Why don’t women have fetishes? I have never known a woman who suffers from any form of partialism or whatever.
Why don’t women have fetishes? I have never known a woman who suffers from any form of partialism or whatever
Met a woman that got off to being smacked around. She told me I had free reign as long as I didn't rough her up so hard.
You sound like a virgin
This means you have not know women at all....
Women have a lot of fetishes, but most of them are based on having stuff being done TO THEM.
lol dude i have like seven billion fetishes, ur just not lookin hard enough
so you know 0 women?
that beak though
>Women have a lot of fetishes,
This
>but most of them are based on having stuff being done TO THEM.
Also very much this
>>Women have a lot of fetishes,
>This
>>but most of them are based on having stuff being done TO THEM.
>Also very much this
You know what I'm talkin' about. Some of the stuff I've done with women borders on the bizarre but it makes them happy, so I do it. I'm a pleaser.
Its fun for sure, but sometimes I wish a woman would /do/ something to me without me having to be the one to bring it up.
Women are rarely givers in the sense of sex and often are blind to the fact that they're just on the receiving end. Like, fuck, just sit on my face or something once in a while without me having to ask.
That’s a slippery slope my dude. My ex almost turned me into a full blown abuser. She was from an abusive home and that was her normal. She would do things on purpose to make me mad or irritate me and then encourage me to hit or choke her. It wasn’t sexual even though it extended to our sex life, it was more a security blanket type thing. The hitting let her know I was paying attention to her and what she was doing and it made her feel loved in a fucked up way. Soon it was second nature to smack her around for any reason and she liked it. She also let me fuck her whenever I wanted and as hard as I wanted. I didn’t ask I just pulled or ripped her clothes off. She often wore shorts or sweats with no panties to make it easier for me and to save her from me breaking all her panties when I tear them off. Sex was on demand as many times as I wanted. Not that I asked much but “no” was never mentioned. She burnt dinner one night and I hit her so hard a back tooth came out. Instead of curling up or running away she instead dropped down and undid my pants. She was giving me a blowjob and apologized. She sucked my dick with her mouth still bleeding. It was really starting to affect my behavior, I was over aggressive and got a quick temper and my friends and family noticed. It took years to get her completely away from me.
Women are passive, they want men to decide for them. Even feminists quietly dream of a man who leads, while they follow.
The best you can do is make a woman feel sexy and she will be brave enough to suggest stuff on her own.
>My ex almost turned me into a full blown abuser.
You have an abusive personality, she just gave you an excuse. Seek the help of a qualified therapist, preferably a male one.
Those are more kinks than fetishes. The thing is I dont see much obsession with these thing as much as it warrants in men
you are literally Hitler
Operant conditioning is a hell of a thing, especially if your partner is an ego or dominance enabler via self-sacrificing like yours was.
>This is why I always require my partners to be sapiosexual in conjunction with whatever their trauma is so there is a middle ground. Also helps breed similar desire in sharing time together instead as humans with a brain at times instead of using each other as animalistic outlets.
What?
A kink is something you submit to enjoying being pleasurable, opportunistic usually.
A fetish is something you explore and actively communicate, persistently usually.
Example Kink: Put your thumb in my butt while we fuck!
Example Fetish: Quick, get the dog mask! OR Oh, haven't you seen my dog mask before?
How is that a question, fully formed?
Heres my theory:
most girls:
>"I'm horny"
>bat eyelashes at the nearest dick, get off, all set.
most guys:
>"i'm horny"
>sit around sexually bottled up and ever-increasing intensity
>no release
>things that weren't normally sexually appealing become so
things start getting weird when you can't get a normal release. Most chicks can get sex easily, whereas most men have to "win" to get sex and that leads to long periods where a fetish can incubate. Chicks that, for ex, were fatasses or really ugly as teens and then get hot in their 20s have fetishes cuz they were pent up when they were younger
my ex has a rape fetish. loved dominating her during stranger roleplay sessions while she squealed and i asked her if she had a boyfriend she loved.
if you have never met a woman with a fetish, op you have never met a woman
Women are into all sorts of things. They can be into feet just like guys. They can even like them younger (if you know what I mean). I've seen entire threads dedicated to strictly women pedos. You've no idea. There are women that are into ddlg, borderline strangulation style choking, face smacking, spitting, you name it. You clearly haven't been with a girl user. But, unlike some of these other anons, that to me is neither here nor there.
This. My wife enjoys rape fantasies. I think it's weird and I always feel awkward doing it. But she indulges me my fetishes, so it's all good
I knew a woman who liked holding hands
This
Also this. Most of my degenerate fetish shit goes away after just a few days of regular sex
It's a well established phenomenon that sexual deviancy is in large part down to social and romantic isolation and simple lack of sex
They have user. Tons.
THAT'S FUKED UP user, HOLY SHIT.
>Why don’t women have fetishes?
virgin spotted
Yeah except you get women who CAN get sex but think they'll be permanently branded an undesirable slut if they pursue that. This goes double for religious girls. So it's not quite as easy as you think.
Religious and Asian girls do tend to have lots of fetishes, like Yaoi. But then there's the other end where she's such a whore she needs to do something new and fucked up just to get excited. So she's done increasingly fucked up shit and basically is far more degenerate than someone who never had sex could ever be.
Basically I don't think your theory predicts much.
How do they not have fetishes? Someone needs to experience a woman and we're looking at you OP.
lolz thats bull shit ive had all kinds of weird chicks bro rough anal sluts girls who loved my big sholders ext ext
Girls have fetishes. They're just intensely private about them.
>I have never known a woman who suffers from any form of partialism or whatever.
This. Women commonly have rape, daddy, bdsm, yaoi, etc, and my wife is a cucquean. But I've NEVER seen one with a fetish for body parts.
You'd think there'd be a dick fetish or ball fetish or asshole fetish, same as men are into boobs. My wife insists that "Inuyasha" is foot porn for girls, but I've never seen a single girl who said she was into men's feet (or women's for that matter). There seems to be some appreciation for well toned physique, but I've never seen a woman say "jesus christ I just want to bury my face in his ass".
That doesn't explain why free sex societies are the most kinky. Like Germany for example.
>Like Germany for example
Social and class isolation. Common throughout the west and definitely not exclusive to germany. Japan is another example
My Current girlfriends starting to talk about getting violent
Please just give me a vanilla girl
Bullshit. Sex and nudity is very open. You can easily fuck a whore in most of the west.
If you think prostitutes are socially equal in the west you're flat out ignorant and retarded
and if you think sex is open in the west you've never watched TV and film here, nudity and sex are only allowed in small amounts late at night, and full nudity only on 18+ channels
Don't be retarded on purpose- sex is still very isolated and hushed for the most part of normie life
True. Women are interested in people more than things. She likely won't sniff a sock you're not wearing.
>the west is one country
Don't be a jackass, child.
I had a girlfriend who was into zippers. She used to buy fetish wear with zippers over the nipples/crotch etc.
>I have never known a woman who suffers from any form of partialism or whatever.
>I assure you that my mom and sister are saints.
the most searched porn type for women is rape. they just cant all say it out loud or they'll lose all standing on the metoo and feminism shit.
He specifically said the west, don't be a jaded retarded and miss the point on purpose child
>the west
>uses the standards and practices of one country
Quit shitposting, child. His original point was flawed and he was called out on it.
it doesnt matter if your society is sexually free if you're not good looking (85%+ of males, like 30%+ of females) to just go out and get sex. Again, is the lack of (actual, not theoretical) outlet that incubates this kind of thing.
>women who can get it but dont because of stigma
thats basically exactly what i was saying. my greentext example has two parts, the 'being horny' and the 'taking care of that', both parts are required... if you're religious and hot, you aren't getting to that second part. which leads to, as i pointed out at the end, the incubation period.
>some asian chicks get so slutty they need to up the degenerative ante to get off
ooook my theory isnt absolutely air tight, nothing would be, but i think you drastically overestimate how many asian super-whores are out there doing the real life version of men-on-pornhub-ending-up-searching-for-shit-like-facial-abuse-or-Max-hardcore.
I would question how much it is just people imitating what they see in porn.
No bush is a good example of culture merely adapting porn without thinking much about it.
>No bush
>based Dutch keeping their pubes
the fuk
was a loooong time ago, but that one user had the gf who always tried to eat her own shit, he posted the long story with pics etc
he didnt seem too into it, and it sounded awful
So much this.
My wife has this weird fetish
She dresses up as herself and acts like a total bitch
Wow dank Facebook meme, welcome newfag
Because women don’t have sex for fun, they do it to get stuff.
Why have a fetish? You can’t get money from fucking a shoe, unless you sell the video
wow.. how old are you not user... dem women have fetishes a plenty but you think they going to tell you about them... not a f*@$n chance in your lifetime.. move on
Thanks "user". I hear that everyone here just likes to get under each other's skin for the lulz. Newfag is a right of passage. (Or, so I've been told. lol) This is really the 3rd time I've used this site. Typically I'm browsing Reddit. That's about as "hardcore" as I get.
I love looking at pregnant girls being pounded...idk theres this one vid on pornhub of a girl being fucked from behind and she squirts while cumming and masturbate to this since 2 years since i havent found anything better ^^ Or i just watch guys fuck onaholes since i hate the fake moans of pornstars...we exist b/ros
bo burnham based
women do have kinks, just not loli or scat
kek yea
They definitely do. I think they're just less vocal about it. Generally you gotta show them some of yours first if they already haven't shared theirs.
>My wife has this weird fetish
>She dresses up as herself and acts like a total bitch
Think of it this way, men pay good money to be treated like that, and you get it for FREE
Nice fantasy.
They’re boring losers.
Women like the kinky stuff as long as they trust you being discreet, they feel safe and you aren't pushy and childish about it.
I've fist fucked a girl regularly, deepthroated women, blew loads of cum on their face and smeared it on their hair, tied them up, did the rape fantasy thing with them, and did play acting with them being sluts.
They love it.
Women are the weaker sex, they know it and they like it. But they also want to be protected by a man, if you can't do that you aren't going to attract a woman.
Yea kinda guessed you were on reddit, I spent all of 3 hours there and I'm wondering how the fuck do you even deal with those faggots, they literally just pander to each other about mlms and anti vaxxers to get upvotes and then there's the cunts who think they're geniuses because they know random facts and surface level things on different subjects, the smug sense of superiority floating around that place is fucking crazy, also say anything derogatory about Trump and they'll clap their hands and bark like seals, they're retards pretending to be intelligent.
I am submissive to a wonderful woman who does all sorts of kinky shit to me. It's amazing
Obsession stems from struggle, when your denied something despite multiple attempts and schemes to get it. Majority of women don't know that struggle, atleast when it comes to sex. Unless they are horribly disfigured they can satisfy their needs with a simple swipe on tinder. Even the ugly fatties can find a man if they lower their standards. The average man has to earn sex, the more depraved they are the harder it is to find a woman willing to oblige. Ditto if they are ugly and fat as well.
>Why don’t women have fetishes?
They do. They like tall guys with a big cock and a full head of hair. Lucky me.
I bet you also liked being cucked, don't you faggot?
>big cock
They're content with just that, believe me. I'm a manlet with a huge cock.
Same, during my year as a neet, I developed an unhealthy obsession with anal and even traps/lolis. Finally got a decent job, met some cool dudes who coached me out of being an awkward autist and with in six months I was chatting up women at work. With in a week of having gf most of my fetish shit just kinda went away, I was fucking horrified when I found my old laptop and saw the backlog of weird porn I built up, basically threw the thing away because I was so disgusted with that part of life.
Don't be a neet lads, don't let porn consume you.
>therapist
frick off
just get a punching bag