If there's one thing I've learned in 5...

If there's one thing I've learned in 5.5 years of marriage it's that marriage is not instantaneous bliss but work in progress.

Anyone here married? If so, how long have you been married?

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I am married for 2 years now and I knew that it's going to be a 24/7 job. It's the same as relationship, just as you a caring for a fucking plant by watering and fertilizing, you have to care for every human relationship you have. Most important of course the one which you have with your wife.
Cool, you noticed it. I hope you it's not too late for you, user

Married 3.5 years, it was a mistake because I was lying to myself about what I wanted and what I was ok with.

she will cheat eventually.

Sorry my autocorrection slightly fucked it up, I hope you got what I meant

Only about 3 months for me, but hey. I spoke with somebody who had been married for about 40 years, and he said as long as you actively choose to love them, it only gets better.

Married almost 15 years. Yeah it's work, but as long as we keep fucking other girls our marriage stays fresh. Last night rubbed her pussy while watching hentai in a room full of people. We were in the back and no one noticed. Shit like that makes marriage pretty ok.

No worries man. We're actually doing pretty well, my wife and I. I was reminded of how well we're doing from my brother whose new marriage isn't going so well. Apparently, he thought getting married was the answer to all his problems.

23 years and you are correct OP

when the retarded post

To be politically correct, it's now called Domestic Incarceration!

Married almost 3 years, together for nearly 8. She is my best friends' sister and I was her first everything. It's a lot of work for me since she has a disability, but I love her to bits.

i don't think anyone is under the illusion that your life is suddenly perfect when you put on a wedding ring. if they are, they're fucking retarded.

when the retarded post

some are

post her top speed in a wheelchair.

Don't ever be politically correct.

Ever.

what disability does she have?

0. She doesn't use one.
Cerebral palsy.

"Disability" for most women is made up bullshit to get sympathy and not have to work

4 years strong and had our first kid almost 6 months ago.

Was floating in an empty sea before I got married. It flipped a switch in me and now I'm becoming the man I always respected.

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So...what now?

13 years here, best advice I got was to never bring up old shit, like to rub mistakes in each other's faces. That shit will never end well.

Also love is like a fart, if you have to force it, it's probably shit.

I believe it was Shakespeare that said that.

>Also love is like a fart, if you have to force it, it's probably shit.
I love you man

19 years of marriage taught me that if she sees a better deal, she'll be gone like a shot.

That's great to hear, user. Good for you.

Hahaha

That's great

I remember you, you were talking about Pauline Palsy a couple of weeks ago user.

I've been thinking a lot about that lately, the wife has been dealing with a lot of depressing things in the last half year so I'm not really going to make any changes to things in the short term...

I can't spend the rest of my life with her though, so, divorce eventually.

Married for 3 years this July, been together for 7 or 8 total. I love her, we've had our ups and downs, she had a lot of mental illness problems due to PTSD and shit, but she really put in the effort and is doing a million times better than she was five years ago. Like that other user said, don't throw shit in each others faces. You're with this person for life, use that opportunity to make each other better people.

I've been married ten. I've not once had an argument with my wife. She's a stay at home mother and I earn the income, I work a lot from home. We have four kids, own our own home, two cars... it's middle class mediocrity and I'd not change anything about it.

Sounds like you've settled tbh. I'd rather be lonely, that worked out well enough for me before I met my wife.

If you want to call her that, yeah.

Surprise her with a vacation away, take her mind of the depressing stuff shes had to deal with, spend time together, make her laugh and when the moments right and you see that glimmer in her eye, fuck her throat and tell her its over

>Also love is like a fart, if you have to force it, it's probably shit.
This is the most true thing anyone has ever written.

I jest user, i remember in the last thread you adored her, i think out of that entire thread you were the happiest person there, hope the good times carry on

Sounds like marriage comes with a lot of baggage. Seems exhausting.

Thanks. She's recently discovered she really likes going shooting with me and thee's always fun at night whenever we go, so there's definitely a lot of good times to come.

>Endeavoring to spend rest of life with one person might come with baggage.

No fucking shit

My gf likes to do this one, we've been together for 4 years and she keeps telling me what things i did wrong even if it was 2+ years ago, she says it is because she is so hurt by it but she does thingsl ike that to me too but i just brush it off. Any advice?

7 years. 2 kids. Love my wife, we have a laugh, but zero sex and everything is about the kids. As it fucken should be, we’re adults and we actively chose to be parents.

that's women in general

I'm engaged to someone with a disability, and yea its a lot of work but i think thats why we've basically already been married for years, now we're just putting rings on basically

The rewards > the cost

Only when it's working. It's pretty obvious that it's hard to tell what's going to work, given the divorce rates.

In all seriousness though marriage can be effortless when what you need to do to maintain it is what you want to do. It's like doing what you love for your career, you never actually work a day in your life.

Same as that, but with blowjobs and remembering anniversaries and stuff.

>blowjobs
giving or receiving?

Married two weeks so far. Japanese wife, bretty gud so far

WHAT? I don't understand why when some people get married and have kids they stop having sex. Like don't you still get horny? It makes no sense, can't you just fuck after the kids go to sleep or something? Can somebody please explain this to me.

We just let them join in

28 here, been with my gf for over 5 years, have our own house, dog, fence, two cars and most recently an beautiful baby girl.

Iv watched every marriage Iv ever witness fail, including my parents and her parents as well.
I feel like getting married would ruin whatever good thing we have with some sort of needed added pressure.

I also realized that marriage isn't a Disney movie like they like to portray it.

We have however started calling each other hubby and wifey cause after so long " boyfriend and girlfriend " feels like its cheapens it.

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5 years. Its great actually. Shes actually bi as fuck and had her gf love with us for awhile, did that twice but we moved across the u.s. now. Love

We were like that too. Our wedding was us going to the courthouse, signing the papers and our parents taking us for a fancy lunch, then we sat under the big three in her parents garden and exchanges some vows.

kys

Why is this place full of so many passive agressive pussies. This shit happens to you because you invite it.

>Why is this place full of so many passive agressive pussies. This shit happens to you because you invite it
welcome to Sup Forums

1.5 yr, her 22/ me 23
Married because I joined the military as EOD.
So if I blew the fuck up she'd be taken care of, got injured and honorably discharged anyways with a fucked up back.
Pretty solid though, we play video games together. The spark is long gone but we love each other's company and are each others best friend. If marriage is suppose to be some extra world feeling, it isnt there. But as far as my marriage goes we are both happy and push each other to be more successful.

Yep

skip that expensive shit. just follow the last bit

>Biochemist here
>Married a biologist
>She cheated with a postdoc in the room with a 2 photon microscope in the basement
>Left me for him
>My income is US$96k/year
>Alimony +child support is $2200/month
>Trump just made it non-deductible

I dont get it either. Ive alxo been married 6 years and have 3 kids. Our sex life is definitely alive and well a d i dont understand people who just stop having sex. I would abso!utely be worried that my wife is cheating

hopefully gunna be an engineer that travels a lot so if i do grow tired around being with the same woman 24/7 i can just take a 2 month break and say its for work. i got this shit planned out

T.dirtbag

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Got engaged a couple months back. Super hyped

im just pragmatic

They usually get fat so u don’t want to fuck em. It’s why I just cheat to fill that void.

>Be me, 41 yo male
>1st wife : 13,5 years on relationship, 10 of those on marriage (divorced)
>2nd wife : 4 years on relationship, 3 of those on marriage (divorced)
>3rd wife (current) : 4 years on relationship, 1 of those on marriage. Happy as fuck.

Marriage, what can I say? With both of my previous wifes I had good times and I had bad times. They were not complete waste of time and although they did hurt like motherfucker (actually, I made them both mothers as well) I think that I ended up somewhat on plus side with each of them. In the end though, with both of them, overall bitching, toxicity, negativity and sexdeath were enough to negate everything good so I called it quits and never looked back. I could say, even when 2nd one did not last as long as 1st one I consider it still as upgrade. I just figured out what I wanted and what I don't want so it was easier to go away (it was not easy but I knew that it's not end of the world and besides that relationship was not doing good on either of us).

I married with all of them three because I loved them and wanted to share my life - also wanted to be sure they are financially covered if something happens to me (my life's been quite harsh + I had occupation that was one of the most dangerous ones around here). So yeah. Only thing I regret bit is that I should have walked away sooner on both previous cases but never mind, I still found my way around so all's good.

Married for 13 years here, and let me tell you, nothing really quite adds spice to that stagnant feeling of a relationship that long like fucking your wife's sister.

Anons, i broke up with my first true love last saturday. She stopped loving me the same, always went out with her friends, “made friends” with her ex, and went behind my back to smoke weed with other guys. She used to be my everything and for the first year I was her, us v the world you know. But time went on and it just went sour. I know it went bad, and i made the right descision, but every night when i sleep i dream about her, and every day i wake up I think of texting her, but know i shouldnt, then asthe day goes in im fine. I know this is a retarded blog post, but i needed to get this out and ask for help in how to deal with this.

that's heartwarming

Thanks, it was a wonderful time for us.

Advice from someone who’s been thru that before. She’s gonna suck and fuck around and get her partying out of her system. Then she’ll probably hit you up in a few months to a year wanting to reconnect. For me, it was best just to move on. I found a 10/10 after and had a fun relationship with her

Thanks, ive played around for a bit what to do, and i think if the time comes i will just tell her to hit the bricks. Ive finally stopped blaming myself and realized it takes two, and she fucked it up. On a side note sex dried up in those last 6 months, bc she developed ovarian cysts, and she was never a fan of sex/nudes as she was unable to get off. My quest for a kinky loyal loving gf continues

5 years in may. Been getting rocky recently, you get tired of seeing the same person over and over. Giving your spouse space and spending time apart helps you in the long run.

10 years and still going

Bringing stuff like that up to hurt you is not respecting you as a partner. It won't get better. If you love someone you wouldn't do that to them. I'm sorry user. You deserve better.

Try fetlife

how does sex work with her?

>He was behind of it.

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thank you, this is life changing

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27 years here. The quicker you learn you're opinion is wrong, the better home life will be. Also, do not relinquish control of family finances.

Like with a normal girl, just she likes it a little slower and gentler.

that actually sounds really nice user, best of luck to the both of ya.

It is quite nice, especially the sex after I shave her legs.

only a few more months until she dumps your ass for a pothead used car salesman and takes your house

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What happens when the kids leave, user?

a-are you gonna be okay?

10 years next month.

How on earth do you keep your marriage intact now that faggots can get married?!

Have you tried drinking?

You're going to be a shitty engineer if that's how you plan.

25 years 1 month. Fire & rain.

>Married 10 years
>Thought I'd always have sex and could live without porn
>She doesn't have much of a sex drive
>Still on Sup Forums 10+ years later looking at porn daily
>Marriage is awesome but the sex could be way more often
>8/10 would marry again

I'm been married for 5 years.

I'm now in love with a co-worker.

It's hard, but we're managing.

Are you me?

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"Stories from a Drywaller's Diary"

Married for 5? 6? Years now.

Married a cute Mexican gal, life is pretty good still. No real complaints, she takes care of the house and shit while i bring the money.
I get home and food is made and shit like insurance and Financials are taken care of.

If i could describe it im the charcoal covered guy shoveling cole in the machine while she navigates.

Most of the people i know are divorced or have shitty wives. So ig i got lucky.

She has sisters if you nigs are interested.

I just spent a ridiculous amount on rings, but it doesn't feel like a mistake.

>I shave her legs
lol why