Hey /b. My girlfriend and I just found out she likes it when I pull her hair, choke her lightly...

Hey /b. My girlfriend and I just found out she likes it when I pull her hair, choke her lightly, hold her hands behind her head and it seems like generally push her around a little. Where should I go from here?

further.

just straight up grab her, out of the blue, and furiously rape her until she begs you to stop. she already told you how she likes it bro, take the next step that she wants you to.

goto a workshop in sf armory (now on mission street) in sf and learn about kinky, hard rough sex and bondage so you do it right and don't kill her.

Dude all girls like that. You haven't discovered shit. This doesn't give you an in to hate fuck her, she's going to leave your ass if you think this is a "sign"

All women do, I have been with almost 30 different women and every single one has liked rough play.

Not neccisaeily a ton but they all like slaps, grabs, throttles, light choking, hands on throat etc

Its not because she likes it that you also have to. Do want makes you feel good user. That's it.

Im a little nervous to go too far
cause it was literally today. We are both each others firsts and we stumbled upon this by accident. I wasn't aware that it was such a popular thing :/

try name calling, degradation and humiliation... always makes my cunny runny

I don't mind doing it at all but I just wanna make her happy and im not sure what other kind of suff to do

No shit. I have a co op in san francisco coming up so...

I really hope she is into it

Well explore it together! Most like being forced lightly, pulling on their hair , hands restrained. It removes responsibility from them for being fucked and slutty. Win win user

Where is gif from ? Whois?

and she might be in to aftercare too, so like after rough sex, give her cuddles and say sweet stuff to her.

i recommend telling her shes a "good girl" when she is. heaps of girls like that.

90% of women like to be lightly dominated.

Half the reason they like to be dominated by their boyfriends is because they trust him to stop when they say so (they're made to feel physically out of control when in reality you both know she is actually calling the shots). Just tell her to tell you if you take it too far.

I was actually worried she was going to be a little to vanilla, so maybe I can get her bad side out

google search "gentle choke porn"

Define a safe word. And make sure you both stick to it. Then slowly escalate, call her names, slap her butt, stab her in the spleen, use some bondage equipment. But go slowly and be respectful of each other and you will learn each others limitations. Communicating is the key to you both having fun.

Haha gross.

Blind fold is the next step. Try manipulating things to enhance her senses and sensitivity. She seems to like to be somewhat submissive... good for you OP. If you know you're going to fuck soon have her put on a blind fold and lay down tell her you want to please her... or if she is wanting more domination just rephrase it. Say you are going to take control of the situation... if she likes that the next thing is hand cuffs or light bondage. Tie her up and tell her you are going to use her until you are damn well finished... tell her it could take days for you to get off and you won't untie her until your satisfied...BAM you have a sub. Baby steps user. Baby steps

It all makes a lot of sense,

Any recommendations about some like equipment that won't scare her too much

i like the sounds of this. I hope i can leverage this it seems like it could be so much more

I have never been able to do dirty talk without laughing at how stupid it sounds

You aren’t going to go too far

The best advice I can give is try not to think so much about what she might like and just do what YOU want to her, it may sound a bit selfish but girls like when you take charge and use them for pleasure, it makes them feel very desirable

Go with furry handcuffs and silk scarves for bondage, they are a little less in intimidating than leather. Umm any sharp object would work for the spleen stabbing, was kinda joking about that but I don't want to kink shame.

lol! Sounds good. Also not too sure about the spleen stabbing myself

tie her up and let 4 large black men run a train on your tight little white ass while she watches helplessly

My wife

besides the tying her up this doesn't sound like too much fun.

this is the goal. how did you get her to this

act like you're roleplaying kinda. or if that doesnt work, try and be genuineish with youre dirty talk - thats hot

Get the movie, "The Secretary"
See how she responds
Profit
My wife sent out a lot of clues that she wanted to be dominated. I did a lot of investigating. We experimented. Turns out it's really something she needs occasionally.

My girlfriend seems really tame and im hoping that I can use this to get her to try some other stuff, specifically anal

Communication is key. Being a good dom means being a good listener. I'm extremely patient with my wife. She not always in the mood for kink but I NEVER moap or whine - that's beta shit. I wait. I'm patient, I'm kind, I'm in charge. I charm her panties off and then I spank her.

I know this may sound cheezy but im 35 and been w my hot lil blonde 22 year old gf for 3 years and were still in the cupcake phase madly in love and giggling like to school girls every day. My advise is to always show her attention and compliment her. I also do my girls nails eyebrows rub her feet brush her hair and all around love on her every day. in turn she happily wakes up every morning at 5 and makes me breakfast and packs my lunch, rubs my back and feet when I get home is faithful and loyal and we communicate constantly which is Key in any good relationship. As far as sex goes, always be open minded and playful, even when being aggressive. try a butt plug, on both of you while having sex. Thatll def spice things up. also make sure and alternate at least 4 dif positions each dif time you have sex and sometimes 2 or 3 dif positions while having sex. pull her hair in public and always slap her ass. my girl loves it when I play with her boobs or scratch them but erybodies different. good luck pal. keep it real

true, im gonna have go be patient. I realized how much I really want this.

Thanks brother

If you ever want to date a large bearded straight man, can I be your first pick. You seem like a good bf.

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>lightly
dump the bitch

>I just found out my girlfriend likes to be gorilla fucked

She has known for years you faggot stop lying to yourself

shave her pussy bald

Nice dubs.

See if her little brother enjoys similar treatment and let me know?

thats already doe

RRROOOPPPEEE

Bitches love rope

Too easy, ya just gotta stab her in the spleen.