Virgins of/b/, why are you still a virgin?

Virgins of/b/, why are you still a virgin?

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Because my religion brainwashed me about premarital sex

took me too long
hs was prime, but I had noone to talk to and my personality just backed everyome aways from me
college is a very bad place to start

crippling social anxiety... cant even look a woman in the eye for more than 1 second. christ i wanna at least know what a pussy smells like....

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I be ugly and with an unlikable personality

>ugly

because I want to remain pure and unclouded by sexual deviancy.

smell your sis' or your nieces panties

If I'm being honest. I'm just plain afraid of women. I've been pretty conditioned to be afraid too. Since I was a kid, I've always been beaten and yelled at by my older sister and while I did have two other older sisters to help me out when things got out of hand, when they left to go to college, the abuse got a bit worse. It's gotten to the point where I think being in a relationship with a woman will end up bad. I mean, it's not like I can't talk to them, but the idea of having someone know who you are on an extremely intimate level terrifies me. And if they don't even know who you are while being with you, that's even worse to me. I don't know, maybe I'm being a brat about it, but I guess I don't want the responsibilities of being in a relationship while not paying off a hooker to get rid of my v card just to get my rocks off. I mean, there's also the fact that my dad drank day in and day out while having a terrible temper and it makes me think about what if I turn out like that if I have a girlfriend?

I'm 20, and engaged. I decided early on to wait until marriage, so did my fiance. Before her, I got close a few times, but was able to prevent it from happening (a couple of my ex-girlfriends were really wanting to hop on it). Additionally, with her we nearly had sex once, every other time either she or I stopped us before we did it. I am so thankful our wedding date is soon. I am so fucking ready.

Have you considered therapy? I think it might help in this instance.

Its funny i can get it up no problem can jerk off can webcam jerk can kik jerk but everytime im with a chick its like my body shakes and my mind races and my cock doesnt understand at that exact moment it needs to get hard.
Literally had a chance 6 times to loose it 3 times one girl and 3 other girls can do everything to them just cant get myself hard. Any tips would help

If you want to admit to a person when soecity shame you for being one the last thing you like doing is going to someone and going hey doc im a virgin help me

stop watching porn might help

Not even to porn like if a chick ask me to skype i can have fun with her over skype just not in the act

It's not the porn, it's the jerking off. When you jerk off, you have constant stimulation, but with real sex there are pauses.

The best position to start in if you've trained your dick to expect to be jerked, is to start with girl-on-top. The reason this is best is, she'll start off by strattling you and playing with your dick, and that will get you hard.

If you're not hard when the clothes start coming off, tell her you want to try some tantric shit you read about. Just make up some BS about delaying sex and anticipation. Tell her you want to get totally naked and touch each other, but no penetration.

Ironically, she'll assume this means you're worried about premature ejaculation, but really it's just a tactic to get her to strattle you and play with your dick until it's hard.

good luck.

Thanks mate any tips on how to stop the shaking anxeity jitters

honestly i had like 6 solid chances to lose my v-card but my insecurities and the fact that i am an incognito hardcoresadist stopped me.

autism

>how to stop the shaking anxeity
Unironically: look at a girl and say the words in your mind, "this is a degenerate slut who has no worth other than to be fucked"

It's pretty brutal (and in truth, I don't really hate women) but it's a more useful frame of mind than what you're probably ordinarily thinking, which is more like, "zomg I'm so lucky!"

Seriously, women fuck a new guy as easily as you would shake a person's hand. Imagine there's a culture where shaking hands is some big taboo and you asking for advice on how not to be nervous when you shake hands. From everyone else's perspective, it's no big deal. They literally don't even remember it when it's over. Well, that's how it is for sex with women, so you might as well internalize it.

If you ever get a girlfriend you'll learn the truth of this by hearing gossip about her friends. She will describe all her "single" friends as sluts. I once had a girlfriend and we rented a condo for a weekend near a music festival. Her (super hot) friend wanted to tag along and there was a spare bedroom so we said sure okay. First night, we went to the festival, got separated from the friend but no big deal she can take care of herself. Girlfriend and I eventually head back to the condo and go to sleep. Next morning, friend is back and sleeps until the afternoon, then she's up having coffee, happy, everything seems just the same as it was the day before.

Later, my girlfriend tells me that the friend told her that she had brought two (yes, two) guys back last night and fucked them. They were gone before I got up and if my girlfriend didn't tell me this, I would never have guessed. This threeway was nothing to her. Just a regular Saturday night. The next night she didn't come home at all because she went to some guy's hotel.

I have a million stories like this. This is reality. You're getting nervous about something which is as unimportant to women as a handshake.

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Seriously, if you're able to jerk off by yourself then you don't have ED. Feel free to get a girl and tell her you just want to jerk off on her. I promise you, it wont be the first time for her. Yesterday she had a dick and tomorrow she'll have a dick and in between, if she's taking off her clothes in you presence, feel free to do whatever you want.

If you can realize this truth about women, you'll realize nervousness is ridiculous.

And one day you'll get a girlfriend and you'll hear these stories and you'll realize I was right.

I am 300 lbs and have 5.5 in dick. I've also tried my brain to porn and can't get an erection with out it.

Lol virgin

I've only had sex once. And I really wish I could go back and fuck for the first time again. I was so awful, nutted so fast inside of her too...was one of the best feelings ever. But I know she was not impressed and I cant quite seem to find any woman for me now.

Because no woman has ever wanted to have sex with me.

Its gonna be dissapointing and ruin the marriage. Why would you not test the water before jumping in, for anything in life.

I like little girls