So, I need some advice. I have a foot fetish. I've tried to tell my wife before, but she thinks it's really weird, and doesnt believe me. She'll wear the stockings and the like, but I want so much more than that. I want to suck her toes while fucking her. I want footjobs and blowjobs with her using her feet instead of hands.but I know she wont do it. There are times when we have sex that she'll put her feet on my chest and I cum so much faster and harder. But I cant tell her why because I dont want to get "that look". It's really the only fantasy I have that I can't talk about/have. What do I do? Also general female feet thread. Socks, stockings etc.
So, I need some advice. I have a foot fetish. I've tried to tell my wife before, but she thinks it's really weird...
Julian Torres
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Connor Hughes
missing out, my friend
Eli Nelson
how i introduced my wife was i would fuck her doggy style, make her cum, then when i was cumming, i would pull out and cum on her soles. then it transitioned to her turning around and cumming on the top of her feet. then it transitioned to pulling out and grabbing her feet and doing a footjob to cum.
she's totally into it now
Noah Jenkins
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Nathan Walker
I sympathize, OP. Does the missus ever wear stuff like this?
Levi Bennett
Justin Phillips
Just talk to her and tell her all this and that it is important to you. It's a completely normal and common fetish.
Isaac Cooper
What this dude said. Probably won't work for me though, as my current situation is similar, but much harder to navigate..
Caleb Long
I've told all my partners straight up that i was into all that type of stuff. And while i felt a little silly and shy about it, they were completely into it and would let me indulge! They would get foot rubs after work, i got to have my fun and we were both happy!
Grayson Hill
talking to women is retarded. just grab her feet, hold em together, and start fucking them. if she freaks out, just tell the bitch to shut up and cum on her
Eli Gray
Yeah, it's not like that really. It's someone I only just recently re-connected with via fb. One of my teachers from high school. Gorgeous MILF with amazing feet that I used to fantasize about so much back in the day. Saw her at a catered event at my job last year and we've been chatting back and forth online since then. She hasn't aged a day in the last 13 years. I want to tell her how I used to feel about her, and see if hopefully she'll indulge me with sending feet pics my way. She's in her 50s now, married with kids. I'm 28 myself
Hudson Diaz
I'm not sure it will. My wife thinks all fetishes are weird. Including some fantasies. Not much for play, but she does enjoy the occasional bonding and blindfold. Not the crazy bondage, just the simple tying her hands with one of my suit ties. But to her that's a "normal" link.
I dont want her to do anything to my feet, as I feel that would be weird, I just want to do whatever I please to hers.
Nolan Phillips
Says the virgin.
Zachary Young
I dunno find a new wife then?
Adrian Ward
Foreplay*
Benjamin Kelly
lol just tie her up and cum on her feet, done.
Jaxon Reed
I hate to say it, but this dude may have the best advice. You gotta be assertive in getting how important your kinks are to you, across to her OP. She'll respect and understand you more for it. Or, you know, we could both be dead wrong and she could freak the fuck out. Try it and see what happens.
Oliver Lee
this.
She's not gonna divorce you OP. you have a job right? you're a good dude right? women are open to anything, you just can't ask. just do it. we ain't talking about surprising her and sticking your dick in her ass. it's just cumming on her feet
Julian Wright
trips has spoken, cum on her feet, pic it, and report back promptly
Blake Young
Dude, just be honest with yourself. I had the same hesitation, but I sucked on my exes toes once and she thought it was a little weird. The next night we were fucking and she grabbed my cock with her feet and started giving me a footjob. I was so fucking surprised and happy. Diamonds. I have fucked all of my exes feet minus one. The one that got away. Don't deprive yourself. Seeing your woman teach herself new ways to manipulate your cock with her toes and heels/arches is a grand fucking feeling.
Adrian Nelson
My suggestion would be to be assertive about it. When you're fucking her, don't ask to suck her toes. Grab her foot and wrap your lips around them. Don't ask her to give you a footjob, grab her ankles and fuck her soles. If she's still extremely hesitant or refuses to continue having sex after, you gotta seriously talk to her about it. I'm a dude with a foot fetish myself, and I'm upfront about it early on in new relationships, sometimes even before we've had sex. Most girls are cool with it, some aren't, and some are so into it, it's insane. Your case is different, you're married. Let her know that it's something you really want, something you need. Ask her what you can do for her in return (within reason).
Also post her feet.
Brandon Baker
Just suck her toes one day during sex, she’ll end up liking it! Almost every time my wife and I fuck now she shoved her toes in my mouth and loves it and that’s how we started
Angel White
I second this. You got any advice for my situation further up?
Aiden Torres
Hmmm could try reminiscing about old times, how you'd think about her when sitting in class, lead up gradually to sexually charged things, then mention you would have to stop yourself from staring at her feet, something to that effect. Say they probably still look as good as she does, coax her into proving it to you. You thinking of hooking up with her or keeping it just over text and such?
Luis Wood
I'd rather just keep it over text/pics if possible. And like I said she is married, so I gotta tread as careful as possible. The closest thing I got to a feet-related memory is this one time she took her ankle boots off in class to pull her socks up that kept falling down. And all the times she wore sandals or open toe shoes I guess
Tyler Perez
if she actually loves you, she will do anything no matter how weird it is. There are several ways to get her to indulge your kink.
1: You can stop using the term fetish and just use kink instead. Unless you can only get off with feet, it's a kink not a fetish. Fetish can be seen as a dirty word.
2: no matter how small her kinks are, indulge them. Everyone and i mean EVERYONE does something that can be seen as "weird" make her feel comfortable about it. That way she will happily indulge in your foot kink (dump her if she doesnt lol)
3: Take it slow and always say how sexy she is "from head to toe". Tell her how good she looks in stockings and high heels. give her foot rubs and slowly tell her how you find her feet attractive like her pussy, ass and tits. work her into it and she will get the idea
4: like others have said, take her foot and just suck a toe during sex, i'm sure she will get the picture.
5: JUST FUCKING TELL HER YOUR KINKS! tell her you have a foot kink and you would enjoy sucking her toes! even if isn't down for that and acts like a bitch about it. DUMP THE CUNT!
oh and dont be weird about it, shy yes but not weird.
Easton Hughes
This is literally how I did it the first time.
Jackson Harris
Fair enough. I mean as far as things go, sending pics of your feet to someone is low on the scale of infidelity in a marriage, though she's gonna know exactly why you want them. Still, could be worth a shot. If she's talking to you online in a playful and light manner, she'll probably be a bit more open, but you have to make her comfy with the idea of sending them in the first place.
I was talking to a childhood friend's mom a while back, same thing, married. Chatted for a long time, months I think, before she started sending me pictures of her tits. Wanted to hook up with her but her family moved quite a ways away during school, so we settled for sexting.
Joseph King
I wouldn't call our chatting online playful, more light-hearted and keeping each other in touch on what's going on with our lives. If I want to play the long game, I'll message her on Christmas with a pic of some dope ass socks I got my friend at work for secret santa (which I did, last year), and ask if she has any cool ones herself
Jacob Wilson
Austin Gomez
no foot kink guy asked for this! maybe by someone who doesnt get the kink.
Joseph Rodriguez
It just seems impractical, tbh.
Juan Cruz
Not a bad idea. Also, let's be real, what's the worst that could happen if you ask her for pics? She blocks you? Better to miss a shot than never take it. In a situation like this, long term game might be key. Best of luck to you.
Jeremiah Stewart
yes they did..
Life-sized silicon dolls are the main focus of Sinthetics' business, but the Vajankle was originally developed as a bespoke customer order. "He said he wanted to be able to see and massage the sole of the foot while having sex with it", a Sinthetics spokesperson told BuzzFeed. With feet being such a popular fetish, it made sense to put the Vajankle into production.
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Asher Morales
Hey thanks, stranger. I'll see how it goes. Maybe she'll feel a little of the x-mas spirit and work with me. One can only hope.
Oliver Morales
no they fucking didn't. Just because one weirdo said it was a good idea doesn't mean that's what foot fetish guys want. Its fucking bullshit and you should feel ashamed for supporting this. Making the kink weirder than it is!
Kevin Bennett
Remember to post pics if she does, these must be some seriously cute feet for all the effort.
Ryder Brooks
I'll certainly try. Lord knows whatever she does send my way I'll keep forever
Robert Bennett
INCEL SPOTTED..lol STFU you retarded fucking cunt what a fucking sad pathetic piece of kissless virgin shit you are..
Sebastian Foster
Tbh my wife was awkward about it at first but changed her tune fairly quick. She always wants lotion rubbed on her feet and when we have sex I will lean back so I can rub her clit with my thumb while we fuck. That puts her feet on my shoulders or chest every time. I kiss her toes while I’m inside her and I feel her muscles tense every time. When I finally told her I was going to rub my dick on her feet she gave me a funny look but let me do it. She does always make me clean the cum off her feet though (not in the gay lick it off way, with tissues or something you mongs)
Gabriel Richardson
It just takes time OP. My wife just recently let me start sucking her toes during sex after 6 years of marriage.
If she’s against it completely because she thinks it’s too weird (like mine was) then don’t push it & respect her boundaries. You have to slowly get her comfortable with you being around her feet. Give occasional foot rubs which will relax her. Engage in conversation and eye contact while doing it and plant that subconscious image in her head of seeing your face by her feet alongside the relaxation and pleasure of a foot rub.
Also a trick that I found that works (and women are generally more open to) is focus on her legs for a while rather than her feet. She’ll get comfortable with you rubbing and kissing her thighs and calves, then over time make your way to the ankles & eventually the bold move to the top of her feet. Stick with that for a while. It’s very easy to get carried away and rush it, but don’t or you may have to start all over.
Soon enough you’ll be at the toes & a few open-mouthed kisses later, you’ll be sucking her toes with her approval.
Good luck user. If I could manage to pull it off with as adamant as my wife was, so can you.
Luis Russell
holy shit seethe, did you fucking patent those ankle cock socks?
Landon Roberts
a guy who supports fucking plastic feet pussy, thinking that's what foot fetish is all about is calling me the incel.
never change Sup Forums
Jayden Jones
666 of devil
Angel Hernandez
dude it should not have taken you 6 years. it's your kink, if she wasnt down for that within the first year or at least 6 months. You really should have left her.
Tyler Green
think about wether its a deal breaker to you. if not - suck it up. yes? maybe its time to find a new wife
Camden Rivera
Yeah well her feet are truly amazing. That & I wasn’t going to toss out a perfectly fine relationship over a fetish. It’s simply that. A fetish... & although I eventually got what I wanted, I never forced it on her. If she had at any point told me to stop, that would have ended it & I’d have continued with my otherwise happy marriage.
It’s dumb to revolve any long-term life choices around a sexual fetish. Now if we didn’t sexually vibe at all, maybe that’d be different.
Matthew Gray
Brandon Adams
Nice, stranger. Whose feet?
Chase Baker
incel detected.
Bentley Gonzalez
Jordan Hernandez
Your wife? if so, fucking jackpot, bud
Jose Campbell
lolololol
Bentley Rivera
buy a silicon practice pedicurist/manicurist prosthetic foot or two. Its basically a $7 masturbator. You can get a great different variety for under $20 with prime shipping too. Don't get fooled by the $60+ "jewelry case models" the $7-$10 ones work like a dream with a little lube.
You'll have a lot of fun with them and when your wife sees them she'll know you ain't fucking around and if she isn't willing to do it for you you have those to get you off when the need arises.
Jason Mitchell
Also correct. As a last resort, show her that she can be 'replaced' if necessary
Blake Reed
Any girlfriend ive ever had, ive never straight up told. Either were sitting on the couch and i rub her feet without question, or kissing them while fucking. I just do it, i dont ask. A lot of the times if theyre not in to it, they will still be in to the fact that it turns you on and they'll use it to fuck with you. Or it will grow on them for the simple fact it turns you on so much.
Austin Morris
Good luck bro. My wife loves my foot fetish but won't let me suck her toes or lick her soles became it tickles her. I get to shove her feet in my face when I fuck her but it's really more of a tease for me. Try getting her like black out drunk and going for it? It's worked for me twice and I swear I've never came harder in my life.
Thomas Phillips
If it tickles her, take advantage of that. Tie her up one night like you're about to try some new shit, then just attack her feet and do what you want with her. Tickling can be erotic with the right people and setting
James Collins
it's dumb that you had to hide what you enjoyed for 6 fucking years and then talked about shit like "if she didn't enjoy it, i would have stopped"
DUDE IT'S ABOUT PLEASING YOU NOT HER!!! you do stuff for her and she does stuff for you. The fact you had to hide it sums up your relationship..
long-term means you fucked up and married someone you don't really connect with, YOU only think you do!! How do i know this? YOU HAD TO HIDE YOUR FETISH FOR 6 FUCKING YEARS!!!!!!! if someone loves you, they will do ANYTHING to please you, as you should too!
Evan Hall
For the record, they smell like rubber so if you're into it for the smell maybe its not a good replacement.
However I get around that by using post-workout gym socks on them.
Jaxson Cook
Dude. It’s a fetish not a lifestyle. Yeah I enjoy it, but sex is still sex & that’s great in itself. Anything fetish related was a bonus. It’s not like I need a foot to get off.
I don’t expect to force someone to change their views because they aren’t comfortable with it. This isn’t the LGBTQ community.
If someone I’m into doesn’t vibe with it, I don’t need to cut them off over it. There are a million other reasons you can be into someone. It’s really closed-minded to toss it over just one. Plus, over time she grew comfortable with it. Sure it was 6 years in the works, but we’re in our late 20’s. There’s a hell of a lot longer than that time I spent that I now get to enjoy it with someone I’m also into other things with outside of a fetish.
Sebastian Watson
you actually dont get it do you man! Did you have the fetish before her? did you jerk off to feet porn before and during? If you did, you still had to hide what you enjoyed to person you are meant to love. WHo is not meant to judge you and indulge in things that you like.
^^^ this guy here knows what it's all about and it just seems like your girl doesnt love you as much as you think she does. Every girl i've been with has been happy to let me fuck her feet, why? because it turned me on. Of course it does nothing for them but they enjoy turning me on!! THAT'S THE WHOLE POINT OF POINTLESS SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!
you fucked up user and one day you'll see!!
Adrian Bennett
Relationships are about compromise.
Ask her what dumb fetish she has, then try to do it for her.
The next night, tell her exactly what you want her to do.
Some women never get into it, some make a good try, and some really do enjoy foot stuff.
For the most part though, it's going to be a compromise. It's just kinda weird for them, plus most women really aren't into fetish stuff and would rather just get tied up and fucked by a big dong.
Thomas Hernandez
I mean, we can agree to disagree. I just think it’s foolish to leave someone you otherwise connect with for someone you could end up hating, but at least they let you touch their feet. I’ve got it all at this point, so I’m satisfied although I’m aware it could have turned out differently. Thing is it didn’t. She wasn’t comfortable initially, but she let me make my moves until it grew on her, so it does go with what you said in a sense. I paid a little in time, but that was my compromise in exchange for hers which is exactly what marriage is supposed to be - compromises and working it out until both find a solution they’re comfortable and happy with.