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What's on your mind? What's stopping you from being with the one you love?

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Not me in that picture but it's my girlfriend.
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My girlfriend asked me for time, is that good or bad? we have a relationship of six and a half years we live together, we have never been infidels, she says that we need to mature. What do you think?
sry for my english.

For time?
What do you mean by that? Also where are you from?

I like a girl who is 6 years older than me. She's kind of socially akward but she's pretty cool. We like the same shit and get along pretty well, but like I said. She's the loner type. What do you think? (this is just a short version, I don't want to type a wall of text just yet lol)

get shy/over think shit when getting my dick out, would much appreciate advice OP

gf wont have sex with me because it hurts her too much. what do i do. i am average

Depends on if you're both in the same place in life.

You need to see if it would be better to remain friends or if you'd want to pursue something romantic. If you have to basically force the relationship to work then I'd recommend maybe just remaining friends. If you and her are both finished school, and are close, I'd say proceed with caution.

Ask out a girl but she said let just be friends

put it in her ass homeboy

1 year being best friends...

Damn! I'd say look into what's causing the root problem. Is it medical or psychological? Is it a lack of attraction or anxiety? Building up to intimacy is an important part of a healthy sex life. Foreplay is the best way to get things going, and keeps your mind off of performance woes. Also, stop watching porn and hit the gym/run track. Eat right and change your diet. Talk to a doctor about supplements (zinc, magnesium, etc) that can help boost your sex drive.

The one I Loved left me to marry a rich Jew. I'm also broke and living at home now after college and losing my last job to lay offs. Took me a year to get another job. Just started. No dating for me until I can move out and get money.

After my past relationship I've found it incredibly hard/not really wanting to connect or even flirt with girls. Nothong beyond a simple friendship.

Yeah because they suck. Find a homely church girl or a foreigner. American girls are pure trash these days.

I'm assuming you're young? Don't worry about rejection. Happens to everyone, and it teaches you how to take criticism. Focus on improving yourself. Go to the gym, read books, become interesting (pick up a hobby). Sooner or later your dream girl will stumble into your life! Happened to me.

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thanks for good reply, it's psychological I just over think things in the moment and shy to get cock out over anxiety, don't want to resolve to drugs really, has this ever happened to you with a woman?

curious was your girl also a Jew?

I still stalk my exes fb page even though it's been 2 years since we last spoke, and we're not even fb friends because it ended badly. She's moved onto someone else, and I know I should just stop looking at her page even though it hurts. I don't even know why I think deep down we'll end up together someday. I swear love makes you stupid.

Got any tips to get over her? I feel like I've tried everything.

Used to have this, experience is king basically but you can help by 'practicing' being assertive, present, etc in your wank sessions. Just...focus on fucking her really, and know that you're the sort of guy that does that. Girls like it when a guy FUCKS them, they really do, you don't need to be self-conscious about it.

Hope it helps!
Hasn't happened to me yet to be honest. But it's one of those things you'll have to get over. Don't think of sex as "gonna get muh dick wet!", Think of it for what it is. An intimate relationship with a woman I'm attracted to (and love in some cases). Build up to it. Focus on getting her ready to go, then you'll probably get going from her reaction alone.

>Hmm...He was behind of it...

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No she was not. We are both from the same shitty Balkan country.

What the last guy said, this isn't a thing that predicts future success or attractiveness or anything. Often is either circumstansial or just you're not something that clicked for her that day. It's good to work on things that make you more authentically attractive, since it improve your success rate, but fundamentally you just need to find another girl who likes you right off. Mooning after the same one is VERY unlikely to work.

Yo i need some help whats with girls that give you a shit ton of attention and even tease then randomly start ignoring you then back to shit ton of attention and teasing

She finds me annoying, only because she's uncomfortable with social interactions and last year I was really lonely and messaged her a bunch. I recently got info from one of her friends saying there's still a chance and gave me an assload of info about her. I still doubt I can fix this, what fo you think I should do?

I've been with my girl for nearly 3 years and we haven't had sex yet. We're both still virgins and we've tried a few times but every time it hurts her too much and she chickens out. Its been about 2 years of her being "ready to do it soon." I've pretty much given up hope of it ever happening with her.

You know what, my last relationship was with a foreigner from DK. Maybe the fix is dating another one.
American girls aren't shit for the most part.

Dated a girl for two years. She ended up cheating on me with some dude from Tinder. It's fucking brutal. It hurts. But it WILL get better.

Actively stop yourself from looking at her Facebook. It's become a habit but you can break that. You don't need to fall victim to it.

What's hurting the most is the thought of "what if things were different" or "it could still work". You miss the good old days, but you need to realize that those days with her are gone. If you're still hung up on the one you love it'll get worse and worse. You can't stop loving somebody that you spent a lot of time and energy with, but you can slowly stop thinking of them as nothing more then just a memory.

Get off Facebook for a bit. Delete or archive any photos you have of her. Actively stop yourself from checking her out on Facebook, and pick up a hobby. I started running everyday after my breakup with her. I lost a shit ton of weight and got my confidence back. Build back your confidence, be more open with friends and family, and just have fun. You'll look back and wonder why you were being such a downer.

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what was it that made you overcome the anxiety and to stay fully hard, just knowing to that she wants to be fucked?

mostly happens to middle aged men but can happens to the youngns too, will keep that in mind user and thanks

she must of had some good pussy for that jew to keep a shiksa

BAD sign user, she's really not into you but likes you enough platonically to a) keep you as a friend or b) keep you as a backup plan. She doesn't want you romantically or sexually.

Really, she doesn't. A girl that's into you sexually will find some way to make shit easy for you, not push you away.

Find a girl who wants to bang you. There's seriously lots of them out there. You can keep her as a friend if you'd like of course. Maybe she can help you find a girl? Girls usually feel safer meeting a guy who has a girl around him, even a sister or friend, since it sort of demonstrates that he's at least not a creep or a psychopath.

She wants your attention. Starve her of it. It'll make her either change her ways or she'll just stop being a tease towards you. Fight the urge to give in to her games and focus on building a better you. Teaches you restraint and composure.

My wife. Ofcourse its probably for the better, cause the one i love is 17, and theres a 14 year age difference.

I'm dating a girl I really like, I enjoy hanging out with her, I'm very attracted to her, she makes me feel good about myself. Mostly everything is perfect. Only problem is she's super selfish. I pay for everything because she's broke, which by itself would be fine because I have money. but then she doesn't really put any effort into doing anything for me at all. She only does short foreplay blowjobs, doesn't give massages, doesn't scratch my scalp which I like, doesn't cook, doesn't contribute anything really. What do I do? Oh, BTW she's a model, and I'm just average looking. so I think maybe that makes her think she doesn't have to do anything? I don't know.

I meet this girl 4 years older than me at a reggae concert. We happen to live like 5 minutes from each other and we both have another place we stay 45 minutes away and again it’s like 5 min from each other. She takes my virginity at a pretty late age( can drink legally ). We only fuck a few times and she sends me mixed signals. We both are going through a really hard time in our lives but last time we chill she plays better together my Jack Johnson. I tell her I want to celebrate new job and she says she “needs time to work on herself and ya better we don’t talk”. She remains on my mind constantly...

Enough info to say she’s just putting me down politely?

Not what you want to hear but I'd say move on. Even if she takes you back it's not going to be genuine or a healthy relationship.

Thank you for the advice :)

Hang in there buddy. I don't want you to be checking her social media feed anymore. Build yourself up and get to it.

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I'm 15 and going on a first date with a girl to a movie and then walking around a shopping center are there any tips you have as to what I can do to make it a better time for her?

jack johnson?

How old are you if you don't mind me asking?

two people live in different places. timing does seem off, but we still like the attention we give each other. will see each other soon- except one is in a long term monogamous relationship.
sleep together anyway?

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I don't know. She occasionally calls or texts me to ask me how I am or tell me she loves me. I say things like " Oh that's nice" and "Are you drunk?" and "Not so happy with the Yid huh?"

what movie?

(Better together is a fantastic song by a fantastic artist)
You're both in a weird place in your lives. I'd say not to pursue a relationship with her past friends with benefits. It can lead to a lot of complications down the road.

Idk what to do with her while in public other than just talking and holding hands.

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I mean, they're manipulating you. They want validation, and they get it from you when they don't have another source that's 'better.'

It's the same as 'push-pull' theory in PUA stuff. It's designed to keep you on the hook as a backup when she doesn't actually really like or need you, but likes you to be there when she's bored.

It means that she thinks you're attractive enough that your attention boosts her status, but not attractive enough to actually be a bang/bf.

Ignore her as much as politely possible. Brush off her attention, kindly. Find a girl who REALLY likes you. She may actually come around for a bang or two if you want it and she gets jealous.

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“Bettter together” by jack Johnson, think acoustic live song

We are going to see ready player one because we both like video games and I loved the book

Don't be that guy. Don't sleep with her, man. Imagine what you'd be feeling if someone did that to your wife. She's probably just feeling unloved or has baggage from her marriage with this dude.

Love song even

Hey op 7/10 fag here i wanna get with this one qt 8.5/10 how would i go about doing it i always flirt with girls but im not trying to fuck i actually wanna make her mine never had more then a fuckbuddy

To add nuance to previous reply, this sounds codependent to me. It's toxic. Good relationships are a mutual drawing-together. Not this game of fucking cat-and-mouse. At best, she's trying to arouse your sympathy so she can feed off of it. Find a girl who reciprocates your affection, not one who feeds off of it.

interesting, she must miss you but only be with him for his money, if he finds out she's still texting you he'll get rid of her and she'll come back to you probs

Shes hella shy too so idk

that actually looks good that movie it's obviously a Tron rip off but looks good. I say just flirt with her and stuff maybe rest your hand on her upper thigh during the movie for a tease

Dinner after date. Gives you something to talk about.

Don't lead with the arm over seat/hand holding stuff. Gauge it. If her hand is near yours, passively brush your hand against it. If she recoils give it 20 minutes. If she plays with your hand too, don't freak out, keep your cool, and SLOWLY move in for the hand hold.

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Ain't gonna work for you bro. I'm sorry. A girl who is turned on by you will go to weird lengths to make you happy sexually. This ain't it.

Medical problems are possible of course, but the conclusion is the same either way frankly.

If you try to break up, I wouldn't be surprised if she suddenly gains the ability to bang you properly....for about 3 months. It's a trap.

Lose the rating system.

I've seen "6/10" guys land "9/10" wives because they have charisma and confidence (surprisingly, they weren't rich).

You're right. Enough is enough. My happiness can't revolve around her.

Fuck her, dude. Let her be with someone else. Be a better you for you, not her.

No one wants me, and the feeling has become mutual.
>single since 2005
>age 29

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She said it was cool if we cuddled so I don't know where to start. I was thinking about doing that thing where you kinda draw stuff on their thighs with your fingers but I don't know how it would play out. This is my second first date ever and her first date ever.

First love?

He won't and I already told her no just before they got engaged. She knew it was coming and asked me if we would work out. I said no. She burned me bad after our breakup. I was with her for 6 years and had a ring picked out and she had a meltdown unrelated to me but took it out on me. Very vindictive shit. It's not too frequent. Maye like once every 6 months she'll get trashed alone and text me or call. It's been 3 years since our split.

Ok dropping the rating system but still how do I get with her I think I'm a pretty funny guy not hard to make some people laugh but regular convos I'm average

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Understood, thanks.

It’s been almost a month since I’ve seen her and over a couple weeks since she’s texted me back so it’s just killing me not knowing if I’ll hear back

Don't scare her off. She's obviously pumping herself up to go on this date with you so take that cuddle stuff with a grain of salt.

If it doesn't work out don't worry, maybe just try to stick to being friends.

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Yeah... You're right about that, I'll keep it in mind...

We're both studying japanese... I'm also in college. She dropped college quite a few times... not long ago she dropped it to move alone.

But yeah, again, I'll keep what you said in mind. Honestly I like her. I'm not in love with her. We're both pretty happy as friends so, I wouldn't mind either way. Thanks user.

Just letting you know that I'm screencapping this incase I feel like relapsing. I think it will be good motivation to kick the habit.

Alright thank you!

"what was it that made you overcome the anxiety and to stay fully hard, just knowing to that she wants to be fucked?"

To be completely honest, there really is no way but experience. I fucked up chances with two hot girls by being subpar with them a few times (mostly) in a row before I really got it. That stings. That's a necessary part of the process. You DO have to suck before you get good.

Knowing that is actually a huge deal. Knowing that is normal is very important. It's not that you're defective; it's that you're in the place that every guy without much experience is, and that it gets better.

Past that, I started thinking more sexually around girls that I liked. Stupid stuff like I was talking to a girl and just focused on how hot she was and how I would bang her as I just talked casually, I started hoping I would get a hard-on as I looked at her, I started thinking that I hoped she noticed cause that would turn her on, etc. I DOES NOT make you say or do anything creepy, MIND THAT, but it just adds a sexual subtext to interacting with girls.

Be a funny guy!

Funny isn't always "Robin Williams on crack". Be suave, be a gentleman, and be genuine. Don't be a meme spouting, socially awkward loser who starts relationship threads on Sup Forums.
Don't be like guy in pic

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Don't let it get to you man. Just see this as something that happened and move on from it. Your life doesn't revolve around another person texting you back. Don't be sad if you're left on "read".
Better "read" then dead.

No worries. Just think of me when you're getting that sweet post movie hand holding action.

Likely won't get better. Unless you turn up the asshole and make her work for your attention. It's hard for a lot of guys to do that longterm, but it works.

Ask yourself if you're OK with that.

That's unlucky man, she lost a really good guy for a jew, the parasites of the earth, forget that whore and try get talking to some other nice woman out there, you deserve it and someone will come along soon

My ex that dumped me over 4 months ago emails me saying she doesn't know how to contact me. I give her my number. We text a little and then set a date to call onthe phone. We do and have a good time. At the end i told her to call me next week and she didn't. We live hours apart as well.

Last time we talked was 10 days ago.
When she dumped me i told her i wasn't going to be friends and if she ever changed her mind to contact me again.

So i will not contact her ever again. Acting like a beta is one huge reason why she left. So obviously i need to stand my ground and have her come to me.

She knows she can make any man do anything for her because she's hot. Don't let her use you like that.

I'm over her, just not over my shitty life situation right now. I went whore mode for a while about a year back. Just fucked lots of strange. Didn't like it. I've been sexless for about 8 months now. Just need to get my finances in order because I can't live at home with my folks and sisters anymore. It's driving me insane.

To add to that, the best way to turn up the asshole is to find something that you care about accomplishing and do that more than you do pleasing her. You don't have to be ACTIVELY mean necessarily (though it doesn't hurt TBH)

Don't improve yourself to get an ex back. That only works in the movies and makes you believe that she is to thank for your improvement. Be selfish a bit and focus on making you better for you.

I mean, we do just about every other thing sexually but that. But yeah, I get what you're saying and you're probably right. We're in love but its not like there aren't other issues with our relationship as well.
Yes it is.

How do I pass the level in Super Mario bros 2 where the bird is on the carpet

The problem is with you guys waiting this long. If the intimacy was there you'd have done it by now.

Always hated those little bastards.

HOW you talk to her is more important than anything else. Tease her. Shove her a bit. Listen to her.

PLAY with her. Have fun.

Find other things to have fun about. Cool boulder? Try to climb it. Arcade machine? Challenge her to a match. New restaurant? Try appetizers. Park? Try to hit squirrels with pine cones. Don't ever get butthurt if she doesn't want to play your impromptu game, sometimes people aren't in the mood and it makes you look like a bitch. But if she is in the mood, it makes you 'that guy.'

You jump on the birds, throw them to their deaths, and then use the carpet to fly right.
>This is where Rockstar got the idea for GTA games.

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>Love girl
>Best friend

Help user, wat do

SO everyone sucks before they get good, got it. Experience wise i'm quite good and confident at talking with girls but i've only been with 3 of them (all which I never fucked and 2 of them where my dick wasn't hard so I just fingered them all which got them off). Would you say it takes about 5 girls worth of experience to stay in the mood to fuck them?

Uh...ask her on a date? Srsly user if you're OK with flirting this is junior league.

Some girls don't want long-term things just like guys, so maybe you can't 'make her yours' but that's how you find out. Ask her out, have FUN with her, flirt, and intersperse that with convo about your goals and dreams and see if they mesh.

This really ain't worth it user, she's stringing you along and the ambivalence is her fucking problem.

I don't think so. Its infrequent enough where I think it's just repressed emotions and guilt when she calls and as I said here , I'm over it. I'm just pissed that my relationship to her set me behind. My plans were centered around a life with her and I've basically had to start from scratch in my mid 20's.

I require more information.
Tell me more, tell me more, does was it love at first sight?

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You can't STOP kids horny about each other from banging. It's practically why we invented morals.

This is bothering you, otherwise you wouldn't have written. I know you probably see what a good and complex person she is, and THAT'S NOT WRONG, so this is hard. But if you're unhappy longterm, so will she be.

Hey, happy in my relationship and love my girl but want more sexual partners. How do I keep what I've got going on intimate but also add casual patners on the side?

It all depends on if she's into it or not? Would you be ok if she was into multiple partners?

Talking confidently with girls is a GREAT start. Good skill to develop first. But it doesn't translate to the bedroom much. It's a different skill.

It usually takes a few. Let's not set a hard number. It depends on sex drive and baseline anxiety levels, more or less, and 2-6 is probably typical.

But proper inputs are important too; I generally disadvise porn, but maybe watch a few James Deen porn vids to see what being masculine and sexual looks like outside of the exaggerated BDSM style vids, then try to find that drive in yourself.

Like....I was really timid when I started banging girls. But it was shyness, not submissivness. As I gained confidence, I learned how I actually LIKED lightly dominating girls, and how they like that back. I learned to feel my oats, bro. You can do it too.

Also, if some individual girl is different, that's fine too. Las girl I was with was actually quite dominant. I let her do her thing within reason and it was fun. I wasn't into her pinning me down and hitting me a bit, but it was damn fun to fuck her after she got herself worked up. Just...figure out your boundaries.

This is like a conversation. Talk/act WITH your partner.

Sure. Unless one of them was just me but better.