Being gay is sometimes a choice

Hey, Sup Forums. I've often visited this board as it's always offered information not otherwise talked about, unique discussion, and actually allows me to speak about National Socialism; a political ideology I grew to love with all my heart.

One problem though, I am Gay.

Or should I sad, I was Gay up until about 2 weeks ago.

>In a relationship with a guy for over a year
>We say we love each other but deep down I know this is only sexual, it's all it's ever been
>I can never picture spending my life with him but for whatever reason I keep dating him
>Always believed this relationship went against what I stood for as I didn't believe in gay rights, gay marriage, etc.
>2 weeks ago I start getting strange feelings
>I'm not longer able to find him attractive
>As a matter of fact I start to find myself attracted to women and ONLY women
>Get scared, never had this happen to me

As you can guess having a switch flipped that changes you in such a way is both shocking and worrisome at the same time.

Your entire outlook on something is now different.

Don't believe Liberals when they tell you "being gay isn't a choice". You can choose to be gay, whilst I'm sure people are gay by nature many men have just come to accept the "gay" culture and phenomenon because of how heavily pushed it is in society and how "accepting" people are of it.

I finally feel right in the world, everything is kind of making sense and I feel as though I will no longer be persecuted for my contradicting beliefs.

Go and hang yourself from a tree.

Get some pussy and see man!

Fuck off, fags are cool, as long as they're redpilled and not the DURR DURR PRIDE kind

its not gay if he identifies as taylor swift
im a lucky man

Herodotus said "custom is king." And he was right. If it was culturally encouraged for men to fuck other men, the world would be crawling with gays. Its not like the rate of gay sex has remained the same since the dawn of time. Of course its a choice.

>Being gay is sometimes a choice
>By OP

is that why you chose to make this gay thread?

i never chose. Have you considered the possibility that you a bi?

Once you take a dick pussy will never do the trick. You are repressed and degenerate. Accept yourself for who you are. No straight man sucks cocks. That is a fact. Sorry.

It's this website itself. It turns straights gay an homo straight.

Brojobs are not gay

I don't think you fucker understand the difference between homosexuality and just being a sexual person. It's not gay to fuck/get fucked a/by men, it's only gay if you emotionally love them. Nothing wrong with helping a dude out with the prostate pumpin if it benefits you both

>Get some pussy and see man!
I've been with women in the past, I've just been in a long relationship with a man is all.

>Have you considered the possibility that you a bi?
At first, yes. Then I thought I was gay. But it's come full circle, I just CAN'T be attracted to men anymore.

>Once you take a dick pussy will never do the trick
>No straight man sucks cocks

This was more of an "one person wears the pants" relationship if you catch my drift and I wasn't wearing no skirt.

Man + sex with another man = still gay

Yes, I'm aware, it is something I'm going to have to try and get over for the rest of my life now.

I feel sick thinking about it.

Good for you, just stop fucking around , seek a wife and marry (unless you have a disease from it). Repent of your former life.

Wtf am I reading?

You're the biggest faggot here user

No disease, I was very careful and didn't partake in the "average" lifestyle of a gay guy. I was only with one guy and used protection every time.

I need to kind of reset my life before I think about finding a woman and all that comes with it but yeah, I want to be a better person after all of this.

btw, I don't think everyone can just become straight. BUT they can reject sexuality entirely.

I believe a lot of faggots would be happier and better off leading virtuous celibate lives , rejecting their urges but also not trying to go for women.

This is where all those statistics fag rights groups say about "Gays being smarter" really come from: Men who aren't tempted by women tend to be sage-like, intelligent sorts. Faggotry is just their trial in life , god tempting them away from celibate life. Many of the greatest thinkers in the world were celibate "gays" who rose above sex entirely (Evola for example)

my fetish

I know someone that was married, had kids etc

Went gay in his mid 40s, I asked if he had been repressing his whole life, he said NO "I just got tired of dealing with women".

I asked him how he could have sex with men, he said you get used to it. I told him I could never do that, I'm straight as an arrow and the thought of a man makes me literally feel sick, and he said "I used to feel the same way ;-)....

Fucking disgusting

t. wizard

OP, you are so lucky to have experienced this shift.

Let me offer you this dark redpill, a rarely-spoken truth:

Sexual orientation is a relatively modern invention. In the days of ancient Greeks, using young boys and men for sexual relief was a common practice. Spartan warriors while away from the women, would do the same.

It did not mean that they had an intrinsic deficit -- an exclusive, lifelong, preference for the same sex. Ecologists like to anthromorphosize animal models of homosexuality, but they have a terrible secret: these animals are almost always non-exclusive. A monkey that puts its dick in a fruit is not a fruitosexual. A monkey that rubs its dick against a monkey of the same sex, is not a homosexual. It's trying to nut.

The orientation model is a subtle tyranny. You are not defined by your sexual impulses. People are motivated to this model by fear of what they cannot control. Your reproductive instinct firing does not define you. There was a time that wanting to put your dick in a girl's mouth meant you were a PERVERT -- someone who wants something like that must have an INTRINSIC property that makes them different, right?

No.

Today I learned blowjobs are degenerate as fuck.

If god wanted me to stick my dick in my girls mouth he would have made babies come out of there fuck!

Most "wizards" aren't even celibate, they're majority herterosexual porn addicts and far from celibate.

>being gay is a choice
No shit Sherlock. Good to see you come to sanity but I'm also gonna have to call you a bit slow.

>I'm was born a smoker! Don't ever critize me! #NicotinPride

And it was STRAIGHT MEN who fell for the slippery slope that even let gays have rights in the first place, by accepting premarital sex and recreational sex in general. A lot of them don't want to see this, they'd rather go on and on about how faggots are the main problem , but they're just fine for fornicating because at least they're not queers

The only women you will find willing to accept you for as a former manfucker are liberal ones or batshit crazy church ones. Either way you are screwed. And your itch for cock will eventually come back. You will cheat and your thirst for cock will ruin your farce of a hetero life. Just be who you are. Straight men like myself have never yearned for cock and were never tempted to fuck other men. You obviously aren't straight friend.

This is because of the sexual revolution and the assumption that all men need sex at all, that sex is a NEED.

Thus when women become whores and men can't deal with them many turn into faggots because the need for sexual pleasure overrides common sense.

celibacy is also an option. If this is true that's what OP should do. Better to renounce sex entirely than ever come anywhere close to craving dick again

>people molested as children are like 10x as likely to be homosexual when they grow up
>NO YOU'RE BORN GAY HURRRRRRRR

sorry, its a mental illness, sucks for faggots but im not going to pretend water isn't wet just for some limp-wristed queer's feelings

this guy gets it

It doesn't sound like you made a choice to be straight, though.

He'll just erupt into a cock rage one day after lying dormant for too long like the fiend he is. He has the degeneracy within himself. There is no reason to believe it can be controlled. If he doesn't accept who he is he is only hurting himself.

Do you go out and fuck sluts all the time out of pussy rage? And feel that you can't control it?

I actually was molested when I was younger.

>If he doesn't accept who he is

Tumblr is missing a retard. I think they're looking for you.

PIC RELATED

pic relevant

Of course I cannot control my attraction to women and try to have consensual sex within the frames of my monogamous heterosexual relationship when the opportunity is so fitting. I do not live a degenerate homosexual lifestyle in which impulse trumps reason. OP has even stated he is one of the few who exercised the minimal safeguard of using a condom when he engaged in homosexual acts. For that I believe he is capable of short term repression. But he is still gay and no way will that gay go away.

That's completely fucking gay.

OP did you change your diet or other lifestyle changes when you noticed your sudden attraction to women?

Imagine living in a society where, if you get involved in a traffic accident and you're traumatized from the shock and physical 'abuse' you experienced during this accident, but you where told that the effect this had on you is simply you are from now on, and if you sought treatment for the trauma you'll be considered an evil bigot!

Welcome to liberalism. Where it's (almost) illegal to try to cure yourself from the harm degenerates do.

No, not really. Perhaps less junk food but that's it.

I'm inversed. I only had sexual attractions to women but never wanted to be with them or say "I love you." Once my hormones chilled I found that I'd rather be with a dude. I'm way too misogynistic anyways and it's not about sex with me. Pic related

If I choose to be with a woman, I won't be happy. I won't feel anything and I'll lose sexual interest.

>Don't believe Liberals when they tell you "being gay isn't a choice". You can choose to be gay, whilst I'm sure people are gay by nature many men have just come to accept the "gay" culture and phenomenon because of how heavily pushed it is in society and how "accepting" people are of it.
I think the most ignored aspect is CONDITIONING.

People see to think that the only option is choice or nature. Nuture really plays a part too.

Stop looking at porn. I remember when I thought I was turning gay when I was 15, then realized I was just being conditioned by the digital Jew. Now I find even traps completely disgusting.

Remember that porn addiction isn't sexuality at all, you're only attracted to screens, not men or women.

Also male brotherhood/friendship is very natural to have and the fag agenda ruined it.

I think being a sodomite is epigenetic. It is triggered in the susceptible by something in the environment. Probably by example.

I've had the same experience. I was bisexual since I was a little kid, and have enjoyed sodomy many times before I knew how harmful it is to indulge in it.
You can stop being attracted to the same sex on a moral basis, if you have a truly deep understanding of how disgusting it is and a deep understanding of what the natural order is, and how sick it is to sway from it.
I am now attracted to women exclusively, and I have yet to even think about going back - and it's been more than a year by now.

Is it gay to want cock?

Yes but you're probably a porn addict, not a real faggot. Snap out of it and nofap

>muh feels

Perhaps you're having a hard time being with a woman is because you are as emotional as them and you see them as a competitor for the emotional space of the relationship. ALL sexuality is based on feelings. That's why it's so irrational and retarded. Highly sexual people are just emotional trainwrecks. The cluster b personality is not exclusive to women.

>Also male brotherhood/friendship is very natural to have and the fag agenda ruined it.
This. Nothing wrong with loving your bros. It's just the imature and emtionaly unstable that cannot have such relationships without those "muh feels causing muh dick, let's fuck brah!"

Also, romantic love is a recent invention. It's not real love for a man to feel. Only women are supposed to feel that lovey bullshit.

Men's love for women is about seeing them as the mother of your children, and realizing that marriage is about sacrifice and duty.

That's why arranged marriage worked for most of known history. Love at "First sight" is a meme, as is the idea of "Soul mates"

It's psychological. If seeing a dick makes you wanna use yours, and you call yourself gay, it's likely that your gayness is really just empathizing with other horny people who have dicks that need getting off. How far does that shit go exactly by itself? If you really don't love a man for his personality (without him making more of a woman out of himself), you're really just looking for horny cocks like the tooth fairy looks for tooths. That can go as far as being a straight up pedo by itself. I suppose it can go beyond that if you can find macho male personalities comforting that remind you of your dad, lol, but it's just more problems on top of other problems. Thinking smooth boyish qualities are cute is appreciating femininity in men, twisted way of appreciating womanly qualities anyway, and thinking manly qualities are hot is likely some sort of pent up macho issue, people are "gay" in different ways, or maybe different parts of them are gay. It's just a ton of psychological issues really.

I don't really watch porn. I grew up Catholic as fuck and had 2 girlfriends by the end of high school. I actually fell for someone but being with women was me trying to be a good Catholic. I knew I liked dudes but just repressed it until I found someone I actually wanted to be with.

I can separate brotherly love from the others but I know I'm a faggot. I've never been raped either.

Even if it is a strong bond with some sex, I'd rather that. We're redpilled, won't be race mixing, and we are impacting our community positively without shoving our personal lives down others throats.

If you knew anything about Catholicism you'd realize that fucking around with multiple women is as bad as faggotry. Marry, realize sex is only for procreation and you won't even have a problem abstaining from it.

Less cock, I presume

Nah, I'm not emotional enough for them to begin with. Im not even that sexual, often. I usually only have male friends.

Because I'm in a relationship I'm committed and only really have eyes for that person.

Let's say it doesn't work out. If I met the right gal, sure, I'll go for it but deep down I might have the urge to do gay shit. I don't want to be tempted with cheating. I feel like I'm stable and less prone to degeneracy how I am now. We're interracial and he's white. If we want kids, I'm pushing for his genes to be used with a qt blonde or redhead. I don't want my family to corrupt the kid with their "culture"

I was dating them at different times. Only had sex with one and only a few times. She pushed for it. I lost faith after studying religion. It's a damn Jew meme. I finished my confirmation and 1st communion really early.

Shit, at one point I felt like I had no sexual attractions to anything and I considered joining the clergy.

It's always a choice. You either come out for cheap congratulation and acceptance or you figure out what went wrong in your childhood and fix it.

I would bet me life that there is a positive correalation with fatherless children coming out later in life.

I went through the same, user. Through highschool I was exclusively gay, had 0 interest in women. Loved the male form and wasn't interested in the female form. But in college I started dating girls, and gradually found myself completely turned off by--and even homophobic towards gay dudes. This worried me as well, but eventually I made peace with it as i'm approaching my last semester of college.

I think it's just a thing. I'll always be a little attracted to guys--but it's more conceptual now than practical. I have 0 interest in gay sex, I can openly say, but I can like the concept.

Being gay is not so much a choice as it is an experience, and like all things, different experiences can change a person--even their orientation. I don't think there's anything wrong with that, though the sexually repressed virgins on Sup Forums would scream about being hetero even nobody from either sex wants them.

Yeah it's a choice for people who are bisexual. I'm exclusively homosexual. I hate it. I am celibate and have been for five years. If I could change it I would.

If what you're saying is true, we wouldn't have a huge nigger problem in the ghettos because they'd all be busy being gay and not knocking up every street animal that walked on two legs.

Sex is a choice. Who you would rather have sex with, not so much.

>And it was STRAIGHT MEN who fell for the slippery slope that even let gays have rights in the first place, by accepting premarital sex and recreational sex in general. A lot of them don't want to see this, they'd rather go on and on about how faggots are the main problem , but they're just fine for fornicating because at least they're not queers

This.

Why do u idiots pretend to want dictatorship socialism??? Free market small government wins always

3rd on this.

That's why liberals have zero arguments against degenerates. They can't criticize without being hypocrites.

It's not a choice, its peer pressure and a desire to be a special snowflake.

I remember when i was a small kid and was jealous (envious) of the kids with asthma pumps. They had a motif, something to draw attention to them. Maybe you should have bought a snake and taken it to parties.

>Canada
Of Course

>been 2 weeks

For trumps sake man maybe you should wait a MONTH before you jump to conclusions.

Bingo.
This also led to a much stronger whore culture.

Kek, fuckin straya cunt.