Sup Forumsros help me

Sup Forumsros help me

I'm closing on 40, does not look like I get a wife and kids, and I am having hard time accepting that.

I have some fun hobbies to keep me busy but there's still this shit at the back of my head creeping up. I'm just lonely. I am slowly realizing I will die alone and I am scared about that. I have good days where I don't think about going an hero, but there are fewer and fewer.

People in my social circles are married with kids and shit, so we either don't meet or when we do I just don't really contribute much to conversation. I always had a weird interests, so nobody wants to fucking talk about possibility that we have a primordial black hole circling on orbit of the Sun, because who finds astrophysics fun.

Might be a fucking mid life crisis or my biological alarm is ringing but fuck it. I hate where I am in my life right now.

How do fuck do I get through this? Any oldfags care to chip in? I curb this shit with alcohol and weed for last few years, but I feel it's really not doing any good in long run I guess.

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> possibility that we have a primordial black hole circling on orbit of the Sun
arxiv.org/abs/1909.11090

just in case because this is fucking amazing hypothesis

Hey man, my dad is 78 (my mom older, too, at 60) and I'm only 24. They are fantastic parents. Sometimes shit just happens late in life. I would recommend going to bars more.. from what I hear they are full of women with ticking biological clocks. You just have to find the right one.

>I will die alone and I am scared about that.

Here's the thing. You won't know you've died lonely, you won't. Lights out and it's all over. None of this life mattered. From now on, live your life with wide open throttle because me and you and the rest of us die. We will never have known we have lived, so it's best to live while we got it.

Also don't forget you are responsible for the company you keep. Your lonely because you let it happen. Find a guy with coke, buy some, live happy.

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Why do you think you need to have kids?

40 year old virgin thinks he should breed...

>nobody wants to fucking talk about possibility that we have a primordial black hole circling on orbit of the Sun, because who finds astrophysics fun.
The "Nemesis Star Theory" is not astrophysics it is retardation, that is why people do not want to talk about it. They also do not want to talk about your "astrophysics" flat earth.

Being nearly the same age, I wish I had more friends who had time to hang out, and I wish I had more time to hang out instead of family job house family job house chores house family job job house family job house job.
The grass is greener OP.
I know a 60yo single dude who just works out all the time and bangs tons of cougars, he has a lot of fun.
Just make sure whatever you choose involves hanging out with people, don't go down the weed and booze drain, that's just sad.

Social expectations

Not OP, but we all have a biological clock and an urge to continue the blood line. Closer you get to 40 the louder it ticks and i've got a blood line that's almost 1000 years old to maintain. No pressure.

But what does that mean? Why must it be maintained?

Lmao you're gonna die alone
Post your funeral info on here so we can fab on your grave while taps plays

I'm the same op. Fucked around a lot in the past and now I feel too old to date at 40. Make good money, I'm fit and still decent looking, but it seems like all women are taken, or they're old with kids they just need a paycheck for. Dating apps seem impossible unless you have an IG account with a thousand pics and you look like a model. Been considering saying fuck it for some time.

go find a counselor/therapist to talk to, itll help with the an hero thoughts. they will also help you assess and fix some of the social issues you think you have.

not everyone has to be alone and single. but dont think relationships arent alot of work, they are.

Mine also goes back about 1k years to england. Kids are highly monetized though. Entire industries meant to suck you dry as fuck. Everything is about money and moving it into the hands of billionaires.

....and where do they come from?

you're not special, all our blood goes back the same, it's what unites humans.

For almost a thousand years we have lived. Our family. To let it all just snuff out feels wrong. I can't really explain it except there is just this drive in me, I have to maintain. It seems trivial to you, but one day it's going to matter maybe. But my family will soon pre-date some of the Oaks in the area and it's pretty special to us.

Pride, mainly.

Just keep voting R to keep that machine humming.

I'm the same boat. Remember: your kids won't be you. I've watched kids ignore dying parents OFTEN. What would be worse? Not having kids, or being unloved by them.

Man I've been to some bars in my life, drinking is fun but yeah sober I'm shy and drunk I am weird (like hopefully not in a creepy way). I mean like when drunk my picker is fucked and I tend to met weird people. Also since I'm introverted the bars are not my natural habitat.

Yeah, I accepted that last moment. I know we all die. I know nothing here matters. Death on it's own does not scare me. It's the emptiness between now and that moment.

I think having wife and kids might be fun. I'd love to show the little fuckers how amazing the world is. I'd love to teach them stuff I know. I'd love to have a beer when they could have one. I mean, come on, kids are fun. I have kind of good estate too, so I'd love to pass that on. Yeah, once I die it will go to some charity I guess, but passing it on to family would be lovely too.

not a virgin, go vote for Trump or do something dumb, like jump off a cliff.

> family job house family job house chores house family job job house family job house job
Well at last I'm not alone. I will keep on the lookout for the greener grass though and yeah, I know I need to cut down on that shit.

But elliptical orbits user.....

yeah DNA/genetics is all made up horse shit, don't believe in that crap perpetuated by evil white people

And you are gonna let them win?

The D's are just as into big business. Google, apple, Microsoft, Facebook, Twitter, Wall Street, etc.

Ever thought of becoming a serial rapist?

>Jealously of civilized people.

>It's the emptiness between now and that moment.

Nah, it's not emptiness, it's potential. Do you have money? Now bearing in mind if your just sad fishing I'm going to start ripping strips of you.

Do you feel it? The pressure? It's always being about the money, I come from a line of Land barons or 'Lords'. History repeats user.


Pretty much. But you don't understand.

Kind of torn between experiencing some sort of loving family (something I've never had) and not wanting to be financially raped.

i legit fear getting older in that regard. i took a few years off college to work, and now i'm going back at 23 to finish my degree. i'm very cognizant that these guys are like 18 years old, and it feels harder to interact with them.
i mean, i'm not 40 or anything, but it's harder to slay freshman poon when you've got 5 years on them.

Yeah but they want you to live.....and stay in you hamster wheel and become a nobody like everyone else. Lock brothers want to make lamps from your fat.

Man I've been on Tinder and some other GenericLonelyHearts shit and yeah, it's tough out there. I've already said fuck it to this dating apps shit, but yeah, what the fuck I do I do now.

Had a few therapist, well did not really worked, dunno. Last one was like trying, but like kept suggesting shit I've tried and did not worked for me. I might try a professional help but this would most probably mean a medication which will fuck me up more and I lose my medical license to fly. Flying is what keeps me from dying.

>Not having kids, or being unloved by them.

This is wisdom. I will meditate on this shit m8. Good point indeed.

Same here actually. This was my ancient family castle bearing my name. Sure we weren't powerful for long, but I have a direct descendant in the crypt who built it and the surrounding town, so that's kinda cool.

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The financial rape is only won by turtling up. So no winning. Stalemate at best.

LOVE? and even greater gamble.

Very user. Rekindle the empire.

you gotta get out and find a gal dude, even if shes ugly, which she probably will be.

Oldfag here. Over 40, no kids and still in this shithole. This is part of the problem. If you really want to find any solution at all, the answer is not here. Live awkwardly, but fucking live, do something wort remembering, not an hero like so many newfags, that's just game, and nobody cares.
Do something worth remembering. Then you can die, with a smile.
(not easy task, I know, but what is)

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you'd be surprised how easy it is to find people you used to know online
if you have enough money i'd say go around and pay some old bullies or whatever and off them

That's the dilemma. Chances are she will cheat on you and leave you and turn kids against you. It's a depressing set of choices. It's no wonder the suicide rate among middle aged males is so high.

>pay some old bullies or whatever
*pay some old bullies a visit or whatever

My boss had this issue. It was really important to him to have a kid, because he was Jimmie Russle III and didn't want the line to end without a Jimmie Russle IV. So, he imported an ugly wife from China, had his kid, and soldiered on with life.

IMO you should just forget about having kids though. There is nothing that special about you that the world requires your genes to keep on functioning. Just enjoy your free time and extra money. You want to feel like a father sometimes? Join Big Brothers organization or become a Scout Master or something.

My 50yo friends regret having kids and every day tell me how smart I was to skip that part of life.

Hey OP
Go get a Filipina mail order bride
80% really do try to be a be good wife, as long as you're not too much of an Autist and bathe frequently.

Stay away from Russian ones. Gopnissa will use and abuse you and move their useless Gopnik boyfriend in and you'll probably be ok with it, because you're a desperate fuck.

I'm 30 and I don't even have a job, never had actually, living with mom. No gf for a 12 years. This world is a fucking dark place for some people.

Give up hope on American girls. Get a Filipina
If you're balding, go heisen berg, shave your head and grow a goatie and dont be over 400lbs

Man I feel sorry for you guys.

>Living person on how death negates meaning of life

what made american girls turn into such self-obsessed princess-like cunts? even 15 years ago it wasnt nearly as bad.. is this the inevitable consequence of the internet, and every decent vagina achieving 'celebrity status' because guys all want to fuck as much as possible?

You could have a clutch of kids and pick the one who lines up. But who has the money for that.

One clone to hold the fort would be wiser. But twin differentiation might foul that too.

Best to find some clever way to find your people in the world as it is, who line up philosophically. Most likely perpetuation of the self.

Do you care if someone thinks like you more? Or has the same nose?

I love how it looks, too bad I have a bunch of acne over my head under the hair and my beard is patchy af.

Ill trade you my wife and kids. Not all its cracked up to be. Unless you like

Having your schedule determined by your wife and little shits

Not being able to vacation

Not being able to do anythign without it costing 4 times as much.

Not getting laid other than special occasions

Basically OP, get yourself a dog and some fat side piece to stick your cock in every now and then

I have no investment. That was just a guess.

Is it truly wrong to want your DNA to pass on through lineage?
It's seemingly narrow minded / chimp mentality idea, but i don't think its morally wrong to want a version of yourself to live on after you've died.

He down mixed though.....

There are guys who have it much better, however. I don't really care as much about kids as I do just having a woman who gives a fuck about me and isn't nuts.

That's awesome. We go back here and beyond. It's interesting to meet an user with the same history. We also have root in the states.

The meaning of life is purely what we make it to be.

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Kid might be smart but will have a smaller dick. Trade offs.

Do Amazon delivery.

Its better to be nobody?

My friends have said that to me, but I feel sorry for them. Can you imagine throwing away almost a 1k years of history simple because you couldn't be arsed? It keeps me awake at night some times.

You're quite a ways north. I wonder if our ancestors ever battled? lol

Well it's pretty hedonistic. "I'm so great that I can't bear the thought of this world being without some part of me when I'm gone so I'm gonna leave this other version that's something like me"

It doesn't matter, when you're gone you're gone, and the world doesn't even notice. Even though Stephen Hawking is dead, and he was quite important, the world kept going, people kept doing physicist stuff, and shortly after everyone carried on as normal.

Beta men who allow it. It was dated though. It how the most people end up "happiest". Marrige, society is a lop-sided compromise with women and weak men. Drowning in nobodies

Mad to think about isn't it? Yet here we are again in some suicidal anons thread... Puts life into perspective somewhat...

Smaller dick would make him smarter too. But smart stock is not philpino ffs, Jesus Christ. Totally backward monkeys. Get a nap. They are on the verge of extinction too.

Im 41. Married no kids. You need to find a girl you get along with. Just keep trying man

Sure, but not everyone has such a redpilled point of view. It's innately apparent. You have sexual organs. Having children points to a seemingly obvious ultimate purpose if one feels they have none.

It's just gotten so shitty since smart phones became the norm and every woman under 40 who isn't enormous seems driven to be an internet attention slut.

* Was fated

> Nah, it's not emptiness, it's potential. Do you have money?

And I'm trying to use that potential. I am successful with my career (IT), like I'm really good at this shit. Money's not the problem. I've started at flight school, goal is to do aerobatics because it's hard and it's challenging and it's fun. I know how to grow and keep busy.

But in the words of late Christopher McCandless - "Happiness is only real once shared."

nice dubs

Man you are still YOUNG AS FUCK. Those years, 20s and 30s fly fast, enjoy what you can and don't bother with those young fucks. You do you and build your life. This is a starting line for you. Work hard and reap the benefits.

Yeah man. I will keep trying. Can't an hero anyways b/c parents and brother. But if they would not be there don't know...
In like few years, checkout world champions in glider aerobatics, that weirdly looking bald fella is me.
How are you holding up?

did not really had bullies per say, also moved quite a lot in my life so distance is a problem

> Join Big Brothers organization or become a Scout Master or something.
That shit might work. I mean I pay for education of some poor kids from some indian shithole, but I'd like to give it a try on my own.

But other user already said it, indeed having a kids of my own might not bring the happiness I seek.

*Get a jap

it annoys me that the village is still a little shit stain

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Broughton,_Oxfordshire

Relatively speaking......somewhere in the universe, you're already dead (and have been dead for quite some time). Relax and try to enjoy the ride; you're not in control and never will be.

>He down mixed though.....
I agree, but some part of him just had to make a IV to continue the line and that was basically the only choice he had left.
He was not a bad guy, but he was just a 45yo Sup Forumstard type - nerdy, kissless virgin, alt-right loser. But rather than get his act together and be good enough for someone to like, he just decided to shack up with a foreign woman who needed support.

Yeah. You are not wrong. But solutions user. Solutions if they exist.

He said China, not Philippines. I think China is evil but they are smart and resourceful, so you have to give them that.

45, the opposite of you. Married and hating it. Won't divorce because it would be a dick move towards the kid who is somewhat slow. Not a full blown retard but still.

I wish I had not married.

>"Happiness is only real once shared."

Agreed. Totally. You've spent your life getting your professional life sorted, you have made it. But you've neglected your social life and skills. Now is the time to refocus your efforts. The exact same happened to me. My regions fastest trigger man, I was the best forester there was. But I neglected my social life totally. It's only now I'm relaxing and settling into being social again and to honest it's terrifying. Do you feel this might be the case?

What if you had married a better woman? I'm friends with two married women (and their husbands, not fucking them or anything) and they have very happy marriages and seem like amazing people. Not all are shit.

>gives a fuck
>isn't nuts

Pick one

>trigger man

What do you mean? I also feel the same. I'm 40 and have spent the last ten years growing my business. I had a few gfs in that time but they just didn't work out and now I feel lost and clueless on how to meet women.

Maybe a saint one. Nope, marriage is just not for me.

Exactly. And I mean nuts in the literal sense. Both of my last ex gfs were on multiple psych meds and saw shrinks/therapists.

I guess we all tend to want what we don't have.

Indeed brother. This world sucks for someone. But I wish the things will get better for you.

Let's fucking pretend we all are going to make it.

Yeah man I know. Not everything is gold. Say hi to your dog and side piece.

> Just keep trying man
I guess I will but fuck it it's taking a toll. Congrats on a wife, I'm happy you find yourself one, hope she's nice to you and shit.

I like this post. I personally prefer a multiverse theory. So indeed in some universes I'm dead already and in some I'm having a coked-up gangbang with 50 whores right now.

Nope, marriage just isn't for me.

That might be the case.

>Go get a Filipina mail order bride

Chinese aren't much better. Individually unarrogant, but culturally so self overrated. Jap would make a good hybrid as a near extinct race themselves. I love Koreans, but they are such wholesome dorks. Just better Chinese.

Can you get the full custody in divorce? Just saying. Ditch the shitty wife and find a new one.

Respect for sticking in for the kid. Brother you are MVP.

>So, he imported an ugly wife from China, had his kid, and soldiered on with life.

Is what I was referring to.

Ha, really nice village all the same. I was working in that part of the world not so long back. Skipton is only still relevant because of it's brewery... You might not be able to buy it, but try Old Peculiar. An old, strong, Ale.

That's what I love about my job, I get to stay in some really neat old places. Got to spend time in Shakespeares neck of the woods. Stayed near a pub that dated to 1532.

Also I agree - chinese women, in my experience, are the most superficial and greedy I've met. I'm not very into asians but if I had a choice it would be thai, vietnamese or laotian.

I've never left the states, mostly because in my 20s I lacked money, and now that I have money, I lack time, but it's on my list of shit to do in my 40s for sure.

I'm a skilled saw jockey. Biggest, meanest, complex fells is my deal. But I'm slowly steeping back from the saws so I can grow my business.

Right? You've done it once before as a teen, you figured em out then, you can do it again. Honestly it's just social immersion all over again. Lower your standards for her and yourself and realise this isn't work anymore. Shit is going to go wrong and that's okay. You are dealing with women again, they aren't an exact science. Embrace it user, you have the time for women now.

I'm about your age, congrats for making it this long. We've been lucky.
Idk, but marriage in and of itself isn't a happiness pill. Don't get obsessed with it.
Unless you live in a very rural area, there are folks who share interests nearby you.

The landscape is so different. People seem less approachable now in public overall. I'm self employed so no co-workers to hit on. Even though I'm very fit and I feel above average looking, I fail on dating apps. It just feels like a weird limbo.

Please come over here some time and check it all out. There is so much history of ours to enjoy. Honestly as grim as it sounds, checking out historic cemeteries is a trip. Sup Forums hasn't being shit today, have a good one user. Please come visit.

It has something to do with ego...

I'd def like to see where Isaac Newton is buried and check out the museums. I'm a nut for history.

Hey man I know. It has changed and unfortunately... It's all faceless online bullshit. But you gotta learn this, if you aren't keen on hitting on girls in public (Me either anymore) then you gotta learn the game again.

Where do you feel you hang up on dating apps, I can try help. I've had success. Just be realistic. The raccoon eye'd slut isn't for me or you...

Nah, I'm hating the family life, not wife as person. Staying with kid alone would just mean more chores for me.