I want to get my GF open to the idea of fucking other people so she will let me do it too. I think deep down, she kinda likes the idea because she watches porn with me and gets off while looking pretty intensely at the screen. But she says she has no desire to touch another person than me. I want to call her bullshit and make her accept the fact that people like sexual novelty.
What are some ideas to help me slowly seep the idea into her head?
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Introduce it into the porn you watch, roleplay as another person when you fuck.
Gonna post hot shit from my fap folder to keep it bumped.
Also: she told me she was molested repeatedly by a woman in her family when she was a kid, so she says she would never be able to be with a woman. Yet she watches and enjoys lesbian porn. Would I be able to undo that stigma and get her open to the idea of being bi-curious?
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How would I go about introducing it without it being too blatant? I don't think I'd be able to pull up swingers, wife swap, etc. porn without her kind of catching on to me. I want to be kind of sneaky in the beginning and make her think that she is getting open to the idea on her own.
All these pics are from my random porn folder, so I have no sauce. But I do have a great love for fat girls (but not beyond a certain point)
Love the chubby girls. But I love the fit toned girls as well. Fucking love all kinds of girls. Don't want to be tied down to fucking one girl forever, but I love her.
Threesomes, cheaters (where the partner isn't present), stuff like that.
But I love big sexy cocks too. I want to suck some dicks. I dont care if she sucks some other dicks too. I'll suck them with her. I want to do it all.
We already watch threesomes. She prefers videos where the man is very dominant, or MFF stuff. I don't think "cheater" stuff would fly because her last BF went behind her back over and over again and destroyed her trust. I need to get her to be open to the idea while keeping full trust in me.
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How about when the girl is the one cheating, and she's doing it with a very dominant guy (as in she's being seduced)?
I could see how this MIGHT be able to work, but she's smart, and I don't know if any form of "cheating" roleplay would trigger memories or make her think. Also, I'm not interested so much in just fucking around so much as I am interested in getting her to do it with me in a threesome or more.
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Ah, sorry, I thought your end game was swinging / open marriage.
Kinda close. I just want her to admit that, if given the opportunity, that she would actually enjoy getting to be sexual with another attractive person. She's stuck in the "but I only want to be with you!" mindset, which, while romantic and flattering, is grounded in delusion. She has told me plenty of times that she thinks Charlie Hunnam (Jax from Sons of Anarchy) is hot, so I said "So if you could have an hour with him, you wouldn't enjoy it?" and she said no. How can I at least get a "seed" planted in her head that will allow her to drop the game in her head that makes her think she wouldnt enjoy fucking a hot celebrity at the very least?
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I was in college here in Canada, and I started to date my qt3.14 roommate for a couple months, she was bi, wesmoked weed and had sex all the time. She was married but he was a literal cuck. I still had tinder from before and we both wanted to find a grill to both fuck. We found one, 6/10 face but 10/10 thicc body, perfect ass perfect tits. Met up with her at the mall just her and me, watch a few movies and I start to make out with her, she says she doesn’t just want a one night stand and I agree. I fucked her for a good week before introducing her to my gf for a 3 way, but the last time we fucked it was a good 2 hours while my gf listens as actually recorded a bit and put it on pornhub (now removed). they were both on birth control, my gf had this weird patch thing,. It turns out the chick I picked up loved me unconditionally and wanted to trap me in a relationship or marriage or some fucking thing, and took her IUD a day before we had a three way. Shit was so cash when we did, my gf was eating her out while I’m getting blown by her, sucking on those perfect tits, then I wanted to cum deep in her, I thought she was still on BC, but I kinda knew she might of took it out because I could feel it on the tip of my dick, and it felt incredibly good to but so deep you feel it gather on the IUD while she cums on my dick and I always nutted in her. so I’m pounding her missionary, my gf is making out with her and I was about to cum, my gf pushed my ass so im so deep I thought my nuts were in her too and had the biggest nut I ever had deep in her, kept my cock in her and kept fucking her till I nutted in her again and pulled out to see how much I came, and it was buckets worth, it flowed out like a stream and was white as fuck, my gf age her out after and I kept fucking both of them.
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Got a call 3 or 4 weeks after the 3 way, I was back in my hometown for work because I’m done college and she was pregnant with my baby. This was 5ish years ago and we got a beautiful baby boy who is almost 5, worth it. No child support, and I got to cum deep inside so super tight 18 year old pussy as much as I wanted. And I dumped her but we’re still friends who fuck every so often.
my gf said the same thing about only wanting to fuck me then i was away for a month for work and talked her into the idea of using other guys to make her miss me less and we agreed that we could both fuck other people casualy to not feel so lonely and now that im back we just stuck to it and she manages to have more casual sex than i do but as a whole our sex and relationship is better than ever
Well, it sounds like she was much less resistant. My GF and I just had a somewhat significant disagreement about it, though we are both very civil and we never argue. She said that she would be disrespecting herself because she just doesnt want it, but I think she understand how important it is to me because I could tell she was trying to rationalize it, but in the end, she decided she couldnt handle it. We agreed that we need to at least compromise, so I've got some ideas in store (like maybe having sex in the same room as another couple having sex, watching and/or doing live webcam shows, etc), but I want to work at her over time and eventually get her to be ok with it.
goddamn
I have a top tier porn collection bro. 10+ years of perving on Sup Forums.
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just tell her you have a massive cuck fetish and if she loves you shell fuck other guys and then once she gets the fear out of her system move into an open relationship the first guy my gf fucked she was so nervous she threw up now she sees other guys as dildos and uses them then throws them out
Well I kind of do have a halfway cuck fetish because I would definitely get off on the idea of watching her get fucked. A) because it's just hot to watch and B) because she would be enjoying herself. But I don't get off on the humiliation aspect. As soon as it got any further than her using him "like a dildo" (great phrase, btw. I'm gonna use that) then I would end it.
As for "if you love me, you'd ____" kind of sucks as an argument, because she would say "if you loved me, you would learn self control"
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tell her if she does it for you youll let her poop on your chest or whatever she wants everybody has some fucked up fetish they dont tell people about find out hers and trade
Well, she likes being choked, called dirty names, and I'm her daddy and all that shit, but I already did that for her despite not being entirely into it. I guess it's past time to be able to use that as a bargaining chip, and to be fair, I wouldnt consider it an even trade. I realize what I'm asking for is pretty big for someone who doesn't want it.
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Oh lawdy, she has a golem face. Sorry about that. I just like the pose.
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As long as you're not a cuckhold lol
source mister white man
You are a faggy little cuck but most young guys now days like the cock.
Not like the typical cuck. I am a respectable, attractive, talented, somewhat intelligent guy with a degree and a career. I just so happened to be very perverted and want to fuck different people. I don't get off on being humiliated or anything. I used to be neutral, but my girlfriend has made me more dominant recently.
No sources. Only a fap folder as old as time itself.
I'm no soyboy fag. I'm just bi and like sex way too much.
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bad idea. well if you want to keep her that is. orgy and 3 ways are best with strangers. she'll leave u eventually just saying guy
Yeah, a lot of people tell me that. Problem is, its unfulfilled fantasies for me. I dont want to die never having experienced it to fulfillment. If it costs me my GF in the process, then so be it. But honestly, I don't think she would leave me. We have a great relationship and I help her in so many ways that she thinks I'm a god. I have confidence that I can continue to provide for her and make her feel like a goddess that she would never risk leaving me for some other dick, especially if she knew I would allow her to do it, should she ever get to the point where she craves it. I have an above average size dick that more than satisfies her, and I'm fit so I'm not scared. If she leaves me, her loss.
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youre wrong there is a thrill to cheating because its wrong but once you live out that thrill enough it becomes mundane and if youre aloud to do it its not cheating after all and the thrill goes away too if you let your girl get it out of her system shell slow down over time and just stop and be come the moth faithful girl youve ever had
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That's honestly kind of what I'm hoping will happen with me. I have decent self control in all other parts of my life, but my sexual urges are immense. I don't want to be fucking around forever, but I know I'll always want to if I don't get a chance to just get it out of my system.
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Same situation man
Hope both of us find a way out
you're lucky your girl isn't a hoe
keep her to yourself
Have you not had any ideas? I'm going to try to get her to agree to same room sex with another couple. I mean, technically all this shit exists on a spectrum. One extreme side is missionary position only for the sole purpose of procreation, and the other end is fucking anybody whenever you want with or without permission. I just want the occasional threesome or couple swap with all parties' consent. She is ok with watching porn which some people consider to be cheating. So maybe I can make her see that and get her to stop seeing it in black and white.
What happened to just talking to her about how bad you want to have that life. If she isn't into it, kick her to the curb and live that life. Smash all the pussy you want.
Because I love her and she's got pretty much every other quality I want in a life partner (and still sexy too). I want to wife her and have a good life, kids, etc. But this is an enormous fantasy of mine that I cant ignore. I've tried to before and I can't. I've slept with 5 girls in my life, but it doesnt feel like nearly enough. I have to get it out of my system instead of being stuck having sex with the same body until I die. I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place.
We DID have that talk. And we're going to talk again very soon about potential compromises. But I want to slowly work her over time (years if need be) to become interested in the idea. But I'm just not certain how to do it.
Same shit you just said
So far nothing has changed
She's perfect but that gets boring real fast
>respectable, attractive, talented, somewhat intelligent guy
said every fucking cuck ever
How long have you been at it? It's crazy because we met on a tinder one night stand. Granted, I was the only one she did that with, but it MUST mean she has a little bit of whore deep down inside. We've been dating for 6 months, and I've made it crystal clear how much I love women and porn, but I only pushed her for the threesomes and shit a couple of days ago and it went way worse than I expected. I don't know how she could have been so surprised really. I've been such a perv around her.
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If she does satisfy you in every way like you claim then you wouldn't be feeling this way. Either dump her and move on to a more free sex life or accept who she is sexually. Don't fuck with her sexuality cause odds are your understanding of it is basic at best. You'll either ruin her, or end up with a slut, both shite for long term relationships.
Girls absolutely can't separate sex from relationships and this is exactly why you get that shot sorted while you're single, or you just date people who are sexual compatible to begin with. Honestly your self confidence seems fine so just decide, do you want to be with this person for ever or do you want to go fuck around for a few more years before you settle down.
Also if she changes her mind about the whole thing when you do say breaking up might be a good idea don't take advantage. Did it once and you'll feel like an awful cunt, better to be firm on the reasoning and support her in your decision.
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>Also if she changes her mind about the whole thing when you do say breaking up might be a good idea don't take advantage. Did it once and you'll feel like an awful cunt, better to be firm on the reasoning and support her in your decision.
I don't understand what you meant here. Don't take advantage?
But yeah. Solid advice. I'm in a sticky situation, and I'm trying to navigate. I'm kind of a pussy when it comes to breaking up. I don't want to lose her. But I know I won't feel fulfilled if I can't find some kind of release for this shit.
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Yeah sorry, I mean that often they'll be so afraid of breaking up due to incompatibility that they'll cave to all the things you wanted. My Ex accepted a threesome and all sorts when we had the talk and I was a bit too eager to get it rather than sticking to my guns and finishing it if that wasn't where she was at sexually.
She didn't really want it and only did it to keep me, and if I'm being honest I knew that. Not worth the guilt, especially if you do care about them.
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Yes. She told me that she didn't want to cave to make me happy because she knew it wasnt what she wanted. She's pretty smart really. I just feel like deep down, she's got a slutty side because we met on tinder, she likes to be called a dirty slut during sex, she is open about who she thinks is hot, and she watches porn (not just to warm up, but she gets off while watching too). Something tells me it's in her and I want to bring it out. But I won't take advantage of her.