Alright, Sup Forumsros, I'll cut to the chase. I have a fetish of being cucked and my gf has been very kind to try helping me live this out. I just keep on backing out. I don't know why exactly but I'm sure it's just the sheer fact that naturally people do not want to be cucked. Anyways, she found someone who knows she has a bf and he just straight up doesnt care and is hitting on her everyday he sees her. She took the first step tonight to message him and we plan to go about it and hopefully it works.
Now, I don't know if this is going to harm or help our relationship considering it excites me a lot and seems to excite her, but like... it's also a guy getting to fuck her so like, what if that bothers me afterwards? If anyone has any related experiences, good or bad I am interested.
Alright, Sup Forumsros, I'll cut to the chase...
Have fun ruining your relationship. The trust will go to shit and you gf will leave you or you will leave her.
I've helped cuck a couple of guys before.
if you keep backing out, the trick is to get into a situation where that's impossible. where you set the ball rolling and after it's out of your hands.
I'd recommend either giving that power to your gf, or the guy. whichever is less likely to give in to you if you say no an hour before he's meant to be balls deep in your wife.
But can you explain why? we talk about how to keep the trust and how to make this not only about her but about my needs. She agrees to literally any precaution and doesnt seem like shes in a hurry to do anything
What type of situation could that be? Currently we are long distanced, so she would be doing it and recording/taking pictures.
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I'm sorry but it's pretty much to late if your already thinking about this. Are you seriously comfortable eith somebody fucking your girlfriend? Just think about it non fantasy wise. It will destroy everything you have together. Please dont do it.
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that can be tricky. I'd remove the word 'no' and give you a safeword to only use in really extreme situations.
it can also help to set a time. Do you think you'd be more likely to go through with it if you locked in a day and time if it was going to happen, or if you gave a time range (say, a week) where she could make it happen at her own pace and tell you about it immediately afterwards?
Honestly, I don't know why I even like it.
I know it's wrong. I know it's probably just going to end up poorly, but she seems interested in it now and I really can't get it out of my head. I've enjoyed it for years and I just want to experience it once. I need something to convince me not to I guess..
currently we have about a week set where she is going to try seeing him. Just sometime next week she plans to, not sure when yet.
I can only think of one way where this is like an impossible "no" situation. Where she turns her phone off the whole time. But then what if I freak out?
Do you have depression at the moment? Alot of cuckolding has to do with feeling inferior and makes the cuck feel even worse. And your not the bull. YOUR the cuck. And it's not fun being the cuck. The choice is yours. I hope you make the right decision man.
I hope he doesnt see her often or youre relationship is over
You should really message her and tell her youve thought about this and you changed your mind. Even the slightest doubt means your not ready.
I struggle very badly with sporadic depression. Currently our relationship has been going through a rough situation and this idea just kinda arose once again today. I worry that we are going to ignore our problems and she will just have fun with him and it will lead to our end.
Have you ever been the cuck or have you seen a cuck react badly?
you're facing the big problem with doing it remotely.
I prefer to do it without the husband there, but doing so means you can just tell him to shut up if he starts to panic and he gets to see what's going on.
maybe try stages in your case? tell her you're okay with it going to a certain point the first time (say, sucking cock) and then see how you feel after that, rather than doing it all at once.
Why do you say the slightest doubt means Im not ready? Im sorry to ask so many questions. I want to try this but I care much more about her than I do this stupid fantasy
They see one another maybe twice a week
>be OP
>be an enormous faggot who likes sucking big cocks
>fantasize on the internet about having a girlfriend
fuck off fag
Huge red flag. I'm not sure but if you want to save this relationship your gonna have to do some hard fucking work and step it up. And i have major depression so i know its not easy man but you got to do something instead of being a worthless cuck. Thats as low as you can go. And i have never seen a cuckold relashonship last long.
Thank you. Tomorrow's conversation will probably suck, well could potentially.
Is there any way I can just get rid of this fucking terrible fetish?
Think about it this way. You have the oppurtunity to have sex with your girlfriend for the first time in high school. If you love her then you would just jump in on the though. But if you start thinking about if you really love her or if its worth it. Then your not ready to fuck her. Same goes for cuckolding.
>So..He was behind of it...
I can see what you're saying, yeah.
Have you ever been into cucking? How could I get rid of it?
occasional bull reporting in.
cucking is a fine kink, but this implies it's not coming from a healthy place. you get your relationship in order before you start trying things that will push you as hard as this.
op--how old are you?
Dont masturbate to cuck porn as hot as it is. It's nothing like that in real life. Because your getting off to being the bull. Not the cuck. Other than that try to have a better sex life with gf if that is not good already. Make sure she and you are satisfied.
I'm 19, 20 in a couple months. She is also 19.
If your going to take part in this potentially devastating fetish then you need to find the complete opposite of that guy. He'll just end up stealing your gf since he doesn't respect you at all.
I think you just said something incredible.
>Because your getting off to being the bull. Not the cuck.
I think I am..? I guess sometimes I see the guy as the bull and not me.
I have tried just blocking all porn before but I cant figure out how. I don't have the willpower not to just get around it since I set the passwords
OK, so, here's my advice. you're 19. the chances are this girl is not the girl you're going to want to marry and settle down with. you admit yourself that there are already distance issues, you're going through a rough patch, etc. Bearing that in mind, have fun. go for it if that's your thing, take lots of pics, save them, etc. you're probably going to break up with this girl anyway, and years from now you'll wish you had done it just to have the experience. you regret what you DON'T do, op.
What would you say is the rate at which cuck relationships fail due to cucking?
We have been together two separate times in about 6 years. Only splitting up for awhile because of mile distance. Our distance issues are not emotional, rather some states away
You struggle with porn addiction? I never have so i would not know. I did try that nofap thing and always failed. It's bullshit anyway though. And your 19. And that is way to fucking young to be doing cuckolding shit in my opinion. Even though im younger than you.
You must have low self-esteem and many mental issues most cucks do no offense.
This all spells no, but it's too late already whether or not you say yes or no to going through with it.
Dont listen to that shit.
I couldn't give you any figures on that. I've only done it with a few couples and they seemed healthy enough. the best ones are when I get control of her phone to send pictures and messages to him during the act.
Those guys get off on being dominated or humiliated by another male, though. to watch helplessly as somebody steps in and takes whats theirs.
Does that sound like you? if not, cucking might not be a great fit.
trust me bro, this shit looks different from 38 years old. dated like different women from 16-25 for long stretches, wish now that i'd had more fun, dated more women, and experimented with shit like this when with them.
I wouldn't say low self esteem. I do have some other issue though that I can admit. The worst easily being the depression.
I went through the same thing and ended up going through with it. You may find that you do enjoy it, but it does put an expiry date on your relationship, just be aware of that
I dont wanna sound cringe but I feel sometimes like this fetish does not fit me. I feel infuriated by the idea of some guy touching her, after I've came.
I'd say generally I'm rather masculine and not into being humiliated. I seriously just have a totally different personality when I'm turned on
Here, you tell her do it. Then turn off all communication and focus on something else. gaming or whatever. or make her surprise you. Tell her to just do it when the time feels right, and to not let you know till after the fact.
You can also kind of compare this to heroin. Sure, it feels fucking great doing it. Then you get addicted. And i don't feel like drug addiction always has to do with pleasure. It can be incredibly addicting to destroy yourself. Witch is what your doing.
then you probably aren't a great fit.
having a kink that you aren't into after you've cum is normal, but getting angry about it is a bad sign. it has to be a situation you can think about when not at all horny and still be ok with.
I do not want this relationship to end though. I genuinely love her and we have been very oddly connected for years, always coming back to one another, even though she has moved around the world during it all
I do tend to have self destructive tendencies...
Can anyone help me figure out how to just get rid of any cuck porn? Like not be able to find it
Is she fucking a black guy?
yeah, but it's probably going to, man. almost no one marries the person they've been with from their teenage years. that's a time when you try out different people and learn what you like and don't. that's true for interpersonal connections but also for sexual stuff. so while you're young, experiment, have fun, try out the kinky shit like this
Funny that you ask. Yes
Did she seem a little to willing quickly? If so it's over time to move on with your life and find a new woman.
You're definitely right. Thank you, user.
Is there anything other info or anything you can offer me?
Thats up to you. Also dont let her fuck a nigger.
So let me get this straight you have a micro penis so you convinced your girlfriend to fuck another guy....well here's your sign
She took awhile to get into the idea actually. For maybe a year, she just kinda said stuff to get me off, but only somewhat recently she has been interested in it herself, caused by the distance between us. (she lives a few states away)
Im a cuck too. Tbh i struggled with it for years, like id watch a load of cuckold porn but then nut to regular porn and den id convince myself that I was ok. I only recently accepted who I am and I honestly feel better. Not pretending to be someone else. I think you just need to find a way to cope with post orgasm guilt
Your relationship is over dude find a new chick if she's a size queen you're screwed
Explain what you mean about yourself again?
It isn't guilt. It's pure rage at the idea of someone fucking her.
I want to get rid of my fetish
How do you know she hasn't already been gang bang by every black dude in her town by now?
lol she isnt was just a pic related. she doesnt actually like the idea of dicks beyond 7. They just hurt
How do you know she hasn't already been gang bang by every black dude in her town by now?
nudes of her?
You can't. It's you. People can't pray the gay away and you can't change your sexual proclivities. I would get so upset at the idea of my girl with another guy, but my desires eventually outweighed my concerns. I just stopped judging myself and let myself be me, I know that sounds corny as fuck. But true
Lol listen to micro penis Tommy he knows his stuff
fyi my girl sleeps with different people atm
As much as I agree with what you're saying, I guess i still just want to get rid of it. I don't experience this in person, never have. It only seems to be because it's taboo and because she is so far away
Indeed I do
Because you can't please her sexually?
No that's the misconception. I really can and that's not hubris. I can physiologically function and give her great sex, but I WANT to be a cuck. It's too intoxicating
Alright everyone. I think based on all of this, I'm going to talk to her tomorrow.
Thank you everyone who participated. I'm gonna see where the conversation goes. We have a few underlying issues that need to be solved anyways.
Have a great night, everyone.
Honestly that's okay to be conflicted, and there is no shame in discussing it with professionals. In my experience the "in person" thing vs fantasy world can cause great conflict. Jekyll and Hyde type thing, but I made my choice and I'm happy with it. How agreeable to the idea is ur GF becoming?
Don't overthink it user, nobody will be harmed and everyone involved will enjoy it. I get up to some stuff that non-horny me doesn't approve of, but non-horny me knows that horny me is gonna do what he's gonna do. You just need to learn to accept yourself, just sigh and be like 'yup that's what gets me off.' and move on.
okey doke dude. Have a great night and it was pleasure talking to you. I think you should be open with her. Be well
Exactly, I think you should just accept who u r
You need to get gassed you fucking degenarate.
So I'm not a cuck but I've been around the BDSM scene for a while and know a bunch of submissive dudes. Everyone telling you don't do it or that your relationship is already fucked, don't listen to them. Here's the real deal:
You have a fetish and that fetish isn't going away. Not anytime soon and probably never. You're always going to get off on the idea of some other guy fucking your woman. The sooner you accept that is what gets you off and that's just the way it is, the sooner you'll get past all the bullshit hangups.
Some dudes are much more comfortable if they get to know the bull really well. For others, it's better if they don't really know him. Figure out what feels more comfortable for you. Your gf should DEFINITELY get to know the guy well. I recommend being there with them watching but if you're not then make sure she either checks in with you or has a safe call scheduled with someone else.
Also, make sure they use protection.
its okay to separate fetishes and real life
its like doing something out of insecurity is worthless while doing it out of love is genuine
i feel bad for newfags who get caught up in this meme the wrong way