permission" because she's told to

For me, as it's her body and I see her as an equal partner, then I'd let her choose but I'd have a veto.

Friend could be awkward after, but it works for some

- all girls are pretty much into force/rape play. (notice the play part?) think about blindfold, tying her out, etc.
- look around for new positions, that can always shake things up.
- most girls are lazy fucks and basically been 'trained', so yeah, just push your ideas and kinks on to her and figure out what she likes. trust me most girls won't initiate.

Crush could be bad with emotional ties

How do I tell girls i like to jerk off to my own mom?
I found a girl who was into it once and I started filming myself fapping under a blanket next to her and she came over and fucked me later

I found a girl who liked to fuck dogs and we would snap each other vids of our dogs licking us but we were too weorded out to meet up even tho she lived close

I haven't tried either of these with anyone else bc its an auto drop if they aren't into it

Thanks I will hopefully I get pics of the results

I doubt I could bring it up with out risk of being dumped

Tough fetishes bro

Yeah I feel you, in a somewhat comparable situation right now. It sounds like bringing some other dick into this isn't something you are comfortable with so you probably shouldn't. But yeah I think the best thing would to be just to have a conversation about everything and explain what you want and reach a good medium, which could lead to more if she begins to enjoy it.

If she is passed out naked in my hotel room and I call room service to deliver food aaand to show her off to the room service waitor . is that relative to your fetish?

who cares about your fetish though? like why do you feel the need to tell the world?

meh, just go and explore, it's for your own sake (and the future of your relationships, lol).

- girls also like to cosplay (most do). this can be either just regular sexy maid, police costume (normie shit), or if you are into weaboo crap, you could dress her up into anything really. they don't really care, but they do get off from it. eBay has tons of dresses, all kinds, seriously.

- there is also "thighs", stockings, sexy lingerie, AND "virgin killer" (ebay that).

- not sure how much you went orgasm wise, but it can always get more intense, more fun. you know, how she can come 'outside', 'inside', etc. this sounds like I am 12 but seriously, there is more to just "making her cum".

- lube can be great if you have not used it much in the past, helps with doggystyle and some other quirky positions.

- tons enjoy forcey fun time too. like sometimes I just push my gf down, rip her clothes off and fuck her. she is wet like the ocean. (no, rape does not equal to this lol)

good luck!

So in your situation you think your girl
Fucking another dude is the key to spicing up your relationships sex life?

Thanks user here's hoping my dick gets wet in all new ways!

(on the lube tip: there is full natural types. they do dry kinda quick, but it helps to get things going. you don't do anal with this, but yeah, that's not really a fetish for women. only psycho sluts would be into anal that much, it's more just guys forcing the idea on them.)

- gentle "forcing" also helps. like if she is not into cum or blowjob, try getting a blowjob slowly but surely. you could do it with a condom on first (so no taste), then try to convince her to do it a bit when she is super horny, etc. things take time.

>is that relative to your fetish?
Sort of, but not directly. She has no idea what's going on, so the enjoyment is just yours (and the waiter's). It's a bit like posting her pictures without her knowing (something I also do) and is called Candaulism
>Candaulism is a sexual practice or fantasy in which a man exposes his female partner, or images of her, to other people for their voyeuristic pleasure.

no probs, good luck!

Haha no, that's something I would never want and it sounds like op isn't too big into it either. I'm saying the key to it would be talking about other sex stuff with your girl.

don't ask. just do.

you want doggy. pull it out, flip her over and stick it in.

you want anal. just stick it in or rim her first.

suck on her feets / foots during missionary.

cum wherever the fuck you want and let her complain about it later if she has to.

women don't want their men to ask. they just want them to do.

Shit that's it i want this

Rape her - put a gun to her head and tell her that you'll kill her if she doesn't do whatever the fuck you want.

He just wants you to be a cuck. If she has no kinks, explore your own with her. Start small.

PROTIP: keep real life and fantasies separate. You got a nice qt, cherish her. You can still fap to sg else, just keep that in control too.

Put her in a chastity belt and only let her out when she's very horny and divulges more.

my gf's kinda like yours too, one day i got tired of hearing things were "weird" so as we were about to do our thing i turned her doggy-style and ate her ass without even asking, i was smart about it tho cause i knew she just showered and she's too self-concious to ever let me do it if she isnt 110% clean.

now she loves it and i rim her every now n then, im thinking of taking this further into anal sometime soon. so my advice, just do things during sex, if it goes it goes, if it doesnt, well too bad then