Ive never had sex and I probably never will. How much am I missing out in life?

Ive never had sex and I probably never will. How much am I missing out in life?

Asking in the wrong place everyone here is a virgin

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Normie checking in here - you're missing out on a lot, especially if ur a guy. Getting girls is fucking fun

I just turned 18 and I've fucked 3 different chicks, and made out with 15 others

sex is ok but blowjobs r really great

Dude. Hire an escort. You'll thank yourself later.

>made out with 15 others.

What are you, gay?

Not as good as your brain imagines it to be

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not a whole lot. Once you reach a certain age, no one gives a shit.

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Depends how much you masturbate.

If you masturbate a lot (more than 7-10 a week) then you are lowering your sensitivity, eventually, when you do find someone you won't enjoy it as much as her pussy will never be as tight as your hand.

So, if you believe you will never have sex then go ahead and masturbate your life away, but if there's a chance then stop masturbating so much and go to the gym/exercise instead.

Prioritizing my porn addiction over sex with my gf at the moment. Sex can be great, but will you ever find a girl that has buckets of cum leaking out of every hole while she satisfies your pirate fetish with dirty talk deepthroats your cock with 300 bpm? I don't think so.

homo

The norm answer.... Your missed out on the single purpose of life, to pass along genes. Your also missing out of on the best experiences of life (sex, sex with someone you love, sex with a stranger, etc...).

Enjoy moms basement

valid point

I thought this is the turbonormie subreddit

You'll soon realize that casual sex isn't as amazing as everyone makes it out to be. But when you find someone whose company you enjoy outside of the bedroom that makes everything inside the bedroom 10x better.

As I guy even I think men are too forgiving in their standards of women, we should be very picky and use any sexual frustration we have to our advantage in our endevors like school, work, physical fitness, etc. With all the gender equality movements going around these days it's time we start taking a hold of our sexuality and become far more selective of women and the traits we find attractive in them instead of being fooled by pushup bras, make up and the marketing of sexuality.

it depends. If you want a healthy relationship then you'll probably have to. I can't tell if you haven't had it for medical reasons or you just don't want to, but it's not the end of the world I guess. You're relationship might some real issues if you can't find someone that also doesn't want to have sex. It's good, like doing something you enjoy. For me, it's like playing a video game and doing really well or having a good time like that.

You are missing out on the only reason you exist

And I don't have more

im 27 and just got a hooker for the first time two days ago. maybe it was the condom but sex is literally the most overrated thing on the fucking planet. like im embarassed and ashamed, not because i bought a hooker but because i thought sex would be this magical life changing thing. it wasnt, it was mechanical and fleshy and plain and really quite boring. i mean i nutted and yeah it felt good but its just not what its hyped up to be. gonna still chase tail but this time i dont care whether or not i get it.

Fuck these virgins! you are making a mistake op. Not only is sex way good. But getting head is even better. Whether You're a girl or boy

or feel empty inside and realise that you crave an emotional connection and that sex by itself only exposes your lack of human close contact.

Im a 35 year old aspergic who got laid early in my teens then a few times up to my early 20s , then only once since I was 31 , I am terrified of sex now and have great difficulty maintaining relationships with women.

Medical reasons.

A short while ago I was in the same situation as you.

32 yo male, 300 lbs, 5 inch cock virgin who has good social aptitudes but massive intimate anxiety and ashamed of my current shape. Always had a weight problem and when someone would start getting closer to me in an intimate way would push back and start ignoring them.

I'm bi, and a few months back decided to use a sex finder site to find a guy to suck off. Wanted to start off slow. I think the key here was simply to be honest. I put out there my weight and that I had never done it before and waited. Turns out some guys are into that. Got several replies. Ended up mustering the courage to meet a guy who was young and fit and did it.
It was great but it just made me want more. Walking to the meetup location was stressfull as fuck and almost turned around several times but I said fuck it to myself and went for it.

2 weeks ago I went on the same site and found a trap looking for a good time. Same thing, I sent an email and was upfront and honest about my appearance and experience. She/he was into it. Ended up going at her place and stayed there for 5 hours.

We sucked each other off, kissed, fucked each other, played with toys. smoked some weed and both came huge loads. It was amazing.
That was my first time getting head and cumming in someone else's mouth. She swallowed it all. It was amazing.

Best night of my life.

Guess what I want to say is, no matter your situation you will find someone out there that's into you. Even if it's incredibly scary just go for it even if your nerves are going apeshit. It's amazing. DOn't let your own insecurities hold you back.

You are confusing having sex with having children

Imagine finding someone you both enjoy spending time with, and find attractive at the same time.

She's willing to get naked for you and, if she's nice, she'll suck your cock until you cum.

Imagine you had that for even just one day.

This sounds cheesy but having sex and making love are not the same. I would hate to do what u did. But i love fucking my gf. The only one night stand i had wasnt fun because i wasnt really close to her. She was a friend. But sex becomes awesome when yer with your significant other cuz yer not shy or awkward you can just RAGE

sex with a woman you care deeply about & that she desires and loves you is amazing.

I am the aspergic who got my heart broken and fears sex.

you fucked a trap and had a great time.

Im jelly.

Not much. It's good, but the problem is it becomes embedded in your psyche, and it starts to be all you think about.

i actually hope so. i guess now i have more reason to find a gf i like then just "get laid." also yeah i know its embarrassing what i did but i feel better having some of the nerves gone and recognizing that its not such a big deal to worry about constantly.

huuu? what did i just see

sex with a condom is pretty shit tbh. Having on a pill is great.

Sounds great, lel

But so does being a millionaire. Ill only ever hear about it

Not embarrassing. Its good to get it out the way. The first time can be awkward no matter what and it takes a lil time to get good and build your stamina anyway

I believe its easier to get a girlfriend than getting a million dollars. It just depends on your confidence, and what your standards are.

*Aspergic here.

I always liked getting my dick sucked a lot more than sex.

TBH the physical sensations of sex are no better than masturbation; in some cases they are even worse, because whereas you know exactly what you want, your girl might not.

Sex is superior psychologically, though. There is nothing more validating than having a girl open up her legs for you. Building up to that point - the chase - is really even better than the sex itself.

Elton John just took my cock out of his mouth to praise your gayness

I prefer trading head with my gf than fucking her

MY first penetration experience was pretty dissapointing also.
I woudl say that my hand feels way better.
But the overall experience with the person was amazing. I think the part I enjoyed the most was the makeout session.

>But the overall experience with the person was amazing. I think the part I enjoyed the most was the makeout session.
Also true. When you are with a girl you get far, far hornier than you will ever get from porn/masturbating. After a good makeout session you crave that pussy like you wouldn't believe.

my life depends on drugs and sex

Exactly.

My fav....

on a scale from 1 to Sup Forums , i guess you already know the answer

My first time I couldn't get it in I almost gave up

if you already have decided you never will do you really want to know the answer to your question?

Is no fap worth it? I couldn't fuck.

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No fap leads to sex. If you commit to not masturbating, you get much more determined about finding other sexual outlets.

Yeah I couldn't fuck this girl and release that cortisol cause of my constant masturbation. Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuck

i will never understand mouth fixations. why would you be turned on by a pic of a mouth more than a girl's actual body

For me sex is a basic need. It's very good for my mental health.

Mastrubation feels good, but it's selfish and egocentric. Sex can be selfish too, when your purpose is solely to orgasm/feel good (one night stand, fwb...).

When having sex with someone you love, you're communication without using words. You feel connected and for a brief moment, two minds merge into one.