Literally everytime when I date a new girl and want to fuck her for the first time, I can't get an erection

literally everytime when I date a new girl and want to fuck her for the first time, I can't get an erection.
What's wrong with me Sup Forumsros? I don't think I have a physical problem, after a few tries, when the girl doesn't dump me immediately, it's working fine also when i fap it's working.

grats you have ED. try not watching porn

What's ED user?

It's called performance anxiety. Google it. You just gotta stop psyching yourself out. Have you tried getting drunk first?

okay i guess you mean erectile dysfunction...

yes, I experienced drinking alcohol is helping

I have this problem as well OP, I cant goto a brothel or be with a new chick with out needing viagra, One we fuck a couple of times its no issue, Everytime I kiss my wife I get hard as diamonds

strange problem

Erectile disfunction. Probably he's right, but it is not a medical condition in this case. You are probably over excited or worried about how the first time with the girl would be or concernerpd about how you want it to be. Honestly, the more you consider it a problem, the more this condition intensifies.
You can live with it and forget about it, with the time it will probably disappear by itself. Or you can be honest but-not-too-much and convince the girl to suck you off a few times when you date and give her something in exchange like cunnilingus or fingerblast, before actually having sex eventually. In this case you will be confident enough when you come to the actual fuck-session.
Be creative, boy!

The same shit here. Never fucked a prostitute because of it

I feel you user, I was in a relationship for 3 years, constantly thinking about how great it would be fucking other girls. Now I'm singe and can't get it done because everytime i start dating a new girl I immediately start worrying about the first time fucking..

When she is giving me a handjob it's working perfectly fine, but when i start putting on a condome, I can count the seconds before my erection disappears.

Are you me? I used to go in raw in my past relationship, but now i found new girl and she is absolutely freaking out for condom use. I have tried three times already, all three the erection was gone. When she gives me a handjob or a bj, i have no problem at all staying erect. I m trying this new no porn no fap thing, i hope it works...

It's helping me knowing other men have experienced the same problem, maybe I also give this no fap thing a try

Not ED. Definitely performance anxiety and it's a vicious cycle. I once got a terrible foot cramp in middle of fucking a girl and went completely soft. Hadn't really experienced it before and dwelled on not staying hard. The next several times I tried to fuck her I got anxious about it happening again and it killed it instantly. I believe I finally got a little buzzed and tried not to think about it which worked.

You need to get over it mentally whether chemically, trying not to think about it as much or getting yourself pumped up and boosting your confidence. Once you get past it a couple times it isn't really an issue.

> also when i fap it's working.
the problem isnt with your dick, the problem is with your brain, moran

This problem relates to the fact that you have to stop thinking about sex in order to put your condom on. Have you tried making HER put your condom on you? Maybe try asking her for some help, like licking balls while you put it on, o make her roll it on in a jerk-off-like attitude.
Try to sex it up, so you do not have to pause the action and kill the libido. It happens to me when I have second-round sex and she asks me to change position several times: first I can penetrate her, but when I pull out and while I change position mi dick just goes to sleep and never comes back.

same, i hate condoms tbh

checkem

you're getting far enough with with multiple women for your lack of an erection to be an issue. you're doing a hell of alot better than i am

The problem about the no fap no porn thing is that it works only because you eventually get blueballs and you could fuck even the socks drawer. Once you come, though, it's over and you need to blueball yourself again

Same problem here. It sucks.

It might be that you actually like some of them and your afraid to fuck it up with them.
>even if that’s not the issue, tell them that and by yourself some time to get a boner.

nice trips

It's ED related to anxiety in a new situation. With the proper meds you would be fine.

I got the same problem . But I got comfortable enough with one girl to plow her for almost an hour switching it up of course and taking breaks but it's like other user said it's your brain and your ego . And keep the condoms on the bed somewhere so when you're about ready slap that shit on

It's a mental thing. It took me a while to be able to hook up with chicks I didn't have feels for. You gotta stop fapping to porn and l2forplay. Try to keep reminding yourself how fucking hot she is, then when you're hard as diamonds, try to balance it out by thinking about something other than sex.

It's all in the brain user.

my problem is highschool was a prescription of adderall/dexedrine, it kept me down seeing as it is an amphetamine.

eat more eggs, including the yolk. that will produce more testosterone

that will change after you've had an unexpected pregnancy and had to fight for an abortion than pay for it

or at least it will definitely change after doing that twice with different girls

stop watching porn

maybe thinking about this trips is helping
get together with new girls isn't a problem for me, but it's fucking diappointing when you go on several dates, pay literally everything and once you finally get her to show her pussy you can't fuck her because you can't stop thinking.

Have you tried fucking a kid?

Nobody wants to fuck gramma.

It's the Lord telling you to wait and that you might be wasting your time with this person

Stage fright user. A new girl seeing you naked makes you self conscious and nervous. And your peen responds (or rather doesn't) in kind.

Kamagra

I fucking have this bad.i have live in gf into 3wayz. I can finally after 3 times get it up for 2nd girl. But can't for new side ho I wanna fuck. Diamonds for live in gf tho. I hate this condition.

If you are in virgin territory or have low number of fucks on your belt its your brain being scared.

The male brain has inhibitors that keep you from making socially wrong moves. This includes sex, because if you fuck a girl and it pisses off another male, it could have gotten you killed back in the day.

So as a newb to fucking girls your brain is extremely cautious. All the guys in the past who just fucked around with other men's women got killed off. And the socially smart lived on to fuck later in life.

It just need time. Less porn helps, but also PRACTICE helps. The more you fuck the better you'll get. And eventually you'll even learn how to fuck WELL which is a whole different thing. But it takes time and various experiences for you to put it together and get it.

I am going to tell you two things that never lie:

1) The ball.
If someone is playing a sport and knows that the balls is out on them, or that they fouled someone, the very next play, something miraculously happens to make the universe right.

2) Your dick.
If you don't get hard, it's for a reason. My father told me this a long time ago and I ignored it. Two kids later with a stupid cunt of a wife, I should have known that the first attempt at a one night stand with her, I couldn't get hard.

I thought of it as a challenge, because I HAD to show her how good I was in bed normally...Na, it worked the next time and it was as if my best friend was waving his arms telling me to turn back and I ignored him...Your dick don't lie bruh

Just adding to above what I said: I've been through that too and it sucked but just keep going and you'll get passed it. Time heals all things, and fools who persist in their folly eventually become wise.

^^^^^^^^^^
This guy is right.

I literally sport a semi all day long, this can't be normal, can a medfriend help?

Are you retarded, replay to their post don't just do ^^^^