Who here in a sexless relationship and why?

Who here in a sexless relationship and why?

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Me...
I dont care for sex anymore.
Had tones of sex in my life with alot of people. Gay and straight. Im engaged now, I love her and she loves me. We are like a perfect match. Im really happy with my situation

My girlfriend stopped giving me sex because she wants to get engaged/married

Is it something you're both comfortable with or one sided?

I feel that you are bullshitting and making fun of sexless married people

3 reasons:
1) she doesn't trust any birth control measures
2) she has pain during sex, because my dick is too wide.
3) she is catholic and actually only wants to have sex after marriage.

Hence, as I love her, I go to brothels and have tinder dates when I do business travels.

We both ok with it. I mean we can and do have sex when I want, we just dont really do it as often. We used to fuck alot and got super kinky. Just kinda tapered off and now its like whatever.

Is she likely to only want sex only for procreation? (With lights off etc)
Does she expect you to not want it or is she aware that you're going elsewhere?

I wish. We've been together 4+ years and shes been wanting me to propose for awhile. I'm waiting until I have a solid career.

Stopped giving me really any form of sex. Maybe three times over the past year.

:(

I couldn't marry a chick like that. Doesn't like sex, boring sex and prob doesn't like to suck a dick. Am I right? Couldn't do it, wouldn't do it.

How old are you guys? I am 34 and I miss being sexual with my wife, she just doesn't seem interested anymore.

If you really love her then I don't know what to say. I sincerely doubt she will jump back into it once you tie the knot though. I am sorry user :(

fucking same

we used to have sex a lot, few times a day. now i have somewhat of a low libido due to depression bullshit so it's understandable.
just not as important/desirable as it used to be

Im 30 and she is 29. We been together 9 years now. We did everything together already. Went to extreme kink levels and dropped off from there abt a year ago started slowing down

I'm just saying that's a big warning sign when your woman doesn't want to fuck. Dudes can think what they want but those type of married women are the easiest to get to cheat. They are bored and miss the attention and compliments that strange dick gives them.

Yeah depression and work also takes the mood right away. Sex is just not a huge deal for me

I get that and it's something I've worried about sometimes. Truth is I don't know when she's even find the time. We have two kids and I know where she is basically at any time. I mean it is probably the kids ruining her mood, but fuck I get exhausted from them too and I still get horny from time to time.

Married 11 years here. We have a lot to explore, I was her first and I've never pushed her into doing something she wasn't into. Just frustrated and want to know what other people's deals are

maybe take some time to court her again. small vacation trip or 'date night'

>when she's even find the time.
I understand this. But this is the number 1 thing guys say about why their woman can't be cheating on them. I'm not saying she is, but I am saying it's never a good thing when your lady stops wanting your dick.

My gf feels a ripping pain every time I try to stick it in. Lame. I’m ready and looking for another girlfriend because this is not going to work for me.

FYI, in my experience, she's probably doing something behind your back too.

Yeah it is something we work on. Her folks take the kids overnight once or twice a month and we stay at a hotel or watch movies and chill out. That generally leads to something but not always. Good advice though, thanks user

Yeah we had our fill of sex and kinks. Got to where she would dress me up and do my make up and shit, strap on stuff, bondage and shit. We had some great sexual experiences. I love her so much

If you're wife stops putting out she's either

A: bored / lost attraction

B: you don't make her feel special anymore

*usually* these, obviously other things can come into play here.

Kids can destroy a girls sex drive too, especially if they primarily deal with them. That causes wonderful resentment.

Best not to let the sex drive die. Lot harder to get back than keep going.

I don't think she can't be, just think it's very unlikely. I will check her phone for messages from chad thundercock

Nothing wrong with that. You have to be sexually compatible just like emotionally compatible. If it's not working especially when it's sex related like that better to move on before you're tempted to cheat.

This guy knows

Got ya. Everyone needs to remember this, if you're thinking about cheating, so is she. Rule of thumb.

Damn, bro I don't know if I would want to be in a relationship where sex is something "she gives you" and is holding it ransom

I’m in a relationship for 6 months and we’ve had sex 3 times. I’m 31 and she’s 30 and here are the best reasons in no particular order.

We have zero privacy due to living with her grandmother.
We work opposite shifts and rarely spend the night together.
We are both overweight and I’ve never had sex with a woman so large and it’s hard to perform even while she’s just laying on her back this making it little to no fun for me.
She gives me head 3-5 days a week.
I don’t find her sexually attractive although I love everything else about her.
Our bed is terrible.


I’ve been in 3 serious relationships and have been with 14 women when it comes to sexual intercourse and this is by far the worst. This is why I want her to cheat on me/cuck me.

Maybe it’ll open up our sex life to the point where she might let me fuck other people and we can love each other idk.

Yep, I always love to hear or see a guy say, she gives me sex when I want it. Like it's a chore for her and she gives it to you really means is she never starts the sex. Guys are blind to this. That should make you think is she faking cumming just so you will stop fucking her. Again, denial is a man's first instinct. Just think about it..

All of those are probably going on. It is tough. We both work and are tired from general day to day shit, it just sucks I guess that she doesn't really need to make me feel special for me to want to fuck her. I think we've always been a bit incompatible in that way but that is my fault for just accepting it from the beginning. I love her and I'm not going to fuck around just to get my dick wet though. Just gonna whine on here like a little bitch

Opening up the relationship is always the best solution

I married her, knocked her up, we have a kid who is now 2.5 years old, and the last time we had sex she was still preggers. I hate my life.

>Just gonna whine on here like a little bitch
Lol, well atleast you admit it. Yeah, you fucked up from the get up. Don't feel bad cause a shit ton of dudes fuck that up also and then you're kinda fucked and she has the "power". It's not about power it's about what you want in regards to sex. Just accepting it is not the way to go.

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Are you retarded? And you want to marry her? Holy shit.

That is a worse predicament than mine. I am sorry user. How are you dealing with this?

Nah, not always. Things don't always work out like that with what seems a simple solution just turns into drama and resentment.

Mostly with resentment and hookers. Wish I was kidding.

Without raising it for the umpteenth time and causing a ruckus, and her with admittedly decent excuses, it kind of is the way to go. Until the kids move out anyway

Does she think you just jerk off or what?

>resentment and hookers
You forgot the blow. It's hookers and blow and resentment. I get it you have a kid but that doesn't sound right. My .02 she's cheating also and you guys are just together for the kid. Sorry, user your relationship is dead, leave before you two fuck your kid up.

Probably because fornication before a marriage is a sin. Had 3 hot girls who asked me for hookups, told all of them a no

>Until the kids move out anyway
That's when she will leave you for the strange cock. It's a true cliche. No bs.

> sexless relationship
> has sex whenever he wants
Nigger what?

> Who here in a sexless relationship and why?

I don’t know what you faggots are going through, but in 2015 I got out of a shit relationship that lasted 12 years and the sexless stretches would go on for months, one time over a year.

If sex is important to you, and it likely is, get the fuck out. I’ve realized that life is too short to make major sacrifices just to try to accommodate a partner. Whether it’s sex or monster truck rallies it’s worth it to keep looking until you find someone who’s on the same page with you on all the major issues.

Living with someone for years or decades will inevitably require some compromise but if your major needs are not being met (and this will likely sneak up on you) get the fuck out. Get the fuck out.

>fornication before a marriage is a sin.
That's what makes it more fun.
You will or prob already regret turning down the strange.

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This guy fuckin gets it. It's the hard truth. There is always compromise but to compromise something as important as sex (yes it's fuckin important, women bond through sex) you need to leave and find a woman that is more in line with you.

Nah, no blow, I’m straightedge. Fucked up as it is, I know she’s not cheating on me, she’s just got absolutely no interest in anything sexual anymore.

Don’t know. Honestly wouldn’t care that much if she found out I was cheating either. At worst she leaves, at best maybe she’ll at least admit that cutting off sex wasn’t smart.

I found out she had a dick after we were married.
NO homo, NoWutIMeanMang

>she’s not cheating on me, she’s just got absolutely no interest in anything sexual anymore.
Ok, believe what you need to but why do men think that women like that don't want sex at all just because she's not wanting it with you? Again, if you are cheating or thinking about it, so is she. Women do enjoy sex just as much as men. And a sexually bored wife is a easy wife to get to cheat. All a dude has to do is give compliments, make her feel wanted and sexy and she's on her knees suckin his dick. I never understood why guys always give excuses why their woman won't cheat, while they are cheating on their woman. Lol, classic..

I was for years. My dick doesnt work anymore because of desensitization along with other mental health issues.
Sucks. I'm a good looking guy. 8 inch dick. No problem attracting girls. But I cant fuck any of them.
That will be the major contributing factor when I kill myself. I've lost 3 good girls because of it.

How hard was it to start using hookers after the sex stopped? Or is that something you were doing before you got together?

Get some dick pills and fuck away. Fake it till you make it. Wake up.

get a script for viagra, hell you can even order it online on the clearnet

I wish it was that simple.

Sounds like you know what you're talking about. I appreciate the advice.

It is that simple. You're just depressed. Look, shut up, get some dick pills. Fuck da bitches and shit will improve. Stop giving excuses why it won't work.

I know because I have cameras around the house, and have bugged her phone and have a gps track on her car. I’m not assuming, I’m investigating.

I’ve been cheated on before, I know the signs, and I know how to investigate my suspicions.

were just friends and she wanted her parents to not think she was a loser

no reason to fuck imo

Easy to fuck them, hard to come home afterwards.

You're acting like I havnt tried that route. Multiple times.

Right here. Sexless as it can be. I'm kinda just used to it now and don't really miss it ay.

How big are you guys and what do you consider too big to do anything

Dude, do you hear yourself? You're cheating and playing detective with you wife. You are fucking up your life. Why are you putting all this energy into your fucked up relationship? Do you understand what I'm trying to say here?

My girlfriend keeps me in a chastity cage 24/7. She doesn't want me to fap or have sex with someone.

^ Never had to pay a divorce settlement.

Then you were half assing it. Figure out your problem, go to a shrink, change your life. Your dick is telling you that you are not happy with your life. Again, change it and stop making excuses.

I am, and I know how fucked the whole situation is. But I’m a self destructive person. Until shit improves, or she busts me, this is the path I’m walking.

The thread is about sexless relationships, I’m just sharing my fucked up story for the lols, not for life advice.

I'm divorced and you are correct, I never had to pay a divorce settlement. Life is a bitch, you're just making it ok in your mind. Whatever you need to believe.

You dont know anything about me. Going to a therapist only reinforced the existence of my mental problems.
I'm going to change my life. With a bullet in my head.
You have no idea the level of pain, humiliation, shame, guilt I've had to endure the past 15 years. Its unbearable.

Lol, my bad b/ro, habit. I'm not putting you down, just hate to hear a b/ro unhappy in a marriage like that. Your story could help other dudes to not make the same mistake.

Dude....so all that drama instead of just changing your life until you feel happy. Ok, pussy I can see you have no heart in the fight.

No problem, anons. I’ll let you guys know that after I got out I fucked about two dozen chicks over the next couple of years, tasted much exotic pussy, and among them managed to find a person who understands me, appreciates me, and happily will take a big load to the face while laughing about it. Plus she cooks.

Don’t give up. Find as many of the things in life that will help you feel fulfilled as you can. Anything you’re doing that’s a dead-end and makes you unhappy, stop doing it.

I dont have anything left to give, you're right.
I gave it all for 15 years. Only to be rewarded with crushing humiliation, shame, guilt, and pain for myself and my partners. I dont expect you to understand, but your assumption that I've done nothing is flat wrong.

And you assume you're the only mother fucker out there that has had the same or worse. Don't give me this I'm a victim bull shit. The past is the past and you can choose to learn from it or be destroyed by it. But, I don't want to hear you can't do anything to prove your life. Fuck you, that's a pussy thing to say. You're making it ok to give up and wanting me to see why you should. If you're not strong enough to want to fix you then I can see why a woman won't spend her time. You already gave up. Sad..

My wife hasn’t fucked me in 2 years. I’m 48. Might as well be dead. Soon enough.

I never asked for pity or claimed to be a victim of anything but my own problems. You insist on being adversarial against anything that doesnt fit into your world view.
Yes I am a pussy for not snapping my fingers and fixing the problems. Whatever you have to tell yourself friend. I dont need your approval as to why I've given up. I was just telling my side. I've had a woman at my side constantly for the past 15 years. Let me tell you, it's a magical feeling not being able to have a sexual relationship with the woman you love.

legal reasons. only a few more months though.

That sincerely my only hope that no other b/ros have dry spells like this.

> other mental health issues.

With 100% sincerity I suggest you look into IV Ketamine treatments. We are rapidly discovering that fucking space cocaine, of all things, can alleviate the symptoms of several mental health issues.

65% of people with treatment-resistant depression respond after the first treatment. That may be enough to help you get your groove back, but six sessions over a twelve day period working your way up from .5mg/kg all the way to as much as you can handle is a life changing experience.

Odds are that I’ll need boosters every three or four months for the rest of my life, but I’m a year into this and I have more clarity and happiness now than I ever thought possible.

Plus I got to see the universe turn into diamonds and shatter into infinite pieces of sparking creation and one time I had a conversation with Claptrap from Borderlands and Bob Ross. So strap in and take a trip, you might just feel better when you get back.

Awwwww.... I was married for 22 years. 22, mother fucker. So you can't tell me shit I don't already know on that subject. Yeah, I will call you a pussy because you give up. I hate guys like you that say that bs and then say they arnt playing the victim. Yes, you are. Whiny bitch that lets anything make him a suicidal bitch. I can see your problems and your dick not working is not the most important. I just hate a quitter so, deal with it. I'll say what the fuck I want. Give me all your money before you eat a bullet, bitch.

I've read about this. Maybe I'll talk to my therapist about it. Idk. I'm sure I'll get flagged for drug seeking behavior and be blacklisted or some stupid shit. Oh well. Cant get any worse I guess.
Call me whatever you need to elevate your ego. It means nothing to me. I'll leave my safe unlocked when I go. It's all yours

Ok, goth kid. Life is pain.

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Call me names if it makes you feel better. Nothing you could say could possibly injure me. If it makes you feel like a big man, go for it.

> I'm sure I'll get flagged for drug seeking behavior and be blacklisted
Nah. Ketamine is on The World Health Organization’s list of essential medicines and it’s non-addictive. Plus the current Surgeon General of the US is an anesthesiologist so it’s likely that we’ll see acceptance of this as a legitimate treatment and hopefully covered by insurance sooner rather than later.

haha this guy is so funny :) ^^ lol

No she obviously doesn't know. For now it's a temporary solution, but might as well become a permanent solution.

She sucks dick like a godess. Only once a month though, approximately. But then she takes her time and goes all in.

too catholic for that. you should have seen her guilt eating her up when she had a temporary crush for two months after two years of our relationship.

Me because you l don’t have time. Plus I’ve been married for 20 years.

It's not about me guy. I'm calling you names because you're a quitter with no back bone, no spine. What else are you Good for besides commenting on your quitting ability?

man, i had a dysfunctional marriage and we didn't do anything for 5months before calling it quits... why would you keep going... you know that you libido will go up once you leave her right

The girl I'm seeing is unattractive imo but I have a good set up here, not paying rent and she cooks for me.
So she has to beg me for sex, and once in a while I feel bad enough to allow it

it has always been about you

true fucking hero right here...

Are you Shrek?

No, no. You're the victim, right? Something has made your life so bad that you want to eat a bullet and it's about me? Lol. You make me raff..

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This guy gets it.

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