I had sex a few days ago, but I could barely get an erection. I'm 28 btw, is this normal? am i becoming gay...

I had sex a few days ago, but I could barely get an erection. I'm 28 btw, is this normal? am i becoming gay? how do girls in your country react to a situation like this one?

How much do you use to masturbate?

Last time i had a hard time getting an erection.
I had to try 3 times to get it finally done.
I'm 27.
I think watching too much porn made me this way.

>is this normal?
No
>am i becoming gay?
You're the one who brought it up
>how do girls in your country react to a situation like this one?
They'd probably try to hold their laughter tyhen look for a real man first chance

post sara

not that much since 2 weeks ago, like 3 times per week
I blame seeing too much porn too, girls irl can't get me hard

how old are you?

Well, I can't get it up on command either.
Especially with a condom.

I can get an erection throughout the day, but when I have a one night stand and think: well, I now need to get it up, then it can refuse.

What fucking sucks is when I cannot get an erection, I get so nervous and that really makes it harder to get it hard.
It works like a vicious cycle.

are ya'll me? Literally happened to me today. Went good for like 30 mins, then pooof, flaccid. So fucking embarrasing. The girl probably thought I didn't like her

Old enough to know, women don't brag about their partners struggling keeping it up and at 28 your sexual function should be healthy unless you're morbidly obese or something.

Non meme it could just be you being nervous but you're the one who brought up gay

exacty this is what happened to me, i had to put the condom on then i inmediatly lost the erection and got very nervous, my dick was so weak that I couldnt penetrate her at first...
thanks god she didnt laugh and waited for it to get hard again. but I'm afraid this could happen again

Some times the body chemistry or other subtle clues are telling you that this is a bad idea. She may have been sick, or up to no good, and you knew it on a subconscious level. Learn to pay attention to the little voices. Thinking with your little head will get you into a lot of trouble, user.
Or, maybe you should drink less.

This. She was probably a succubus trying to siphon your soul.

It happens.
People get divorced every day.
Be proactive: Deny her your essence.

If I go no-fap for several days, that would make me want to fap, but it doesn't make me want to have sex.
Sex is just too much work, and fapping is better.

>or up to no good
well... she has a boyfriend, and she complains that she doesnt get enough attention (sex)
>Or, maybe you should drink less.
I drink a lot and usually when I'm drunk i get good erections, but that day I didnt drink that much, it was like 2 liters of beer

m8 you're literally me right now. I feel you. I'm literally having these thought as we speak

btw op, how how is she? Mine is literally a 5.5-6-ish/10. I tried thinking about my ex who is, I swear to kek, a solid 9/10 and I could barely seal deal. I was using a rubber as well, so that shit doesn't help

Do Chilean girls like Anglo men?

Kiss me.

I can relate to many stories posted here. It happened to me like 3 times

that's because it's what people automatically assume. someone else would have brought it up so OP saved them the trouble

>tfw can get it up 20 minutes after the last one
feelsgoodman.jpg

i feel you too m8
fuck you. no, seriously enjoy it as much as you can, do it for your /int bros
this, she used to be a solid 8/10 a few years ago when we were only friends, now 6/10 and i have the problem, I think about my ex, a solid 9/10 for my standards
kek yes, but why would you want chilean pussy when you can get australian/newzealandish
come feel with us, you are not alone user
this user knows so fucking much

The teenage years are the best for being able to get an erection effortlessly, you'll never be that good again.

Start doing cardio

the worst thing is that once it happened during a ffm threesome.

I got nervous my first time and fucked her with a soft willy.

Eet a balanced diet
cut carbonated drinks (bebidas)
drink water
exercise
learn to meditate (mostly how to control your breathing to be able to calm yourself)

this will solve 99% of your problems

Or just have sex with little girls like God intended.

If you masturbate every day it will be more difficult since erections are quicker and easier to achieve the more sperm is built up.

Same thing happened to me when I lost my virginity a couple months ago, and I'm 20. Stop fapping and watching porn altogether, you need to regain sensitivity in your donger.

I'm not in bad shape, but yes, I should do a lot more I suppose
that's my dream, at least you had the chance. but yeah, the same would happen to me if I'd get nervous
>Eet a balanced diet
done
>cut carbonated drinks (bebidas)
i dont drink them at all, except for beer
>drink water
does tea count as water?
>exercise
once a week
>learn to meditate (mostly how to control your breathing to be able to calm yourself)
I'd like to know more about it, do you have any tips where to begin?

i dont masturbate eveyday anymore since 2 weeks ago
>Stop fapping and watching porn altogether, you need to regain sensitivity in your donger.
I'm trying exactly this

thanks my dear /int bros, i love you guys

>tfw don't have to worry about sex, so this can never happen to me
lmao@ur lifes

look up mindfulness and deep breathing, you should exercise more often, at least run 5k three times a week

you get so used to masturbating it feels weird having sex.

Its a thing, just stop masturbating for a bit.

thanks m8. I also learned a lot from this thread

>run 5k three times a week
is there an indoor equivalent?

>you get so used to masturbating it feels weird having sex.
kek, ikr
pic related

Fap less, do more cardio, look for kegel exercises, eat healthier, take vitamin supplements and extra zinc, drink more water. Last thing, if you're gonna fap, do it with light grip, slowly and no porn, just fantasy.

Get a treadmill or a stationary bike if you're into that

get fucked normies
oh wait you can't because your dick doesn't get hard HAHAHAHAHAHahaha
t. virgin masterrace

You are not alone, OP. Has happened to me many times. Once it's in your head it only gets worse. Were you drunk when you had sex with her?

Get a blood test to check your testosterone. I also had trouble getting an erection around 27. After the doctor told me my estrogen-testosterone levels were off he gave me estrogen blockers for 2 months, now I can hang towels off muh dick.

>Also, hit the gym, it helps....seriously