School of Life: Oy goy, don't marry, it's bad for you!

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Let's see who's behind this channel.

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>De Botton's Swiss-born mother was Ashkenazi, and his father was from a Sephardic Jewish family from the town of Boton in Castile and León.

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Use drugs, goy! It's good for you!

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Wait, I thought the jews wanted us to get married so that our wives could cuck us, divorce us, take all our money and go fuck Tyrone?

I can never keep it straight anymore

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Remain single, goy! You don't want a relationship! Yes, yes, YES, 2D WAIFUS ARE BEST!

jews want you to fall for the 3D meme. the 3d world isn't real, the 2d world is the real one. get a waifu

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Here's a video on married couples! Cuckoldry is good for you, goy! He he hehe...

I suscribed to it to some times look into some philosophers. I knew they were a bit cucked because occasionally they sounded like commies. Then I saw that video as related and threw that shit in the trash.
Figures it was a kike who was behind it.

are you fucking kidding me. I for some reason watched a few vids of them in the past but THIS?

fucking garbage

Warn your friends. I asked my gf her opinions about marriage and she linked me to this channel. I told her I'll break her fingers if she watches any more of this channel.

Hey goy, did I tell you that it's bad to have children?

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>be me
>29
>8 friends
>all married at one point, except me and one of them
>6 divorces
>1 suicide after she got full custody of his 5 year old girl
>all friends now have to restart in life, 2 are living back with their parents now
>me and the smart friend still have our money, im planning a trip to Switzerland soon


nooooope, not falling for that trap

Haha. Brutal.
However, I'm getting married next month.
I should have known better than too fall for the tricks of a filthy jew.

That's the standard for Canada, your women are fucked up liberal whores.. Then again, so are many of the danish women, but this is why you find a conservative.

My girlfriend keeps asking me if I will marry her - not sure how much of a joke it is. I am very hesitant (24 years old) and always say it's too soon to know after 6 months of rship.

Hey goy, are you a nice guy? That means you're a fucking creep and will never get laid.
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It's too soon indeed. I'm 2 years into mine and we're only talking about it now. We're thinking about getting married after we graduate in 3 years.

I dont know man, that video made sense to me. Except the whole mentioning of BDSM practises etc.

I wish you luck, man. Hope your girlfriend is also smart to not bite the propaganda.

I like this channel. It's clearly left-leaning but it's nice to listen to opposing views without having the whole 'you're a shitty human if you don't agree with me' message.

>but this is why you find a conservative.

there are none here

oh they say they are, but then you see the nigger fucking tattoo and the piercings and the "i had a WILD phase"

yeah that's pretty accurate

That's a good goy.

There's nothing wrong with marrying the "wrong" person.

That's your job to make it into the right person.
Romantic love and "soul mates" are bullshit and a recent concoction of Hollywood and romance writers to cater to women's whims.

Arranged marriage is largely better.

man wtf, is it really that bad? I dont know, but in my country it seems fine. then again im probably 7/10 so I aim for 6/10 +. Maybe those 9/10+ are all the same?
You know what they say - if she cant win it with being pretty, she gotta be funny or smart.

Thanks. You wouldn't believe how much she changed over the 2 years. She was SJW as hell before, now she admits that my presence in her life influenced her beliefs. Every day we spend together, the more I see her adopt my ideas. That's actually why I'm trying to do my best to give her the best red pills possible, I don't want to abuse this chance and turn her into an idiot. What I changed so far;
- Her opinion on rapefugees (she was extremely pro-refugee, now she says we should only take in Syrians and send them back when the war is over, and that our countries don't deserve their demographics to be changed because of mass immigration)
- Her opinion on leftists (she says she's centre-left now and that leftists are deluded)
- Her opinion on immigrants (she's against mass immigration because she wants our countries to remain as they are, doesn't want a change in demographics)

Also some other minor opinions but these are the important ones.

>le jews again
old meme is old

Great. Also, do you really live in Turkey?

you're Eastern Europe sorta, the degeneracy hasnt taken you yet

our NATIONAL ANTHEM got CHANGED to be GENDER NEUTRAL!!!!! cause of women


thats how bad it is here

relationships without minding forming a family is degenerate

act as animals and you'll grown up as animals

North American women are bad in particular. No offense to my North American bros but their women have a very skewed mindset. There's a reason to why 99% of the c*ck, "wife cheated on me", etc. graphics ascend from America or Canada. I'm not saying it never happens in this side of the globe but the numbers are higher over there. It's the mindset. I think they are overly sexualized and they idolize what they see on the media so much. MTV is the biggest example. It pushes forward the most degenerate shit you could imagine and it's of course owned by Jews.

First of Alain de Botton is based as fuck.
Secondly your version of marriage being a savage Turk is literally punching your wife senseless and is too brain damaged to ever leave you.

Yeah, why?

This

younger the marriage the better as long as you're not homeless or unemployed

she is pretty smart and I could prolly say "red pilled" but hey, forgot to say she is 19 years old and I am 24. sounds like too soon to even consider it.

>It's the mindset. I think they are overly sexualized and they idolize what they see on the media so much. MTV is the biggest example. It pushes forward the most degenerate shit you could imagine and it's of course owned by Jews.

no our women listen to shaved head dykes that tell them that to be empowered is to go to college, get a bullshit degree in womens studies, then be an activist, all the while opening their legs to every guy they have a whimsical affection for


no "saving" yourself for a husband, you're a strong independent womyn who dont need no man unless you need a hard pounding

Sounds like the perfect age for both of you

it's complicated. I'm drawn between TRP and baby-making nationalism.

Both pills are contradictory.

Stupid white nationalists worship the white female.

But Taylor Swift is a carousel riding slut.

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>don't marry, that's what the jews want
>marry, that's what the jews don't want
make up your fucking mind

Its 10 posts you wall nigger

his jewish agenda was obvious as soon as he un-ironically suggested mandatory 4 year psychoanalysis for all

Good goy.

Marry or be forever a degenerate.

>Unironically defending marriage in the year 2016

Top cuck

Forget about the fucking jews for fucks sake.

Look at it objectively:
>western women tend to have high n-counts
>statistically high n-counts lead to higher chances of infidelity and divorce
>say you get married but then divorce
>woman will generally get 50% or more of your assets
>get limited access (if at all) to children in most cases
>on top of that, you have to pay ex wife monthly walking around money in the form of alimony, child payments etc

So... Is it really worth it anymore?

What college bitch. Turks like you are rare

while i do agree that marrying after less than a years is quite eash, talking about should never be too early.
Not in the sense of "will you definetly do it?!?" but more like "If things work out, what are your thoughts on marriage?"
Because for some people, that is actually important, and if someone (and sadly, these people are pretty dominant these days) does not want to marry, their partner should know about that, imho.

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Actually you may be right. When I answered it's too soon to know, she said exactly that I should reply with what you mentioned: "if things work out as well as they do right now, I will marry you in a couple years".

Im definitely thinking about the possibility, though. I just feel a bit weird discussing it with random people.

>Best guess for this image: footwear
Why is google image search such shit? Who is this?

yurinyanmogutan, m8

that i can understand, but then again, i would find it weird to call someone you have been in a relationship with for six months (and probably known before?) "random people".
like, no offense, but you should know and trust each other well enough to at least consider it.
but that's just how i see things.
with my girlfriend, it was pretty clear from the beginning that, should things work out, and after three years, they still seem to do, we would eventually marry, so i see things a bit different, i guess

>like you

Like what?

Is the continuation of the white race "really worth it". Because even if every white marriage was white/white (not even close anymore) even then all those couples would have to have two kids just to keep our population level the way it is now, which is about 10% of global population.

If the continuation of your race is worth more than maybe a marriage that isn't perfect then yeah you should get married.

no no no, by "random people" I meant this thread. Like whether it is actually better to discuss it only among me and her. but I guess in the end people here can give me some experiences.

>tfw genetically sephardic

This channel is extroardinarly liberal and passive, but it's the passivity in it's philosophy that annoys me the most.

it's both

That's a porno, isn't it?

Isn't it possible to just live with your girlfriend and start a family without ever getting married? You can still have a ceremony but not sign any marriage documents.

oh, my bad there, sorry
and yes, of course every relationship is different and i and everyone else here can only help you so much.
but as you said, you can get hints, tips and help here, but must decide for yourself what of these tips you will use.
what i would always go for though is: if she initiates talking about it, don't just outright refuse it.
tell her what you think of it, or if you don't feel like talking about it (yet?) tell her why, so she can understand, that's about all i can help you with, i guess

yeah, thats the thing, isn't the governmental contract unecessary after all? I am really not sure

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>Literally commenting about OP's numbers of posts

Mexico what are you doing?

Yeah, thanks, man. That's pretty much all I needed to hear (and knew it deep down, I just needed a reassurance).
But what's the real point of marriage. Can't we live together without signing the contract? This is really something novel to think about for me.

But you know, marriages fail a lot. For various reasons, even after 20 years. And divorces are painful, especially for a man

My parents are together but they dont love each other. They didn't divorce most likely cause of the hassle and kids "trauma" I guess.
That's what probably disillusions me.

Don't have that ceremony.

You are really tempting fate if you live in a common law marriage jurisdiction--doubly so if you have a "wedding" ceremony.

Celibacy is also an option. In fact it's more holy than marriage though most don't have the willpower to live it

Good job user!
Best of luck to both of y'all

tbqh, i don't see any reason in a civic marriage, other than the tax benefits it gives in some (most?) countries
if however, you are religious, then that's a whole different thing, which, i believe you either already know or don't care about
i can understand that for some people it's just "the next step" or some kind of official statement, but since its one so easily broken these days, there really isnt any point to it if youre not religious, or so i think
(if you do in fact not know but care about, i could tell you a little about that as well)

Neither me nor my gf are religious at all. Her brother is getting married at 24 after only being together for a year or two which she doesn't find too smart.

She, however, sees marriage as something like a standard step in a relationship.

lel at this yid projecting his own shit parents onto everyone else

my kids respect me so they naturally try to copy me, I rarely have to bother telling them not to do anything

also note how in the marriage video the narrator goes on about how miserable everyones childhood is and how everyone ignores well adjusted people as boring and goes for unhealthy people, he's even acknowledging there that there's fit marriage partners out there that get ignored, but it doesn't stop him from projecting his own issues onto everyone else

>there are people on this board who feel pressured into getting married because an anonymous person told them that a cabal of jews doesn't want them to marry because of reasons

then i must say that i dont see the reason for it.
im not opposed to it, but i dont see the need for it either since youre probably not waiting with sex or anything else (i presume)

then again, for people who are still conservative, marriage, even if non-religious, tends to mean stability, durability and reliability, so it might just be that, you would have to ask her about anything closer though, maybe it really just is the next step to her and she thinks it can just as easily be ended again (in that case i would advise you to oppose it, as it will probably just cost you in the end)

dem tights

That's what I am thinking, not worth it. If we wanna be together, we will be. If we don't, we will divorce anyway, right? So why add the unnecessary cost risks.

yeah, talk about it with her, find out what she thinks of marriage, how she sees it.
if she thinks its just a ceremony at one point that doesnt count anymore after a year or ten or twenty, you are both probably better off just living together (unless youre the working one and shes just at home, than shes better of marrying and divorcing you)
anyway, whatever you do, dont marry and dont not marry because someone, including me or anyone else on this board told you, do or dont do it because that is what feels right to you, whatever that decision may be.
make sure you thought about it thoroughly (especially if you marry, because if you dont, you can still rethink that later on) but let no one else tell you what is right for you, because no one knows better than you do.

THAT'S THE FUCKIN JOKE YOU FUCKING TARD

yes, I only discuss this to have as many different views from different sources as possible in order to consider cons and pros.

I will definitely not make a rushed decision on this matter.

Thanks for your insight, stranger.

>My parents are together but they dont love each other.
I have a friend with a weirdly opposite situation.

His parents divorced, his mom has custody, but his father visits pretty much every day and they're both friendly to each other.

He's right and wrong at the same time.

Marriage and family is the ultimate goal, but marriage as it exists now in the West is a trap. We have to fix the current institution of marriage and no-fault divorces and shit before marriage is a good idea again.

thats probably the best and healthy thing to do.
i wish the both of you good luck and may your relationship stay good last as long as possible
i hope i was of some help to you

What was the main resons for the break ups?

One thing just came to my mind.
what about prenuptial agreements? would that be a smart move if I decided for marriage?

>Turkey
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Sure thing ill listen to the toyboy of a at best lower middle class 50+ british slag.
Seriously tho Turkey is right marriage with the current legal system makes no sense. Grow a pair and get some bastards that you rename.