Anyone else date a girl with a slutty past? is it wrong that I let some of the stuff bother me sometimes?

anyone else date a girl with a slutty past? is it wrong that I let some of the stuff bother me sometimes?

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I do. That’s normal. As long as it’s in the past try not to focus on it and just judge her by her current behavior. It definitely does make me question her self respect though.

same here, some of the stuff she let these guys do makes me question her sometimes

It's normal to have feelings and reactions, it's wrong to dwell on them and let them consume you. If they treats you right, everythings fine, if not, bail.

Same situation here buddy. My gf of 5 years is faithful, hot, smart, funny, almost perfect. Fuck the past, worry about the present man.

Before we got together she was a HUGE goth/emo (whatever) slut. Did all kinds of whore shit. I didn't know until we were together awhile. Fuck it.

Go on...

idk post more of these tits though, are they your girl?

OP here, yeah she cheered in college and hooked up with a fair amount of guys, its more so the stuff she let these hook ups do that gets to me sometimes

my gf was a sworn slut and she loves the bbc. i kinda like that.

The girl I'm with was a slut. Before we got together she went through a 3 year dry spell. She claims I kinda believe her. We have been together 2 years things are great. I just wish I got sex more. Shes done some fucked up shit and like other anons said it really makes me question her self worth and self respect.

no i think it's good you let it bother you. else it would be a supressed memory, unless that in itsself is memory supression. in that case you're fucked up in the head.

i think it makes sense. my gf has a slutty past and a (too-detailed-for-my-taste) personal journal, last night i was reading about her taking random cock up her ass or swallowing cum

It is NATURAL for this to bother you.

It is a deeply rooted reaction implicit in your biology.

There is a strong reason that virgins have been important in religion for eternity.

Unfortunately I don't have any advice on how to deal with it, or whether or not you should act on those feelings. But don't let the cucky people convince you that you're feeling this way because you're insecure or some shit.

Would you let her take bbc while she's with you?

what are some examples of things she let them do? nastiest of them all?

Finish it now.
Will only eat away at you, you're just prolonging the inevitable.

um well she did a MFM 3some with 2 guys on the football team that really bothers me and one of those guys she was hooking up with made her suck his dick after it was in her ass. there was a bunch more stuff but those 2 stick in my brain big time, also letting one guy take a video of her blowing him and doing her doggy

well, i was cheating on her at the beginning of our relationship and she told me she found out and starting fucking this guy literally named Tyrone she met in salsa. i read her fb messages with her friends and she said i was a baby in comparison. her pussy was sore the whole next day and she was feeling like a slut when she was taking a shower the next day.
it kinda turned me on, haha. she's brazilian btw. they are used to taking the bbc

Would it make you feel insecure if he did?

is she quick to let guys assfuck her? what about piss play?

no she's never let me do anal, and fuck no

Will stay tuned in for stories...

and as you can see, she's clearly built for big dicks :p

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you want the full details or just what she did?

she seems to be with other guys given what you said, i meant if she was quick to give up her ass for them

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oh this was back in college

would she let one night stands fuck her ass?

Lol...jesus

no it was just that one specific guy and I think she had this other one that would put his thumb in her ass without asking

Things she did. I was a baseball player in college and we did some fucked up things, including a girl sticking a Louisville slugger in her pussy for a few of us on the team...

lmao what college

my gf got assfucked by like 8 guys and that pisses me off

>date

Wtf user? Never date a whore just bang them ...

Fukin life skills 101.....godamm how much money have you wasted on this whore anyway?

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Is that something you should ask permission to do? Interesting...

I went to college in Utah

I meant like a heads up since she was against butt stuff, not my words shes the one who said it

You should not deal with it if it worries you. Just left my girl partly because of her past. Sluts are okay for a fuck, not companion.

Look up microchimerism. Sperm DNA stays in the woman for the rest of her life.

Oh got it. She sounds like she's got a good sense of humor though

Oh..here we go.....

How was your mission fag ? How many times has your bishop ass fucked you ?

Look butt. If a bird has a slutty past its always due to her poor self esteem. You'll spend the rest of your life trying to make her feel "worthy". Every second of every day! You will fail. Everybody fails. The second you take a breath and stop pandering to her neurosis she'll drop her knickers for some cunt and blame you!

I knows.

She a slut once and will be forever, drop that bitch harder than your heart---period

I love hearing about it when I’m railing her

I was picked up on scholarship. Not Mormon though. Sounds like some mormon dude broke your heart though

>be me
>thought i'd married a "good gril"
>turns out not so much
>"just a couple of third base boy friends ...."
>"just a couple of relationships in college ..."
>didn't mention the guy said you got black out drunk and you told him to undress you
>or the guy your friend liked and you fucked one night because you were drunk
>hidden pictures of old boyfriends
>felt a little ill when i saw all the pictures of the jockeys that were there before me
>feel like the clerk in Clerks, "My grilfriend sucked 37 dicks!"
>acts like a drunk slut when shes out with her friends
>can't wrap my head around what a cum dumpster she turned out to be

she sucks dick like a whore though :/

i have a few memories of my ex. some of them are real, others are not. i can't tell which are real and which aren't so i choose not to think about it at all because i can't make sense out of it.

yeah it was weird to hear her say that but I know shes against butt stuff, prob from the past times

This girl I fucked was a complete nypmho. Said she had slept with atleast 40 guys, some black. Didnt bother me

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I was casually dating (fucking) this 24 YO model a few years back (I was 48 then). She was a 7.5-8 without makeup but easily a 9.5 or even 10 with good makeup. Shes now making a name for herself in Hollywood and kind of getting famous. Anyway going back OT, her and I broke up twice and both times she later told me that she fucked other guys including other photographers, random dudes she met including one on the street when her car had broken down. Before meeting me she had fucked all races including Chinese, Indian, African and so on. She had fucked a guy 60 YO and a 70 YO Chinese woman, while her husband watched. Lost her cherry to a random guy she met on the internet when she was 13 and fucked 4 guys from her school at once in the forest when she was 15. Plenty more stories.

Who is it?

Innit. Similar here.
>Be me
>Ugly but nice
>Not much success with females
>Do ok, though.
>Mate gets 8/10 Qt gf
>Mate is complete prick. Me angry at life
>I gets on great with his gf. Too great!
>Finds I think about her all the time.
>Nice girl, clean 1 previous bf by age of 17.
>I go out with her ugly friends, just to see her.
>Everybody says she fancies me
>No confidence so don't believe.
>Lose contact with mate and her for 6 months.
>Bump into mate in pub.
>His gf then turns up.
>My heart rate ++++
>He gets drunk and acts violent towards her.
>I steps in.
>He fucks off
>Finds out he's girl beater
>I asks her out. Yes.
>Ends up marrying her.
>Ends up having lots of kids
>But finds out she had a break from previous bf
>Finds out she sucked lots of cock and one night stands
>Eats away
>I was sold a pup.
>During marriage I have doubts over her fidelity.
>She fucks her friend. Lesbian so different?
>I get cucked
>Divorced
>Find out she was unfaithful during marriage. Cocks not cunts.
>Should have known.
>She had fucked up childhood.
>No self esteem
>Exhausted myself during marriage.
>End up in mental hospital.
>I'm a twat.

So I have a gf who use to be a hoe and she used to love anal but with me just all of a sudden doesn't like it. And says she loves me and I'm great but never does any work in bed and gives me shitty half assed head. I dont understand why she bothered dating me when she just kinda treats me like a friend with benefits rather than her boyfriend/love of her life as she claims.

i'd fuck her too

Im dating a 40 year ex stripper (quit about 10 years ago). Doesnt bother me

It's over. Move on. No troll. My experience buddy.

>>I'm a twat.
Honestly, this is the most definite fact of your entire post.

Theres a difference between taking your clothes off, even sucking a dick for money in order to live and being a slut. Every single time a stripper gets her kit off, she wishes she was doing something else. Its as erotic as cups! Sluts are sluts. Never gonna change that mindset.

I am fully aware.

I would rather my girlfriend have been a whore in the past rather than a prude. Nothing worse than dating a chick who can’t give good head, hand jobs, fuck right. Nothing worse than a girl who just kinda lays there. Nothing worse than a girl who doesn’t know anything about sexy underwear. Who thinks anal is gross or won’t swallow if her lousy head manages you an orgasm bc you’re so pent up.

I’ve had that girl before, but HEY! She had only been with one other guy who was a beta.

Give me the slut any day

Fair enough. Most just assume if you stripped, you took a lot of dick

You guys are some insecure betas lmao. I'm sure you already knew that about yourselves, though.

I’ll also add that this thread is a rarity on here when every other thread that pops up is a bunch of anons lusting for a guy to fuck their imaginary girlfriend

You would assume right. Anybody who is dating an ex stripper and doesn’t think she’s had more spit roasts than a Hawaiian rager, is absolutely and pathetically retarded

user plz, end this.
The past will come back, worst than ever. In the end you will suffer as I did. Fuck I was so stupid back then, high school times. I knew she had been a little bit slutty before, but what happened next broke me apparat.

If low self esteem cumbrains like you stopped accepting and dating sluts, girls won't be slutting around anymore.

Now enjoy chad and tyrones former cum dumpster (aka your girlfriend)

I don't think a slutty girl can be happy in a relationship, they are always looking for something better. I have to slutty cousin. One is in her second child and second husband. The other cousin goes from bf or gf to bf or gf since she was 13 yo. Where she exposed herself naked with a gf.

She didnt do coke, and didnt whore herself. Believe it or not, it can happen

and i personally dont give a fuck what she did before me.

I've met a few "sex workers" via work and most of them have a partner. Usually they're into drugs and do the sex stuff for money for drugs. They don't want to do it but have no choice. They despise their clients/punters. They differentiate between work sex and sex. Sex is special, work sex is business.I guess it's consent. Take away the money and theres no consent. It's about the soul. I've also met dancers for nightclubs who act all slutty, wear fuck all but are fiercely loyal and have never or never will be a slut.

Good luck user.

I've come to terms with it. Nothing I can do about it now, except try to take even more advantage of how much she likes sex. Seems I missed out on years of getting her drunk and fucking. I'll take her sloppy drunk blow jobs any time and black out fuck her too.
I've told her I didn't marry you because you can cook.

I've dated an ex-porn actress, really didn't bother me as much as I thought it would tbh

My wife had a slutty past. It bothered me a little in the beginning. It then stated turning me on to think about. Over the years, that developed into a serious cuckold fetish.

tl;dr - you're a cuck and you just don't know it yet.

My gf had three times more sexual partners than me (that's 15 dicks and she's 25).

It does bother me, but in a weird way - I'm jealous that she tried more partners than I did. What bothers me more is that if we stay together I will never increase that number (I don't want to cheat on her, at least for now)

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The cracks are there, user. When kids come along the dynamic changes. Your attention will be diverted, quite rightly to them. Your wife won't like it. She will seek attention from others.

I hope I'm wrong. But it happened to me. Women moan about men not being good dad's but women get greasy over bad boys. Changing a nappy or taking your boy to football practice doesn't turn women on. Being a drunk cunt, mildly violent and not coming home for a week, will get you more pussy than doing the washing up ever will. Facts.

Cos it's business. When she was sucking Tyrone's knob, she was thinking and hoping it didn't rain cos she put the washing out, hoping the traffic ain't too bad going home and should she have a curry or Chinese for tea. All about the money, user. Her love or soul wasn't involved.

My girlfriend said at a drunk truth or dare that she has fucked 12 guys and 3 of them were black. (We are 19 for reference)

Is that too slutty? How would you react? I kinda want to ask about the black guys, but I don't want to come across as insecure.

This.

My girlfriend can't remember how many guys she's fucked. Doesn't bother me at all except that her promiscuity was the result of physical and sexual abuse by her stepfather leaving her desperate for what she interpreted as positive attention from men. She's gone through some bad marriages, her first husband tried to murder her and their daughter, endured addiction and jail time... years of counseling and a genuine desire to provide for her child have turned her into a better, smarter person. And now she wants me and only me and that's all that matters. I just don't want her to hurt anymore. Every day gives another opportunity for healing and for growing closer as friends, partners, and lovers. Gonna wife the shit out of her soon.

The cracks there! Similar here. Ate away. But cos my ex increased her number while we were married and I was doing the shittest job in the world just to put bread on the table for her!

If you think about it, that would mean that she has fucked 1 guy per year since she was 7. Obviously that's not very reasonable, so let's assume she started having sex around age 16. That's 4 guys per year.
Now how do you feel about it?

Self esteem. You'll exhaust yourself trying to fill the self esteem hole in her soul. You'll end up fucked up and shell move on to her next victim like a vampire sucking the life out of men in a futile attempt to shore up her broken ego. Stop trying to white knight and look after yourself first.

>She will seek attention from others.

Already has. Did I mention she's an attention whore?

I don't know. I don't know what's reasonable in 2019. I don't know how many people the average 19 year old has fucked. I don't want to end the relationship over what might be nothing, but I am insecure over it.

Also I cum really quickly (less than a minute) and I know I'm really bad in bed, so that probably makes it worse. Not only did they all fuck her, but they were probably all better than me

Well you seem pretty oblivious to it, and I honestly would say that that is for the better as long as you manage to calm your insecurity.
For the quickshot problem, I would say just try to fap everyday for some time and you'll be a little more resilient.

Dude, when I say my ex was a goth/emo whore, I don't mean she slept with a couple guys...

She gave a complete stranger a blowjob in a parking lot garage after a concert on a dare from her friend...

She ate her girlfriends pussy right in the middle of a big Halloween party where neither of them one hardly anyone, while like 10 dudes recorded it with their phones.

Rubbed an old man's (60 maybe) dick through his pants, she pretended it was an accident and she was sleeping.

Lastly, thought it was funny that 3 of her little brother friends were still virgins whilst they were like 16, and interrupted their d&d party one night and sucked/ fucked all 3 of them.

I dont understand why in the past when I was an ahold an didn't give a fuck women did what I wanted when I wanted and practically waited on me hand and foot. But now that I treat women with genuine respect and help financially and with cleaning etc. I get treated like more of a friend or a maid they let fuck them once in a while. Shit pisses me off.

I can't get laid to save my life so I couldn't tell you. I'm starting to wonder if people really do have sex and if it's not just a simulation I'm in.

damn those are some tits

Oh man. My exes new boy will be peeved at what we did. I have pics and pics, videos too. One was of her sucking me off on a hilltop, cumming in her mouth, and then she facetimes her mom to show her the view.
Or another video, bent over my dorm room desk with her skirt still on, while I fuck her in plain view of the university quad. Good times

psychologytoday.com/us/blog/first-blush/201809/how-many-sexual-partners-is-too-many-sexual-partners

Turns out you're not weird OR AN INCEL for thinking this way ...
>Both men and women expressed equal reluctance to get involved with someone who they judged as having an extensive sexual past.

Imagine being this fucking bitter and cynical. She made profound changes in her life even years before we met and she has helped me cope with my suicidal depression. Our relationship is a two-way street based on mutual love, respect, and trust. We're both finding ourselves worthy of real love for the first time in our lives and it has been a profound experience. I hope someday you can have the same experience of finding the person who completes you.

Maybe I'm just realistic. I've been through it and I've seen it many many times (oldfag). You sound like a bad Mills and Boon novel. Don't come crying to me when you find she ate all your digestives!

ALL GIRLS are slutty, even if they don't show it. Every girl (unless shes a virgin) has been wrecked by many dicks before you ever had a go at her, and women always move on sooner or later to other dicks after you. They're quite literally cum dumps. Every last one of them.

Man sometimes I wish I could find out if my ex told her new bf about the stuff we did. I really want to know if she told him I would go ass to mouth on the reg and bust on her face.