>Advice, Tarot readings, free stuff
Insomniacs, 3rd shifters and anons from across the pond. Need a listening ear, a fortune or just to ask a therapist something? I'm here for you.
>tarot
at the top of your post with a question for a simple tarot reading.
>dubs
will get awarded a random mega-man robot master power
>free stuff
I've chosen 8 numbers from 000-999. If an user rolls one they'll get a game of their choice less than $25 from good ol' $te@m!
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LOVE ME
hello! I hope you don't mind if I watch your work tonight.
...
*packs up a box of love and mails it*
It may take a bit, but know it's on it's way.
Well hello there luv. Welcome
I curse you with!
>STAR CRASH
create a field of stars around your body as protection that you can also throw at your foes!
are you having a good evening so far?
Hello! It's so good to see you!
It's been okay. I'm preparing for holiday today. The next two days I'll work 12 hour shifts and won't be free terribly often...
and you as well. I hope your week has treated you well. I know wherever you've been it's been colder than it has been here heh.
Holy shit user how'd you know, third shift gang...To bad my shift got cancelled :( was actually looking forward to it. Now at home in the rain.
You ever read any natal charts?
I see. that doesn't sound very enjoyable, but at least it's all so you can take a nice break afterwards. a kind soul like you deserves rest sometime.
Yeah, it's up to about 25° now. But last night the boiler went out. No heat until like 10pm tonight. It was bad.
Hello my fellow Night Shifter!
I work 3rd shift as well at the hospital. Tonight is one of my nights off. Sorry about your shift. It rained here as well today. I haven't actually read any before in depth. I know "of" them though!
>rest.
I'll work from 7p to 7a board my flight at 12, arrive by 8pm and probably pass out as I won't have slept for 26 hours. .... after that though it'll be nice.
Will my current relationship last? Man it's tough sometimes to love someone with depression.
that.. does sound fairly unfortunate! just a few more days until you can settle down and relax, at the very least.
if you'd prefer a reading I'm sure Satori can help, but I am also here for advice.
Umm... how about this: what do I need to know about my love life?
oh... wow... coldest it's been here is 17F, but no heat is just... brrrrr
I think you wanted a tarot but no
>tarot
I'll do it anyway though
>6 cuppers
Remembering your past accomplishments and cherished memories will lead to improved relationships.
As for advice.... it's hard... you have to know what your limits are. How much you can help is limited. You can't beat yourself up for their mood, they can't control it well, and you can't at all. You also have to learn to not take it personally when it gets too hard on them and they lash out. Are they getting appropriate treatment for themselves?
Any help would be appreciated. I've been trying to cope with it but sometimes she gets mad about the most trivial things and has some seasons when she's super depressed. Eats me from the inside knowing I can't do anything about it. Tried to get her to see a doctor again, she always refuses with some shitty excuse.
Long post is long. Sorry about that.
>TAROT!
Pretty much answered my questions before reading them. You're good
I'm... also sure that Satori will be better for actual medical and treatment advice! I'll just try to focus on what I know from personal experience.
sometimes, when someone gets upset over trivial things, there's something at the core that's bothering them and not just because you didn't wash out your used glass. it's understandable that you want to guide her towards help, but it's possible that you could also just sit down and ask her what's on her mind to see if she opens up about her troubles.
Oh yeah. And to top it off, the clutch went out in my car on Tuesday. Had to walk to work when it was 6°. Fun times.
Don't worry about length of the post! It's ok. Say what you need to say. I will tell you depression is manageable and treatable, but only under a doctor's care.
I hope your partner sees a doctor soon.
>FFVII buster swords
Be wary of being deceitful. If you feel pressured to bend the truth or lie to impress or escape judgement be careful. If you've done so this card is a warning the lies may not have gone unnoticed.
That's not abnormal. I suffer depression as well and know both of those aspects well.... It'll be hard for her to how much better things could be when she can't see anything getting better.... Talk to her when she's feeling ok, not in a bad mood. Be non-confrontational, use a lot of I statements.
Ex: I feel like you get angry at me when it's not appropriate and that you're depression is too blame. Not you.
Ex: I worry our relationship is getting bumpy, but I know we can make it work, but I'll need your help in seeing someone. I'll be there for you too.
That sort of thing.
She needs to know you care and aren't judging her. That she means something to you and you truly believe she can get better.
coming up next post!
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jeez. Have you had it fixed already?
>7 devil signs! (if one wasn't bad enough!)
Don't despair... even if you haven't seen the fruits of your labor blossom they still may be growing.
No I haven't. This hit me at a time of low finances. I'll be on foot for..a while.
Damn opie that's eerie, thanks again!
So there's more than one devil sign? Making quite interested
I'm sorry to hear that. this is one of the worst times of year to get stuck without reliable transportation, please try to stay warm.
it's the seven of pentacles, darling
Well, soon I'll be experiencing snow as well. I've been told up north it's been snowing every day. Down here I'd be lucky if it snowed once a year.
I hope you can get the finances in order for that to be fixed soon though.
Get equipped with!
>Hornet Chaser
Fire out a smol hornet that does minimal damage to your foes, but can grab and bring back things of interest even through walls!
7 of pentacles reversed fufufu
My ears won't stop ringing and I can't sleep
It's three months now.
Could be tinnitus. I'm not a medical doctor, but it starts in early to mid adulthood. There are treatments available, but you'll have to see a doctor to begin anything.
First of all, thank you both for your input on the matter. Secondly, she's received treatment before and was on medicine, I think she was taking Venlafaxine, but she stopped taking it after the doctors upped her dose and we had no money at that point to buy the next pills. We live in Finland so the healthcare here is not only free but really good too. Her excuse for not going to see a doctor before was that we can't afford it (20€ per visit and after 2 it's free and if she gets diagnosed everything is refunded) Granted, we were dead broke back then but now i'm working part-time while studying, I earn about 600-800€ a month, so money isn't a huge issue for us anymore. I thought that if we had more money she'd be happier so i bust my ass off working and studying at the same time for her. So far only minor improvements because I can take her out for coffee or buy her flowers and she appreciates it. I just started rambling a bit but that's how I am, can't focus on just 1 topic.
Also she has social anxiety so I'm the one that runs errands (buys food etc). Also that's her main reason atm why she can't see a doctor. I've told her I'll come with her and be there for her and we'll make it together but nothing yet. I guess I'll drag her down there next week when im not so busy with work and school. Venting over
Thanks, I will. And I can usually get a ride home from work. The problem is not Having wifi. I haven't been on the server since before this happened. I miss everyone.. :( let them know I'm ok, if you could
Thanks!
I got plenty of cold weather gear. I'll be pretty much ok.
I was close, so I'll take this one as a win.
I'm sorry. if you are who I think you are, I know that it's been very hard on you. can I do anything to help, or will just a friendly ear suffice for now?
So how exactly does a tarot reading work?
Do I just ask any question or do I need a specific topic?
venting is perfectly alright. social anxiety can be a bit of a struggle at times. combining that with depression, and it seems like it would be complicated to find both the courage and the motivation to go outside at the same time.
I think that the best that you can do is continue choosing to be supportive of her. in the end it's ultimately her choice to pursue treatment, but having someone so close helping you out makes it much less intimidating.
that's good to hear. they make those little warmers you can stick in your boots, right? those sound like a nice investment.
though I suppose that would pull money away from the car repair fund.
That's rough... you're trying though and it sounds like you're trying hard. She must mean a lot too you. Maybe you could tell her that, and that's exactly why you want to take her when you do get time to take her. If you could ever convince her to see a therapist you should ask to come a long. You could learn together and learn how to support her while receiving treatment.
Aww we'll let them know you're doing ok.
You could ask for a topic or a specific question. Either works fine. To keep my posts from taking 5-10mins each I only do one-card-draw readings.
Hello. YouTube has many videos that purport to be tinnitus cures. I can't post links because phonefagging. Try and check out some of those.
Will I die horribly in a fire?
Would a simple "What's in store for me this year?" Suffice?
If so, then that's my question.
10 hours of freezing rain and nobody showed up for morning shift feelsgood
Thanks! I appreciate that!
Wow, that's a legit Ice Storm. How did you make it in?
It's definitely tinnitus. Noise trauma induced. I just want it to stop. My ENT told me there was nothing I could do.
Yeah it's me.
I'm suffering. My sleep just gets worse, and I don't think I'm going to get any sleep tonight.
It's so fucking loud, am I supposed to exist like this? It's not living.
They're not cures, they're not even masks unless your ringing is tonal and at specific frequencies. Mine even goes over the masks.
thank you for letting me keep you company, Satori. I think I'll be retiring until our next encounter.
Most likely not! (don't leave the stove on)
Yep that'll work!
>Wand, wand, wand, wand, wand, wand, wand, wand, wand, wand
You'll work hard to create something of great value, but if you put too much pressure on yourself you'll end up with too many burdens to bear. Then you'll be left unable to enjoy anything you do create.
I work in admissions of a psych hospital... thankfully that hasn't happened.... in fact weather isn't a significant factor keeping patients from coming in either in my experience
What treatments have been attempted? I hear a steroid in the mid ear and benzodiazepines can reduce the symptoms.
sleep well luv. I appreciated the company.
I take it you've already tried white noise machines and the like. Can you sign up for any experimental treatments?
Why Dont I have a belly button
See you friend.
I tried Prednisone by mouth but the doctors were fearful to give me anything but a taper pack (maximum 20 mg, and that was only one day) which helped but those taper packs only last one week and the higher, more helpful doses only last 2 days.
If you have ideas, please let me know. I think I'm going to need to tie a knot soon.
I haven't tried those actually, but from what I have tried so far (masking tracks on youtube) it has to be loud enough to keep others in the house awake, because otherwise it won't mask it. It's loud.
The only experimental treatment I know of is the noisebox trial in Michigan, and I can't do that in Florida.
that's a good question!.... I really don't know...
Have you gotten a second opinion on it? Perhaps another doctor would be willing to try newer things with you. ...I can understand how stresssful it can be. I hear quite a few complaints of tinnitus from patients I admit.
Should I move from my best friends sister we had a night she made a move I backed off cause I was not stable money wise, now I am and I'm trying but get nothing from her. I asked her out and one day before the date she tells me she did not respond to my text cause she was face timing a guy she met at the club. So I canceled and haven't done anything else but she's still in my heart and thoughts.
Tarot reading please aswell
It's a quirk of nature. You are unique.
Then by all means, I suggest you try a white noise machine. Anecdotally, someone I know alleviated their tinnitus by tuning a cheap clock/am radio between stations. That might be worth a try..
>>She's still in my heart and thoughts.
Have you fallen in love with her?
that seems like a pretty clear indicator to me...
Even if she made a move one night it may have just been physical. If she's grabbing guys from the club and ignoring texts altogether instead of responding and letting you know how she felt about things then maybe she's not ready for the kind of relationship you are. You give off a demeanor of wanting something special and lasting. Hence wanting financial stability. If you got into a relationship with her and she didn't want similar it would likely end badly. It may not be the right time user. Look elsewhere. It'll hurt for awhile, that's normal and okay. Just fill your time with friends and things you like, but don't be afraid to talk to someone about it. Just feeling heard can help.
coming up!
>the king of swords is obviously the katana, but upside down its anatak
A king has power, but it can be used selfishly. It's within you to use this power for good or bad. Times are on the way where you will be tempted to use your influence to manipulate others for your own gain, and at the cost of their happiness.
My ENT refused to see me after I did not want to pay $3000 for a pair of in-ear noisemakers, and my GP is clueless.
Any ideas on where to get one?
Radio would be cranked way too loud to be viable.
Wow you described me, and yea I guess I do want something stabled, I got scared off by her at the beginning because all the red flags she has and I was not financilely ready. She's been with multiple guys, has daddy issues ( we were talking one night and she told me her story and i told her she had daddy issues , she mentioned she wantec a guy to fall i. Love with ) wants a guy with papers ( she's a immigrant, so am I but I have a work permit ) I don't think I love her but I do like her, I have trust issues due to cheating in my family.
I did a quick googling, and Bed Bath & Beyond has more than a few..
Amazon of course, had many.
These appear to be much more common than I thought..
Wow scary I always try to do the right thing. Mmm is this financially or in relations ?
You could try calling your insurance company and asking for a referral to a new specialist. Hopefully theres another one near you. Even if it was a bit farther I think it's better to try.
If you've noticed red flags that early then it sounds like you know yourself fairly well. You may be dodging a bullet, but who knows.... with time maybe it'll work out, but don't wait around for it. You can't change her, so explore other opportunities.
quadingo!
The card doesn't specify unfortunately. I'd lean more towards relationship wise.
Time for mega power!
Get equipped with!
>Time Stopper
You're a lucky user. Stop time for about 6 seconds at a time!
Yea I come to realize I can't save her I feel a need in me to do so. I never had a gf, been with 2 women but I have a hard time connecting with a women. Part of me wants to say fk the risk and go for it and enjoy it but my brains tells me no.
Wow I got quads thx for advice so far yea guess I just needed to air out. Can't talk to my best friend about since his sister and I don't want to stir any issues between them. I talked to and he cool with it doe so idk .
Not a problem. I wish you the best of luck. I have a feeling you'll make a good decision. The way you speak of your desires and inner thoughts tells me you have pretty good insight.
Alright everyone. I have packing and cleaning to do before my holiday. Thanks to everyone that came. I'll be back next week I think despite being on holiday. Most likely Friday evening.
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Thx for the advice and support
Thanks for doing this thread! Especially at this time! I was hoping you would!
Best of luck on your trip! It was so good to connect with one of you!
Goodnight!
Thank you a ton for the recommendations, I absolutely must try to sleep now as classes are later in the evening and if I go into them after being up for 36 hours straight I will likely pass out during the commute.
Saved that pic.
Take care, I love you guys!
We love you too!
Will get hurt in the near future?
No.
I was already there, worked third shift. Fortunately the place was dead enough that it didn't matter
Ok. Are you driving home in the ice storm?
Trips
what's my fortune
See . Op has left. But will be back Friday.