Ex-incel/NEET/virgin/whatever turned pseudo-normie here...

Ex-incel/NEET/virgin/whatever turned pseudo-normie here. Went from browsing this board every day for years to having a fulfilling career and being in a successful, long-term relationship with my girlfriend. Let me give you advice. Ask away.

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Why am I gay?

Nature/nurture, probably

i cant focus on one thing at a time how do i fix

Can you give more detail? Are other people distracting you from something you're focusing on? Or do you mean in an ADHD kind of way? Is this in a work or recreational scenario?

The solution may not be changing the way you focus, but adjusting your plans/environment to accommodate for your shifting focus. There's medication, but I personally would recommend avoiding it if you can.

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lest say i have a project to be done i will do it at the last hour every time and fail at it

Everyone says it, but planning out your schedule/giving yourself strict deadlines actually does help. In college, I made sure I completed one assignment a day before relaxing for the rest of the day. If it's a big assignment, break it down into small steps. I find it helps to think of just completing each smaller step on your way to a larger goal rather than thinking about how big the whole project is.

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thanks user have a nice day

How do I get a job? I will take anything that doesn’t require me to suck dick

I work and still browse this board everyday. My sex life is literally gay but I'm straight. I will off myself some day, but not today and likely not this nor next year.

You too user. Hang in there

Honestly, job hunting fucking sucks. It took me 6 months and hundreds of applications to land a job in my field after graduating. What's your situation/credentials? It's a lot easier to get a job at a place you have a connection and someone there can vouch for you.

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is that character you use from a show?

What do you mean your sex life is literally gay but you're straight? I'm interested but I don't understand enough to comment.

Glad to hear you aren't planning on offing yourself. Life is cooler than it seems.

It's Lucina from Fire Emblem Awakening

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at what age did you retire from being a neet?

I'm straight but I have relations with traps and now this has degenerated into relations with men too, though still rather effeminate but men nonetheless. People say I'm bi, but I'm not. I feel straight. I don't know what to do with this. I'm still interested in women.

I think I was either 21 or 22. I went to college after high school but had an uncomfortably long gap between that and working.

I don't mean to be rude, but if you're attracted to men, even effeminate ones, I don't think you're 100% straight. Do you know what aspects of them you're attracted to? It sounds like you don't have any desire to be with a guy. Is it purely a sexual attraction?

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Well, they have to have feminine features. If they're a regular guy then it's a no straight away. I don't know, I always felt that dominating a weaker male is pretty hetero. I'm certain that it's purely sexual.

This just sounds like a normal fetish to me. What part of traps do you prefer to women?
Do you have an issue with the idea of not being completely straight? I personally think sexuality is more applicable to romantic aspects. Anything purely sexual is just a fetish.

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Last call before bed

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How? Pls I need this, what was your breaking point?

Which part?

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