Every relationship I've ever had lasts less than 3 months

>every relationship I've ever had lasts less than 3 months
>feel like a failure in every aspect of life
music for this feel

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Cheer up. I'm 30 and I've never had a girlfriend.

How do you do it user

If you’re best 30 this is completely normal
Stop feeling sorry for yourself

>he's had relationships

How the fuck did ‘under’ become ‘best’?
Fucking phoneposting why do I do it

Pornography and avoidant personality disorder. It's honestly never really bothered me until recently.

Nice, I'll be there in five years.

I don't even listen to sadlad music, I like crusty old garage rock and stuff.

>tfw you enjoy the fantasy of a relationship
>but every single person you know in real life disgusts you to the core

Chin up user. This is the best breakup song ever anyhow.

youtube.com/watch?v=j42HZoBVJ1s

>tfw stuck in a relationship with a bpd girl
>if I leave she'll kill herself
>she keeps getting meaner while also more sensitive

>meet the perfect girl
>she's the drummer in an all-girl post-punk band
>does ambient electronic music on the side
>instant chemistry
>talk all night after a show
>get hit up to go for a drink
>take her home
>go on the roof of my building, im holding her
>"oh user i'll never forget this"
>next day go to an exhibit
>kiss like we're a couple
>"i'd love to see you again, let me know when you're in town again"
>have never felt so comfortable with anybody
>as i watch her walk away i catch myself thinking "that's the woman i'm going to marry"
>she lives far away but she's planning on coming back for another show in two months
>stay in touch like soldiers
>every week a new message to read and reread
>pour over her every word
>one day messages stop
>"well, people fall out of touch. it was wonderful while it lasted."
>finally, four days before she was scheduled to come
>"hey user only a few more days til i'm back"
>i've never been happier
>she arrives monday evening but i need to leave town tuesday morning
>shit
>schedule a date with her
>i want her to invite me to her city to visit her
>know that it'd be best if i had a week to move on her but instead have only a few precious hours
>wait for her under a statue
>i finally see her approaching
>my heart's racing, i've never ever felt this excited
>i go to say hi to her but she just takes me and kisses me
>"two months is a long time"
>sit by the water as if no time had gone by
>chatting away
>finally says she's tired
>kiss her and convince her to come home with me
>in bed together i say "you know, i really like you."
>"what a nice thing to say"
>the comment throws me off completely
>next morning i'm getting ready to leave
>try to suggest me going to visit her
>get shut down
>"i'd still really like to see you again"
>"me too. it's up to fate"
>"fate sometimes needs a little bit of helping."
>she's not down
>kiss her and she walks away
>i stand there watching her become further and further
>never turns around
cont

i'm not even sure why im sharing this i think im just low today

>a month later hear from her again
>tell her the guitarist from the band invited me to their show in september
>"if i'm around i'll go"
>no answer
>tell myself "if she messages me before the show, i'll go. if not, i won't"
>she doesn't message me
>i never hear from her again
>start dating this other girl in tandem
>the new girl is great
>but she isn't the drummer
>want to fall in love with my girlfriend but i can't
>i just can't get that girl out of my head
>continue going out with girlfriend, hoping mood changes
i'm nothing but nice to her but deep down i know i won't fall in love with her

I would probably break up that relationship, if you're not feeling love in it, it's just going to be harder breaking up the more time that passes.

you're probably right, but i feel so invested in it.

i wanted to thank you for reading my greentext epic, i'm afraid of talking to my friends at this point and i really appreciate the feeling of somebody going over it for a second.

If you love someone let them go, if they kill themselves it was never meant to be

No problem man. If it makes you feel better, I had a girl break up with me over text because she was leaving to another state and I haven't had any relationship since then.

Its okay Op. im in a current relationship thats been going on 6 months and I want to dump and rebound. Fucking the same girl gets really boring after awhile. She lets me bust on her face but I think i like her less becase of it. I have sad cums now bb’s.

Yea... she def wasnt moving states

Stop listening to nu-male antiandrogen music. Hit the gym and start listening to manly music like Van Halen.

what movie is this?

>hang out with girl over the course of 9 months at school
>Slowly revealed to have similar passion for music, outlook on life in general
>She starts bringing me food and putting on movies when we hang out
>Decide to take the plunge and ask her to a concert last week (slowdive)
>She enthusiastically says yes, she can go
>Day before show, cancels at 6 in the morning, says she needs to study for an exam next week
>decide to confront her at school at thr end of the day, ask her why shes flaking
>She gets visibly uncomfortable and splits to her car as we're walking and discussing this
>Messages me a half hour later, "are you mad at me?? Can we please be buddies again?"
>Decide this is it, tell her I can't do the buddy thing anymore, I like her too much now.
>She appears shell shocked, tells me
tells me she doesn't know what to say. Then she says she can't give me what I deserve, and the conversation has been over since.

This was a feels thread right?

Nah senpai. Im pretty skinny but my girl prefers me that way. You’d be surprised that girls dont actually like the muscle freaks unless they are sporty girls. Which sporty girls are pleb tier women.

You just need to know how to talk to girls and read signs.

guys only want sex anyway why tf do u care about relationships

>tfw i have a thing for smart girls
>met this girl who is coincidentally a doctor
>shake hands with her
>she's exactly my type holy shit
>talk a bit
>not enough time, had to leave
>now i'm finding it hard to communicate with her since she's on duty.
i've never wanted someone so bad that i found hope in life when i saw her...
music for this feel?
youtube.com/watch?v=08DjMT-qR9g

i'd like to get married and have kids one day and who i end up doing it with one day matters a lot to me

i value emotional experience and not doing so would make me feel like i'm just filling out my waking hours doing fuck all. i'm trying to live a life that feels worthwhile in retrospect, keeping in mind the things i value.

the "why tf do u care about relationship" approach is the equivalent of "why even look for new music you can just listen to drake and whatever the normies are listening to who cares about pursuing things that are important to you"

Literally me. Except for me being completely alone and never diagnosed with anything. Oh, and my girlfriend will not hesitate to leave.

The book 'Feeling Good' by MD David Burns can help. It's about cognitive-behavioral therapy, a successful treatment for depression.

Link:
sendspace.com/file/vedhl0

I'm going through basically this (minus the girl being a musician and me dating another girl). I spilled my heart out last night like a jackass over text and ultimately she just didn't reply after she made it pretty clear that she want's to see me but isn't sure she wants a relationship like me. I sent a text this morning apologizing for acting like a jackass but haven't heard back. I feel really alone t bh. It's tough, user

My family broke apart from a messy divorce and constant fighting/alcoholism between my parents since I was little. I've since always longed for the feeling of loving company and companionship, almost like my own little family. I try to find it in girls I attempt to date, but beyond sex and temporary companionship that only lasts a few weeks, I haven't been able to find it. Even sex just makes me sad at this point because I know they'll be gone and it was all just meaningless. Fuck man, I had to finger a girl for an hour last week because I just couldn't get it up.

yeah i'm sure they do

BLACKED

chill user, the last gf i had was 6 years ago and it lasted 6 months kek we are all fucked up one way or another

youtube.com/watch?v=oqgmHxG7VTY

>tfw kissless virgin at 20
Worst part is that I'm a faux normie

>be me 16
>date a girl for a year
>breaks up with me on our anniversary
>says she hates me and she can't give me what I need
> play guitar off and on for around 5 years before this
>become shut in after breakup, start picking up old shitty guitar more
>get real into it
>discover I'm not too bad at it
>meet a drummer and a bass player, who are just as depressed and suicidal if not more than I am
>start band to play the pain away
>music is my therapy

That was me and my first breakup. Now I actually have a decent band which plays out 30-40 times a year, makes albums and money, but these feelings are creeping back and it's starting to affect me and my music making. I feel as though music can't heal me anymore and I just get upset making it.

;_;

There is hope for you,user. Even if it doesn’t feel like it, you may get your first kiss within the year.

Ah, the plight of the literary man.
I know you well.
Be cautious with your emotions:
Free Will is real. For without Free Will,
How would one do it for it without (?)
(drooping), (phallus), looming danger
In a con(cave) () matrix
Of our own
Creation.

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first time i kissed a girl 20. the second time it happened i was 26

this except I'm 24

>have "chad" tier looks and 500+ matches on tinder
>could have met, dated, and fucked plenty of college thots guaranteed but not interested
>like this one girl I knew from high school
>been good friends with her for a few years
>we have a lot in common and talk all the time
>we used to hang out all the time back in hs, go to concerts and stuff together
>we didn't talk for a while near the end because i was busy with shit

>one day she randomly wants to start talking again after hs ended
>have become more successful in life and have a plan for the future, work out etc a lot different from hs
>she goes somewhere else for uni
>she had a bf for a bit but they broke up, was some guy she was friends with for a long time that just kinda evolved into a relationship
>was never sure if she liked me or not but at one point it definitely seemed like she did a lot of various signs
>still not sure if just friends or potential relationship material
>she has pretty much everything i want in a girl
>if I try to fuck/date her I might scare her off but I'm also madly in love with her

Song for this feel my friends

you sound like you hang around a lot of selfish people. maybe I can take care of you..

thanks

ask.
her.
out.
faggot.

youtube.com/watch?v=ctYYFETItUc

>he's been in a relationship in the first place

Oh woe is you.

>but don't hate her when she gets up to leave...

Literally me except I'm 22. I go to parties every weekend and have plenty of friends I talk to and hang out with daily. I'm also ugly as fuck and a manlet tho so there's that.

link some music

>have never had any relationships
>unemployed
>haven't got any useful skills
>living with my mom
>25 y.o.
>so beta even afraid to kill myself
do you have any suggestions for these feels, user?

This except I’m a month away from 26 and can no longer reasonably call myself a normie in any sense of the word.

start taking zinc, magnesium, vitamin d12, and also stop jerking your dick, smoking everyday, and drinking at all. oh yeah, drink more water too you faggot.

i'd say start making harsh noise wall albums and use your neetness as your image

picosong.com/wnE4E/

>stop jerking your dick
seems impossible.
thanks, i'd prefer outsider folkish stuff.

>Best friend
>He only listens to Sup Forums core
>Get him into Pink Floyd (my favorite band)
>Loves it
>We talk about the band and songs all the time
>We get into a big fight
>Neither of us talk to each other now
>Every time I listen to The Dark Side of the Moon I remember him
>Our plans were nothing but half a page of scribbled lines

You are friendzoned. You will get rejected. She thinks you're a joke.

>Faux normie
>KV
Nope. You're just autistic. You will probably die alone.

You missed your chance. She is gone forever.

I don't know about a song that says "Stop being a faggot and ask her out" but if there is one, you should listen to it.

I swear some of you have never spoken to a woman in your life. It's like they're fucking aliens to you.

>21 years old
>kissed only 2 girls, one weeb chick at q6, and again a couple months ago
>it was after a party, a girl came home with me dtf and I just didn't want to, so I blue-balled her.
>wake up the next morning with her in my bed
Am I autistic?

no. you suck at life and I'm here to teach you a lesson. you lose, loser
.

>Cheer up
good song
youtube.com/watch?v=c7rCyll5AeY

because shallow one night stands don't make one happy; close relationships do.

word

Top kek she wants you dumbass.

Jesus I fucking hate posts like this. Autistic retards asking "does she like me???". So fucking obvious.

Meanwhile I can't even get a date.

Nah you were drunk and tired probably. If not then yes.

obvious choice

Here you go OP
youtube.com/watch?v=YgSPaXgAdzE

relatable sadly, i know the feel

they're Sup Forums posters I don't blame them for being autistic

Having good looks doesn't mean you can't be autistic, if you can't get a date it's most likely because of your looks.