Is sex overrated ? I start thinking it may be...

Is sex overrated ? I start thinking it may be, I know some of you here are just virgin desperatly craving for any kind of sex, but for those who've tried it, whaddya think ? after some time, the magic fade

Yeah, after you've had it for a while. It's just the same thing. It gets boring. Like smoking weed, it's great at first, but then you find yourself smoking 5 grams in a session just to get a little buzz, then ask "why do I even do this anymore"

It's overrated in the same way that weed is. It's completely overhyped and people act as if it's the most amazing thing ever. However, it's still awesome. Sex is awesome.

this is true.

I think sex is more about the emotional connection you have with someone rather than the raw experience.

Not to sound like a fag, but sex is like the ultimate expression of love you can have for your partner. A lot of people chase after shallow, fleeting, sex. It's great for the moment but who cares if you don't care about the person you're with.

But I'm a virgin so what do I know

Yes. It's nice but in most cases it's not worth putting up with female bullshit.

Sex is great when I'm having it.

I don't think it's overrated socially. If you're able to lose your virginity without paying for it, you've at least proved you're not an out and out social retard who can't talk to women. Not to shame and deride virgins in the slightest, but there's a reason the idea of a virgin is an idea that has survived thousands of years of human history. The act of sex? Probably overrated, but as said, there's plenty of emotional attachment related to it.

Why do I know what this is?

yeah it's good

>sex is overrated

Can confirm. It's not even good the first time if you're a virgin, you have to get better at it.

Yes, it do

daz right, sex is only for faggot pussies who can't handle being called a virgin.

I guess it's different for everyone, I know people my age who think that it just get better and better with time, but I do not enjoy it as much as before, beeing even sometimes disguted by some aspects of it like body fluids and for example

The disgusting parts are the best

Sure, hmm dick covered in shit, hmm, periodic blood everywhere, oooh the nice smell of cum... the best, really

You had me going until you said you were a virgin lol

Sex is not overrated, but the way most people do it is overrated, in my opinion.

Sex feel good because it releases chemicals in your brain that cause you to feel good. There is a finite amount of these chemicals, and it takes time to replenish them. If you have sex every day, you're having mediocre sex every day because you're not allowing the chemicals that cause sex to feel good to fully replenish.

Don't believe me? Try not having sex or jerking off for an entire week. When the week is over, it will feel 10x better. And this is not only true about sex, but pretty much anything that makes you feel good.

tl;dr there is a finite amount of feelgood juice in your brain, use it wisely.

lmao hi virgin

This is wrong in so many ways I can't even

37 year old virgin here, sex isn't overrated to me, it doesn't seem like it would be worth all the hoops you got to jump through, and then all the potential bullshit consequences.

Bad news, but you might be a fucking fag user

From a guy who used to have sex regularly a month back, it's pretty overrated.

It's not wrong, there is plenty of science that backs it up. It is something they teach in every addiction rehab program.

I'd generally agree with that quote. My strongest desire to have sex is when I haven't had it in a long time. After the bang is over my immediate instinct is "see ya! gonna go play video games."

Can confirm, I have sex on tap. It's only amazing in concept when your brain is telling you that you MUST have it.

Dont eat into the hype, we dont need it, jerking off is actually more enjoyable I find.

Honestly the cuddling afterwards is what makes it worthwhile. Not much better than masturbation if you're thinking about it from a sensation pov.

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Are you genuinely retarded. What he described is the basics to how tolerance works. This is one of the three core ways addictions work. Fucking mongoloid

unironically agree

Yeah, I've always considered it overrated. It's not bad, it can be fun sometimes, but it's not the most important thing in the world. Masturbation gets the same results most of the time.

sauce on pic related pls

Having fucked too many different women to count there is more thrill in wooing them in to do it rather than the actual act itself.

It is very overrated. It can also be hit and miss depending on the body chemistry and connection to the girl you're fucking.

Anyway I'm now a married man with a kid and a 10/10 with the tightest and tastiest pussy ever even post pregnancy.

We probably fuck only once every 2 days now but it's still amazing thanks to intimate and emotional level that gives it the extra edge compared to majority of the past bitches.

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You may want to check how oxytocin and prolactin actually work before making a fool of yourself

Virgin confirmed

says the potential virgin who probably a trap fan

This guy gets it.

Its definitely overrated.
Its definitely important, but the amount of importance, and the kind of importance are both wrong.
Humans are social creatures, and we news interpersonal intimacy. Sex is an amazing way to achieve this.
Sex should be important as an emotional, mental outlet, benifitting your wellbeing.
The problem.is its not viewed as good and healthy, its viewed as selfish, individual pleasure. Instead of sharing culture paints it as taking. This results in sex being performed as its interperated, as something ugly, possible taboo, by people who were never explained, much less practiced, in the emotional aspect.

This guy is 100% right, and I even hate the wooing them part.

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>muh emotional connection

go buy some tampons you fuckin pansy cucks

Pretty much this, when I can have it whenever my brain takes over and tells me to handle the shit in life. At this point jerking it is faster and easier, plus I don’t have to plead my SO. However, when it is dry the need to have sex magnifies the importance 10 fold

your envy is beyond obvious and I am sorry that you wish we were fags and the world is unkind to you

true but what you gonna do? go your whole time on this earth avoiding a huge aspect of life because it’s kind of a hassle?

>checked
Also this user knows whats up

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We're sorry that we have destroyed your illusion of sex user, although you may never get any we promise you you're not missing much. The fact you seem unable to comprehend basic human emotions and desires means you'll be missing out on even less!

My ass was really sore after. NOT WORTH THE HYPE

Seriously though

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Guys, look how cute this little lossless virgin is.
Its okay dude, you won't always be this angry. Once you start getting some you'll figure it all out

This is probably the closest to right, at least for myself. Find way more enjoyment out of the chase than the sex, at least after the first time or two. Gets boring, then on to the next one.

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>implying he'll ever get any until he changes his attitude

People can sense the thirst and it's super unnatractive, if you feel like you need sex only the most undesirable of people are going to respond positively.

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Its pretty fuckin fantastic but its like eating too much chocolate. Have too much and it's shit

after a while in a relationship you become so saturated by pussy that it stops being an awesome activity. it becomes as mundane as jerking off, which is essentially as sex is anyway. but the OP quote is right, for sure. I haven't been laid in years but I remember distinctly feeling like I was lucky when i was getting laid 10+ times a week. i knew it couldnt last and felt grateful at the time. id love to get a nut.

Yes, because of

>sex is more about the emotional connection you have with someone rather than the raw experience


Not because you need to have a deep loving connection with everyone you fuck, but because investing your feelings into sex brings it into a completely different place. Doesn't have to be love--why do you think hate sex is so amazing?

This is why so many people are in to power exchange in bdsm, and why so many people enjoy it even when stripped of the physical sexual components. Controlling someone for your pleasure (or being on the receiving end) is extremely satisfying emotionally and that's on top of the quality of the sex.

found the beta males

>cuddling and emotions is better than sex

they said as their dom tranny gf looks on in approval

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There's amazing sex, but you almost always pay more than it's worth for it. Women hook you, and you can't get out.

Have you ever had a strong connection with someone and held eye contact with them? Did you feel anything?
Imagine how much that feeling could enhance sex
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wew lad the number of beta males in this thread

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Try reading a post like this while listening to American Football and not literally weeping for your fellow man

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Hi guys, fag here. Wondered where all you guys were..

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It's one of the most recognizable 4 pixels on the internet. Plus you've probably been here too long like the rest of us.

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>Is sex overrated ?
It is. Even jerking off with any stimulant for like 6 hours simply feels more euphoric. And i'm not even talking about IV which is incomparable to this.

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>only once every 2 days
You have no idea how good you have it compared to many of us here. You're like the completely out of touch guy who complains to his poor friends that he only makes $200k.

Should he not fully express how he genuinely feels for threat of upsetting faceless internet people? You're like a triggered tumblr fairy.

Sometimes yes, other times no.

Depends on who you’re doing it with to be honest. Last time I had any kind of sex was with a girl I really cared about and it was better then any sex before. I didn’t even get to put my penis in her and it still was the best I had.

>complaining about other people complaining
And you sounds like edgy tumblr fairy.

LOL

Just trying to talk some sense into you bro. You can keep crying, not like I'm gonna lose any sleep

I do think sex is overrated if you think you HAVE to have it (reality: you don't). Don't get me wrong, it's great fun, but it isn't the end all be all of life, and there are things out there that are equivalent fun or better.

This is true according to science, but only for the 1st experience. For every additional partner, the feeling decreases.

if you keep it casual like in college and you're semi attractive sex is great

5 grams holy shit what weak shit are you smoking i usually need two bowls two get a buzz

You are both whiny faggots.

>lost my virginity recently
>stuck my dick in her pee pee and felt almost nothing
>the mouth was pretty good though

Say that shit to my face I'll punch you right in the wife

Should us wizards just resign to a life of solitude in our wizard towers? The drive for sex is hardwired into our brains, and going 30+ years without feels pretty shitty.

What's the issue? Weight issues or just social?

Mostly just completely socially inept. I'm a bit overweight, but far better than the average Murrican, and they somehow manage to get laid.

Yeah weight probably wouldn't be a show stopper then. Any dates you've been on, in retrospect do you say retarded shit that fucks your chances or just fail to act?

>implying i've ever been on a date
I have no idea how to even get that far. I have no idea how to flirt, or even what it looks like to do so. I can't imagine why any women would want to be with me when there are so many better people to choose from. Plus with my total inability to read social cues, if I ever tried to make a move I'd probably get accused of sexual assault or worse.