Ex-incel/NEET/virgin/whatever turned pseudo-normie here. Went from browsing this board every day for years to having a fulfilling career and being in a successful, long-term relationship with my girlfriend. Let me give you advice. Ask away.
Ex-incel/NEET/virgin/whatever turned pseudo-normie here...
Why am I gay?
Nature/nurture, probably
i cant focus on one thing at a time how do i fix
Can you give more detail? Are other people distracting you from something you're focusing on? Or do you mean in an ADHD kind of way? Is this in a work or recreational scenario?
The solution may not be changing the way you focus, but adjusting your plans/environment to accommodate for your shifting focus. There's medication, but I personally would recommend avoiding it if you can.
lest say i have a project to be done i will do it at the last hour every time and fail at it
Everyone says it, but planning out your schedule/giving yourself strict deadlines actually does help. In college, I made sure I completed one assignment a day before relaxing for the rest of the day. If it's a big assignment, break it down into small steps. I find it helps to think of just completing each smaller step on your way to a larger goal rather than thinking about how big the whole project is.
thanks user have a nice day
How do I get a job? I will take anything that doesn’t require me to suck dick
I work and still browse this board everyday. My sex life is literally gay but I'm straight. I will off myself some day, but not today and likely not this nor next year.
You too user. Hang in there
Honestly, job hunting fucking sucks. It took me 6 months and hundreds of applications to land a job in my field after graduating. What's your situation/credentials? It's a lot easier to get a job at a place you have a connection and someone there can vouch for you.
is that character you use from a show?
What do you mean your sex life is literally gay but you're straight? I'm interested but I don't understand enough to comment.
Glad to hear you aren't planning on offing yourself. Life is cooler than it seems.
It's Lucina from Fire Emblem Awakening
at what age did you retire from being a neet?
I'm straight but I have relations with traps and now this has degenerated into relations with men too, though still rather effeminate but men nonetheless. People say I'm bi, but I'm not. I feel straight. I don't know what to do with this. I'm still interested in women.
I think I was either 21 or 22. I went to college after high school but had an uncomfortably long gap between that and working.
I don't mean to be rude, but if you're attracted to men, even effeminate ones, I don't think you're 100% straight. Do you know what aspects of them you're attracted to? It sounds like you don't have any desire to be with a guy. Is it purely a sexual attraction?
Well, they have to have feminine features. If they're a regular guy then it's a no straight away. I don't know, I always felt that dominating a weaker male is pretty hetero. I'm certain that it's purely sexual.
This just sounds like a normal fetish to me. What part of traps do you prefer to women?
Do you have an issue with the idea of not being completely straight? I personally think sexuality is more applicable to romantic aspects. Anything purely sexual is just a fetish.
Last call before bed
How? Pls I need this, what was your breaking point?
Which part?