Hey Sup Forumsros i really have a problem,i have sex anxiety. every time i have sex i get nervous and i loose my boner...

Hey Sup Forumsros i really have a problem,i have sex anxiety. every time i have sex i get nervous and i loose my boner. how can i get ride of that? please help.. i'm getting depressed. i even talk to my friends about that, they just say you need to chill and don't get nervous. but that doenst help me-

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Alcohol

with alcohol you loose your boner anyway? or iam wrong?

Alchol is scientifically well know for killing boners

You're too in your head worrying about how you're doing and how out of shape you are. Pro tip, fuck her like you're angry. Csnt be scared when you're angry, and she'll love your animal side. Try it out. If you feel yourself sliding into that feeling, get angry at it and pound that pussy till she squirts. You got this user.

i will try that, she really likes me, even we had a horrible first time. she said that you can come to me whenever you want. so yeah next time ill try to fuck her like i'm angry, she even said she likes it hardcore. thx for your tip user.

I had the same problem, but in reverse: I could have sex for hours without ejaculating. That was due to my inner insecurities about people and relationships since my father cheated on my mother and being bullied until, like, 6 years ago. Now I have this wonderful girlfriend that makes me feel home and protected and my sexual activities are normal. Maybe you need to strenghten your bond with your gf/bf

i wish i could have sex for hours.... god please make my dream come true please god

booze

don't get piss drunk, that's how you lose boners.
just drink responsibly, enough to lower your inhibitions and get rid of the anxiety
plus some cocktails are made to boost you (might or might not be snake oil, will be tasty regardless), like the good Richeria grandis bark infused in rum, popular in the Caribbeans

I had the same problem Op. Ive never been able to do a one nighter for that reason. Luckily, I found someone that truly loves me, with her I also had a bad first experiences, but was able to relax enough around her eventually. True story.

Yeah well, that's ok if you want to impress the lady, but just like you'd love to make them cum, they as well want you to and, if you're in a relationship, that will lead to problems and insecurities by her side. She will eventually feel inadequate :/

If you’re a dumb duck who gets shitfaced and sloppy drunk you’re going to lose your boner. You can get buzzed and still fuck.

The answer is porn.

If you watch it, stop. If you don't watch it, start.

Honestly the only thing that worked for me is to literally tell my girlfriend who I had just started dating: “It’s hard for me to get hard with a new person. I think it’s subconscious anxiety. You might have to be patient.” She took it really well and went out of her way to make me feel comfortable without expecting anything. I was pretty much fixed by Day 4 and it never happened again. Still with her 2 years later and honestly that set the tone for the rest of our relationship.

had that problem one time, got so nervous i lost the boner mid sex. feels bad man. only advice i can say is just be confident and let your primal urges out

Also this. Masturbation is fine, nofap is bullshit. Porn, however, can really mess with your sex/arousal reflexes.

the problem is i feel really bad, i talked to her about that becaue i dont get a boner, and she just took it really easy and said its ok dont worry..

Just talk about it with the girl, I understand this can be awkward but just have sex with a girl you at least sort of trust. Explain your situation, i've been in similar situations before where the anxiety becomes too much because you want to perform so badly. The trick is to talk to her about it and make her understand. Try to take it slow and don't try to stick it in right away and just try to relax and do some foreplay. Just being open about sex is the best you can do anyways in my experience.

Ok good. Next step is accepting that you’re gonna have a disappointing few tries.

Otherwise you’re gonna constantly psych yourself out and be disappointed, which will make it worse. You gotta tell yourself “I’m probably not gonna get hard this time.”

i talked to her but she says, ''relax its ok, its not a problem, we try it other time again and it will get better''. as i said before, she really likes me and want again sex with me, even we had a horrible first time...

Kill yourself and reborn with mightier cock