Be me early 20's

>be me early 20's
>gf solid 8/10 & together for 5 years
>only person I've ever been with same for her
>still have sex at least 3-4 times a week
>sex is great, but its the same old
>she's not sexually daring at all
>anal twice
>talk about maybe having a threeway occationally (but I doubt it)
>doesnt like to be dominated (I do)
>doesn't like to dominate(I do)
>ask her her fantasies says she has non
>on the flip side amazingly loyal
>definatly will not cheat on me, helped by her lack of promiscuity
>I want more adventurous sex but that's not gunna happen

Looking for some oldfags advice. Will it work in the end? Is there anything I can do to get her more invested in sex?

I ring faggot.

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If she actually likes to fuck you then none of the other stuff is worth it.

do it a little bit less, go out in the sun often believe me

oldfag here. DO NOT INTRODUCE OTHERS. Do your thing, try new positions, fantasize your heart out while fucking her but don't give her thoughts of others.

Get something more meaningful in your relationship than sex. Make a white baby.

Other than that, just do to her what you want to do. Be daring in the heat of it :^)

I'll take that to heart. The three way thing is exclusively with anouther girl. She think the thought of two guys taking her is gross.

You guys might be right. Just wanna fuck so many other girls or try new things, but then again I might not even get any on my own if I was.

speaking from experience. The 2nd woman caused issues and distrust. Just keep everyone else out of it.

I get more secs and more experimenting now that we’re married. She was a good girl and pretty vanilla in the bedroom. But now there’s a commitment. She feels secure and more open. Made 2 beautiful white babies and sex life has never been better.

>gf for five years
>not married

degenerates

I think you've just got to experiment
Take your time, don't rush anything. If she reacts well to something try it again, don't push it if she doesn't like something. Or just be open with her, tell her that you want kinkier sex

>fuck so many other girls or try new things

I did that it's overrated.

Gives me hope. Maybe I'll try and talk her into kinkier things again.

Also a lot of women become ever more adventurous and deviant as they approach 35.

Ask an old fag how I know.

>into kinkier things

Be careful about pressing her too far and too often outside of what she wants, or she'll start thinking of fucking you as a chore.

Problem is we have done kinky shit she just doesn't like it. I can't blame her for not liking them, but I just end up out of options with nothing to do but the basics

Old fag, how do you know?

Just fap to perverted porn.

This is one of those things where you fuck up a relationship and deeply regret it 10 years later.

The shit you want is petty, and a good way to die single if you put that above what you already have.

Fucked a bunch of women in their 30-40s.

Women teens and 20's. I suck my bf's cock because he likes it and don't want him to leave me.

Women: 30-40: Cock cock cock cock cock cock cock cock cock cock cock cock cock cock cock cock cock

Alright you all convinced me I'm being petty. I've gotta realize when what I've got is good.

Love yuh Sup Forums

I have a similar situation, though a bit more extreme. Gf is extremely reserved and basically doesn't like sex. 1.5 years so far and no cum :(.
Very nice and wholesome relationship, but I'm steadily going insane due to lack of sex.
Will it ever get better? Is it worth the wait?

You got to get her into sex toys. Sex toys are a gateway tool to opening up a girl sexually.

Also, gave sex while drunk or high as much as possible. This lowers inhibitions and makes girls cross barriers, such as trying BDSM, anal, etc.

Also, talk a lot about sex. Have couples dates and discuss sex with the other couple. If your GF sees the other girl is into more wild shit like deep throating etc, will make her more likely to want to try it. Girls are competitive that way.

you good g

True. Women around 35 are sexually like guys around 18. Weird how nature made it that way.

stay away from involving other people
your not being petty for wanting more adventure, its pretty normal but be realistic about it at the same time. Just talk to her, don't be a dick about it. I'd recommend thinking of something specific you want to do and tell her, talk about it, maybe show her a video of what your meaning (if that wouldn't offend her) Tell her why it sounds appealing to you and how it would make you feel if she did it. Be polite and understanding, it seems she wants to stay with you so she'll probably do anything you want if you approach it correctly. If she denies it dont be mad, ask why or what makes it uncomfortable for her and try to understand. If you do get to do whatever you wanted be sure to express your appreciation. Once you do one fantasy it'll make the rest easier.

Been with fiancée for 6.5 years. You don't go from vanilla sex to a full blown orgy over night. You have to be comfortable doing things together and explore ideas or talk with each other, women (if they're sane) are generally quite embarrassed about fantasies and won't give much up. Start having pillow talk after sex "what were you thinking about? Etc" - that's an easier way to crack the nut and go from there. People always want shit over night, it doesn't work like that with keepers. Enjoy the process, a roast is tastier than fast food

Her sex drive will pick up as time goes on. If she has any girlfriends she finds attractive and you feel comfortable with, let them have a little light play. Keep it innocent and light, then ask her how she felt.

I've been exactly where you are. Same age and situation damned near.. We've been married 18 years as of this Fall.. We've had 11 threesome's, we've had a girlfriend for 7 years now. Our wife (we both see her as a wife) had her second kid 3 years ago. 5 kids total.

Everyone's situation is unique. Broadbrush advice might help, but probably not. But here's what will be fact no matter what:

Better to be honest and explore together than lie and have an affair.

Don't go looking for a girlfriend, when things can work they'll happen, but don't chase anything. Just be open to an opportunity if you all feel it is one.

Don't expect another wife. Same thing again about it works or it doesn't.

Be very open and honest to each other. Don't hide ANYTHING. Make clear you are being honest about your PHYSICAL feelings and needs.. Make sure she is doing the same. Don't be mad, just make clear to each other that if one of you wants something the other cannot accept, it is off the table and your emotional attachment supercedes your physical wants.

Just keep it between those lines. Then go on a sexual adventure with the woman you love. Life is short, enjoy it with those you love.

It's nature's "if emergency, pull lever"

Giving them a few more years of spiked sex drive before their menopause kills it.

>>I want more adventurous sex
Just tell her, you fucking idiot.

This guy's fucking got it down

LISTEN TO HIM