Got molested as teen, what do?

Got molested as teen, what do?
Marrying love of my life soon and they knew most everything about me. But when I was a loner teen I was molested by a school friend, started by being harrased and sent dic pixs. Then fondled and forced to watch him wack it. She doesn't know and clueless why I am telling you all but what do /b?????

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Man the fuck up pussy.
Do you want your wife to know you were a pussy faggot and let another BOY have his way with your scrawny pale ass?
You should have buried that shit decades ago.
That shit isnt even the worst that could happen to a frail little faggot bitch like you anyway

K

Who hurt you?

Noone, i wasnt a faggot, so noone tried gay shit on me

Chillin on a trap website

Been here 13 years, you're the ones out of place

>wasnt a faggot
>been on Sup Forums 13 years

OP u r a fag.

Don't marry this bitch - you're into cock. You're only confused because you liked it.

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Serious reply. Don't tell.
I repeat mate DO NOT TELL.
I did, she couldn't take it. Relationship changed, she left me a couple months after we had a child. She said she saw something about a guy who was molested who ended up doing it to his kid. That made her think I would do the same. Fucking bitch.

Also, don't get counseling. It's a trick, it doesn't work. All it does is make you feel worse and keep a therapists wallet fat.

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practice telling the story
every detail
have the whole speech at easy ready without preparation
start by telling us from the best amount of detail you have

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Ok thanks

seek help this wound will never heal and most people don't possess the tools to keep it under check

professionals can help but you need to ask

bit harsh on the fag but this.

Tell us the whole story

best advice ive ever seen. serious.

I dont see any correlation between being molested a shitton of time ago and getting married, you had balls to get a gf then to ask her to marry you and NOW you're pussying on that? you're just an insecure piece of shit putting excuses before comitment, man the fuck up faggot

be a man you faggot. it's something that happened to you not something you are. so, shut the fuck up and harden up.

Best response

samefag detected

wrong not samefag

and why the fuck would anyone do that its seriously good advice if he does tell her hes just making things worse and then its always attached to him. Use your brain.

Thanks for the (you)
But yeah I'll repeat it.
Us guys are all told now that there's nothing wrong with being abused or molested and we need to share and tell our stories to heal. The reality is if we do share all we are doing is ripping a scab off the wound which leaves us vulnerable and exposed. You sit in a room with someone who dgaf but encourages you to tell your story, you then walk out of there feeling like shit with no idea what next.
And gfs, wives really can't handle that stuff either. They have no idea the feelings you go through, and they might act all nice and supportive but it's a fatal blow for the relationship. Their view of you will change, they'll see you as less of a man, and at some point you'll be getting a 'we need to talk, I want a trial separation'. At that point it's all over.

Grow up cunt.

get over your self man. Did you die? No. Even if it hurt, it's nothing to be all butt hurt about now. You're a grown-ass man, act like it. I was raped as a man. I'm happily married. Grow a pair.

Sounds like OP liked the experience and is now pulling on a thread to see where it leads if u ask me..

A. You haven't listed a reason why you wouldn't tell/haven't told your fiancée. If such a thing would be an issue for her, why the fuck would you marry someone like that?

B. Those rings in your pic are stupid.

as someone who's been here just as long, you're kind of wrong tbh. Sup Forums hasn't always been the zzzzzzz porn dump it currently is and has been for the majority of the last decade (which started with the jb threads around /i/ times) but it has always been gay as fuck.

yeah she doesn't need to know everything about you, can't do anything about it and you won't feel any better for telling her

word out every detail until you can recall it without preparation
to be able to stop and start at any point in the story
this will help you mentally pack it away and deal with it
tell her when the time is right.
it's an injury not a sin
It doesn't matter if you tell her later on
>it's an injury not a sin

well if an american cishet has ever seen another man's penis they're automatically gay or something.

> hi babe got something I have to share
> What's up my big strong man?
> Well, difficult to talk about but I got molested
> What? Bullshit, how did you let that happen? Did you want it?
> No. Of course not. I couldn't stop it, and it's really hurt me. I just wanted to let you know because I don't think we should have secrets and all the feminist propaganda tells me I need to be a pussy now
> Does that mean you're a gay?
> No babe. Not at all.
> Yeah, I think we need to see other people.

If a woman gets raped the whole world bends over for them and they get total sympathy. If a guy gets raped no one know wtf to say or do and blame him for letting it happen. Total double standard.
Leave that shit locked up OP. Women are idiots and don't have the emotional depth to deal with that shit. She will see you as less of a man.

She doesn't need to know. People overshare when there's no need to.

One hour later and not a single faggot has sent OP a dic pick.

You disappoint me Sup Forums

REAL ADVICE:
Just sometime casually tell her there was this ONE (not more!!!) Gay dude that used to beat you up and send you dick pics. (Stop there)
That will provide her with enough information in the case that your past traumas come up. If they should come up in a situation, tell the truth afterwards.

Lol pussy faggot pasta shrimp boy. You're definitely gay fag don't even get married wtf

That's fucking nothing user.

Tell me how i'm supposed to explain to any girl I go out with or marry that my dad was a pedophile, I've seen copious amounts of CP and spent 5 years counseling and being exiled from my family because of it?
I've ended relationships because a girl has asked to meet my parents.

Actually, I'm a lesbian. Thanks for the advice though.

you can't get molested as a teen

idiot