I have no desire to be attracted to anyone. I've lost all my drive to fall in love or have sex. I'm only 20...

I have no desire to be attracted to anyone. I've lost all my drive to fall in love or have sex. I'm only 20. Music for this feel?

I have felt this way since I was 18 (I am 25 now) and I usually listen to doom metal/fuzzed out hard rock

desu you gotta shit more. real talk.
If you get backed up, you just don't enjoy things as much. Dealing with this once again lately.
Take some laxatives, also fiber supplements.

Are you Japanese?

That can change and almost definitely will. People think when they hit their early-mid-late 20s early 30s-40s that they're officially adults and that adulthood is some fixed psychological state. Very common! No recs for you clown ass.

No. American.

Obvious one, but still.

>tfw have the desire to be romantic and snuggle and shit but completely disgusted by Sex and afraid I can never have without the other

it's a bad feel.

but metal is for children, user.

you're lucky man. I don't know what I would give to not fall in love

a classic on par with
>early twenties and afraid of dying alone
go listen to tangerine dream or something

I’m 29 and I thought it had left me for a while, could go weeks without thinking about sex. Then recently I just became seriously horny again, right now I usually masturbate several times a day and want to fuck anything with a pulse.

It’ll come back.

I'm incredibly horny but heavily believe in sex being meaningful, and I feel so emotionally detached from my male friends and acquaintances I don't feel like I could ever fall in love, or fall in love and express it at the very least. It's so fucked.

You should listen to as many ambient albums as you can
start with Stalker - Robert Rich & Lustmord

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It’s always interesting for me to see people lost their interest in falling in love, when I never really had it in the first place. What’s it like to be attracted to someone?

u r special snowflek

Falling in love is the silliest thing in the world that's why I want nothing to do with such a thing

I'm 20 too. I can relate but I'm willing to bet a lot will change for both of us within half a decade. 20 is a long way from properly grown up.

For me it's partly despondency with hardly ever finding anyone I can relate to/feel understood by, and partly that I'm still not past the girl I needlessly broke up with when I was 18. It's a really complicated and hopeless situation but honestly she's still the only person I would want to be with, and I'm not going to go after anyone else while I still feel that way. I'm guessing I'll stop being such an insecure pussy over the next few years but I'm not sure I'll ever properly get over that girl. I've stopped wanting to.

Also pic related.

initially it's always pure contentment and warm fuzzies. after a few months it usually becomes a see-saw between happiness and anxiety. i've been pretty devastated by a bad breakup but i'd still say it's worth risking an awful aftermath to experience a truly loving relationship.

For me it was like wanting to best friends with this girl and spend every moment together, but I also wanted to fuck her until her legs gave out. And then cuddle after.

same here man, i just try to focus on other productive things. hoping that because i dont use much energy chasing women i can instead super focus on my own music etc.

I've never felt the second half of that towards any girl I really cared about. Maybe it's a confidence thing but I always felt like I'd be hurting them and making the relationship ugly by introducing the idea of sex. I would've wanted sex as a natural progression in the relationship I guess, I've just been forward enough and never had a relationship that held out for that long that it felt like something was being avoided.

It's fucked up because I have no problem sexualizing (in my head (t. virgin)) girls I hardly know.

Thanks for all your different opinions on it. I asked because I never have really participated in or cared about romantic relationships that much, and wondered what the point was. I guess I most empathize with , in that sense.

never been forward enough*

It's the best feeling in the world

Until you get worried that she won't accept you

sad boi hours

i'm in the same boat, man. anal is pretty fucking disgusting

It's like if for at least a short time your problems disappeared and your mind starts focusing on having a good time, yet what you do doesn't matter much in the end as long as you do it with that person.

that's how teenage relationships feel, and maybe the beginning of adult relationships. but eventually you've got to accept that a healthy long term relationship requires investment in unromantic real life endeavours as well. i would suggest not giving up too many of your own ambitions for another person even if you love them.

This, man. Can't be beat. It hurts a lot, and might hurt you in some kind of long term way when that feeling fades or is killed, but knowing that it's possible and is something that can be cultivated if you're lucky and know what you're doing, all that makes everything in the world make a little more sense.

This
Ive stopped trying to impress girls, make them laugh, or make a conscious effort to talk to them. I just try to improve my health, wealth, and art

I just got out of what you're going through and I want to fuck everything that moves.

>believe in sex being meaningful
yikes

nice

I feel user. Everytime I get close to a girl they seem to get too attached and want to be together everyday and I just wanna be alone or with friends most of the time. I seem to only want love when it's convenient to me and don't know how to get out of this phase. All of my friends are the same age and either have girlfriends or need sex to live but I could honestly care less atm. Only time I really want sex is when it's easy or continent for me.

Yeah, I have almost no desire for sex, but I would like to feel wanted and loved. Probably won't happen though

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