Just found out my best friend blew me off and then lied straight to my face when I confronted him about it

Just found out my best friend blew me off and then lied straight to my face when I confronted him about it.

Drinking Gin + Coke to try and take away the pain of losing a friend that I still love.

What are the rest of you drinking tonight Sup Forums?

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what do you mean blew you off, what happened?

Imagine being this beta

I wouldnt want to be your friend if you drink gin and coke either

>my best friend blew me off

Your best friend sucked your dick? Sounds like a good friend to me.

Seems a little petty from the outside looking in, but he didn't invite me to his annual Halloween party.

When I asked him it was happening he said "we're having it, just gonna be a smaller one since last years was so crazy". It hurt that I didn't make the cut, obviously, but I understood.

Until today when I saw a photo of all of my friends, including said best friend, at a party that was, in fact, larger and crazier than last years.

I'm obviously hurt that I wasn't invited and literally ALL of my friends (except for one) were present, but the biggest issue is that I have no idea why I wasn't since the answer he gave me was obviously bullshit and I definitely don't understand why he felt he had to lie about it. Just ask me not to come if you don't want me around.

Teach me to triforce and I'll b your friend

You're thinking of "blew me" or "sucked me off", a good thing.

Getting blown off, however, is not.

Quit being a bitch, I went home on a vacation after being away from my home town. 5+years ago.
My homeboy blew me off on my last day of the vacation before I flew back home, when he was the one who planned the event to go see joker.
Awesome movie btw...
His reason was because he smelted bad after work.

I was like. "Brah you can smell like shit and I'd still wanna see you. I Leave tommorow get your ass down here. We're all waiting on you."

Fucker never showed so we had bought an extra ticket for nothing... and he never got to see me this trip...

Tucker never even came to the airport even though all my other homeboys did.

Still forgave him. Though cuz as franky said...

That's life and as funny as it may seem.
Some people get their kicks, stomping on a dream.

Trolled Hard: the user Story

It tastes like Dr. Pepper but it gets you drunk. That makes it a 10/10 drink for me.

Not everyone has the same life experiences as you. Perhaps you're a better man than me, but I'm super insecure. It's not like we're thousands of miles away, it's like an hour long drive at most.

Yeah, got real mad at that. 10/10 troll. I'm raeging soooo haaarrrd rite nao I can't even.

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my guesses:

you have a shitty personality, and ruin the mood, party killer etc

or similarly you are creepy to girls

its also possible, he is fucking your ex, or another friend is, and basically theyve picked sides and it wasnt yours

those are my top 3 ideas

the best thing you can do is move on, as you age some friendships just naturally part ways

What sort of socially awkward shit have you done in the past to make this happen?

Are you pretending to be retarded on purpose? You better not be.

Or he gets nasty when he drinks

I mean I was invited to the last four, I don't know why that would have changed.

I'm not. I know my boundaries and also none of the girls at this party were attractive to me.

Don't have any ex-girlfriends so it's not that.

Yeah, I'm not a "move on" type of guy. I had a friend that has, on three separate occasions, tried to sever ties with me and I've consistently brought him back. He made it clear to me why he was ending our friendship each time. I'm no stranger to this experience.

I've known this guy for more 10+ years. He knows how awkward I can be.

Then why wouldn't he just ask me to not drink at his party? I don't give a fuck about drinking.

Lets get a pic of your bedroom. Infeel like that should give us a peek into the true you.

It won't, I haven't updated my bedroom in over 15 years. It's still got the shit I was interested in as a ten year old in it.

I just don't give a fuck about how my bedroom looks because no one ever enters it but me. When I pick up a girl I always go to her place or a hotel.

if you didn't give a fuck about drinking you wouldnt resort to it to numb yourself after something like this

Worked without a picture.

Looks like your unwilling to grow or change. Relationships with friends and women arent that much different. Maybe your buddy just out grew/matured you.

Maybe he just isnt into you any more.

you brought up socially akward, but didnt give an example

i gave you my top 3 ideas, and now its starting to be clear its the first one, your shitty personality

now im not saying youre a shitty person, but in a social environment like a party, the dudes goal is to get laid and party wild

something about your interaction interferes with that, think of like high school, jocks dont want to be caught hanging out with nerds

people will far more often ghost someone, cut off all contact and avoid them, or even talk shit behind their back, before they ever confront someone or tell them the truth. its a difficult and seen as rude or tricky, so most people avoid it instead of acting like an adult and telling someone direct in a calm and constructive manner

Grow the fuck up

I meant I don't need to drink to have fun. I drink maybe four or five times a year, max.

I just don't give a fuck about what my bedroom looks like. I'm not going to spend time and money on interior decor that doesn't matter to me when I can spend it on other things that actually interest me. That doesn't mean I'm unwilling to change.

You didn't ask me to give you one. And the guy has been in a relationship for more than three years. He's not looking to get laid or be wild. It's a party with friends, not random strangers.

nigger

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Thanks bro.

>OP

What kinds of things do you spend your money on?

What interests you?

Without any intent to offend, are you autistic?

History, politics, cartography, jazz music, video games, comics and manga, old movies, science and space exploration. Just to name my primary interests. I often say I was born either 500 years too early or 50 years too late.

I'm Asperger's, so yes I would suppose.

What are your politics?

Rum with coke.

Somewhere along the border of libertarian socialism and democratic socialism.

If you want specific examples then take Bernie Sanders and make him a bit more socially conservative and change his demeanor when speaking to that of a cutthroat hardass. I can't stand bullshit or thinly veiled deception.

Also a great drink, but I don't buy alcohol often so I'm drinking Gin+Coke. Taste like Dr. Pepper if you mix it right.

I hear it. What appeals to you about social conservatism specifically?

For reference, I consider myself a conservative in most ways except socially.

Gin is alcohol too, amirite?

I didn't say I was socially conservative, I'm definitely on the left there as well but I concur with their position rather than agree with them. I'm simply a moderate on most of the issues, not a full on SJW.

I'm pro gay marriage, but on the fence about transgender issues. I wish these people the best of luck in dealing with their gender dysphoria, and I don't mind calling you by your specific pronouns if you ask me to specifically. But we need to stop pretending that they're 100% the sex they claim to be.

I'm pro abortion but not pro-choice. I just think it's a really dumb and weak argument. I'm "pro-opportunities". If you're not in a socioeconomic situation where you want kids then you shouldn't be forced to have them.

Indeed it is.

>If you're not in a socioeconomic situation where you want kids then you shouldn't be forced to have them.
But if you CAN afford them you must even if you don't want them? Who determines who can or can't afford them?

Do you like whiskey?
i tried like 3 o 4 differents kind of and i dont like it.
either with soda, etc.

Not OP but i dig whiskey.

Currently doing a sober octobrr but i am craving a whiskey, a glass of wine, and a cigar.....


......im old balls

You're needy and you like to argue.
Passive aggressive shitpost with a selfi.
Thanks for Facebooking the place up newfriend.

You didn't lose a friend unless you're so butt hurt you'll burn that bridge. Get the fuck over it stalker queer

Rum and LSD

why are you doing sober october? just curious.

I meant it would be entirely up to the parents if they wanted kids. It's nobody's business but the parents and their obstetrician. You shouldn't need an ideological defense.

None of this "my body my choice" bullshit. It should be up to BOTH of the parents and not just the mother. Fathers should be able to repudiate or affirm paternity regardless of the mother's input. She chose to have sex with the man knowing that pregnancy was a possibility despite using birth control and/or condoms. She shouldn't get to terminate the life of the father's child without his consent.

I can drink whiskey if it's made well. The picture is of me drinking 14yo whiskey and it was delicious.

Just two more days, my dude. I'll smoke a cigar in your honor tonight

I don't need much except for, you know, basic love and respect as a human being. But please continue to lecture me on how much the duration of my stay on Sup Forums matters to anyone but your faggot ass.

I actually have like half a sheet in a bottle. I'd consider taking some if it was earlier in the night. Alas, no rum. Also alcohol ruins the LSD in my experience

That sux. My best friend from college did the same thing too. He wanted to bang this chick who just broke up with her boyfriend but he knew damn well I was friends with her longer (I introduced her to him) and wanted to ask her out. He didn't invite me to his birthday party but asked her. Of course she called me and asked if I was going and I said only if you go with me and she agreed. So we show up and I "crashed" his party and I could see he was super pissed. Worst of all, all of his friends suddenly left on cue so he was hoping to get her alone and they went with his stupid plan. I was super angry at this since it seemed borderline rapey to get a girl you barely know alone like that. So realizing this I made a motion to her that we should leave too and she readily agreed (she was pissed he tried that trick) and as we left I never spoke to him again, a friend of five years. Fucking her at least made up for it but I'm still bitter that a bro would try to get between pussy like that.

At least you have a reason why he didn't invite you. I'm still in the dark my dude.

I mean I suspect that his girlfriend doesn't like me and they live together so that's why I wasn't invited, but I see the guy maybe twice as year couldn't she have at least put up with me for one day?

I do it every October. Mental challenge.

I work as a bartender so im around booze, socializing, and temptation a lot. Nice to clear my head for a month. Helps to start some new/better habits intry to csrry through the year and lets me evaluate my life through a sober lense for a month.

I do a sober February-October every year with maybe one or two exception if I get extra down.

seemed to work out in your favour
cbsnews.com/news/shooting-dozen-people-shot-three-fatally-apparent-halloween-party-outside-la-long-beach-california/

Yeah, I'm not anywhere near California and the party was Saturday night.

In any case if I was at that shooting I'd probably be one of the dead guys since I'd have taken a bullet for this friend until today.

Sounds very flimsy and non-committal :)

Feb-Oct

Or

Feb&Oct ?

Kiss my pale white celtic ass.

2 shots of Absolut a while back. Now drinking The Beast Ice.

Only because of the trips. And gg, I can't even do a sober Monday. I'm wasted right now.

Feb-Oct as in if it weren't for New Years and this Halloween party that I just missed I wouldn't drink unless I get really down.

I apparently have no friends so I guess that's about to change. Might as well become an alcoholic if no one cares enough to tell me why I'm not invited to a party with my best mates since HS.

Gin+Coke = Alcoholic Dr. Pepper if you mix it right.

I will drink vodka, rum, whiskey, gin, wine, beer. Pretty much any alcohol but tequila (I will drink expensive Tequila, but I won't buy it because that shit's expensive)

Bro I looked at your picture. You're the guy that doesn't get invited or appreciated it's all political.

Those skinny Mexicans aren't nice either.

I don't get invited to most of the little events, but I would assume it's mostly a distance thing since they all live in the city and I'm still stuck in our rural hometown (due to finances, not by choice).

This party was like one of the two things (the other being New Years) that we had left as friends. And now it's gone. These people that I consider my primary social circle just completely ignored me and disregarded my absence.

What do you do for work?

Trying to get on disability since sensory overload makes it hard for me to keep work.

Sensory overload?

Nice quads

I get overwhelmed by social stimuli and such as a result of my ASD/Asperger's and I become irritable and hostile and can sometimes completely shut down while working. I've walked off a job because my supervisor was literally so stupid they couldn't accept that a method I devised was better for the whole team and demanded that they go back to her method.

First trips then quads . Maybe I can get quints later in the night.

anytime fam I would invite you to my Halloween party but live in Kansas

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I'm in Michigan, it's not that far. lol

What was the job/method?

Working stock at Wal-Mart (not a fabulous or difficult job, I know). I devised a method to organize our backroom stock based on aisle instead of department (so that Grocery wasn't next to Housewares which was on the other side of the fucking store) so that when we loaded our stock carts we wouldn't have half of it filled with items that belong on the halfway across the store. Worked overtime (without pay) with three of the stock teams over the course of a week to get it done and everyone loved it.

Then supervisor found out that I was the one who made up the system and told management who told everyone to go back to the old system. Supervisor stuck me in freezer for a week as "punishment" so I said "fuck you". Had at least 2 other people from the Stock 1 team walk off with me.

that's probably the issue. take it from a much older aspie. the nypicals sometimes don't want us around.

It hasn't been an issue for ten years, so I really don't understand the sudden change.

oh shit bro then post we are going ghost hunting I started the local ghost hunting crew and getting wasted on the trips lol if anything im posting with the boys

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you assume the nypicals are logical or follow some/any process or procedure. this simply isn't the case. they follow their emotions and whims. the social shit makes even less sense.

whops meant

gin + coke? What are you fucking gay?

I fucking hate niggers

Ye

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Thanks for the counseling, bud. Much appreciated.

Op your friend who is a guy sucked your dick, but you were like its not gay right and he was like bro you a homo now cause i blew you. Op instantly started to drink to get over the pain that everyone would soon find out op is infact a homo who got sucked off by his best friend. The keke and hahas took a break from Sup Forums as they were too busy informing ops parents that he is in fact gay. Op with nothing left to live for turned to his only friend in these dark chat forums, drugs. Op has nothing but shame as soon his parents will know he is on drugs and has an appetite for men.

sure. i understand the pain. i only have a few real friends, and they would never ghost me. like my army buddies, i could call any of them and they couldn't race here fast enough. and a couple of local friends. cheer up, dude.

Will probably stick to the wallowing in doubt and self-pity strategy, but thanks again.

not OP, but what the fuck is this shit?

i guess it's cool to have an active fantasy life, but dude? where the fuck did that come from? suddenly it's about dick sucking?

He's a retard. Don't feed the trolls.

it's a strategy i've used in the past, just make sure it ends with the bottom of the bottle or some other defined endpoint. cuz it doesn't work if it turns into forever.

you're right, lost my grip for a second there... ;P

Because you go on Sup Forums and probably just hang around the edges of the group not taking part in any conversation while the only conversation's you start are probably about how "niggers are bad" and "jews run the world".

Wow, I've never seen a more inaccurate statement.

Congratulations, you win a cookie.

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not another one. ¡ay, bendito!

>video games
Lmao NERD

Aw shit, I do something almost 70% of the country does. I'm such a fucking hipster.

Have you tried asking him about it.. straight up call him out..

you look familiar, are you rub?

Youve mentioned that you are insecure, awkward, social stimuli makes you irritable and hostile, and that your buddies girrlfriend and you dont get along.

Maybe he thought he was actually doing you a favor by noy inviting you.

Trying to not put you in an awkward situation.

An awkward situation at a party I've been invited to for the past four years with the people I consider to be my friends?

Unlikely. Either I did something to upset him and he's not telling me why, or he legit doesn't want to hang out with me anymore.

ask

I already asked and he already lied to me. If I confront him about it again he'll either get annoyed or defensive that I didn't trust him.

Are you in high school? Or just dont have real friends? Like what's your history with the dude? If you're in high school I get that can be a pretty big blow to your ego. If you're a grown adult, it's just life, I've got friends that i would literally do anything for and vice versa but sometimes we do our own shit and it's no big deal, were adults and can handle it. Also is this the kind of friendship that's unbalanced where like he's your best friend but you're not necessarily his best friend? Bc that can explain it. Like when a guy is obsessed with a girl and she just wants some space from him

No, I'm not in HS. I'm 25.

I did meet the guy Freshman year of HS at what was probably the lowest point in my life. I had social outlet and was actively suicidal and missed school for a week because I was "sick" although it was because I had taken a ton of my parents medications in a vain suicide attempt. I didn't die because I didn't take enough so I just got really sick and had to stay home. He was one of two people in my current social group to suggest reaching out to me and we've been friends for 10 years.

The reason it's such a big blow is because he lied about the party being small just to get me to stop asking questions about it. He is (was) my best friend and I'm well aware that he has "bester" friends than me. I would've liked to think I was at least in his top 10, but apparently not.

For the past three years I've only seen him twice a year (three times this year since one of my friends got married) so I doubt it's an obsession thing. It's not like I'm smothering him with affection or anything.

I just watched a hot cross dresser get fucked like a bitch by a BBC but OP's post is the gayest thing I've seen yet

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What a fucking retard
Killing your self cause of a temp problem

>Whaa friends move on
Then you move on.

You fucking faggots, quit drinking soft drink and go with the pirates diet, grog!

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Post a better pic, faggot!