I'm having trouble.
>be me
>be married
>have kid
>have another on the way
>don't see wife often
>she works when I'm home
>sexless often
>when sexed she is like corpse
>she is not interested in changing anything when asked.
>use to be adventurous sexually
>trying to accept death of enjoyable sex
>see porn
>get angry
>hate how I will never get anything like porn again
>angry at death of enjoyable sex
what do? Stop looking at porn? Pic unrelated
welcome to married life, mate.
Tyrone is the real father now cuck
Settled with the wrong woman for you
Nothing to do with you watching porn.... you're #2 buddy... the wife has upgraded...
Do you pay the bills? Just take what you want. I have to do this occasionally when my wife forgets who puts food on the table
>pic unrelated
Suuure, OP.
Season 3 is going to be weird with her all grown up now.
heal the marriage or get out of it
See /r/deadbedrooms
Even though it's plebbit, there's some good advice.
Some people stay for the chitlens, but if you can't reach a compromise, it'll never work.
>don't see wife often
>she works when I'm home
>sexless often
>when sexed she is like corpse
>she is not interested in changing anything when asked.
>use to be adventurous sexually
This tells you everything you should know....
Seek your heart friend, you know it to be true
i'll seriously suck ya dick if u can help me find this video
Cheat on that stupid bitch. just don't get caught. visit escorts.
you married the wrong woman bruh
dead sexlife is a symptom, not the problem
Hard to take when she isn't present. Can't cheat. Tried. Too much guilt. I want her to want to have exciting sex. When you get older this is the hardest this to accept. When you want someone to want something.
You are everywhere
This is getting ridiculous
Mods.
Every.fucking.thread.
Then come out and tell her how you feel.
Maybe she'll change or maybe she'll tell you to go get fucked.
But you gotta stand your ground. Just because she gave up on sex doesn't mean you have to. That's abuse.
>kek
>non-sexual abuse
It is far worse for children to grow up in a divorced household then to have a father who isn't getting sexed the way he likes. Other things are more important.
it worse to have an abusive father than having no father
She's pregnant. It isn't her fault right now. It will still be months before she gives birth plus another month to heal afterwards.
Fuck a street whore, then enjoy your wife
this user is right. don't neglect your parental responsibilities. try to bring up the idea of an open marriage. drop hints at first.
This situation but 3 kids
Instead of getting angry i go work on my hot rod in my shed
unless the psychological issues that are causing the problems underneath the relationship spill onto the kid. then they get a lifetime of therapy about that instead of about the absentee father
you can't win tbh
good idea, cuck. because he will be a perfect father as is, right?
The best way to scratch the seven-year itch is with anonymous sex.
go to the gym, get swoll, find a side chick. if you dont feel like cheating try convincing your wife to smoke marijuana with you. its great to have sex on.
Yes. I am not abusive to my children or their mother/ my wife. Just sad. It's something I know I need to mature into. Sex needs to lose it's impotence to me. Just imagine (if you can) how it would feel to know for the rest of you life (after marriage after kids are grown you are "aged out") that when you have sex it is like she is doing it as a pity for you. It has always been a choir to make her fun so at night we just have "quick sex" because I get up early for work and in order for her to fun she needs time and the right mental state for her. Eventual it becomes like sawing a thick log with a hand saw. I actually opt. Out of sex so I can jerk off.
Can't. Tried. Feel too guilty. Costs too much money. Can't risk losing family. One night stands suck generally.
Your OP says you'll never get the sexing you'd like again.
This reply implies you will after the birth.
So what is it?
Either way you should tell her how you feel.
this is how gay men are born
We use to be daily smokers. Both stopped for parent life.
Cont. Gym is good idea.
Afterwards sex will be possible. Ever tried to get some good sex with an infant and a three year old in the house?
>Just imagine (if you can) how it would feel to know for the rest of you life (after marriage after kids are grown you are "aged out") that when you have sex it is like she is doing it as a pity for you.
Dude - there's something seriously wrong with your wife. I've been married for 28 years - probably longer then you've been alive - and I gotta tell you that shit ain't normal.
This actual seem the like the most honest.
She is great conservative mother. Use to be a deviant in the sack. All types of sex. After kids we have just become to familiar.
Yes.
It can be done.
Quite often in fact.
Like I say below - there.s something wrong with her if you guys can't get this worked out.
Escorts cost money. A lot of money. Is illegal. Will get caught by cops or wife. Always get caught. Not worth losing family over. One night stands suck as a general matter.
You need to dedicate your life to yourself. Change your diet, start becoming more physically active, spend more time and effort on your hygiene and skin. Lots of women don't want direct communication. They want you to communicate nonverbally.
Verbally: I want more sex, or better sex. Even if she fucks you she can't MAKE herself be turned on by you.
Nonverbal: I'm unhappy enough with our marriage and life that I'm willing to spend time and money on myself to improve myself. They notice shit like this and will naturally respond.
I'm not even convinced that is true depending on the degree of "abuse". Just look at the blacks.
Good advice
>They notice shit like this and will naturally respond.
She's gonna think he's not interested in hewr or is cheating.
Look she has no impulse to be with him so why in Hell do you think that will motivate her positively?
It will be tough man. Its so hard to break old habits but focusing on yourself and making yourself a better, sexier man is always the better option.
I understand where you're coming from. You don't want to fuck escorts and whores. You want the mother of your children to suck your dick like a drunk sorority girl. She needs to have a little dread in her life that you could find another if you wanted. This is a long process but the best.
Being healthy and strong means you'll be there for your kids when they'll older also.
The first time you're out in public and another woman gives you too much attention that shit will be drilled into her brain in a way you could never vocalize to her.
She’s also pregnant. Her hormones could be making her not horny enough to have sex. Not to mention the strain on her body and the whole kids thing in general. Wait until she doesn’t have a kid in her.
>she is not interested in changing anything when asked.
That's no good. My wife has our first on the way and honestly I was a mopey fuckin bitch about not getting laid for a while but I told her straight out, it sucks and it's affecting me - she cried, was afraid I'd step out (I wouldn't but maybe that fear is good), and after assuring her we've been fucking more frequently. She's never been a dead fish but she's stepped it up.
Op here. THIS.
Why don't you start sucking cock faggot?
THIS is the answer.
Gotta love women.
>tell her you love sex with her so much you want more
>cries
Yeah, no.
Sexless parents that hate each other and pretend to be civil for the kids? It doesn't last. Or worse, he picks up drinking, and becomes abusive.
Fuck that noise, get out.
Daycare, friends, baby sitters, etc. It's 2k18, nigger.
The problem is boys and men are learning about sex from porn. You should not expect a serious romantic relationship to be like porn. Reality is more kissing and romance, less ATM.
Not guy even though I was molested at age 5 buy family friend. Source of my sexual deviency. Anymore jokes funny man?
I have noticed this a well. I find myself wanting things that are not possible in real life. There is a funny episode of millionaire matchmaker about this exact thing. Guy says he wants a party chick
She sets him up with a party chick. Instantly turn off by thot.
lel yeah I had to stifle a laugh when she cried over that. I get the hormones and all but still
I don't see the problem here, it's life after a while you're both not into each other, having kids in general ruins things. You have to stay with her because you dont want a broken family, but honestly how can the two of you live like that. Your mistake thinking a relationship, marriage, a family would last. Just go sleep with someone else, because you cant break up with her and have a new exciting relationship anymore.
>Wait until final month of pregnancy
>Kill wife
>Cut out fetus and use as Fleshlight
Problem solved
Up your value so that she wants you. Lift. Watch you eat.
>this
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