I have doubts that my gf probably fucked a guy she used to work with. She has told me nothing happen...

i have doubts that my gf probably fucked a guy she used to work with. She has told me nothing happen. Should i go and speak with the guy or stay calm with what my Gf told me?

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was it before you were together or during?

Post a pic of her and I'll tell you if she did

If you're gonna be mad at anyone be mad at your gf.

You don't put meat infront of a tiger and get angry at him when he eats.

Yes, we were together.

BeTA

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wreck them both, desu

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have sex with the guy to teach her a lesson

how would you feel if your girlfriend started acting like a crazy bitch because she was convinced that you had cheated on her when you actually hadn't?

I would feel mad, maybe even sad.

>Because women don't this exact same shit all the time

Also, odds are they fooled around at the very least if OP has some doubt. Humans can't be trusted when it comes down to this, if you have any doubt is might had already happened.

how do you know the odds faggot, are you some kind of detective that knows the whole case or do you just mistrust all women?

>Humans can't be trusted
>do you just mistrust all women
>Ditching into the trash all studies that point people are willing and able to cheat given the right circunstances

So, apparently women are not human and this justifies their cheating over the rest of the humankind. Who would had guessed?

Given the right circunstances, everybody would cheat. Men love to fuck around with no string attached and women are hypergamous by nature. You can't do shit against billions of years of evolutionary programming.

what makes you think she cheated?

it's against the law of God to commit adultery, your bullshit excuses mean nothing, you can't justify cheating on someone you claim to love

So that was your argument? Had you considered becoming an hero? You might go to Jebus side faster.

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here is the whole "this why it happen"; she would pick him up to go to work every morning and drop him off from work every day for like 2-3 weeks, his car had transmission problems thats why. they lived a house apart. she would say things like "___ whats a nice person today he filled up the gas thank of my car (it was a long commute) they went out to eat once that i know of.. that same day she tooke him to go pick up his car from the shop and to go get insurance.. is just weird little things that make me think something happen.

Her past, she told me about it and well she was kinda of a slut.

>was

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ok so basically you think she cheats with every man she gets to know

>You can't do shit against billions of years of evolutionary programming.

Of course you can. Using the biology excuse is basically just giving yourself a free pass to do whatever the hell you want, because at one point we lived in caves and hit each other with rocks. Advancements throughout society have moved us further and further from our biological roots; they're still there, of course, but they're no longer as prevalent as they once were. That's mostly due to the fact we no longer need to worry about reproduction in order to NOT go extinct. Our base biological drives are now often looked at as being quite negative, because our needs have changed. We're run our own biological imperatives out of date and we're better off for it.

So why are you dating a slut? Tell her to fuck off and find one who wasn't the college cum-bucket.
Or are you one of those clueless fucks who believes women who were irresponsible, entitled whores with no impulse control in college magically become gf material because they think they experimented enough. Because that is bullshit. The turning over off a new leaf only lasts until they feel neglected or entitled to more attention than you provide, or go out with their friends and get wasted, or can use their body for career advancement, then it's back to being a slut.

what a shitshow, you obviously dont trust your gf, so you have to pretend to trust her while dying inside because shes most likely getting creamed by some chad from work and then comes home and pretends to love you. Sometimes being a lonely fag like myself seems like the better option.

Yes. at times

give your gf a bottle of vodka and put her in a room with three average looking dudes. If she drinks it spaced out in individual shots you won't have to wait long for all that precious biology transcending sophistry to disappear and her evolutionary inheritance to take over when the prefrontal cortex checks out for the day. There aren't cheaters and non-cheaters, there are people who do everything in their power to avoid the circumstances in which they would cheat and those who don't.

I would provide evidence to the contrary, unlike women. who get defensive every time it's brought up, because more likely than not, she's a whore.

all i am asking is ; should i have a talk with the guy or not?

cannot prove a negative so that's an argument not worth having. If the accusation isn't a once in several years because of some really bad situation thing, it's time to get the fuck out.

Bullshit. Even heroin addicts can resist when triggered. Just because they are minority doesnt mean its impossible to resist any temptation by sheer willpower.

What makes you think, he'd tell you? Do you know him?
And what exactly did you ask her and what exactly did she say?

You should have sex with the guy to teach her a lesson

Not OP, but I can say with 100% certainty that I can put my GF in a room with a bottle of vodka, 100 incredibly attractive dudes (more attractive than me, lets be honest), and have absolutely nothing happen.

>doesnt mean its impossible to resist any temptation by sheer willpower.
You do not know what the prefrontal cortex is, do you? Willpower happens before you're wasted, that's exactly my point you dumbfuck.

no you retard

if you doubt her, you probably have reason too. If so, she cheated.

Just go into femdom / findom.

>Willpower happens before you're wasted
You are obviously one of those guys who get fucked up and do stupid shit and blame it on alcohol. Some of us arent that weak, sorry to tell you.

Substitute bottle of vodka for quantity of substance required to completely impair her cognition and morally dis-inhibit her by taking the prefrontal cortex out of the equation. Unless your gf is imaginary or a sock she will behave as her human biology dictates.

People fuck other people before they meet.

And what does that prove then? That drugs influence human behaviour? Didnt see that one coming

There's a reason DUI is a crime and it isn't because people lack the willpower to overcome the adverse effect that the I part of DUI has on their driving... It's because we're talking about chemical processes that don't give a fuck about your sophistry.

Sure, you can pump anyone full of enough drugs to effectively get them date-raped. Is that what you're getting at?

this

That's exactly what I said in the post you replied to, isn't it. About the cheaters and non cheaters, why reply to it with a naive fairy-tale statement if you agree?

In your analogy:

meat = girlfriend
tiger = her former co-worker
person placing the meat = OP

Don't get mad at the meat for being eaten. OP should be mad at himself for allowing his girlfriend to be around other 'tigers'

this op, don't be a faggot

date-raped is a convenient way to pretend that being morally dis-inhibited and cognitively impaired through your own actions absolves you of any responsibility from those actions. Funny how that only applies to women and sex and not people and driving. I wonder why that is...

Wait, what?

Yes and some people lose more control than others, thats the way its always been. I also know most women turn into raging whores after certain amount of alcohol, but i would certainly not generalize that to all women.

Yeah that wasnt me tho

If you suspect anything is because It already happened.
Damn these fucking millenials.
You can kys or dump her now

go fuck someone and then you're even
or beat her

You misread what I wrote, or I didn't phrase it correctly. I meant to say that the only way my GF would have sex with another man is if she was drugged to the point that she was effectively comatose and unable to physically stop someone.

>only way my GF would have sex with another man is if she was drugged to the point that she was effectively comatose and unable to physically stop someone
women are nothing but bitches and whores, dont lie to yourself
if you really are this dumb she probably already cheated on you multiple times

Or it's possible this guy is overreacting/being paranoid about his GF talking to a guy, and you're telling him to randomly dumping someone who has done ntohing wrong.

Sorry, my mistake.

No, they don't. Some people - myself included btw, I don't know why you're projecting so much - are just responsible enough to stop before they are so intoxicated/drugged that they would make stupid choices.

What if one of the guys makes a move on her?? wouls she resist?

If this is actually what you think, then there's no point continuing a conversation with someone who is incapable of seeing half of the human race as anything but a sex object.

100% yes.

Most women will deny and never admit they cheated. Just assume she did and move on. Find out where your shortcomings are and change or she will keep doing it. Then you might as well just get rid of her. WebM related....is what your girl is doing right now

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This guy knows. Men are pigs, women are whores. As I man I know I'm a pig, so it's easy for me to understand this. Some men think of them selves white knights, it's funny because they know deep down they are just like every other man. A horny pig motivated by food and sex.

Just accuse her falsely and say u have
pics and that someone told u that saw them and then leave. Her reaction will
say the rest

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I doubt that. The part of your gf that you have so much faith in is her prefrontal cortex, that's what most people think they are and to some extent they are. But it's not all they are, you have no control over almost everything that goes on in your body and that includes a lot of neuro-transmitters, hormones, neural connections, everything going on in the hypothalamus and the like which govern your response to external stimuli. The prefrontal cortex mediates those flexible response patterns unless substance abuse takes it out of the equation. You don't have to be comatose for that. You just need the right amount of the right substance and you don't give a fuck about that person you promised fidelity to because you don't think anymore, you just act on impulse. Maybe Coke is a better example. Saying my gf wouldn't do that equates to saying my gf isn't a human female. It's a ridiculous statement.

Thats a great way to have her break up with you, assuming she didn't actually cheat.

> completely impair her cognition
You utter fucking retard, thats not cheating then is it! Cheating is when you go fuck some other cunt when you know damn well you shouldn't! If you get someone so absolutely mashed they can't drink properly, probably dont even know their own name or that they've even got a partner, you can't turn around and then say "Ha! You're a fucking cheater!" just how retarded are you?

She probably fucked him and is still fucking him
She will carry his baby while you pay for it OP

If you have a suspicion it happened it probably did.

What did he taste like when you kissed her after she blew him?

You sound like an insecure bitch

And that's why she probably is fucking other dudes

Funny how in your worldview the woman getting wasted is by definition the victim and not accountable for her actions because she's wasted. Where did I say someone made her drink and take drugs? That's the exact opposite of what I've been laboring on about itt... If you don't consider it cheating if your gf goes to a club, voluntarily gets completely hammered and hooks up with a dude that's certainly very progressive of you.