Tfw your bf is a pleb

>tfw your bf is a pleb

I'm so sick of his bullshit. Since I know he won't be into anything too weird, I always send him the normiest and most accessible shit I can find in my collection, in hopes that our tastes will somehow intersect, but he never fucking likes anything. He sometimes pretends to like it but I can tell he doesn't. He only listens to incredibly insipid indie pop/folk and abhorrent local bands. Honestly I don't think I can do this anymore. I do love him but music is an important part of my life and I can't be in a relationship with someone who just doesn't give a fuck about it.

I'm mad because I just sent him a poppy, classic Bowie song, but even that is somehow beyond him.

post pic and timestamp (tits are optional)

stop trying to imply that you're a woman
you're doing this for the (You)s

nice bait honey but real relationships aren't based around intersecting tastes, contrary to the opinion of the permavirgins who spend their life on this website

L O N D O N

This.
Music can come in handy in building a relationship/scoring pussy, but it's not THAT important of a factor.

post his cock size

how could your experiences account for every possible relationship dynamic? pretty sure there's couples out there whose intersecting tastes of literature, music and art holds to be the foundation of their relationship, as well as the most prominent topic of conversation

Of course they're not, but when you keeping showing stuff that's important to you to someone that you love and their reaction is always "eeehhh, sorry, no," it's incredibly frustrating. I feel like a fucking idiot even though I know that he is the idiot.

>pretty sure there's couples out there whose intersecting tastes of literature, music and art holds to be the foundation of their relationship, as well as the most prominent topic of conversation

Honestly, these are the best kind of relationships. If your interests don't intersect, what the hell do you even talk about? What you're going to eat for dinner?

Because there's more to life than just music you bug.

whats your favorite music user

pretty sure I mentioned more than just music you fucking wet flannel

this

*art
there, fixed it
you've obviously never spent any time with a woman

find a different friend to discuss and listen to music with.

i'm sure such couples exist, i was referring more to the

>I do love him but...

bit, it's not really love if you won't accept his tastes right?

>what the hell do you even talk about?
Can someone actually answer this? I think I'm too autistic for this shit.

If you like him as a person then his music opinions shouldn't matter you fucking pleb.

actually there isn't much to human relationships in general. i don't know, maybe i'm actually autistic, but i get very anxious thinking "what are we going to talk about as time goes on?". if you don't share interests with the person you're with, the relationship will grow stale rapidly. when you've completely gotten to know each other, something has to keep you together other than physical attraction, and what the hell will that be? it's got to be some sort of mutual interest.

if the person is completely uninterested in what i like, what's the point of being with them? having some company for the sake of it?

i recently was with a girl whose main passion was gossip girl. we had the most trivial conversations and i always felt like vomiting when i got home from our dates.

t.

you're obviously just mad that you spend all of your time with stale geeky white women. thats not my fault you neckbeard.

thats a lota text for bein a failed normie and still a pleb

did this make you feel good you sad little man

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I didn't even read it.

Anything you want to talk about :^)

Honestly though it can be what you did/saw that day, future plans, world affairs, gossip. It obviously depends on how long you've known the person, when you first meet them you'll probably end up talking about your tastes, but most IRL discussions about media and art basically boil down to "I liked it" / "I didn't like it". On a message board with its own culture you can drop as many references and go as in-depth as you like, there will be someone you can have a discussion with. In person, in-depth discussions about topics like the Egyptian musique concrete scene often leave your partner bored unless (a) they're also into it or (b) you're a very engaging, knowledgeable and passionate speaker and they are curious about the topic, which is a rare combination.

He likes indie folk, right?
Indie folk -> folk punk -> crust punk -> hardcore punk -> good music.
Always start where he is and work your way to music that actually challenges him. Once he understands why good music is good, you can turn him onto new genres.
Skipping crust punk is optional, also throw in some emo at the end or some post-hardcore, it's more about the idea than those exact genres. Also Pat the Bunny is a good intermediate between folk punk and crust punk.

you should cuck him desu

so you're saying that common tastes keep you together? so then you can sit around and listen to the same music all day, then all you'll have to say to each other is "that song is good" "yeah".

if you enjoy a person's company it's unlikely you'll run out of things to talk about

you can also drop references and go in-depth as you like irl... if they have the same eclectic taste as you.

i don't know, maybe you're right
i've never been in a longterm relationship and i tend to really overthink human interactions

If this is bait, this is pretty good bait.
If this is not, you should to move a bigger city with a good music scene. Where I live, women make bands play.

Why are there so many gays on Sup Forums?

Sup Forums as a whole desu, its where the alt-right come to express their thirst to be cucked because lord knows their alpha male fathers are not with that gay shit

fags
tl:dr btw

husband loved 80s power ballads, sinatra, and queen when we met and not much else. oh and only the singles of course! have gotten him on to a few things but desu it took years. just don't ever make him think his music is bad and he might give yours a real shot. really give his a shot too! we share shit all the time now and it's great

don't date plebs, remember this lesson young grasshopper

Of course you need to share interests, it's a great starting point for getting to know somebody and bond over shit like that, I'm not disputing that, it's not like people don't discuss art in a relationship, they do.
However, let's say, hypothetically, you start living together with the person you love. Are your Kid A conspiracies that you've read on r/radiohead/ strong enough to keep her attention? What? They're not? Shocker!
You can most certainly do that shit with the rest of your buddies, but romantic relationships are very different. If you'd do everything with your girlfriend that you'd do with your best friend, then you're don't really know the fuck you're doing.

>tfw no Sup Forumsdrone gf with shit taste and delusions of patriciandom

not every relationship works the same! some couples are legit best friends and will happily listen to each other go on and on about some random shit they're enthusiastic about. healthy to have a good mix of your own and mutual interests i think. doesn't mean your s/o doesn't want to hear what your thoughts just because they don't engage in whatever interest

>tfw no gf
ftfy