Ive been on Sup Forums since 2009 (36 year old oldfag here) so i know this is a pretty chauvanistic board. I dont want to be redpilled on exes. Ive read all that shit already.
What I want to hear are ACTUAL TRUE STORIES from anons. Not what you read somewhere. Not what happened to someone else. What happened to you and your ex.
Specifically, Stories with the following three scenarios:
>1) The ex gets back in touch, and you tell her to go fuck herself and don’t take her back >2) The ex gets back in touch, and you take her back, and it’s the right decision so far (still happily back together) >3) the ex gets back in touch, and you get back together, and it ends up being a huge mistake
37 year old fag here. Took back an ex a couple of years ago. Worst fucking decision ever. Motherfucker installed Team Viewer and a shit ton of spyware on my computer, laptop, and cell phone.
Josiah Hill
Gay or what?
Eli Gutierrez
Yo very interested in your experience.
Im actually thinking of marrying her and having kids, since ive never done either and im feeling i dont have the runway to get anyone better. Also im feeling girls dont want to fuck me anymore. Overall feeling really depressed.
Not much to tell. Just a person that lied about everything. We were planning on getting married and having kids. Dumped him, he was cheating and found out him and his on/of again girlfriend are doing heroin. So yeah I’m much better off.
Oliver Wilson
Did u cheat on him when you were together before? Be honest... that woild explain the spyware on ur computer.
my ex is a dumb cunt who thinks she knows everything and is incapable of caring about anyone but herself. don't do it OP. I made the mistake three times.
Jaxon Walker
Fuck no! I don’t cheat. All his exes would cheat on him. He thought I was cheating and put spyware on my shit. Went thought his cell and found out he was cheating
Jonathan Wilson
So a woman installed spyware on your it stuff?
Gavin Gonzalez
No a guy installed spyware on my shit.
Gabriel Brooks
So you got back with the ex three separate times? How long did each time last? How old are you?
Asher Howard
There is a 4th option, OP. The ex and I keep in touch but are just friends, with no delusions of being together again. Works fine so far. We figured out out that we don't have to hate each other like society dictates.
you need to figure out why she was an ex in the first place, because that will likely be what causes it a second (and subsequent) time.
Thomas Williams
We were together in college.
De facto together bc i was always with her and always fucking her but i didnt want to commit officially because i didnt want to limit my options.
But i would strike out at parties and end up going back to her. Senior year we pretty much were together although i had some flirts with at least two other chicks.
Very much best friends and very sexually compatible.
In may school ended and in october she said she wanted to give another guy a chance because i wouldnt commit. She did and we stopped talking for 10 years.
I think deep down part of it is that shes a very attractive mixed girl white black and i dont know if that would go over well with my family (im a white guy in a pretty conservative borderline racist family).
She wanted someone who would commit to her and i didnt want to.
That makes it sound like she was sprung and i was playing the field like an alpha. That was not the case. I was depressed for six years until i met another chick (who also caused a lot of emotional pain).
But now i wonder if my desire to have kids supercedes my desire not to commit.
James Myers
So I take it you were not with her long then.
Juan Evans
4 years longest relationship ive ever had freshman year through end of college
Julian White
So then this was a long ass time ago and she's back?
Nathan Lewis
>ex is back wants to "hang out" >Tell her I might be able to make it, but have to go out with another girl earlier in the day, so not sure what time >She waits around, stays out getting drunk >Go hang out while she drunkenly hangs all over me >Tries to get me to go back to her friend's place to go finish a bottle of vodka and mentions she's on the pill >I tell her I have to go >She hugs me and cries because I've never rejected her before in 15 years of random hookups, knows this time I'm done >She goes back to her state about 4 hours away and gets knocked up by some douche within 2 weeks Her plan was to get knocked up and I was first on the list of people she wanted to settle down with. I stopped hooking up with her after she became an attention whore gogo dancer and a coke head that was just trying to fuck every star she could meet in vegas. She still texts me from time to time about her daughter, and I really could not give the slightest fuck about her or her kid... that kids going to be really messed up, so I do feel sorry for the kid.
Ian Rogers
25 here.
>4 years ago >in community college class >get text from number I don't recognize >it's ex from senior year of hs >she was a crazy bitch but the sex was amazing >generic catching up convo >she is recently single >she asks if I want to come over >immediately erect >dick takes over, say yes >go to her house >she gained weight >but I haven't had sex in almost a year so idc >watching a movie >she lays her head on my lap >"accidentally" puts her hand under her head/on my dick >after movie she wants to show me some of her new art in her room >i sit on her bed >she doesn't even get her sketchbook, just climbs on top of me >fuck her like I used to >she starts getting cuddly so I leave >we hook up off and on for a couple months >eventually she starts asking questions about getting back together >say hell the fuck no bc I know she's still a crazy bitch >she gets back with her other ex 2 weeks later
We're on friendly terms now but we pretty much just use each other for sex whenever we are mutually single. It has worked out so far.
Julian Jackson
Yep we broke up in 04 and shes come back divorced after ten years.
Lucas Davis
Oh yeah dude, fuck that if that's what she's even going for, don't let loneliness or anything get to you.
Benjamin Jenkins
this. like I said earlier OP don't ever do it.
Aaron Kelly
Op here again. I feel like im getting more and more committed to her anyway and i really do like the pussy.
I also feel like i would be deserting her at this point. She helped me a lot recently when my father died and no one else was around. Leaving her to struggle now completely alone might be bad karma.
Those feelings aren't going to magically go away because you commit.
Tyler Robinson
Trump is really Slenderman
Dylan Jones
Broke up with my gf of 3 years cause she was a shit partner and cheated on me four times. She was my first and we started dating in highschool so the oneitis was super strong for me and it took a while to admit I was getting cucked. Anyways
>after breakup I go on a whole self improvement quest and start doing lots of stuff >ex hits me up out of the blue and tells me she's proud of everything I'm doing and how cool it is >talk regularly for a few days, tagging each other in memes etc >one day she's having a really bad day a school and I let her rant and I ask her if she wants my input, she says yes >give her long supportive paragraph about how it's ok to be frustrated with not getting the result she wants because it means she's passionate about her work >r-bombs me indefinitely
A month later I invite her to my fashion show and she's super dry
Like others have said, when you get back with an ex you end up breaking up again for the same reason.
So getting back together only really works if the reason was a one time event, like one of you moved away or something. If it was due to interpersonal dynamics, then it’s a waste of time to revisit an ex.
I was giving you the benefit of the doubt, until you posted that you feel like you are settling and don’t want to do that. Which is the exact reason you broke up 10 years ago.
Tl;dr - you didn’t want to commit to her 10 years ago, and you don’t want to commit to her now. Nothing has changed. If you have kids with her you will regret it.
Hunter Rogers
>Tl;dr - you didn’t want to commit to her 10 years ago, and you don’t want to commit to her now. Nothing has changed. If you have kids with her you will regret it.
Man that shits deep and i think you might really be right.
Anthony Lopez
lurk moar samnite
Carter Evans
Right here's the TLDR:
> meet pic related at community college > date for 3 months > get dumped for a nigger while she attends uni > get a call 2 months later > its her > she says she's back in town and wants to talk > "sure" > talk for about 15 minutes on the phone, says she made a mistake > meet at her place > hate fuck until 3am > leave and never talk again
Ex's are cancer and are only good for hatefucks. Also her new boyfriend gave her an STD.
Sounds like you're settling on what's available. Huge mistake. Every little thing that you now think "I can tolerate" will drive you to insanity over the years. Unless you are crazy in love with her and visa-versa, you're doomed.
Nicholas Jenkins
It's a forum for people who speak Eutruskan to discuss sheep herding. Where are you getting lost?
David Howard
Give up porn and jerking it for 2 weeks and make this decision.
Thomas Lee
If your values have shifted away from focusing on the woman/sex/romance towards being a father and having children AND you think she would be a good mother, then I think it could work out.
Best friends and high sexual compatibility is a great basis for marriage assuming she is also emotionally stable.
But if you’re still focused on exploring options and the chase then this girl clearly doesn’t hold enough of your attention.
Jason Wilson
Having your dad die can be a significant catalyst for change. You should consider the possibility that you really might have changed and are ready to settle down and have a kid.
The fact that she came back into your life at the same time as his passing may be a sign that the two of you were good together.
Depends on whether you think life is a random lottery of meaningless tragedy and a series of near escapes, or that everything happens for a reason.
