music, sad or not, for when a girl you like doesn't like you back? or in general of unattainable love
Music, sad or not, for when a girl you like doesn't like you back? or in general of unattainable love
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i got ya brotha, goodluck gettin over her
Move on lad, avoid her, don't think about her, remind yourself that it was not meant to be and that something better is waiting for you.
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beta ass faggot
thanks anons
that's cool
Here ya go, you'll never need another song like this one.
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THIS is the song.
>Amy Winehouse
>Black Sabbath
>Cake
>DJ Shadow
>Gang Starr
>HOME
>Hozier
>Johnny Cash
>Nine Inch Nails
>Nirvana
>Pink Floyd
>Portishead
>Simon & Garfunkel
>System Of A Down
>The Cranberries
>The xx
fuck that awful music, you can literally say ANY to 40 band, because at least one has written about heartbreak or a breakup.
THAT'S THE PATRICIAN'S CHOICE.
thanks for reminding me this band existed user
>meet girl in January 2017
>spend a lot of time with eachother
>have some really nice moments with eachother
>she's said some of the happiest moments she's had in recent years have been with me
>says she really enjoys my company
>really good chemistry, feels lIke we've known eachother for a lot longer
>December 2017, Christmas time
>finally tell her that being around her makes me so happy and I think she's absolutely beautiful and that I'm in love with her
>"user i really like spending time with you too but I prefer older men, you need to find a girl that will return these feelings you have!"
And months later I'm now a wreck, i spend most of my time in bed and drink far too much
That sucks man
Its so much harder when you feel such a sincere connection to her. It's a lot easier to snap out of it when it's shallow and unsubstantiated.
On the bright side, from the way you described your relationship you seem like a good and loving person. You'll find someone else, once you are emotionally available.
>posts 3 smiths songs
>none of them are "I want the one I can't have"
But it felt like meeting her was a rare thing. I've been with other girls , had sex and romance, yet still didn't feel as close to any of them as I did with her. People even often mistook us for a couple, said we looked so cute together and stuff. We've even had odd moments where we've gotten drunk and talking and then the conversation slows down and we're just staring into each others eyes, like in those moments before a kiss, but then we suddenly break out of the trance.
I've had rejections before but this feels so much worse. I haven't seen her since I told her that, but Im supposed to be going to a concert with her in June if she doesn't cancel on me
You should have known she wasn't romantically interested from the start but you deluded yourself for a whole year while feeding romantic feelings for someone who wasn't fucking you. Get your priorities straight my man.
When we first met we were both seeing other people, it was just friendship, but then gradually I developed feelings for her.
FUCK im sorry user i should have posted that
now I feel bad
and its driving me mad
AND ITS WRITTEN ALL OVER MY FAY-AY-AY-AY-AY-EH-HAAAAAAACE
or the Jeff Buckley version
You've done good by telling her. Keeping that kind of feeling bottled is invigorating and beautiful on the come up, but everyone runs out of bottle room and if your bottle broke too late, you'd have had what if glass cutting you up from the inside forever. Which is worse than facing unpleasant facts. You had a timely bottle break.
You're right, I guess. But what should I do next time I see her? We used to see eachother almost weekly but now I haven't seen her since December and we've barely talked either. I'm not sure if I can still salvage a friendship from this mess or if I've destroyed it entirely
But girl afraid is about her liking you back but you being a pussy about it
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A not sad song about it
>what if
There's an answer for that: She didn't find you attractive.
Women who are too shy to let a man know she's interested don't exist.
I dunno man, but train your body while you can. The biggest mistake I made was not training before the confrontation.
this and any daniel johnston really
I like this
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classic sad one
Used to think over this when i broke up
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this happens dude.. pretty often its called infatuation
what’s some music for catching feelings for literally any girl who shows you even the smallest amount of attention
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Train my body? It's not a boxing match and I'm sure I won't piss myself. Just gonna be incredibly awkward, it's not like I can just pass off what I said as a joke or whatever
i said music not exploitations of the mentally ill
>just pass off what I said as a joke
Hmmm
oof
>in a long term relationship
>meet a super smart and interesting girl while on a trip
>we become super close friends
>gf doesn't like it
>girl tells me that she has feelings for me
>gf makes me choose, I choose gf and end contact with girl, who I later find out was super obsessed with me and going through a rough time
> 2 years later, relationship becomes super toxic and we break it off.
> look for the girl, we become friends again
> I'm really into her, i think in love
> yesterday she vividly describes how she has a crush with a guy and wants to fuck him
> mfw
did I have this coming?
Also, music for this feel?
>tfw never caught feelings for anyone, or care for anyone
Feels pretty good to be fine on my own, but I wonder what a relationship is like.
I don't even mean that in a romantic way, necessarily, I wonder what it's like to even just have a real friend.
this
minus feeling good on my own, i want to die every day
Fuck my dude. That does kinda sound like karma
You're not missing out on much. Sex is overrated. Healthy relationships are nice, as they give stability and support, but they're way too hard to maintain.
If I could flip a switch and become instantly asexual, I would do it without hesitation. Wanting sex and intimacy feels like an obstacle more than anything
We're just a different breed desu, I've just accepted that and just do what I like in life. The upside is more time + disposable income.
yea im tryna give OP some hope lol
>sex is overrated
I thought that too but I'd never had good sex. Good sex isn't overrated. Would recommend.
didnt have anything coming
you said when she was obsessed with you she was going through a rough time, thats a massive red flag
her obsession gives me the sense that she would have expected you to save her in some way, and relationships like those always end in pain
you did just fine user
Are you sure she wasn't talking about you?
damn...
the rough time was a result of me cutting her off and choosing to stay in my relationship. Should have made that clearer
I'm sure. She was talking about a specific person in a tournament thing she went to :(
It's like she doesn't even consider me as a potential partner or something.
She's leaving to another country in a few months, I think I'm going to take my chances and confess.
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damn thats kinda ambiguous then who did the wrong thing
in an ideal world she wouldve held off on expressing her romantic feelings while you were in a relationship, and wouldve convinced you to leave your gf for being so untrusting and possessive
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