Sup Forums Why is it that it's kinda hot if a guy acts like a total asshole ? there's this guy that's giving me and especially my boyfriend a hard time in school. He sometimes does stuff to me to get to him and i hate to admit it but a part of me actually likes it. I've started to get fantasies about him fucking me and i hate myself for it.
mostly asking femanons. i just want to get this stuff our of my head.
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and yes i'm 18. last year of high school.
You are the reason the human race will go extinct and why there will never be peace on earth.
I know i'm a bad person but that seems a bit extreme
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It's called conditioning. He disrespects you and you fall for it because you crave the attention. This makes you think that any new outside stimuli is good, either positive or negative. You know that since he treats you like shit he might fulfil your deepest, darkest kinky fantasized because he will literally view you as just fuckmeat. If you spread your legs for him, he will take it. You'll lose your bf. And this other assholes will give you the bare minimum just so he can fuck you.
obvious troll is obvious.
Tits or gtfo
What kinda stuff has he done to you ?
newfag
the rule exists so that if an user is using being a girl to get preferential treatment, she;d have to literally whore herself out for it. since shes just looking for a convo about this, and preferably from femanons thats totally fine.
Not really. If power and money had no reward or utiltty factor Chands wouldn't exist. Being that women have near total control of sexual selection it is entirely womens fault these people exist.
Women demand Chads. therefore Chads exist
no, it's so that we know its not just shitty bait and fake
seems like you have a thing for being a sub. im guessing your current bf isnt much of a dom so you have a craving for something like that, being dominated or used. the advice would be to maybe try get your bf to try that kind of play. you're getting those fantasies because theres a gap there that isnt being filled by your bf. its like if you really like oral and then your bf doesnt, and you meet someone who is super sexual and known for loving oral. yeah you start wanting that.
whats the bait here, that shes a girl? you never been in a thread where someone has an actual problem and talks about it?
>The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood.
>Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.
That's at least partially true i guess. Like i know he doesn't care about me and just does things to fuck with my boyfriend. I'm Just a tool to him and bad part is that's actually tuning me on.
usually small stuff like calling me names or slapping my ass when we pass him in the hall. making comments about my body. Went further on new year's eve, there was a party where we were all at and he felt me up there, thoroughly. Had 1 hand under my shirt and the other down my pants. some people saw it was kinda humiliating so i did ask him to stop and leave me alone but a part of me found it sooo hot.
yeah, i have a very submissive personality unfortunately. My boyfriend does well in bed really but he's not comfortable with being rough, he's always worried about hurting me. that said he does make me cum more often than not but it's more of a mental thing. i have told him about this and he does try to be rougher but i can just tell he's just doing it for me.
You are such a fucking stupid bitch
I hope terrible things happen to you.
You ought to be fucking ashamed of yourself. If you want to be a fucking useless slut be a fucking slut but don't string your boyfriend along pretending to be a good person or a deserving girlfriend when you fucking are not.
Kill your fucking self
fantasising cause theres something your bf doesnt do that this guy obv does, yeah thats fairly normal. but actually acting on any of that is cheating and would make you a garbage person. as long as its just in your head and you still care about your bf its fine. people fantasise when they watch porn. or any time they fap. I guarantee your bf has masturbated to the thought of other women. but, you cant have shit like letting him touch you. if you think its so hot, break up with your bf and then do what you want. otherwise you owe to him to tell the guy to fuck off. not ask him nicely to stop, tell him to fuck off. if he can tell (and he prob can) that you're enjoying yourself and are being meek about stopping him, he'll keep going and thats not far from you just letting it happen.
basically, you choose what to do
actually cheating makes you garbage. fantasy is nothing. not doing anything to stop him from groping you cause you find it hot is also bad.
Hey OP
K let me tell you why this happens since it's actually pretty easy
We women love some challenges, anything that looks hard for us is immediately exciting, thats we also love hard cocks yano
Anyways, apart from that there's a really Simple sentence that will make all the difference mkay?
"All women loves a Bad man that is good just for them. And all men loves a Good woman that is just bad for them."
Get me op?
Ofc, apart from all the homos and etc etc lol
Hope ive helped
look it's purely Darwinism in effect.
In nature, the male who is able to control/bully/beat the other males is the one most likely to get food and be strong enough to win fights/defend themselves (and others).
-----These genetics are therefore very favourable.
Now in a group of females there will be some who are attracted to this, and some who arent. But the ones who are will inevitably be more likely to have children from this "alpha" male.
So then you have a group of kids descended from this guy, who are more likely to be like this guy. And a group of kids descended from the guys getting pushed around who are more likely to become types getting pushed around.
Over time there is a preference towards the survival of the males who are bullies, and the females who prefer them.
In other words your feelings, yes literally your feelings, are an evolutionary trait, and make perfect evolutionary sense. Dont feel ashamed of them.
But remember that the present and the future are different and maybe the time of the dumb bully genes are over and you may be dooming your offspring haha.
Also it is interesting to note that women tend to settle with the less confident guy later in life who will be more nurturing to the children she got from the confident, bully, guy. So your boyfriend is destined to be a cuck?...
Also if it really turns you on Id say look for a guy who is confident without being a douchebag. They do exist, they just dont show off
except the "alpha male" is a myth. the guy who coined the term and first studied it later found that the group of wolves he was studying, the supposed alpha was just the father and the rest his kids and bitch. he's spent years trying to take back and discredit his own work. the rest is just holywood, books and misinformation
i know.. i'm a bad person. but i haven't actually done anything. never cheated or flirted it's just all in my head.
you're right biggest mistake was not putting up more of a fight when he groped me. i did tell him no and tried to get his hands off me but if i'm honest i could've tried harder.
i guess i get that but he's not a bad guy that's good for me though if anything he treats me worse than any other girl.
i do really love my boyfriend though. i don't want to break up with him. i might if something actually happened then i really would have betrayed him but i haven't acted on anything. i don't mind at all that he's not a "chad" i like his personality.
Do you think the bully has a bigger dick than your boyfriend ?
>No tits
>No timestamp
>Not even a face pic
>Subtle cuck thread
>A bunch of retards still reply to this bait anyway
Saged, fucking kys
Quit being a fucking bitch and be commit to being faithful you fucking cunt. The fact that you let this guy get that far at all is not fucking okay.
then put up a fucking fight and dont let that shit happen. you have to be adamant about it. dont let it happen. just dont be alone with him and dont let him do shit to get you alone. actually tell him to fuck off.
This is Sup Forums, sweetie
Ok, Lao Tzu. Why are you on here looking for boobs if your're that smart.
sounds like newfag talk to me. Sup Forums is about being anonnymous and saying whatever you want to say without being judged. 2chan became popular because being otaku is shunned and shameful so being user was nice.
its the same idea now. you;re just being an edgy little cunt yelling "bait" and "tits" at anything that has the word female in it.
Im not exactly saying there is only one single alpha male, I mean the type in general that are confident and "alpha" as Sup Forums uses the term.
Many different groups of animals have wildly different sexual practices, you even find birds where the female has sex with all of them males to hoard the genetic information, and only pass hers on. So the females compete like "alpha" females instead of the males.
It's not in your head if you let him know that you were turned on by it. You letting him touch you is cheating. You have already done it, basically, and you do not respect your boyfriend..
You are fucking retarded.
Stop existing.
there is no getting it out of your head.
women are cheaters, and this is why. you can't overcome your urges. you will succumb eventually.
I'm pretty sure he is. when he was feeling me up he pulled me against him, my back facing him and i felt his bulge against my lower back.
i admit i could've fought harder, but i did tell him to leave me alone and go away. i didn't want to make a scene and make even more people notice what was happening. Wasn't exactly sober either but that's no excuse.
i did NOT let him know i was turned on at all, i told him multiple times to stop and leave me alone.
Because you’ve grown up being told that what you really want is a sensitive guy that doesn’t act masculine. The only problem is that that sort of guy doesn’t get you hot.
>girl finds boy attractive
>boy bullies her
>"if you cant fight them join them"
>becomes their GF
I'm not samefag. You can't even track posts effectively, and you are calling me a newfag?
A girl has never been able to post on Sup Forums asking ANYTHING without posting tits. Which you can easily do anonymously, so don't start with any sjw malarchy
Because being "outspoken" basically doing something different is considered an anomaly and attractive.
lmao, yes they have. girls posting tits are a minority now, and generally only do so if they need a favor of some sorts.
Excuse ma'am but have you heard of the rule, Tits or gtfo
Well now it's obvious this is bait.
>"it wasn't all in my head, I felt his bulge on my lower back"
Only a retard wouldn't understand this is just pushing cuck culture..
>the elite want to turn everybody against each other, including potential serious relationships
sure but those alpha terms do not apply to humans. for one, being a chad does not result in more of your genes being successfully passed on. its being a degenerate. other degenerates may find it attractive but most people dont. Sup Forums does use the term and so do a lot of people, but thats totally wrong. for one, bonobos are the closet relatives to humans not chimps, and their society is completely not based around alphas and such. favour doing and excessive grooming of others can often lead being a leader of a group
You let him know with body language. Which is more easily read with sexual advances. Does your mother know you are a slut?
You are obviously very, very new here
It really took you this fucking long to figure that out? It's obvious within the second fucking paragraph. I swear you idiots will fucking believe anything. I could probably make a thread about how I fucked Ivanka Trump last night with ZERO evidence and you faggots would still believe that shit
Because that's how your twisted female brain is wired.
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>"Actually it's because you desire his attention/he'll fulfill your fantasies/you want to fix him/[Insert psychological hamstering here]"
Nah, women aren't attracted to the ugly or low social status misogynist who gives them a hard time, on the opposite. Being attracted to the hot, popular guy even more than usual when he treats them like a fucktoy is just further confirmation for that guy being the "Top Dog" dominant sadist of the pack.
This thread shows the sad state of Sup Forums perfectly.
SAGE
well thats just straight up false. most threads like that dont blow up though cause theres no porn or gore but theres plenty of such cases.
anyway its making tits or gtfo such a focus that leads to so many bait threads with re-used images asking for trips and other bs.
What makes you think I'm here looking for boobs? There must be over a dozen posts with boobs as pictures. id wouldn't be here id it was for boobs.
More girls will sleep with a guy actively trying to get it, than a guy minding himself. It's chance as time lapses, it's not rocket science
my boyfriend does get me hot it's just... i dunno i can't really explain, part of why i made the thread, i want to understand.
i'm NOT a slut ? i've only slept with 1 guy in my life and that guy's my boyfriend. most girls my age have slept with more.
Now you are samefagging. Which is desperate and sad.. using anonymity to lie, essentially. That's almost sociopathic behavior
kinda new. only been here for about 7 years. so i admit i haven't been here from the very beginning
yeah, but the point is trying to get it isnt really done in the way that makes one think alpha. "alpha" or not, if you ugly shit and try a lot and someone is handsome and barely trying guess who gets laid more. its appearance, confidence and usually being able to make them laugh.
how the fuck am I samefagging? you in denial other people might agree? anyway its fact that those threads exist and happen daily so theres no need to argue about it, its a fact.
Its good you feel bad about it. Shows empathy, so we've got a base to work from here. It sounds like you have absolutely zero confidence in yourself, so watching your sense of security (boyfriend) being torn down is leaving you looking for that security, which is currently only visible as this asshole guy.
You need to regain your confidence. He is getting a kick out of watching this unfold, and watching you get flustered and "confused". Its WHY he's doing it, for validation because daddy didn't love him enough or whatever. Your next move needs to be clear in intention, and filled with confidence in the situation. Your mans reaction and any further involvement also needs to match it.
A swift kick in the balls and a prompt "If you ever contact me again I'll tell the police you raped me" should be enough to scare him off. If you're scared about violence remember he already crossed that line. After that, you need to spend a long time working on yourself, maybe even get some therapy. Confident women don't need to look for security in men, and once you resolve this issue you'll be able to get rid of these desires entirely, and focus on relationships that build you up.
>x demands so y exists
Interesting thing is supply creates its own demand, not the other way around.
yeah i'm not confident at all. i've been shy all my life and never felt good about myself. if it wasn't for my boyfriend i don't know if i'd even still be alive
i am worried about going to the principle or police with this since i'm already having a rough time in school as is. If i get to be known as the girl that got one of the popular guys in trouble school could get a lot worse for me than it already is.
What kinda comments does he make ?
That makes no sense.
You'd better be a troll because as a femanon this is making my blood boil. Fuck you. Unfaithful people drive me up the wall.
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Usually thing about my body, or ass, he makes fun of my height a lot. i'm 5'0 103 lbs. once said that because of my size i'd feel like slipping inside a too tight condom.
i haven't been unfaithful though. the only kinda serious thing was the groping and i told him multiple times to stop and leave me alone. also tried to get his hands off of me.
i've only ever slept with my bf. so 1 partner in my entire life that's not exactly being a slut.
You need to see life as more than just school and the "popular kids". I'm gonna go ahead and guess you're pretty young, maybe even slightly underage for this board, around 16-18.
As you get older things will get easier confidence wise, when real world shit like money and bills come along all of this social bs just fades away and you focus on your career and real life responsibility. I don't really expect you to understand because you haven't lived through it yet, but what the chads and stacies think means fuck all. YOU matter, and your friends/family matter - everyone else is just background noise.
Look, you have a few options here. One is to do nothing - the feelings will get repressed and manifest later as something pretty nasty - you may even hurt some people you really care about. Two is to keep the game going, and feeding into this guys hands. Three is to approach the situation, and be confident in making him back off. You need to be sure of what you want, and show that. If you're unpredictable (not playing into his hand) and use force as well as threats, he'll realise he's made a mistake.
You're young, and a lot of this is due to sexuality immaturity since you've only had one partner. But if you don't respect your boundaries and let a man dictate how your head works and how your body is used now, its gonna stick with you for years to come. And as I said, you don't want to learn firsthand how that can manifest when real world responsibilities are on the line.
Most normie post ever witnessed.
>As you get older things will get easier confidence wise, when real world shit like money and bills come along all of this social bs just fades away
Yeah, workplace bullying doesn't happen, and the 20+ year old "neckbeards" don't get shamed online with an obsessive diligence.
stop sounding like you're an authority on the subject acting like you know science and shit with your mental gymnastics you fucking pretentious piece of shit, you're overthinking it and i bet you feel pretty smart about the claims you just shat out
You're submissive, it's obvious. Your boyfriend isn't providing. Kik me, "englishl10n" and we'll discuss it further uninterrupted.
Don't listen to this leftist propoganda. Femanons have 2 choices when being in a conversation on Sup Forums according to the rules
>timestamped tips
>gtfo
no, i understand life is far more than school and popular kids, but the fact is i need to go there 5 days a week. if they want to make my life hell they very much can. THAT is what i'm worried about, not about being popular or not.
unfortunately i am very submissive yeah... kinda hate it. i don't have kik though
source?
Why do companies go out of business and people willing to work have no jobs then?
and yet there have been a few femanons in this thread and exactly 0 of them showed tits and none gtfo. and this is just one of many many threads i've seen where this happens so... yeah. tits have become an exception not the rule.
As a femanon, pic related.
Install it then. I know II have no way of proving it on Sup Forums, but I'm the solution to your problem. Graduated with a degree in psychology and in the military. I understand the inner mechanisms of dominant and submissive behaviour.
So are you thinking about cheating on your bf? Don't be another one of those. There's too many of those people as is.
Kek.
Women are slaves to biology and Instinct. And they don't even know it.
Women are like children and need to be led.
god damn, op, i had sympathy for you up until this point. your concern behind this is becoming the "weird chick" because you tell some chad to back it up you should probably just get on with it and fuck the guy and deservedly take the shitty place it'll leave you in, socially and emotionally.
I agree that to some extent "highschool never ends" - but situations like the one OP is describing carry so much more weight later on in life. If a guy tried it on like this a social circle of adults, he'd be risking a rape charge and being socially ostracized. He's doing it because he's young and can "get away with it", so long as OP allows it. OP needs to stand up for her boundaries and show dominance over the situation to get him to back off. Any blowback from that at a highschool level will be gossip for like a week before being promptly forgot about for the next flavour of the month. I'm trying to convey she has a lot more power in this situation than she perceives.
As a little side note, there are also some major avenues for workplace bullying (its taken pretty seriously because you can just sue your workplace if you get enough evidence which is easy enough) and the internet is a very different landscape, you can't really be bullied in the same way through it. Have you seen where we are?
when i was in high school there was this nerdy guy with a kinda hot gf, i didnt really pick on him but id openly flirt with his gf in front of him and i had a car so i gave her rides and stuff, eventually fucked her and she tells me she gets turned on by cuckolding him but she felt bad about it. she used to suck me off while i drove her to his etc. then she suddenly felt really bad and dropped out of school and blocked me, never heard from her again
It's your survival instincts, that's how most men got mates they had to be tough and alpha to reproduce. Nobody wants a beta male who can't hunt or over power enemies. It's nothing to be afraid of no matter what these neets say my guy
Not a femanon. I'm a married man that used to be a "bad boy" with chicks all over my skateboarder cock in high school. Far as I can figure; Asshole guys tick a basal instinct in women to want the biggest, strongest provider. Who's going to rob a place when you're dirt poor to provide for your dying family? Chad? No. Who's going to kick in the teeth of a man who's fucking with his territory (i.e. you)? Again, Chad? No. The bad boys are desirable for the same reason the big titted, hussies are; they're the "prime specimen" of their desired role of provider.
no, i don't want to cheat on him at all. i do my best to avoid the guy as best i can and have never responded in a positive manner if he does stuff. but i can't help but fantasize about it.
again it's not about becoming the "weird chick" i already get shit from people. i feel bad about myself every day if i make things even worse i don't even know how i would cope if things got as bad as before. Being pushed around and kicked into the ground are not fucking fun.
The problem with your theory is expecting high schoolers, who are just a bunch of kids stuck in public school and taught how to behave by other kids. Of course they'll act like idiots and be rewarded for it by their peers.
Advice: Go ahead and shlick to it, but don't take it seriously. I regularly fap to the idea of being taken as a sex slave, but I leave that as a fantasy. Likewise with owning a slave or two. I wouldn't recommend bottling it up. Those sorts of things need to be vented, or they can get hard to ignore.
Maybe see if your boyfriend is interested in getting a little kinky with you. Fuzzy handcuffs are cheap, and so is rope. If you get rope that isn't made for bondage, pick something soft and on the thick side.
And if you do anal, use too much lube and make sure you have the final word on how deep, hard, and fast he can go until you two have some practice. It's not just for guys, and it can be very intense if you do it right.
Am femanon. It boils down to what this guy says. Now am getting the fuck out because it's too cold to post tits like OP should have before there were any responses.
It's cause women are dumb and love to be treated like shit very common. Then they get one they like and either condition him into a piece of shit to bring him to the edge where defending himself is what turns him into a shitty person or he stays a good guy and doesn't fight back and she hates and resents him for it. So men might be pigs but it turns out if you don't be a dumb pig toward women you die alone. So stop being a dumb cunt or don't whine about it to get sympathy
Board ripe with cuckery, traps, and porn. Now a blow to confidence to some poor tarts. I applaud you, but it's time you and your ilk found another place to manipulate opinion.
There are tiers of women and men. Don't think me as a misogynist, equal amount of shitty people are found in both genders
The reason you think that way is that your feelings toward "boyfriend" aren't true. You are 18 and that's understandable. Go fuck the prick after breaking it off with the guy, see how it makes you feel and go from there when making choices in the future.
I may be married, but tits on the internet are tits, and I can't touch them. You may as well post 'em, lady. I'll give you a rating or some shit, even. My wife has like 7s. Triple D's.
just fuck chad once and see if you like it, its not like your bf would believe him if he told him
Please remember, if he's doing this to you its extremely likely he's doing to other girls ALSO afraid to speak up. You could become a rallying point if you play it just right - if you can observe and find just one other girl in your corner on this you can make it a gender thing and then he is FUCKED. No school principle is gonna sit around while girls are talking about sexual abuse from another student - regardless of what the jocks think people will defend you on it.
Basically OP, either defend yourself or don't. But the consequences of not standing up for yourself now will be much greater and longer lasting than a few people thinking you're a bitch. You're telling the truth, he grabbed you without consent and rubbed his penis on you, despite you telling him not to and fighting him off. THAT IS RAPE. Announce that loudly enough and tell him to back off and he is so screwed. Being scared is not going to resolve the situation, action will. And as I said, not taking some kind of action now WILL manifest later in life that could cost you a lot more than you realise.
this IS going to go further user. at this rate he'll have you bent over in a week or 2 max. he's already felt your pussy and got away with it, now he's going to want to use it.
This, theyre that way so they can empathize with babies and toddlers better. Of course they can memorize things as they grow older and pass a class, but it's obvious in the workforce they're all as skilled as teenagers and without their pussy they wouldn't make it far.
This better be bait
It would indeed take a dumb cunt to enjoy being treated like shit. This strangely doesn't apply to all chicks on the planet. Also, you sound very much like an incel.
Niiice. You're both lucky!
Okay, then that's pretty messed up. You consider pressing charges on him? Maybe filing a restraining order, or screwing with his life by posting that he groped you on Facebook? Sorry about saying fuck you. Guess I got too jaded by all the sluts on here.
Have you ever wondered how his bigger cock would feel if you let him have you?
Hey guys look a whore. Do your boyfriend a favor and dump him
Which rape charges? She didn't mention any sexual physical contact. As for a "social circle of adults", maybe that would happen if he pushed someone against a locker - Actually, scratch that. Guidos, Lower-class black communities and chavs still do the figurative "shove into the locker" well into adulthood.
In an adult social circle of mid-upper class/"civilized" individuals, power plays are just more subtle. Half of all cheating/ sexual competition dramas involve a guy trying to demean someone, silent ostracism by friend groups, and so on.
That guy won't be ostracized unless the female objected to his attempts. If a woman agrees with you when it comes to humiliating a socially lesser male, then that male turns into a "Creep" who deserves everything that's coming to him. Any number of excuses, false or convulted or otherwise will be brought up as to why the victim deserves it, in classic victim-blaming fashion.
If the victim has friends who can defend him or the woman rejects the suitor, then and only then will "public opinion" be in his favor.
Justice or objective evidence play no role in the wonderful society of the millenial west.
>and the internet is a very different landscape, you can't really be bullied in the same way through it.
They post your picture, your details, and basically just spread character assassination and defamation. Social media slander also affects real life standing. There's no psychologist, sociologist, activist that I know of denying this.
i have masturbated to the fantasy a few times, i always feel really bad afterwards.
i have talked about having some rougher sex with my boyfriend but he isn't really into it.
if something did happen you really think he'd tell my bf ?
why would it go further ? i've told him NO every single time. besides we're never alone, he'd have no opportunity
no, i'm not. i'm worried about getting in even more trouble in school, life is hard enough as is.
i'm shamed to admit that yes... i have thought about that