Have no friends

>have no friends
>no job
>crippling anxiety
>crippling depression
>only girl I ever had a connection with blocked me on all platforms and I don't know why
>never felt so alone
How do I change and be a Chad? I just want to die tbqh.

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>and I don't know why

Probably because of your crippling anxiety and depression, those things tend to show and it doesn't feel good to be around. That or you're hella oblivious to social settings.

kill yourself

>How do I change and be a Chad?
Why would you want to be a chad?

> be me
> have no real life friends
> have depression and a few other things
> not a year goes by where i haven't had a girlfriend or sex
> im the one that does the blocking

i guess i qualify as one of these chads then? or you're not trying hard enough?
confidence goes a long way. but i suspect you're young.. you'll learn. now gtfo with this depressing shit. even i don't want to see it. you want a pity party? fuck off to reddit or facebook.

You know what you gotta do you dumbass. Go get a job. Then a good start would be to get your ass into a gym

Go outside and talk an hour long walk every other day, within a year your life will look very different.

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>even i don't want to see it.
Most people choose to ignore problems instead of battle them.

Stop using imaginary diseases as a crutch would be a good start.

>Stop using imaginary diseases as a crutch
What’s your definition of a real disease?

join the army or something and get shot at by schizophrenic autistic retards a million times a day really puts things in perspective

when you go out and be social... analyze everything you say..

if what you talk about is depressing or weird then chances are you're annoying them

so avoid being that person and change yourself

What's the bitch's name? Nude?

>get shot at by schizophrenic autistic retards a million times a day
Make love not Warcraft

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stop buying into the self-defeating/sabotaging mindset of your problems being "crippling". You are just using them as a crutch and an excuse for when you make mistakes or fail at something.

There is nothing stopping you from getting what you want besides yourself.

Fucking faggot

shes a cam whore. Cant recall the name, but her moans are top tier

sauce pls!!

>Anxiety
>Depression
Are these self diagnosed? Because if so i have some bad news for you, you dont actually have it, your just being a little bitch. Go to the gym and lift weights.

Get that gay shit out of here no pun intended

One of my favorite trolls.
only 7/10 on delivery tho

She looks 13 and loves anal. Came gallons

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You focus on improving yourself, and doing something that brings you wealth

how is it a troll when he's 100% correct?

The le depression meme strikes again haha. Stop self diagnosing faggot.

>Go to the gym and lift weights
He’s probably that 5’9” guy that has his shirt off.

Because Chads get pussy.

Chads also get child care payment bills.

there's more to life than pussy. Enjoy life and get healthy and get a career that will fund the fun things you want to do in your spare time and the pussy will come naturally. Don't fall into the trap most neets do of waiting for the dream job (almost always video game design). You don't need to love what you do for work, it's just something you need to make money. Leave the things you love as hobbies.

>video game design
Fuck that shit new video games suck now with their micro transactions and day 1 dlc.

Hey OP, glad to hear you've decided to try and turn things around.
Questions: Age, and were you ever subbed to r/incels?

>only girl I ever had a connection with blocked me on all platforms and I don't know why
As soon as you recognize it was y7our fault, will be better, retard.

which is why it's an awful job to aspire to. People think that because they like playing games they would love designing them, but in reality they'd be basically a sweatshop employee cranking out garbage like that while having to live in someone's closet in san francisco or some shit because that's all they can afford.

Same here m8 everything turned to shit for me all the stuff i liked is shit even gaming and music is boring i feel nothing anymore and im only 19 years old

>25 years old
>no partner ever, especially anything long-term
>use dating apps
>describe myself and make self hate/depression jokes
>find qt like me almost immediately
>really into me(I'm their type)
>start dating
>realize I put myself down more than I should
>eventually become an item
>open relationship type thing going on
>start talking to other people
>I'm much more attractive than I've thought to be
>start feeling more confident, ego inflates
>start getting more attractive
>wear nicer clothes, lose weight, better hygiene
>people want my company more than just platonically

She wants you to hunt her down and fuck her.

This...its over dude

1. Stop your excuses
2. Get a job
3. Eat food and go to the gym

Its the people you are around.

Look around you, are they cock blocking, dumb, perverted, over aggresive, insulting asshats all trying to fuck the same dumpster sluts with fisted blown out cunts like its a contest to get herpies first?

Those are not alphas, those are retards who base life on status and tattoos, thd first of wich they do not have or they would not act in the foul attention whore manner they do. They are not a credit to their race and will end up with semi retarded children and sewer sluts.

As for the get a job fags.

They are stuck in dead end jobs and they want you to join them in the slave race for herpies, low expectations and blown out tattoo covered low iq fist fucked sluts that are looking for a welfare baby check.

>That or you're hella oblivious to social settings
this actually might work
//not op

Angry and alone child detected

you don't sound like you collect unemployment or anything

Get a shitload of money, get on that grind, focus on yourself don't be a whiny bitch.
The next step or if you already have money, buy nice clothes and ice yourself up with a watch and other accessories.
Lastly walk into a bar and no matter how much of a socially anxious person or asshole you are watch the girls flood (in their pants and to you).
Money does it all get on your grind boy make that cash. climb that ladder.

You want advice, here.

Read books, go to the gym, study a real martial art, be kind curtious confident and funny. If the females you around dont like that, then you need to be around females that do or you will end up with herps and stink dick and a regretable life.

So fuck them and fuck their tattoos hope they fuck a hooker with a penis.

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Diagnosed by a doctor 2 years ago

Too many people are ignorant of the system or maybe they’re just in denial.

>How do I change and be a Chad?
First stop buying into memes and ideas from imageboards full of people exactly like yourself with no life experience. There's no such thing as an alpha male, we're primates, not canines. The whole concept is retarded and belies the fact people think they're have some magic solution and be able to fuck whoever they want when they learn these magic techniques to look like an alpha male

Get over it and get a life:
>Regular exercise at the gym
>Regular sunshine
>Regular social interaction with peers
>Meet new people every week and form new friends
>Eat well
>Sleep well

Standard boring advice, but it's the only thing you're going to get that isn't bullshit from a bunch of virgins.
Once you have your life in order you have the potential for a relationship. Find and talk to girls just like you have been already but this time whenever you pick up that one likes you or is interested in you, ask them out or to fuck if that's all you're interested in.
Don't be as blunt as that and obviously learn some basic social cues, but that's basically all there is to it- relationships are merely an extension of friendship with someone who likes you.

There you go, the no bullshit answer.

Finally, since virgins and idiots always gets triggered and spastic out over realistic answers- if you find an objection to any of this then you're simply not willing to sacrifice or work for what you want- that's on you and nothing is going to change until you get over it.

17 year old who will soon have panic attacks and not know what to do about them

What is wrong with y'all faggots for feeling lonely and needing friends? Can't you just manage your time with things that you enjoy doing, to not paying attention to it? Being alone is best thing in the world, people are obnoxious as fuck.

You need to take control of your own life. don't worry about friends or girls, there are many of them in life. Make sacrifices and don't be afraid to express yourself and try new things. This is your life , do well for you only.

not him but I think you can resume it as this : motivation, nothing else, willpower is all you need to succeed, and look, it's only up to you to grow some

and seriously consider how internet affects all of this

btw people why suddenly hitting the gym is a requirement to live a good life ? why since 4-5 years there's a crazy emphasis on that ? I just don't understand

Go to work

I was like you

Someday got a job as security in a high class club

If you are not ugly as fuck or manlet you can grow your guts

You talk to girls, fight with drunks or take them out, don't let anyone undesired enter, and of course everyone respect you because you are the security guy

I worked so well that the owner of the place invited me in some private party and every girl knows me because of the job

I pretended to be chad for a moment and got drowned in pussy

Also if the girl is drunk you can talk to her weird shit and she will be interested like bush did 9/11

His peers are the problem.

Motivation and will power are polar opposites- motivation is a self help concept designed to create an imaginary barrier to your success or what you want
In reality all you need to do is work on something until you finish it- which takes discipline and some initial will power, not motivation.

Gym is a requirement for so many things and always has been-
Exercise and good diet are pretty much the two fundamentals to treating depression and staying healthy. It's also single handedly what treated my depression within 2 months and now is what makes me level headed and calm in almost all situations in life. It also gets me laid a lot but that's by the by

It's possible to get the same effects by bodyweight exercise but it takes WAY more discipline and more time and effort. Gym simply makes it easier to get better results quicker. Plus it's a nice social environment with no bullshit

>There's no such thing as an alpha male, we're primates
Common chimpanzees use strength, intelligence, and political alliances to establish and maintain alpha position. Alpha males who solely use intimidation and aggression to keep their position often provoke dissent. Coalitions will eventually form, which at some point will topple the alpha male.
>if you find an objection to any of this then you're simply not willing to sacrifice or work for what you want- that's on you and nothing is going to change until you get over it.
I can see that you’re already trying to defend yourself from inevitable replies.

Exercise is done naturally all day if you don't sit all day on chair
Good diet is also achieved naturally if you're not an idiot

If you want to be lazy and eat anything that feels good 80% of your time and use the remaining 20 to get yourself back on shape I guess it's alright tho

medidation and reflexion on past experiences are more likely to give you insight on how things work imo

I also believe changing your body is easier than permanently changing your mind, the latter conditionning everything that you do

question is, can our mind revert back to a prior setting at 100% ?

Let's get this out there once and for all every person on the face of the planet feels empty inside, and everyone uses something as a kind of distraction to make themselves feel better. You are just in tune to your feels alot better. Its okay the way you feel, its normal to feel like that. If you want to change it you can't, even if you chad; you will still be covering up the fact you are empty inside. The reason it feels sucky is because you focusing on it, like a injury that you keep thinking of. Just focus feeling better for yourself and it will get better.

(you)
i.e. I start thinking and/or seeing things in a new way, turns out new way is shit and outcomes are not as expected, can I revert back to the previous way and build again from here without new way blocking or altering that


never mind found out question is stupid cause how can you better yourself if you don't keep track of your mistakes...

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don't know if it works but at least you know what you're doing wrong

OP try learning new things, that's a good start to feel better

Try confidence and use memes to try and relate

>has an OPEN relationship
>meaning the girl wasn't satified with him
>starts to get big headed
You daft cunt. You fucking idiot. You're useless.

No we don't? It's everyones choice whether to work or not but fuck being unemployed, that's a much worse thing to be in. You have so little money and so much time that's it's pointless which always eventually leads to feelings to despair and depression and lonliness. I don't like working but i've met my group of friends there, and my fiancee and finally got my first car. For me work is more like a school 2.0, it's a place to socialize too while getting paid.

really? is that your defense? why won't you really get a job? are you scared?

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Memes are full people that don’t want to face reality on tough subjects. They want to just weasel their way out of it.

He’s highlighting the fact that he, also, is fucking around with other girls. Hence the self-esteem “boost” Perhaps it would be best for you to learn how to read.

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do you dribble too

Yes

Scared of what?

Are you white?
How much gibsmoney do your get?

>your

You*