Has anyone ever been cured of this? If so, how?
I'm 24, a handsome, tall, personable law student and women flirt with me, but I can't get into a relationship because my PE makes every sexual experience an exercise is total humiliation. I haven't had anything like a girlfriend since middle school and my family and friends think I'm a closet gay. WTF.
So if anyone has any cures - REAL CURES - please tell me. Or if you just have horror stories of your own and want to commiserate, that's ok too.
GET CUT
OR POUR ACID ON UR DIK
OR JACK OFF BEFORE GOING. BEFORE YOUVE COMPLETELY COOLED BACK DOWN.
read the "book of the five rings"
apply lessons of indomitable sword fighting mentality to sex
never had premature issue but with this book I am now in complete control of orgasm
Does that mean you can fuck indefinitely so long as you go like a granpa?
Strengthen your pelvic muscles. One way is to stop and start again every time you pee. Will give you more control.
During sex, slow down, change angles, pull and squeeze before you reach the "point of no return." Let your self cam down while you finger her or lick her clit.
Start masterbating with no porn and no lotion, and "edge" yourself - get all the way up to "point of no return" and stop. Repeat process. After a few days, you will be in total control, and add in more stimulation - lube/lotion, porn, etc. PE is mostly mental, so you are training yourself to have more control for the real thing. It's a process.
Or just do a line or cocaine like 5 minutes before you get started.
suicidal thoughts
So there's no cure, right? Self-mutilation or fuck with a half-limp dick with a weak ass cum shot? Some options.
Anti-depressants cured it.
Then after years I got used to it and went back to cumming proper quick.
Then quit the meds... now it's worse than ever.
The more frequently you sleep with the same girl, the longer you last in bed. Look it up, some study shows it quite well. If you haven't had a gf then this is something you haven't experienced.
In my experience these things are helpful:
-work on your anxiety if you have any (diary, psychotherapy, NOT medicine)
-don't fuck with strangers
-go out with a girl, start a relationship, and tell her about this. with time it will go away. don't make a big deal out of it.
Handgun or a noose.
So much of it is about confidence and frame of mind.
Quick fixes are alcohol and/or cocaine. As another user said, anti depressants have a strong effect, but obviously not ideal.
Get comfortable with a girl first. Focus on foreplay. Make her cum before you even enter her, and the pressure is off.
There is no quick fix. But it gets easier.
Easy stuff dude
>jack it before you have sex
This works best do it maybe an hour before youre about to fuck you'll definitely last longer
>edge yourself
If you can last longer when you're jacking it you by yourself you can last longer in bed when you're with someone else easy shit my man
Combine this shit with thinking about ugly chicks and gay sex during sex and you'll be plowing bitches for 6 hour sessions in no time
the only thing that directly helps is well-dosed opiates. not so much you're nodding off, but enough to feel it, decreases sensitivity just right.
alcohol and cocaine haven't ever helped me with PE at all, only opiates
Dont listen to this faggot op lasting longer in bed is all in your mind dude ive literally fucked bitches for hours without cumimg stay away from coke and opiates that shit will ruin your sex drive
each to their own.
I've heard of plenty of people who can't get hard on ecstacy, whereas I can fuck all night on it.
whatever works for you.
I HAVE A THEORY.
If gel for your mouth that contains Benzocaine numbs your gums when you have a toothache, then technically... if you rubbed it on your bellend, wouldn't it numb your bellend and make you last loads longer?
If it's good for your gums and toothache, surely it's safe to put on your cock to numb it?
I've looked into sprays and gels that numb your cock and it's always £20 or more.
Orajel is like £4 for a tube with 10% Benzocaine.
Stop watching porn. You’re thinking is sex wrong. Sometimes you have an orgasm, relax, make out get hard and last longer the second go around. Honestly stop watching porn.
Thats stupid and fuck retarded kill yourself
Alcohol,Cocaine, Ketamine or SSRIs
nofap cured me after 90 days...i last 20 min now.
Go to church
Exercise all the miniscule muscles of your pelvic area, practice edging but don't overdo it or it might stunt your ability to ejaculate. Practice hour breath during physical activity, trying to maintain a steady belly-deep breath throughout. After three months of this training, test yourself.
I've got the same issue with relationships man. Only the thing with me most of the time I'm nervous as shit and can't get hard. Makes it real tough to keep talking to a girl after this shit happens. I've had situations where I cum early but that doesn't bother me, just tell her to give you a minute and go again.
It's not stupid. I've done it before with Anbesol, which is for toothaches. You have to practice with it, experiment to figure out how much to apply, because it's easy to go overboard and turn your dick totally numb. What works for me is a dab on my fingertip, which i rub on the bottom of the glans and nowhere else. After that, I can fuck as long as I want and cum when I want. Worst case situation is that you can't cum at all, but I never had a girl complain about that! I just get tired after 20 minutes and call it a night. She always cums. Remember though, you always have to wear a condom, otherwise she'll get just as numb and she'll know what's up! Obviously I don't tell anyone. PE is embarassing as hell.
I have the same problem man, I actually think it might be partly because of cock size. I’ve got a larger cock at 8 in, so the pleasure of having it fully buried in a girl just overloads me. I only don’t have the problem if I’m fucking a girl that I’m not super attracted to, which causes problems later because then I get uninterested after a while and gets difficult to get hard to the point where I have to think about my most messed up fantasies of me and the girl are just having vanilla sex. My last gf I had that problem pretty bad, and the only time I remember getting super fucking hard while fucking her is when we got pretty kinky and she fingered and licked my ass while sucking my cock. Now I have the opposite problem where I’m dating this super cute Japanese girl and I just become diamonds right when we start fooling around, and her tight little pussy just feels so good around my big cock that it’s hard to get a few pumps in before exploding all over her. I try to hold it or pull out when I feel I’m getting close but it sucks cause I can’t fuck her as hard and relentlessly as I want to and I’m she wants me too. So I would definitely like to know a cure.
Wait, go over this again. I hope this isn't a LARP because I suffer from PE and this may help.
You buy this shit at Target, rub on the tip of your dick, slip on a condom, and fuck? How long does it take to get your dick numb?
Also, how are you gonna just put this on real quick, when you're eating her out? Isn't the girl going to say something?
you've got low T son head into the gym and lift everything around you. For cuming to quickly use cock rings and tell yourself that your not going to cum mind of matter or something