I tried voice calling in Japanese today. Was a wreck. The qt and i have been talking for about 4 months (Since i started). She said my Japanese has rapidly improved and wanted to try a voice call.
Her and i exclusively text in Japanese for the most part. It's not an issue and i rarely mess up while texting. I've made rather fast progress with about 2000 sentence cards in my anki deck. I can read pretty much any article you give me (Unless it's news related) with ease. Of course i'd have to use a dictionary for some words but really grammar isn't an issue, it's just my lack of vocabulary.
Manga and stuff isn't too much of an issue minus the slang either, and because most Manga uses Furigana, it's easy to look up a word.
Anyways, we called and i couldn't understand anything. I could understand snippets which is weird since i can understand about 60% of Japanese TV shows or dramas when using common language. I choked hard, words weren't coming to my head and i ended up apologizing and we ended the call.
She won't message me now. I don't think i wanna do a voice call again until i'm good. Advice?
>Her and i exclusively text in Japanese for the most part. >Her
Andrew Peterson
vocaroo.com/i/s0kVPzWadZp9 My mic is fucking crap, I had to talk pretty slow to be even a little bit audible
Asher Lopez
いい人だね(/・ω・)/
Benjamin Roberts
>not doing face-time to show off luscious blonde hair and Nordic features >apologizing instead of just rambling on about whatever the fuck you want You fucked up m8
Christian Perry
Totally un-chad like, frankly un- American
Blake Perez
i feel you >chinaman i play video games with >"hey let's do a carr i want to implove my engrish" >i start speaking with thick french accent >he doesn't understand shit, apologizes and ends the call feels bad
Connor Hall
FeelsRealBadMan
She is a qt too. 8/10. Called me cute in Engrish before and wanted to get my instagram.
I fucked up. Waiting for her to call me was the wrong choice too, i sat there for 5 minutes like "Fuck oh fuck oh fuck" waiting for her to call me but she was just waiting to call me.
彼はオタクだろ 汚い
Aiden Brooks
Good work for trying, but women are communicative creatures.
If you can't speak, then she won't be interested.
Go to Japan and find Gaijin hunters at bars who have made the effort to learn English. Those sluts require deporting anyhow
Dylan Robinson
Probably talking with another guy now
Andrew Gutierrez
Where was she from? It might be an accent issue. If she's from Osaka for instance it'S very likely you won't understnad shit.
Adrian Barnes
>Those sluts require deporting anyhow To the Eurasian Peoples Republic of Northern California.
Anthony Ramirez
Stop wasting your time with disgusting Asian women and learning their worthless chinchong language
I unironically fucking detest you normalfags. Please stop ruining this website. You have every other place on the web to spread your cancer, just leave us the fuck alone. I hope you die in your sleep.
Isaac Collins
ジョークなんだよ Chill nigga
NEVER MIND BOIS WE GOOD. She messaged me and said that her phone was off. She was studying for college shit. She sent a heart. We good.
Camden Foster
So you did nothing wrong, it's probably her accent. YOu learned a neutral version of Japanese, or at best a Tokyo accent, something everybody can understand. Osaka is a fucked up accent. It'd be like learning French for years and then calling a rural Quebec dude, the average city guy in Quebec has the presence of mind to talk with a more neutral accent to strangers but most rural folks don't do that because they never needed to.
Ethan Bell
this t b h
Owen Sanchez
>normalfag lul, normalfags don't engage in long distance relationships.
a high value male has plenty of options in his vicinity, no need for sexless long distance relationships.
my advice to you, which you won't follow, is accept that you fucked up, accept that you came across as a sperg, and back away from her for a while. put her on "hold" and act as if you have "broken up". explore new options with other women.
if she makes the effort to reinstate contact and chases you, then you have the initiative again. if she doesn't, then she had lost all interest anyway, and you saved yourself a lot of effort and heartache.
but, as you are making such a big deal out of this, my guess is you had already lost anyway by being too overly invested in her, and you will double down on chasing her as she backs away, which confirms in her eyes your low status betaness via your desperation.
Nolan Gonzalez
Sorry to break it to you but she probably toned down the accent. You need more practice and you need to know how to stall when you don't understand. Its hard I know.
Nathaniel Bell
It's just strange. I can understand quite literally everything minus a few words sometimes when her and i text.
I don't know why i couldn't understand her other than the accent :(
Bentley Butler
You need to get used to the spoken language, it seems. How often do you listen to Japanese music, watched japanese tv, any kind of spoken media really?
Like, I can understand written Spanish quite well because I'm a native Portuguese speaker, but I don't think I could hold an actual conversation in Spanish, as my ears are not used to it. It's the reason why Portunhol exists
Jaxson Brown
>I can understand quite literally everything minus a few words sometimes when her and i text Becuase written and spoken language is different. She has an accent but probably isn't speaking in dialect, whcih makes it harder. But you just need more listening and speaking practice.
