What's your opinion on cheating Sup Forums?

What's your opinion on cheating Sup Forums?

Where do you put that on your moral scale?

Is fucking an escort okay if you're in a relationship?

Is it worth it?

What's the guilt factor like?

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If you care about the relationship, or expect the same, I wouldn’t. If you don’t see it lasting, or don’t really care, fuck it. Life is short. Then again, why stay in a relationship if that’s the case?

If you cheat and stick around with your SO I wouldn’t say a damn things. Even if you break up. Then they/everyone they bitch to will think you’re scum. There are real life implications if word gets out and it’s a small world when you need it to be big.

user, DEFINITELY don’t be like my 3 fuckoff coworkers. One’s married, the others dating, and everyone sees them on tinder and checking girls out. They all cheat and it’s fucking obvious, and everyone at work knows and thinks they’re complete degenerates. Play it close to the chest, don’t say shit, don’t leave red flags.

I'm a paranoid mother fucker 24/7. I never, ever leave tracks. I don't even use FB or Tinder or any social media.

I definitely see us lasting. Love her to fucking bits. I just want to try something else is all. As terrible as that sounds.

Bump. Anymore advice anyone? Anyone personally cheated and lived in silence?

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HOW MANY COPS ON BACKPAGE?

Not many. It's easy to spot fakes. Legal in my country as well.

I've used backpage for escorts in two different countries.

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they weren't ugly or anything

Hey user,

Cheated on an ex a few times. She never found out. Left me feeling empty. Have never cheated since. The thing is, it made me wonder.. if I can cheat on a girl comfortably now - what’s going to stop me when I’m married? When I have kids?

Once you cross a line it’s very hard not to cross it again. I highly advise you don’t do it OP. Just jack off man the hormones will go away. Then talk to your girl and explain the feelings you’re having and why. Don’t do something you can’t take back

Like the fat niggers I can tell are real. I've seen some solid 7/8 and get sketched out

I've been with my (now) wife for 22 years. We started dating in high school.

I suppose I've had a curiosity or two since then, but I've never cheated on her.

Now that we have 3 kids and we've sorted out our differences, I'm so in live with her that I can't imagine a time when this wasn't normal.

Ling story short: if you find someone you love, don't fuck it up. You'll be glad in the end.

Talk to her about it. The guilt isn't worth it. Tell her you want to be with her, but you don't want to feel tied down quite yet. If she freaks, you were gonna break up any way. If she understands, accept that she will probably fuck other guys while you're out having fun with chicks. Just be fucking open, faggot.

>Once you cross a line it's very hard not to cross again

That's what I'm worried about. Becoming addicted, or wanting to fuck every kind of pussy imaginable. I just want a taste. I'm also worried I'll have that super empty guilt feeling too.

Why did you cheat user?

Fuck i hate spell check on phones.

>opinion on cheating
Cheaters are scum, if you need sex with another person, just end whatever relationship you're in

>placed in moral scale
Probably place it around second degree assault, but context matters

>Is fucking an escort okay?
No, either watch porn/fuck your partner or break up and then fuck an escort

>worth it?
No

>guilt?
Wouldn't know, not a scum fuck. You should probably feel about the same as you would if you killed their cat and buried the thing to hide it from your SO - if you do have a decent amount of feelings for them and they do for you

Nah she's not at all the cheating type. She's vehemently expressed that to me.

Right, that's why I'm telling you to be open. Tell her you are having feelings. Maybe there is more she can do to fulfill whatever you're missing. If you just want to fuck other people, tell her. Being open is always the best policy.


Also, nigger, I was saying that if you are both being open, and you want to see other people, she will probably feel more inclined to do so, as well.

You seem very against it. Have you been cheated on?

just make sure to get away with it as in never letting anyone know youve fucked an escort while you were in a relationship
and then the guilt factor is nonexistent

Marriedfag here. I thought about it too, user, but the thing is the second I cum, I realize how horrible I would've felt if that was some whore on the other end of my rope blast.

Honestly, if I ever get to the point where I feel like I absolutely need to try something like that out, I'll let my wife know about it. I'd rather we hash it out than destroy the trust of what we have. I know I would instantly regret it.

Yeah I knew what you were saying.

The thing is, I'm not even really sure why I want to cheat. I'm just so fucking horny all the time. Sex is good with my gf, but I'm soon wanting more and porn only satisfies so much.

Internal guilt is pretty powerful.

Talk to her. Tell her you can't explain why you want it so badly, but you do. Say you want to try more things. If she would never cheat on you, at the very least, you owe her the same courtesy.

Ruining an entire marriage over a quick nut probably isn't worth it no. I just feel like porn isn't satisfying me like it used to. Not even in an addiction kind of way. I'm needing to wank 3x a day just to stop feeling like there's that itch that I need to scratch.

She's an incredibly beautiful girl. I think what's been holding me back this whole time is knowing how guilty I'd feel knowing she's never done wrong by me.

I hear you, Sup Forumsro. I'm in the same boat. Maybe try switching up the method. Get a toy, try different porn aside from the stuff you're used to watching.

Don't recommend it user.

She won't look like her pics, she might be a cop, She will be a meth head or unable to stop talking about her kids, she will give you crabs that you will pass to your gf. The whole situation will leave you feeling empty and you will be left wondering if the next is going to be better.

Here is what you should do instead, go to europe and plan a week of debauchery in legal or quasi legal bordellos. Google "la vie en rose, barcelona escorts" 60 euros a quicky

you are welcome

Right, so don't do it. You have no solid reason other than "lol i dunno i juss wanna nutt" so don't do be a faggot and just talk to your GF. If you can't even talk to her, then why are you with her?

Well...


Ever since I was little I denied myself losing my virginity to anything less than a 10.

But I slowly built this into my head that if I did lose my virginity to a 10, I would have sex with everything that moves and wouldn't even care if I was cheating on my gf or not.

So that's what I do now. I have a gf for 3 years... and I've cheated on her with 26 different women. Yes. 26 women. I usually find them on POF and arrange to meet them at their place after work.

2 other women were on Tinder. And like 2 others were at some hot springs. And one was at a night club. The rest was all POF. They were mostly fatties though. One of the Tinder chicks was a solid 8 though. If you have no standards, it's easy to get laid. I usually just message all the fat chicks on POF and copy and paste the same generic message until one responds and seems DTF.

Pic related. One of the ugliest I've fucked.

I cheated only once in my life. Lost both of them at the same time so no, it wasn't worth it.

See? Do you want to be a fatty fucker like this obvious nigger? Cheating is for scumbags.

Doesn't matter. Had sex (with stranger who is not my spouse).

You will bust a nut and feel terrible. I'm single and I'm never too proud walking out of a jerk off session from backpage.

You need a reality check bro. You're taking something for granted and you're developing an itch you will eventually HAVE to scratch.

No homo, but get some help. Its not like you're a bad guy and I'm not saying you NEED it. But I've walked down this path and that shitty curiosity becomes an animal that conquers you. It really leaves you with nothing good.

By nature humans are digusting animals, but we've created these weird rules we need to play by.

I haven't but its done a toll on a handful of people close to me in my life. It's such an easily avoidable thing that causes a lot of trauma to people.
If you aren't satisfied with your relationship, talk to your partner. Maybe try and sort out/spice things up. If that doesn't work, break up and go wild

Personally, I see no reason to cheat. I don't think someone's an awful person for it, theyre just stupid. Nothing is stoppinv you from leaving a relationship. The ONLY people I understand cheating are married couples, specifically men. Men in marriages cant leave due to divorce fucking them in the ass. So if they cheat theyre just trying to gain freedom and not get fucked by the courts. Its still wrong imo, but at least that situation is understandable.

If fucking an escort is okay with your relationship partner(s), then it's okay.

If fucking an escort is allowed by your relation ship partner(s) but will cause them pain, then it's immoral.
If fucking an escort is allowed by your relationship partner(s), will cause them pain, but will cause a net pleasure in your relationship, then it's okay.

If fucking an escort is not allowed by your relationship partner(s), then it's worse than fucking an escort if it were allowed by your relationship partner(s).