How happy is Sup Forums with their life?

How happy is Sup Forums with their life?

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24 yo depressed NEET virgin reporting in, I luv being a stereotype and my impending doom when I run out of savings

Stop posting this numale on /our/ board you soyboy

Drake levels or reclusive

3/10

reasonably
no longer on any anti-depressants, i eat okay, i wake up and go to bed at normal times, i exercise regularly, i think i'm headed in the right direction in my career, i have a loving family and a few supportive friends, i don't have any of the silly insecurities i had about clothes, music, reading etc. i had as a teenager
still feel somewhat lonely, still feel like i'm constantly letting the best years of my life slip through my fingers, still tend towards complete passivity and/or recluse

My life is 85% erect, but not 100% :'(

Very happy. Got a shitty job but have a gf that loves me. Spend my free time with her or making music or browsing Sup Forums or reading. My life is as comfy as possible.

Not at all. I'm seriously planning on ending it soon.

graduated high school two years ago, still living with parents, on 60mg of Prozac, unemployed, and on top of that i have asperger's

should i just kill myself, Sup Forums?

i feel better now that im over my gf but now i wish i had a gf. its nice to have goals and go to school.

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no
it might sound like guff but things can get better, there are always things you can do or change in your life that improves your lot somewhat
nothing in life is permanent

I could write a wall of text but in short, I'm just tired of where I am in life. I want change, I hate my body, I hate my life,I hate being lonely, I'm still unemployed, I miss richmond (find rooms for CHEAP all the time)I hate that I abandoned my dreams and goals. Change won't come until I do it and I have to get rid of these self defeating habits and mindsets.

where did western society go wrong? why do so many young men feel so irreversibly isolated, listless and incompetent?

Because they're numales and soyboys and cucks :D

I'm a freeter and life is swell.

23 khv here, got a pretty nice temporary job right now living abroad, taking a break from grass and booze, going to go back to saving the world through poetry in march. Our time here is oh so short, but I'm starting to see ways to make it worth it.

Nick Drake was a prophet if there's ever been one.

Fuck the past, user. You'll make it. Research psilocybin if you don't have any schizoid tendencies, it can be an incredible ally.

They were allowed to grow up as weaklings. Societal standards have dropped so low that you don't "have" to be strong anymore. Simple as that.

haven't killed myself yet cause i'm afraid of hell
and i love my mom
that's about it

This is Sup Forumstier crap. Strong men can't feel depressed, unfulfilled and unhappy?

strong =/= being beaten by your dad and subsequently suppressing all emotion

theres no heck its nothing when u die

thread theme I guess...
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The hell he fears, and rightly so, is the one he'll make his mother live through.

Seriously though, to anyone considering suicide, prove the fuckers who kicked you down wrong, seek help, find someone to talk to, forgive yourselves, take a break from the internet, start exercising if possible, and take it one day at a time. It really does get better.

t. four unsucessful attemps

doing those things will help your esteem, depression,confidence and self image. we've been telling you this for years but it's pretty basic info Brandon.

seconding this

I want to believe it gets better.

happy?

Not very. I've become a full on recluse and I'm thinking about dropping out of college and starting a new life with the money I have left.

I'll let you know in a few weeks to months.

Literally me.

I was ok a bit lonely and what not but have really good friends and a family that I love to death.

But one day at my new job I felt like everything was moving around me and since I've felt ill. Goin in 3 months now feelin horrible and so far doctors (I've seen three) don't know what's up.

So yeah, had a good life but if I keep like this forever don't know if I'll ever be happy again.

Music for this feel?

hey at least you got free burgers coming out of your ass
thats what ass burgers is, right?

The internet plays a big part imo. I think as time goes on we're going to see just how detrimental the internet will be. It's a blessing and a curse.

Think of all the teenagers growing up and finding this place, or watching fuck loads of messed up porn or beheadings, shit that you would never have seen on television and only seen in real life before the last 10-15 years.

The internet is rewriting humans

I think it has more to do with the comparisons to others than all the shocking content the internet has. People are now more aware on what they are missing out on and their inadequacies as compared to others. So many people are just giving up or experiencing great distress because their self worth is constantly attacked and expectations seem to be higher than ever.

what the fuck are you supposed to do besides go on the internet????????

this is very true
life just feels like one long pissing contest

two couples entwined passed me by and heaven knows I'm miserable now

Kind of ranges in between feeling calm and content some days then horribly anxious, angry and uncertain most others.

Yes, this is a massive part of it. Like I said, the internet is a blessing and a curse. Facebook and the like provide us with ease of access to message friends and family who we may not see as much, or they live in another country, but at the same time ego spoils everything as usual. It becomes a dick measuring contest and people either try to project a perfect existence on social media or bring their embarrassing trashy drama onto it for everyone to see. You're best just installing the messenger app on your phone and never actually using your Facebook account, or just staying off social media all together.

I need to quit the booze,

I have OCD and it has completely ruined my life.

>The internet is rewriting humans
this is bleak and so so true

Strong men take the negative emotions and don't let it dominate their being the way that Sup Forums queers do.

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you really do need to quit the booze

Or because we’re living in the winter of the Faustian civilization you fucking retarded piece of shit.

I'm a fairly sad dude who makes music/goes to college. Recently I got false hope from a girl I was going on dates with (the hope to share my feelings with someone and have someone who can support me emotionally) but ultimately it ended with me getting ghosted a few days after we fucked.

Now i'm even more sad. I tried to jerk it today but started crying after I hit orgasm. I have no desire to try and pick myself up after this one. rip

The thing with me is motivation, I can get stoked on something and want to do it but not even start.Sometimes I make myself get up and do something, and it's usually when I get tired of something and want change or get a good fire lit under my ass to go get something done.That's when I actually progress and change.

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Hey man, I just wanted to say that my brother's in the same exact boat as you. Asperger's and all. He matters a lot to me and I've watched as he's made progress and at the same time had many setbacks. You shouldn't kill yourself because I'm sure you matter to someone like my brother matters to me, whether or not you know it. But it's not going to get better unless you make an effort. I've spoken to my brother and he knows that he has a very difficult time speaking to people and he realizes it's ultimately pretty stupid to be as shy as he is but it's how he's been living for the past 20 years so he just regresses back almost to where he started. I suggest you try and seek out medication or help (counseling, psychiatry etc) before you get so stuck in your ways like my brother (he refuses medication and counseling). Life is too short and people with asperger's are too interesting to have to worry about social situations all the time like they do. I hope you can succeed and stop having serious thoughts of suicide. One last thing, there's nothing wrong with living with your parents, I don't know why there's such a stigma around it in the United States. Almost all European countries don't have this attitude since familial ties are a lot more important to them.

RIP me

Thanks, Justine.

I think a lot of people just become cynical because of the internet. We've realized that a lot of the shit on social media and how people present themselves is fake as fuck so we're just disillusioned with a LOT of what's around us. That and how short our attention spans have become because we seek immediate pleasures since the internet has instant answers and gratification but can never keep our attention for very long.

My man

I had a talk with some people at a moped rally this summer that said the same thing. It's just part of our everyday lives now. We're always plugged in and feel like we need to be. It was refreshing to hear people say that they were getting just as tired of it as I was.

Not going so well. I’m helping my dad care for my grandma who has Alzheimer’s. It’s heartbreaking to see her slowly getting worse. She’s starting to forget people she’s known for years.

this exactly was my life but the gf suddenly got doubts about the future and has been distant for the past month and feels very uncomfy and scary. realizing how much of my happiness was based on the relationship, and I definitely wasn't ready for this. hopefully it'll go back to the comfy life yer describing soon.

I also thought when I was around them, "why the fuck am I so scared of people?", it wasn't like they were being mean or anything, they were standing there talking with me. I guess it's the scars I have from the past, but I need to realize the past is the past and those people are gone. I need to take more social chances, work on my social skills a bit more, and just realize that sometimes people are just dicks, and there's no avoiding that. Even if you're at work, a marital arts class, or a moped rally. It's part of life and I think all of the heavy internet use was because I was afraid to get hurt again. When I got that taste of what I wanted I felt like an idiot.

Right now I'm sitting across from my grandma who is in the exact same situation. She forgets that she saw you 3 minutes ago and says "oh hi how are youuuu??"

Sorry that happened bro. I definitely have been there before. Current gf has been with me for 4 years now and we'll probably be married when I can afford a ring.

oh man. I'm sorry user but the distance and doubts are usually the sign that its over. She probably just doesn't know how to say it

Your gf is fat though.

You need to get rid of your smartphone or laptop or whatever you have. I see your trip here just about every day. Go and sort yourself out.

Not very.

I'm turning 30 next month and have never had a job. Been a NEET ever since high school ended. Might be starting a job sometime soon, though. I've lost ~170lbs over the past year and a half or so, though. Making improvements and will hopefully be able to live a fulfilling life a few years or so from now.

do you know how small a subsection this site is
there's only 40 people in this thread rn, talking about "western civilzation" jesus

congrats on not being banned anymore :)

A fat gf with a decent mouth, willing yo clean the house...

I just want to earn, come home. greet the kids, fuck a nice ass, have a nice meal, watch my favorite sports teams and sleep a nice sleep.

hurting over a girl

real fuckn bad

Yeah you got a problem with internet use. Look at the whole Lauren thing and how you caused problems in your life and hers. I bet you never thought it'd come back to bite you on the ass and you got a hard dose of reality.

me to

tinnitus making me want to kill myself.
Just took some school related Ls as well.

I may be in the process of going bald... So there's that.

what's your situation pal

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Best wishes! Don’t be discouraged if you dislike your first job, it can be hit or miss.

It’s not that bad, don’t let it concern you.

the best thing is to realize it's normal and happens to a lot of guys. you're not the only one.

My problems are quite akin to yours

I've never been in love until I met the girl I've hopelessly fallen for at university through the past year or so. I've had girlfriends but I ended it with them all.

this one is different, she's exciting, funny, beautiful and keeps me on my toes. We shared one night together under the spell of alcohol, certain things were said, and after that night things just haven't been the same, she basically cut contact with me for a week. We're back talking but I have no idea where I am in relation to her. I need to tell her.

last week I drank more than I can take and took a lot of MDMA, alone, and crashed and passed out, all completely alone. Now I am nervous or indifferent about everything

I haven't ever felt this way

it didn't go wrong

some people just isolate themselves

Not happy at all.

unsuccessfully trying to search my feelings. not sure if I'm genuinely happy with the girl I'm with or I just enjoy a break from the loneliness. I thought I was tired of spending all my time by myself. I'm not sure what to do since this is my first relationship. adding another person to my life has opened up another dimension of self-doubt. I feel bad typing these things out and hiding how I feel, but whenever I spend time with her I forget about all this shit and act comfortably around her. not sure how long I should hold out until I make up my mind to stay or go

>Best wishes! Don’t be discouraged if you dislike your first job, it can be hit or miss.
Thanks

I never thought I'd cause problems and that was the whole thing.

Life sucks for me bro

i know it's Sup Forums, but we tried to tell you for a reason to shut the fuck up, and even told you she knows someone you know thinking it would make you stop.

What are your home surroundings like? Is your living space a mess? If so, don't do anything until your space is clean. Get rid of shit you don't use, need, or want. The biggest art of starting something new or improving yourself is to have a clean slate to work from, your clean living area. You may not think it will help, but it, weirdly enough, makes a huge difference.

Yeah. I've had long term relationships, but essentially my last long term relationship 4-5 years ago and since then I've graduated HS, nearly finished college, and basically reinvented myself.

Now i'm very alone. Don't get me wrong, i'm content with myself being alone, but this girl sort of awakened some old feelings within me, like I wasn't alone. She gave me a sense of comfort that I haven't had since I was very little before my parents got divorced.

We went on a bunch of dates and she was all over me, then I spent the night and we fucked and pillowed talk the whole night. Next day she grabbed me to kiss me goodbye and we haven't really spoke since.

She got distant, and I decided to tell her my feelings a few days later. She told me she didn't want a relationship and we didn't know each other enough. I sort of stretched the convo on and she ended up not replying.

I apologized for making her uncomfortable the next day and she forgave me and said we are cool. I'm still trying to hit her up and get coffee one last time just to see what could of went wrong and give myself some closure I guess.

It fucking sucks. I haven't had the motivation to do anything productive except write some music since this all went down (over a week ago). It isn't getting better either

Psychedelics are where it's at

Oh come on, I wouldn't have got any farther than some awkward small talk and a cheesy pic. That's it, it's not like she would have hopped on my moped and we would have rode off into the sunset. It was just a stupid meme I got caught up in and pissed her off that's it. I don't need to sweat over it anymore. If she let it get to her than that's her fault, and I shouldn't have done the same.

vNothing one can make has any impact in anything. Mankind's spirit is dead. the only thing that consoles my life are works of art from the 20th century and ponder on how much some artists knew this would happen.

I was going through a rough period. Dad died from brain cancer, I graduated from college and was unemployed for a year, broke up with my first girlfriend because of depression.
But things are finally getting better now. I'm in another country getting my Master's degree and getting good grades, freelancing for a company that, despite not paying well, at least appreciates my work and might be a stepping stone for a better job, got a new girlfriend. All my anxieties are still lingering at the back of my mind, especially 'cause I'm spending a lot of time alone here, but I have projects I'm (slowly) working on and that gives me a sense of purpose. Maybe the future is not going to be so bad.

or it could have been people fucking with you hard and maybe even people you know. take the red pill

well when you spend your whole life being told you're the problem, some people start to believe it. it's not their fault.

Well no one can predict the future but those aren't good signs user. At the very worst you'll get dumped and be bummed for a while but pretty much everyone goes through this. You'll move on and find new things to make you happy, including other girls.

The middle stretch of your post is too real.

it must be very difficult to be directly told that you have no future together and with that I sympathize absolutely. I sincerely hope you are able to move onto a new love interest

The problem I have is that I have no idea what she wants. The lack of a reply is the hardest part to take. It's horrible.

I await my rejection wholeheartedly, but the saddest thing is that I'll be happy with rejection. At least I would have an answer and not be stuck in the awkward phase we are now. The fact that we never directly addressed what happened between us is the most painful - I have no idea what it means or doesn't mean to her

That's came to mind actually, when I post here there's people who pop up on my friends list like they're running scripts. It can be anywhere on this forum and the same people pop up seconds after I post. So its not like it hasnt crossed my mind.

He probably means emotionally strong and/or instilled with good work ethic and a sense of responsibility
Strawman

Kind of hate it. Turned 24 today and am actually in a shittier position than i was when i graduated high school. I have some good friends and my family is very supportive but my anxiety and paranoia has gotten to the point that it makes it difficult for me to function in a professional environment.

What possessed you to have a trip and make your personal life known here anyways? I bet it's done more bad for your life than good.

I think my life has gotten better since my new job. Two years ago I was overweight, living with my parents, working a shitty minimum wage job and drinking alone every weekend in my room. Shortly after I got the new job, I could afford my own place and a better guitar. I lost the weight after changing my diet and do my push ups every morning to lose the bitch tits I once had. I'm getting better at my guitar playing and feel happier when I learn to play songs and improve my music theory. Other than that, I'm still alone which is why I still come to this site.