34 years old

> 34 years old
> kissless virgin
> no friends
> bad relationsship with family
> minimum wage job
> worthless degrees
> chronic illness

How do I get control of my life again?

You need to start with loving and respecting yourself first. Build confidence and self esteem. Working out usually helps. Continue with your job and seek another, it's easier to find one this way. As for friends, it depends. You can make plenty of friends online depending on your hobbies. But if you meant friends irl, it depends on where you go and what you do. You might find a nice girl for yourself if you aren't a total Sup Forums tard. Also are those degrees worthless to you because there's no career in your area? You could try to patch things up with your family, depending on the issues. All your info is too vague to give real advice.

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He's not wrong on any of this it's all up to you to actually try in this world

>Working out usually helps.

I do work out regularly. 3 x 1.5h per week regularly for 2 years now. Unfortunately the outcome is rather poor.

>You can make plenty of friends online depending on your hobbies. But if you meant friends irl, it depends on where you go and what you do.

My hobbies are mainly sports: climbing / bouldering, running, cycling, gym. I meet people regularly but I cannot seem to connect beyond the typical smalltalk. Any approach to invite them for a drink failed.

>Also are those degrees worthless to you because there's no career in your area?

Degrees are in biology so nothing super good. In addition, my performance was bad and I never really networked.

So you have literally no friends, not even one mate from school or work. You don't need like hundreds of buddies. Look at Snow White. She had it all covered with those seven little cunts. I don't know try to be more social I guess. Things will eventually work out.

Not a single one. Don't live where I went to school and the lineup at work changes regularly.

Also I don't get how can someone be kissless virginity these days. You can always buy a hooker you know

Most cheap hookers don't kiss.

Hmm, you can travel at least. If your life goes nowhere then get out. Go to Europe, meet new people maybe you'll find a place where you might feel happy

>genetically inferior
>"how do i get control of my life"
Suicide.

Then save up and buy an escort

I live in Europe. And traveling takes money which I currently don't have.

Where do you live, I am from Czech Republic and hookers aren't that bad here.

I live in Germany. Maybe I will save up for a weekend in Prague.

See that's the start. Once you get laid you'll get more confidence. Try to live more. New experiences and shit. Jesus its not that hard

>Try to live more. New experiences and shit. Jesus its not that hard

Anything you recommend?

Once you're past 30, it's already too late to get control of your life. Everybody who's successful typically started around 18 or less.

Your only option is to go out with a bang.
But if you do, don't be one of those fags who shoot schools, do it against lawyers or people who at least deserve it.

>Everybody who's successful typically started around 18 or less.

How? Most people haven't any shit figured out at 18.

>29
>sex with two different people but an uncountable nunber of times
>job
>car
>nice apartment (buying house too expensive for what you get)
>marry 2nd person after 6 years of sex
>picked her up from airport yesterday and she spent an hour crying on my couch

life sucks ass altogether. if i had never met this person id be a little bitch crying about how women dont want me. now im on the other side of the fence just hoping she gets into a car accident and dies so i dont have to deal with this bullshit for the rest of my life. and yet the best times of.my life have been with this cunt.

there is no winning and since we're the smartest dumbest creatures this side of the galaxy we will always endure some type of sadness no matter what our situations. count your blessings, op.

Depends on a situation. I was at a party where I knew like 2 people. Somehow I ended up in France with complete strangers Lovely people tho. I am 22 so maybe I am not the one you should get advice from.

Stop be so lame. Collect some money and leave all society. Go in woods and find yourself. Live without all what society presents for some time. You need find yourself. Not watch at this idols which we are presented. It is only your fault. Only one who can change you is yourself.

You want find partner guess what none will find it for you. Only you can do it. Ofc you wont get fame gold digger whores which change partners all the time. If it is your goal lose virginity and just have sex go for it. You probably look for your set standards. Change yourself and stop be that min wage slave. You can find excuses and set money as your god. Keep do it and nothing will change.

Could at least post some nudes.

I've been at quite a few parties where I knew almost no one while in uni. But somehow I always ended up in my own bed or drunk in the corner.

The ironic thing is that I require society for my medication.

do a little research and start moving to some profitable direction. evolve your mind (and/or body). instead of whining here

Find a better job and start fucking hookers. Look at your local board of water an light. They make Bank without a degree.

>Change yourself and stop be that min wage slave. You can find excuses and set money as your god

Isn't that contradictory?

u dont and u cant.....either accept it orbe a man and change it....no one can answer ur life's questions and if u cant find it within u... u will never do it for others

actual retard

You must be shy as fuck then. Try to talk to people more. Be little bit crazy and retarded. Don't be the first guy who gets drunk, be more sociable. I am not a social person at all, I have to force myself and when I do, I make friends new memories. Be more open

>do a little research and start moving to some profitable direction.

I've been thinking of either going back to university and getting another degree or learning a trade.

>evolve your mind (and/or body)

How do you do that? Reading shit? Drugs? Trepanation?

>Look at your local board of water an light.

Whats that?

>You must be shy as fuck then. Try to talk to people more. Be little bit crazy and retarded.

I'm no social butterfly but I'm also not cripplingly shy.

I'm very retarded though. Typical Sup Forumstard.

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